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PAGE TEN ALTON EVENING TELEGRAPH MONDAY, JULY 18, I960 McMaster-Kruse Vows The Women In ferseyville Church Social Events — Group Activities Married at 3 o'clock Saturday afternoon in First Presbyterian Churrh of .terseyvllle wrrp Miss Sylvia Hose Kruse nnri Hugh R McMasfer. The Rev M. Edwards Breed read the crrrmony. and the couple received afterward in the 'church social rooms. Thr bride is a daughter of Mr and Mrs. G. M. Kruse of 500 Cross Ave.. .lerseyville. and Mr. McMaster is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas E. McMaster of Altona, T'l. The «couple is honeymooning In Wisconsin and will live in Altona. Miss Millie Morer. a MacMurray College classmate 6f the bride, was maid of honor, and Miss Carol McMasier. sister of the bridegroom, wns bridesmaid. "They wore ballerina length gowns designed with Sahrinn necklines and short sleeves, and carried white lace fans with clusters of white button mums. Miss Moser wore light blue organdy over periwinkle blue taffeta, and Miss McMaster appeared in light blue organdy over aqua blue taffeta. Their short light blue veils were attached to headbands which niatched their dresses. The bride was attired in a floor length gown of white starched nylon over taffeta. The bodice featured short sleeves, and a square neckline edged in embroidery. A short veil was gathered to the bridal crown of pearls, and Miss Kruse held white Majestic daisies. Harold Mooberry of Peoria served as best man, and James Holstc of Jerseyville was groomsman. Guests were seated by William N. Thiel of Rockbridge: William O. Schafer of Brighton, and Ronald Bainbridge. WoodhuU. The bride's niece, Elizabeth Ann Thiel, daughter of MRS. HUGH MCMASTER Mr: and Mrs. William N. Thiel, was-'flower girl. Mrs. Kentner Rice sang, accompanied by Miss Janet Edwards who played organ music. Both are of Jerseyville. White bows marked the pews and white gladioli and greenery with candelabra decorated the altar of the church for the ceremony. The bride, who received a (Photo by Graul) degree in mathematics from MacMurray College, was an assistant in the mathematics department during her senior year. Mr. McMaster is a graduate of the University of Illinois College of Agriculture, where his social fraternity is Phi Sigma Kappa. He is employed by the Rex D. Johnson Co. of Oneida, 111. East Alton Church Is Scene Of Smith and Justice Marriage MRS. NORMAN L. SMITH The Mature Parent Parents'Job: Help Child Discover Own Strengths 'BY MURIEL LAWRENCE , Some months alter her liitle sister was born, Patty developed the maddening habit of weeping whenever she was corrected. Hurried and preoccupied, her mother would say sharply: "Don't mess up daddy's paper like that. If you want the funnies, turn the pages until ybu find them instead of pulling them all apart that way. ' Patty, pushing the funnies away, would look as strictcen at> though you'd ac<«used her of murder — and promptly burst into tears. This response made nor mother feel like Simon Legree. an unpleasant feeling. Ashamed of hurting Patty,' she'd try to make amends by taking her on her lap and cuddling her. But as this comfort contained apology and some secret impatience, it failed to comfort. It merely confirmed Patty's impression that making a mistake wa* an intolerable thing so that the burst into tears attain the very next time she wa* corrected U| m^frlng QM< With children like Patty, the problem is always to reduce their fear of making mistakes. We reduce it by giving them careful opportunities to correct the mistakes. Instead of cuddling our weeping Patty lor messing up daddy's paper, we sit beside her on 'the floor and show her how to restore its scattered pages to order. Instead of avoiding the subjeot ol the tap she's left running in the bathroom by tui/iing it oft ourselves, we go upstairs vvith her while she turns il oft with the same hand thai left it running. Instead of getting caught in her impression that making a mistake is a terrible thing, we reduce its terror for her by showing her how to put it right. A child who is oversensitive to criticism has not been made aware of his own self-correcting powers. Though our cuddling may comfort him tem|KJi- arily, it gives him no experience of his own strength* but keeps him dependent on omv (AU Rig^ Reserved, NBA wF'lce Inc ) Miss Sandra Faye Justice became the bride of Norman L. Smith Saturday afternoon at 4 o'clock in a candlelight service read in First General Baptist Church of East Alton. The Rev. Earl Clagg performed the ceremony, after which the couple received in the church basement. