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The Call-Leader, Tuesday, August 27, 1091 PAGE 3 Bits and pieces What's doing TUESDAY AUG. 27 Moose Lodge 7 p.m. offic ers; 8 p.m. meeting. Frankton American Legion 7 p.m.

Frankton Stillboard Shoot 6:30 to 9 p.m., Frankton Conser vation Club. Wed 40 years Maurice and Marilyn Fettig celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary this past weekend with their family and friends. Maurice E. Fettig, son of the late Edwin and Jesse Fettig, and the former Marilyn Jane Darrow, daughter of Waldo and Mildred Darrow were married Aug. 25, 1951 by the Rev.

Theodore Fettig at the St. Joseph Catholic Church. Both graduated from Wendell Willkie High School and Indiana University. Maurice has been employed as an independent insurance agent for 25 years. Marilyn retired after 24 years of teaching in the Tipton Community School Corporation.

They are parents of Kurt Fettig and Beth Fettig, both of Eiwood; Kaye Kilgore, Illinois; Jane Harper, Tipton; Jeff Fettig. Italy; Greg Fettig and Kris Fettig, both of Fishers; Lynn Malson, Michigan; and Todd Fettig, Hartford City. They also have 12 grandchildren. TOPS 1 48 6 p.m. weigh-in; 7 p.m.

meeting; St. Stephen's Episcopal Church. Guests and former members welcome. Archery Shoot evenings, Eiwood Conservation Club. YMCA Recycling 4 to 6 p.m.? Marsh Supermarket parking lot.

Sigma Phi Gamma 7 p.m., Si I 9 1 Founder's Day Dinner, Waterfront Restaurant, Cicero. Phone is a 1:30 p.m. at Key Stadium. To register, contact the Office for Alumni Relations, at 788-3295. AUDITIONS FOR BUTTERFLIES ARE FREE TO BE HELD Auditions for the opening production of Butterflies Are Free at the University of Indianapolis will be held Aug.

27 and 28 from 7:30 to 10:30 p.m. in Ransburg Auditorium. Auditions for all of I plays are open tp the public. For additional information call 788-3251 weekdays between noon and 4 p.m. HOOSIER STATE TRACTOR PULLERS ASSOCIATION The Hoosier State Tractor Pullers Association announced results from the Indiana State Fair.

In the 62FWD Shan Waymlre, Eiwood, placed fifth. Dave Ctosser of Alexandria placed second. 1992 SOCIETY CALENDAR AVAILABLE The 50th anniversary of America's, entry into World War II is commemorated in the Indiana Historical Society's 1992 calendar. Now available to the public, the wall calendar's theme for 1992 is taken from the upcoming Society exhibition. "Don! You Know There's a War On? Indiana's Home Front During World War.ll." Each monththe calendar features a different aspect of the Hoosier experience at home during the conflict.

The calendar costs $5 ($3.50 for IHS members.) For mail orders add $1 for postage. To order, send your-check or money order payable to the Indiana Historical Society, to Calendar, Indiana Historical Society, 315 w. Ohio. Indianapolis. IN 46202.

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED FOR DIABETES STUDY Volunteers are needed for a Ball. State University research study on how exercise can help people with diabetes. The study is being conducted at Ball State's Human Performance Laboratory, one of the world's leading human physiology research centers. The volunteers needed are men or women diabetics between the ages of 35 and 55. Participation will take a total of about 10 hours spread over five or six days.

For information about volunteering, call Craig aftjhe Human Performance Laboratory, 285-1141. MICRO '91 Individuals interested in learning about computers or refining their computer skills may enroll in MICRO '91, a series of workshops at Ball State University. The workshops are sponsored by Ball State's School for Continuing Education and Department of Business Education and. Office Administration. The workshops include: Introduction to microcomputer Desktop publishing, MSPS Dos, Introduction to dBase III, Introduction to Lotus 123, and Introduction to Word Perfect.

For more information call 285-1581 or (800) 872-0369. ALUMNI LETTERWINNERS TO BE HONORED Varsity letterwinners from classes spanning nine decades will help cheer the Greyhounds Sept. 7 during the second annual Crimson and Grey Day at the University of Indianapolis. The returning letterwinners will be honored as part of the opening home football game of the season. Kickoff 552-6983.

for reservations. AUG. 28 Laureate Upsilon 6:30 p.m., aak MARILYN AND MAURICE FETTIG Beginning Day; Senior Citizens Eagles Lodge 8 p.m., read pr: ing of by-laws. I Delta Hand 6:30 p.m., home of Helen Hoover. Order of Eastern Star 7:30 p.m., Masonic Loage.

Vhw Laaies uixjiiary p.m. Moose Lodge 6:30 p.m., bingo. I I Eiwood Community Pood and Clothing Pantry 9 a.m. to noon, 1532 Main St. Al-Anon 7 p.m., open meet i ing forfamily and spouses of alcoholics, New Outlook Office of Center for Mental Health.

