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MONDAY, APRIL 25, 1988 TULSA WORLD LIVING 'Atlantis' Theme Highlights Opera Deb Ball Prix co-chairman Mike Camp, Joining them were deb Amy there with his wife, Nena, in Loughridge, who strained a selecting names of prize winners. ligament in her foot during softball practice and appeared a mink on white bow bedecked crutches, and Marilyn Mildren's escort Ken Brody, who also attended on crutches. Marilyn's mother Karen Kepplinger Mildren, a Tulsa Opera Deb in 1963, was joined by her mother Louise Kepplinger who flew in from Palm Beach, for the occasion. Presentation committee member Mary Condon and her husband, John, applauded their deb daughter Mary Claire and their son Robert. Robert was escorting longtime People and Places Editor Julie Blakley, a good friend of the Condons.

He said that he called Julie when she was visiting family in California and asked her to be home in time to go to the ball. Marydith Morgan of Saks Fifth Avenue was complimented for her gown designs. Deb mothers Beverlye Soli and LeReda Cadieux were so delighted with the gowns they ordered identical material and presented teddy bears dressed in exact duplicates to the debs. Among others applauding the evening were Marilyn Strange and her son Sterling; Doris and Bill Allen; Lacy and Al Whitehead; Squires chairman Ashcraft and her husband, Dr. Tom Ashcraft; in American History on duty, preparing meals at a re- legend, the potato chip, had sort restaurant in Saratoga been born.

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He scattered them across dining tables in the ballroom, which was transformed into the misty realms of the sea floor. The 25 debutantes emerged from behind the stone pillars of the Lost City of Atlantis to take their bows. After seating the mothers of News of People and Places DANNA SUE WALKER the debutantes, the Squires, a group of young men invited to take part in the ball, were introduced by Tulsa Opera President Ray Tullius Jr. The Squires took their places on the dais to the strains of "Stout Hearted Men." The debutantes' escorts next entered to the music of "The March of the Toreadors." Following the formal presentation by past board chairman Jim Hammond and a first dance with their fathers or other presenters, the escorts claimed their debutantes for dancing. Debutantes and their escorts included: Heather Adams and Matthew Joseph Wengert of Bartlesville; Mary Katherine Allred and Stephen Santee, who also served as a Squire; Carey Cadieux and Mark Darin Matheson; Mary Claire Condon and William Deke Canada; Deborah Anne Fischer and Mark Joseph Ross, also a Squire; Anne Trinca Fulton and Jeffrey Lyle Maxwell; Merne Hayes and Matthew Stewart Nolley; Heidi Bryne Hubner and Brian Eugene Heinberg; Gretchen Kucharski and prence Godfrey Tucker; Amy Lynn Loughridge and Foster James Smith; Whitney Ann Mackey and Lance D.

Stephenson; Marilyn Mildred and Kenneth Saul Brody; Cynthia Lauren Moss and Justin Brian Munn, also a Squire; and Kristin Marie Olsen and Brendan Paul McNight. Others were Summer Layne Parrish and Gerald Klein; Kristen Pennington and Richard Bryan Park; Johanna Prudden and Jay Edward Skaistas; Stacy Schermerhorn and Mark Allan Oliver Kelly Smith and Larry Dullye II, also a Squire; Kristin and Stuart Armstrong Moody; Ramona Stanfield and Leighton Parker Moore; Krista Veltman and Ralph McDuffy Sharp III, of Houston; Tiffany Wiruth and Charles Matthew Brown; Amy Wolfey and Ramond Kenneth Wallace of Fort Worth, Texas; and Stephanie Ann Young and Eric Andrew Parker. Other Tulsa Opera Squires were Capt. Matthew Carroll Forrester, Charles Scott Ambrister, William Scott Bogie, Nicholas T. Booth, Edward Calhoun, Jason Cole, Christopher Cory Crockett, Stephen DeLeo, Matthew Doyle, Haven Swint Friday, John Forney, John Benson Garner, Jeffrey Douglas Keffer, Ralph Edward Mackey, Steven Mitchell, Brady Morgan, Christopher Thomas Proctor, Christopher Puls, Edward Rashchen IV, Christopher Reeder, Brian Robison, Michael Schloss, Robert Sofner, Tray Siegfried, Michael Paul Taubman, David Roberts Winters, and Paul Wesley Winters.

Tullius and Hammond presented Ball Chairman Beverly Hembree a silver-engraved champagne. cooler for her efforts. Beverly thanked her committee and singled out Mary Liz Dunn, "the best inspiration a ball chairman could have," and Richard Williford, vice president of special projects for the Opera Board. Mary Liz joined other past ball chairmen Judy Kantor and Nancy Meinig as well as Grand Weddings Glime-Epstein Alice Epstein and Steven Arthur Glime were married Sunday in Shadow Mountain Condominium Clubhouse. Parents of the couple are Mr.

and Mrs. Jack Epstein, Tulsa, and Mr. and Mrs. Bernard Raymond Glime, Oberlin, Ohio. Honor attendants were Joyce Anne Cooke and Gerald Mishak.

Mrs. Glime The couple will live in Tulsa. TREASURE OF THE WEEK CAKE TROWEL GOLD OR SILVERTONE ONLY $799 LAYAWAY NOW FOR MOTHER'S DAY Moody 12TH HARVARD 51ST HARVARD SOUTHROADS MALL WOODLAND HILLS Triggered Urge to Kill DEAR ANN LANDERS: I feel the need to respond to the man who wrote about people who commit murder after losing control. I identified with that man because it nearly happened to me. My mind snapped, as his did, but fortunately nobody was hurt.

