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5 Saturday. Auj: tt. 71 DETROIT fBLT. PRESS Fans, Friends Mourn The Back Page Ami If A i Singer i 'ii) Magazine Spreads Birth Control Message Mirrntiml llir Tricil Stone HanlM ('Iiurc-li IniiulrnU mom in 4 itps SUm Made Do It Rut She Wouldn't Tfll Me Why" it firi permn tory about oung wnan who learns, rxfort It's im) late, about Ihe importance of contraception, the existence cif prrgnamy teu. and the need lor honety and openneii among people.

The Mory It ritten in the style of "confessions" magainei, and it illustrated with a cheap-loking. lurid picture of an older uoman About to strike a young girl. li printed on pulp paper in a mapnine called "True line" which li Include uih offerings as, Said It Wat I or My True Im( Who Was I ar, I ar Awav," nd How I Spent My Summer Vacation And Nearly Died Three Mmths Later." And it wat written and illustrated by family planner and Hudrntt at Emory t'nlerity'i I amily Planning Program in Atlanta. "TRIE I.OVK" deigned to I family planning information to low-im ome women in a way that would be acceptable to Ihrm. It Mat developed lo respond to a particular problem that ihe family planning center a having.

Almot all th? women who fame to the center, located at Gradv Memorial Hospital, elected to ue both control. Rut more than half of them didn't return i 'ttk am. Hw At. A I I 1 1 'V fcMtf- tn in i ii rn tn iinii 0mi i laViiiniiil i rrr ii aj i 1i mA i I i i Taul (lTl) mi'iIi Franklin, Kcmlrirks Williamn ami KcluanN in 1969 2 'X A i alter their first visit. The task, thm.

was to design material that would induce onvn who already frit a nred for birth control lo continue using contraception. Among other things the material would have to explain what kinds of contraceptives were available and how a woman could fit them easily and naturally into her way of life. Ihe family planning official also wanted to deal with tome of the sexual and emotional problem facing married and unmarried couple: of sexual inadequacy, Inability to communicate, insecurity, lack of honesty. They knew that the average woman who came to their program wa 22.3 year old. low income, had completed 114 year of schooling, and had 2 1 living children.

When they checked into the clients' reading hahit. they lound that most of them magazines including "True Confession." "Modern Romances." and "True Life." Studies have shown that women who read these magazines regularly identify with rhe temptalion and sufferings of the characters, and b-lieve the magazines are helpful, realistic, and moral. SO MARJ0RIE M. CROW, Rarbara R. Rradshaw.

and I eli-cia Guest of the family planning clinic got a grant from the Department of Health, Education, and WHiare, and s.it down with two students trom Emory's Population Awareness Corps to corcoct stories and features for "True I live." The items they came up with included "We'd lUd Two Children, Rut We'd Never Made I oe," a and wife who didn't communicate well and didn't rnjoy making ove to each other. "I loved Don. and he loved me." the story began "We h.id a perfect marriage until we went to bed. I knew there would BY EDWARD BOYER frtt erM tlX WIHr They buried Paul William on I ndiy Paul Williams who came out of Alabama 15 year ago and sang baritone with the Temptations as that Motown recording group rose to international prominence. The a -o I former singer was found shot to death last week, an apparent suicide.

I nends said Williams id been depressed and withdrawn for the past two years, struggling to overcome per sonal and economic problem. Mourners began filling the Tried Stone Baptist Church. 1V0 Taylor, hours before Williams funeral service. Hundreds packed into the church, and additional hundreds lined the street outside. They came wearing conventional dark dress suits and splashy mod apparel, wide-brimmed Super I ly hats and casual Teen age fans, dressed in street clothes, were through- David Ruff in wipe hit brow in the middle of a ong.

In the pew below, a somber line of past and present Temptations: (from left) Melvin Franklin, Otis Williams, I ddie Kendrick. Ruff in, Cornelius Grant, Dennis Fdwardi and Damon Harris, out the crowd, snapping photos of every celebrity they glimpsed: Gladys knight, songwriters Eddie and Brian Holland, and Yvonne air, a Motown actress who appeared in "Lady Sings the Blues." Like so many successful soul singers. Williams began singing in a church choir. Tor him the church was the Birmingham (A I Macedonia Baptist Church where his father also sang with a gospel group. WILLIAMS was responsible forvthe intricate choreography that became the Temptations' trademark.