United in marriage Merrilee Kay Hobbs and Todd V. Changet were (Carried Jury 20 at the Grace Baptist Church in Anderson. Pastor Gary Lovens officiated at the 3:30 p.m., double ring ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Ralph and Shirley Hobbs of Frankton. She is a 1 987 graduate of Indiana Christian Academy and a 1991 graduate of Hyles-Anderson College in Crown Point.

The groom, the son of Richard Changet of Placentia, and Peg Changet of Canton, Ohio, is a 1990 graduate of Hyles-Anderson College and is currently studying for his masters-degree. He is employed as a Loss Prevention Investigator for Sportmart, Inc. Matrons-of-honor were her mother Shirley Hobbs and her sister, Cynthia Frar.tz. Brkfesmaidswere Lorrie Jones and Barbara Wilhcit, sisters of the bride, and Leanna Wright, a "friend. Flower girl was Hannah Lovens.

Best man was Brad Changet, brother of the groom. Groomsmen were Al Stewart, Bob Marshall, Randy Chaff in, and Jack Bachman, friends. Ushers were David Hobbs and Jonathan Hobbs, brothers of the bride. Ringbearer was Andrew Jones, nephew of the bride. A reception was held in fellowship hall of the church.

Following a wedding trip to Niagara Falls, the couple residing in Merrillville. AA 8 p.m., open meeting, St. Stephen's Episcopal Church. THURSDAY AUG. 29 Moose Lodge 6:30 p.m..

bingo. Overeaten Anonymous 7:15 p.m., Center for Mental Health. Announce your engagement A special bridal supplement to the Eiwood Call-Leader, Tipton Tribune and Alexandria Times-Tribune will be published Sept. 11. Persons interested In announcing their engagement for the special edition must have their picture and engagement form completed and submitted to one of the newspaper offices by Sept.

2. Engagement forms are available at all three newspaper offices. Frankton Knights of Pythias 315 8 p.m., lodge hall. MERRILEE AND TODD CHANGET FRIDAY AUG. 30 AWP 6:30 p.

game night, Senior Guild, Alexandria. Eiwood Community Food and Clothing Pantry 9 a.m. to rfeort, 1532 Main St. Eiwood Alcoholics Anonymous 1 2 and 128 o.m., closed meet-THURSDAY AUG. 29 Moose Lodge 6:30 p.m., bingo.

Dear Abby DEAR DILEMMA: I agree with vour minister. I would give the bride all the time she needs to think it over. There are worse things than a late wedding. And one of them is an early divorce. you do not like what he did; don't tell him you don't like him.

Give a child lots of love, and when he comes to you with a confession, don't be too hard on Overeaters Anonymous 7:15 o.m.. Center for Mental Health. Frankton- Knights of Pythias Caesars 4 Cubic meters 5 Thai coin 6 Lily plant 7 Inexperienced 8 Renew 9 Close friends 10 Skip over 11 Yearn or lament (for) 16 The sun 20 Stately tree 21 37 Pondered 38 Old Greek coins 40 Kimono sashes 42 Flightless bird 43 Dodges 48 Make a boo-boo 49 Corrida cheers 50 Verve 51 Barber or Buttons 52 Monster's loch? 53 Piquant DEAR ABBY: I know the librar 315 8 p.m., lodge hall. Neta Eta Chi 7:30 p.m home of Bea Burton. FRIDAY AUG.

30 ies are full of books on the subie but you seem able to put so much AWP 6:30 p.m., game night, Senior Guild, Alexandria. (EDITOR'S NOTE: Abby is on a two-week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters.) DEAR ABBY: I met a very attractive, eligible widower last winter, and we've been keeping steady company since. My only complaint is the. way he keeps' talking all the time about Mildred, his deceased wife.

I never talk about my deceased husband. Outside of that, he-is a decent man, and we get along just fine. He has asked to marry me, but this is the way he proposed to me: "How would you like to take Mildred's place?" UNDECIDED DEAR UNDECIDED: If he has a sense of humor, tell him that since Mildred is in the cemetery, you don't want to take her place. But if he wants a new life and a new wife, youll consider it providing he quits talking about Mildred. Eiwood Community Food and Clothing Pantry 9 a.m.

to noon, DOWN 24 Long tooth 26 Aconite 27 Actor Chaney 28 Son of LoW 29 Word before hand or rags 31 Noted. English physician 34 Slippery one 35 Legal eviction 37 Take or eace ad-in 38 Hebrew measure 39 Drill a hole 40 Lyric poems 41 Harry's lady 44 de France 45 High note 46 Man (video game) 47 Upward curve of ship's planking ACROSS 1 Goose or snake sound 5 Funny Roseanne 9 "Help!" 12 Mine entrance 13 Wings 14Wurttem- berg measure 15 Circus attractions 17 Hunt tor buried treasure 18 Routine 19 Some canines 21 Portrait holder 24 Word with dance or song 25 Elevator man 26 Frightful 30 Doze off 31 Make amends 32 "East of Eden" role 33 Reason for a ticket 35 Gumbo 36 Garden plots 1 "Spring 22 Above Sprung" 23 Piece of 2 Amin dining- 3 One of room the furniture' Solution time: 24 mlns. DEAR ABBY: I feel just terrible. A friend of ours brought a young woman over for us to meet. (His wife died about a year ago.) She was very loud, talkative and bossy, which was disappointing to us because we knew his first wife, who was a real lady.