Suddenly I wanted to kill the neighbors. Not because I was angry with them but simply because I wanted to kill somebody. I felt like I was two people. One person was a cold-blooded killer who wanted to kill just for the thrill of killing. The other was terrified and sick at the thought of it.

There is a happy ending to Ann Landers World Staff Photos by Don Emrick Clockwise from top left: Ann and Lyle Young and their daughter Stephanie take to the dance floor at the Tulsa Opera Debutante Ball; Charles Selby escorts Heather Adams, center, and Mary Liz Dunn; Karen Mildren, left, her daughter, Marilyn, center, and her mother, Louise Keplinger, right, discuss the festivities; Amy Loughridge and her escort, Foster Smith, chat before the event. Amy was on crutches because of a torn ligament in her leg; the crutches bore special bows. Mary Lou and Sam Daniel; Mary Lil and Jerry Chappell; Bill Fisher and Judy Butcher; and Linda and Jim Malone. Nancy Meinig, there with her husband, Pete, received raves on the luncheon she hosted for past ball chairmen at La Cuisine restaurant. Beverly said that among those attending the luncheon were Penny Downing, Beth Rainey, Muggy Herndon, Belinda McGraw, Gloria McFarland, Jay Lawson, Judy Kantor, Annette Dunitz, Margaret Murray, Rosaline Alexander, Ruthie Huffman, Kay Humphrey, and Betty Bradstreet.

Ball-goers, who enjoyed cocktails, hors d'oeuvres, the music of the Joe Young Strings, an elegant dinner, the presentation and dancing to the Al Goode Orchestra and I.J. Ganem, had another surprise. Mollie and Richard Williford enlisted the help of Tulsa World President Bob Lorton and his wife, Roxana, a past ball chairman, to include a "fresh off presses" copy the Sunday World in a basket of goodies given to guests as they left the ball. With the help of Michael Sudbury and Vickie DeLeo, the baskets also contained fresh croissants from the Bakery on Cherry Street, a split of champagne from Ranch Acres Wine and Spirits, and roasted coffee from the Indian Territory Coffee Company. my story, Ann.

I went immediately to a psychiatrist. He told me that for many years I had repressed the anger toward my mother and later toward my husband. The stress in my life had triggered the urge to kill. Since I was unable to direct that anger toward my mother or my husband, I subconsciously aimed it toward innocent, defenseless people. Yes, Ann, there are individuals who use the insanity plea in an attempt to get off.

But there are some who go from sane to insane and then back to sane again in a matter of moments. I am A Silent Witness in Kalamazoo Dear Witness: Your letter could have been written only by a "witness." DEAR ANN LANDERS: I am a 35-year-old professional career woman. I've put myself through college and graduate school and have a master's degree in nursing. I am not married. I have two sisters, both married.

My parents gave them elegant weddings, one in 1984, the other in 1986. They spent $10,000 on each affair. parents bought them housewarming gifts that cost about $2,000. I've had my own apartment for 15 years and am totally self-supporting. Recently I decided to buy a condominium, but I can't swing it on my own.

I asked my father for help. He became angry and refused. I felt that since I have no plans to marry, he might give me my wedding money as a loan. My father has always said it was his responsibility to provide for his daughters' weddings, and that he had set aside money for that purpose. Of course, if and when I do marry, I would not expect my dad to pay for it.

But since marriage is not imminent and I'm getting to the age where I must start thinking about my future, a condominium would be a good investment. It greatly upsets me to fight with my family. Am I wrong to ask for my "wedding money" now? Sign me Patricia in Idaho (I Don't Live There) Dear Patricia: You say you would like your wedding money now as a loan and that if you should marry you would not expect your father to pay for the wedding. Why not? If you repay the loan, your father should pay for your wedding. If your father can afford to lend you the money for the condo he should do it, and you should pay interest on that loan at the going rate.

Joseph L. Barker won a mink jacket from James Hirsch Furs; Ginny Hammond won an 18-karat yellow gold and diamond bracelet from Miss Jackson's Precious Jewels by Bruce G. Weber; Isabel and Edgar Sanditen, who donated a color televison set won by David Thornton, were themselves winners of two round-trip tickets to Paris from American Airlines; and Dr. Richard Givens won American's trip for two to Acapulco. Lee Britton won a stationary cycle from Push-Pedal-Pull.

Beverly, who had praise for decorations chairmen Sue Flynn and Judi Klein as well as Glen Raney, was seated with her daughter Julie Hembree and Ken McKenzie, who flew in from Fort Worth for the party. Joining them were Jim and Ginny Hammond; Suzanne Brickner; Judy Carlton; Sheraton Kensington manager Jack Farr and his wife, Carol; Betty Gregory; and Myrna Ruffner. Presentation chairman Dixie Reppe and her husband, Rod, enjoyed the evening with arrangements co-chairman Sarah Welch and her husband, Paul, and security chairman Carol Oxley and her husband, John. Spuds Figure Prominently WALLPAPER OFF ORDERS All Any Major DISCOUNT Book, Brands WALLCOVERING Tulsa Broken Arrow 4614 S. Memorial 71st 161st 664-4096 Boardwalk Center 251-6114 Mon.

-Sat. 10-6 Springs, N.Y., when an unusual request came from one of the guests. Someone wanted Crum to improve the restaurant's traditional fried potato. Crum, who was used to trying to please the wealthy and often finicky patrons, obliged. He cut raw potatoes into thin slices and fried them until crisp.

Crum's customer was delighted, and an enduring American legend, the potato chip, had Wise cracks. It's smart to recycle glass a recycled pound of old glass makes a pound of new glass and takes a lot less energy than making new glass from scratch. Please recycle your glass jars, bottles, and other container glass by simply taking them to conveniently located glass banks Get off all over town. You'll save your glass, natural resources, Tulsa. energy, Recycle.

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