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Geoffrey 0. Justice of (530 Broadway, East Alton. The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Ethel Smith of 144 East Alton Ave., East Alton, and the late Ed Smith. Miss Marly s Henson was maid of ' honor, and Clyde Smith was best man for his brother. Dave Smith and Dale Elmore were ushers, and Miss Can-oil Hayes, organist. Mrs. Don Barnard, the bride's cousin, sang. . Appliques of Chantilly lace were featured on the bodice and full skirt of the bride's floor length tulle gown. Her veil of illusion was secured to a crown of lace, tulle and sequins. She carried a cascade bouquet of a purple orchid with chrysanthemums and ivy. Miss Henson wore a gown of pink silk organza with shirred neckline and full ballerina skirt. Her headpiece was a veiled crown of pink bridal taffeta edged with seed pearls. The former Miss Justice was graduated in 1954 from East Alton-Wood River Community High School, and is employed by Olin Mnthieson Chemical Corp. as a secretary in the tax department. Mr. Smith, a 1952 graduate ol the same school, has served two years in the Army, and is employed by Hellrung Construction Co. After a honeymoon in the Ozarks, the couple will reside at 280 S. Central Ave., Wood River. Mother's Helper ty H»imonn fr Ptorton BATH TOY* are fun — to tbe tub. They're aomethlnf leu than fun when left dripping around toe bathroom. An effective container for tome sow objecli U • moulded plastic mesb baf tfeslf ned U> bold clothespin*. TOJ i MO air dry, u one tidy •pot. • uw, «•» TMk flmu VrtbuM H» I Mhs Laivson, Harry Coyle Jr» Arc Married Miss Ada Mae Lnwson became the bride of Harry .T. Coyle Jr.,» Saturday evening at 8 o'clock in the parish house of Twelfth Street Presbyterian Church, with the Rev. Paul S. Krebs officiating at the ceremony. The bride is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Alva L. Lawson of 506 State St., and her husband is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry J. Coyle of Richmond Heights. Mo. The couple's attendants were Mr. and Mrs. Larry Boatright. Mrs. Boatright is the bride's sister. The bride's ballerina length gown was made of white organza over taffeta. She wore a half-veil, and carried a white orchid with lilies of the valley set in white lace. Mrs. Boatright wore a pink nylon street length dress with white accessories, and carried white daisies. The former Miss Lawson attended Alton High School, and is employed by Gatcly's, Inc. Mr. Coyle is employed by Joe Fischer's Service in St. Louis. After a honeymoon in Tampa, the newlyweds will reside in St. Charles, Mo. Personal Notes Miss Jean L. Montgomery, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene P. Montgomery, 2213 Virginia Ave., and Miss Jean Glenn, daughter of Mrs. Goldie Glenn of 1909 Park Ave., returned Saturday from a two- weeks tour of Mexico. They visited in San Miguel, Mexico City, Toluco, the Pyramids, and attended a bullfight at the Plasa de Toros in Xochimilco. They spent several days at the resort city of Acapulco. Miss Montgomery is employed by Alton Banking and Trust Co., and Miss Glenn by Alton Thrift and Finance Co. Mr. and Mrs. Edward G. Lindsay and family of 2704 Judson Ave., returned home Saturday from Cape Girardeau, Mo., where they visited with Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Phillips, and infant daughter, Renee Jeanette. Mr. and Mrs. Phillips are the son-in-law and daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lindsay. Mr. Phillips will teach school in Cape Girardeau this fall. Miss Margaret Timpe, 19 Neunaber St., Cottage Hills, left Sunday afternoon for Battle Lake, Minn., where she will join members of her family. After a two week vacation, the family will return. Miss Patricia Meyer, Miss Patricia Walters and Miss Bridget Goessling left Sunday tor a three week vacation trip in the West. They will stop in Las Vegas, and visit in Redondo Beach, Calif., with Miss Louise Haynes and Miss Mary Lou Meyer, former Alton residents. Mr. and Mrs. J. B. Mawdsley of 1611 Nolle PI., returned today from Coal Valley where they visited their son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Irvin Mawdsley. The couple took with them their grandchildren, Mark and Nancee Heppner, children of Mr. and Mrs. Leland Heppner; and Merlee Mnwdsley, daughter of the Irvin Mawdsleys, who had been visiting with the Heppners for two weeks. Eat More Than Salads, Cold Drinks During Summer During the summer months, be as careful about your diet as you are in the winter. Don't decide to slip through the summer on a series of salads and cold drinks. You need lean meal, fresh fruit and vegetables, fish, eggs, cheese, and some milk, just as you do in winter. You should have some hot food every day. And you should be careful about too many soft drinks, too much ice cream and too much salt if you don't want your weight to shoot up.