The following day, the man came over alone and asked us what we thought of lady friend. We told him the truth. Well, you guessed it. They are being married, and we are not invited to the reception! Were we wrong in being honest? My husband thinks we were. CANT LIE DEAR CANT: Honesty is always the best policy, but you should know that no man wants an honest opinion of a horse after he's bought it.

1532 Main St. Eiwood Alcoholics Anonymous 12 and 12 8 p.m., closed meeting; Mental Health Center. Frankton American Legion 5 to 8 p.m., fish or chicken, $3.50. SATURDAY AUG. 31 End of the month meal 11 a.m.

to noon, St. Stephen's Episcopal Church. Al-Anon 6:30 p.m., Com rolnlciAHD SflE NIOTS into a few words. What maKes siime kids good and some bad? In other words, is there a formula for rasing good kids? Is it heredity or environment? TRYING HARD DEAR TRYING: That battle has been going on for a long time, but I'm inclined to be on the side of environment. All kids need discipline.

does not mean punishment; it means Kids need to know how far they can go. And they don't really want everything they ask for. Reward them when they're good, and deprive them of something they enjoy when they misbehave. I don't believe in hitting a child. A little slap on the wrist (just enough to hurt his dignity) is all right.

However, hitting' a child hard enough to hurt him physically may rid you of your hostilities, but it will only teach the child that violence is the answer to all conflicts. Don't ever tell a child he's "bad." If he misbehaves, tell him munity Room, Doctors Park, Tipton. VFW 11:30 a.m. lunch; D.m.. bingo.

WH I TTlNnojL I ETlESTlVATlE El REIT1AI I INjElDl MLiSlnlOaCIAINIEl Country Music 7 to 1030 Yesterday's answer 8-27 p.m.. Senior Citizens Center. Music by Jay and the B-J's. SUNDAY SEPT. 11 Archery Shoot all day.

To get Abby! booklet "How to Write Letter for All Occasion," send a long, buiineu-alze, self-addresaed envelope, plus check or money order for $3.96 ($4 in Canada) to: Dew Abby, Letter Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, I1L 61064. (Postage la included.) DEAR ABBY: Our 24-year-old son is engaged to a beautiful but spoiled 21-year-old girl. She has broken two engagements (one after the wedding invitations were mailed), and now she has asked our son for' more time to "think things over." Meanwhile, the invitations are supposed to go out next Monday. We have counseled with our minister, and he is all for letting her' it over," but our son is trying to talk her into going through with the wedding on the scheduled date.

Her parents are no help at all and are pushing for wedding as planned because they would like to get this spoiled, flighty girl married and out of the house. Also, they are very fond of our son. What should we do? DETROIT DILEMMA Eiwood Conservation MONDAY SEPT. 2 Labor Day. AWP '630 p.m.

pitch-in and meeting. Lions Club. Alexandria TUESDAY SEPT. 3 rp rj5 is r3 prrn; Ti T3 i4 16 i7 T5 i5 20 Ujj Ug" pf" a 2627 28p" 30 31. 32 a 34 35 37 ij 3 4 4 147 3 XS-.

5T 3 Barbara Beecher Circle of Grace United Methodist Church 7 p.m., church. It's a if CRYPTOQUIP 8-27 Amy and Rick Sorrell of Augusta, became parents of a PKSJ GTTDWWD VGOZYE TQCSTQ WZYZUOKS daughter bom Aug. 5 at University Hospital in Augusta. Named KATHARINE GRACE she weighed six pounds and was 19 inches in length. Maternal grandparents are Steve and Linda Sizelove of Eiwood.

Paternal grandparenfs are Dick and Charlene Sorrell of Indianapolis. Katharine Grace was named after her great-grandmother, Grace Murphy." Katharine' was welcomed home by her sister, Alexandra, 2 Z'W GO JDCS UKSPZTK." Yesterday's Cryptoqulp: SAUSAGE MAKER'S KNOTS WERENT TIGHT ENOUGH, SO HE FOUND HIMSELF AT LOOSE ENDS. Today's Cryptoqulp clue: equals YMCA DONATION Jon Hill, director of the YMCA, Is shown In the above photo accepting a check in the amounts of $2,307 from member of XI Gamma Sigma sorority, the official sponsor of the Little Miss Little Mr. Glass Pageant Making the presentation are Barbara Riley, president of the sorority and Linda Dlehl, chairman of the pageant.