"In Western and Eastern Europe, in Africa, in Asia all over the world young men sing in groups now in a ard Streeter. Otis Williams. David English. Dennis Edwards and Ihe group's musical director. Cornelius Grant, were pallbearers.

Ruffin, former Temptations lead singer, was overcome by emotion while singing "The Impossible a Other Temptations spontaneously left their seats, joined Ruffin in the pulpit and completed the song. An original member of Ihe Temptations, Williams' voice was a familiar one nn such songs at "The Way You Do the Thing You Do," Ihe group's firs! hit In I9SI. He left the Temptations in March. 1971, but continued to supervise the group's choreography. Williams' personal problems began mounting a year ago when he and his wife sepa-rated.

He reportedly owed $30,000 in taxes, and a doctor said he had treated the singer for alcoholism. Williams is survived by his wife, Mary; three daughters, Santa, Paula and Mary; two sons, Kenneth and Paul his parents, Sophie and Rufus Williams; two sisters, seven brothers, and countless hours of exciting music he left to fans around the world. i n. fashion created by the Temp said Mrs. Esther Ed- Motown executive i I I V.

tatiom A 0 riJ -V -Th. tations," "They f-president, while eulogiz- 7T Williams. dance with choreog- that so closely matches NY Temptations one might think Paul had personally tutored them." Past and current Tempta tions joined the hundreds of mourners who paid their respects. David Ruffin, Eddie Hendricks, Damon Harris, Rich come a night when my husband couian take it anymore, ana it finally happened!" Don and his wife eventually discover that the problem centers around their failure to communicate their sexual likes and dislikes to each other. After they learn to be open and honest ith each other, their sexual life improves.

"Bedroom Games Only My Husband Knew How To Play," illustrated by a photo of a couple making love, describes the plight of a young married couple who find that the time used up in inserting foam and putting on condoms interferes with their love-making. After seeing a movie in which a man and wife undress each other, the wife solves the problem by making these necessary preparations part of the sexual foreplay. "True Love" also includes an advice column in which "Dr. Adams" (a real doctor) answers questions like, "Can a teenager get birth control?" "What should a woman do if she has never enjoyed sex and has four children and has tried every way?" and "What is a climax?" It prints features like "Extra: The Pelvic Examination! which explains what the exam is, how it is given, and why it's important, "Confidential Cases from the ile of A V.D. Investigator! which talks about prevention and control of venereal disease, and "I May Save My Own Life!" which illustrates how to conduct a self-examination for breast cancer.

The lamily planning center has printed two editions of "True Love," and is looking for money to print a third. The 165,000 copies of the magazine have been distributed to family planning groups all over the country. The Atlanta group doesn't know yet if women are acting on the advice contained in "True Love," but they do know it's being read. "Agencies are finding it's the only thing that people pick up in waiting rooms," said Ms. Guest.

Free Press Photos By Steve Thompson names faces Boy Guru Had to Post Bond to Leave India -JJ-iM II fm fSjsSsssas? tial father-in-law "Mr. Nixon." Eisenhower nodded yes and ii i 1 IS Jh4 fis'A 1 A teen-age guru touring the United States had to post bond of $13,300 before being allowed to leave India to spread his 'perfect knowledge," the government says. Minister of State for Finance K. R. Ganesh told Parliament on Friday that the guru had to post the bond because he is under investigation and may be charged with smuggling.

He did not say whether the government plans to prosecute Guru Maharaj Ji, the 15-year-old leader of the Divine Light Mission. His movement claims five million devotees in India and about 50,000 in the United States. Customs officers seized $35,000 worth of jewelry, watches and foreign currency when the guru and some of his disciples returned to India last November from the United States. Spokesmen for the movement claim that the money was collected to finance the stay of 3,000 Western devotees, mostly from the United States, who flew to India that month. The jewelry and watches, the spokesman said, were gifts for the guru's family and the mahawmas, the movement's priests.

Customs authorities said the guru and a few close disciples who were responsible for the items had not properly declared our spiritual condition. Have your husband read the 25th chapter of Matthew, particularly verse 26. It's one thing to be frugal, but another to worship money so that any expenditure is seen as a painful loss. As his wife, you should not override your husband's judgment, but you have an obligation to discuss his salvation and his understanding of married life. Help him to see the error of both ends of the scale the miser as well as the spendthrift.

QUESTION After 30 years of marriage I still have the same problem. My husband is a miser. We raise our own meat and keep a big garden, but he refuses to realize that some things have to be purchased. FARMER'S WIFE. ANSWER It's surprising how many statements of Christ had to do with money.

He knew, of course, that the manner in which we handle finances is a pretty good barometer of our character and added: "Mrs. Nixon heard me call him that once and said, 'Now, Da vid, you shouldn't be so "I said, 'You're right, Mrs. Give Her the Simple Life Most of us have read stories about what a sweet, down-to-earth lady is Marlene Dietrich, a sexy septuagenarian who enjoys nothing more than cooking chicken soup for ailing friends and getting down on hands and knees to scrub their floors. Well, in November the glamorous grandmother (72 on Dec. 27) will star at the Valley Forge Music Fair outside Philadelphia and is only asking for some "simple necessities" in addition to her salary: An entire floor of the Valley Forge Hilton to be reserved for her.

(The whole eighth floor will be sealed off, including the Presidential Suite in which she'll try to survive). An elevator waiting when she gets ready to go to the theater, wilh no one but a security guard allowed to share it. A personal limousine to take her to the theater, with the same person to accompany her all week. Call Her Dr. Flack Soul singer Roberta Flack will enter the University of Massachusetts School of Education in Amherst to begin work on a doctorate.

Miss Flack, a Grammy winner for her recording of "First Time Ever I Saw Your Face," will study improved methods of teaching disadvantaged children. A Howard University graduate, Miss Flack is a former teacher. Comedian Bill Cosby also is working for a doctorate at ji.lhii i ii i) ii i ii ii. i lyjii.iLimiim cP I ft I it them on arrival in New Delhi and were suspected of trying to smuggle the things into the country. Graham Slicks wilh Nixon Billy Graham told a London press conference that he "cherishes" his friendship with President Nixon, but the President has been, so busy that he and Graham have not had private talk for 18 months, except by phone.

'People have a responsibility to pray for the President," Graham said. "In the Bible, Paul says people should pray for people in authority, and at that time Nero was on the Roman throne. We should ask God to overrule them when they are wrong, and to reinforce them when they are right." AP Photo One More for Willkie Wendell L. Willkie has received another vote in his 1940 bid to defeat incumbent President Franklin D. Roosevelt.

A 33-year-oJd Willkie vote, yellow with age, has been found in an old ballot box in the old Saybrook, Town Hall attic by Barbara Maynard, Republican registrar. It won't change the outcome. Even though Willkie's total is now 22,348,481, FDR still wins by about five million votes. Burr Recovering from Heart Attack Actor Raymond Burr was released from the UCLA medical center in Los Angeles on Friday, two weeks after suffering an apparent heart attack, officials said. Burr, 56, collapsed Aug.

10 aboard a Portuguese airliner as he was about to return to the United States from the Azores. had been hospitalizd in Portugal. He was flown to Van Nuys, on Wednesday, and went from there to the medical center, where he underwent tests on Thursday. Burr has the lead role in the television series "Ironside." He also played defense lawyer Perry Mason in the long-running TV scries of that name. Partly Pegasus Hair and hooves flying, Carrie McCann and her horse Moondust take a flying leap over fences at a Calhoun County track.

The Battle Creek 13-year-old was competing in riding events at the county fair. "LEfvOV VOBSH'T HBEO PRUGS. HE CAN TAKE A TKIP LIKE THAT AT THE PROP OF A HAT.11 David Knows His Place David Eisenhower was asked in an interview with the Los Angeles Times published Friday whether he calls his presiden- I I.