—NEA. Additional Salt Mot Necessarily Needed in Summer Many people ask, "Are salt tablets necessary in summer?" Harriet Barto, University of Illinois nutritionist, says they aren't usually needed unless one is engaged in heavy labor in extremely hot. humid conditions. These people perspire profusely, causing a large loss of salt from their bodies. Other people do not generally perspire enough to demand added salt in tablets. The salt content of natural foods, together with the salt one adds as seasoning, provides enough. Increased perspiration does, however, increase water needs So it's just common sense to increase fluid intake to compensate for loss of water. MRS. STEVEN S. WENZEL Sandra Lee Frazier Bride Of Steven S. Wenzel Sunday With the Rev. Richard W. Morey officiating, Miss Sandra Lee Frazier became the bride of Pfc. Steven S. Wenzel Sunday afternoon at 2 o'clock in the College Avenue Presbyterian Church. The altar was decorated with white snapdragons, white stock and woodwardia, flanked by seven-branch candelabra. Immediately following the ceremony, a reception was given in the church social rooms. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. A. Lee Frazier of 2811 Benbow Ave. The bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles R. Wenzel of 2806 Fernwood Ave. Mrs. Chester Strohecker Jr. was matron of honor for her sister. Bridesmaids were Miss Barbara Tomlinson, cousin of the bride, from Springfield; and Miss Mary Larsh. Nancy Lee Strohecker, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Chester Strohecker Jr., was flower girl. Her sister, Dale Ellen Strohecker. and Walter Reinhardt, son of Mr. and Mrs. James Reinhardt, were ring bearers. Robert Middlecoff, the bridegroom's cousin was best man. Gerald Wenzel, and Michael Strassman of New Athens, 111., were groomsmen. Robert Strassman and Martin Wittman seated the guests. Mrs. Thomas Henessey played piano accompaniments for the soloists, Mrs. Strohecker, and Mrs. Vernon Short. The bride wore a ballerina length gown of organza appii- qued at the neckline and hemline with Alencon lace. Her crown of seed pearls and lace held a waist length veil. She carried a Bible on which were mounted orchids and lilies of the valley. The women attendants wore ballerina length dresses of dac- ron and cotton with scoop neck and full skirts. Miss Tomlinson wore loden green, Miss Larsh, yellow, and Mrs. Strohecker, pink. They carried daisies and sweetheart roses mounted on fans, and wore eye length veils to match their dresses. The young Strohecker girls wore pink sleeveless scoop neck dacron dresses, and carried baskets of daisies. The former Miss Frazier is a 1960 graduate of Alton High School, is a member of Alton Bethel of Job's Daughters and a past worthy advisor of Order of Rainbow for Girls. Her husband attended the same high school, and plans to attend San Francisco State College. He is a radar technician at the Nike Army Base in San Rafael, Calif. After a honeymoon trip, the couple will live in San Rafael. Life of Divorcee Is Not As Glamorous As Painted BY RUTH MILLETT An Italian professor who has returned to his own country after a visit to ours has a few hints for us on how we could cut our divorce rate. In cases where the wife files for a divorce, the professor suggests that the wife should be compelled to give up her husband's name and return to the status of "Miss." He also recommends that a wile's alimony not exceed the salary she earned before marriage. And if she never held a job before marriage, he thinks she ought to be returned to ner father who should share in her support. "An American divorcee keeps most of the pleasures of marital status without having its responsibilities," says the tough-minded professor. His recommendations sound a little drastic, don't they? And wouldn't we women fight to keep our "rights" if anyone took his ideas seriously? Actually the American divorcee isn't as well off ag a visitor, getting his ideas from the divorcees he meets at cocktail parties, on shipboard, or otherwise leading the life of Mrs. Riley (ex, that Is) might suppose. Though the divorcee can keep her husband's name, nobody thinks of her as a wife. She loses that status the day the divorce is final and even her good friends being to think of her as an extra woman who is a social problem. If she Is good-looking and has a way with men, women who still have their husbands and intend to keep them, close tight the social circle in which she once moved. The "Mrs." .before her name is just a signal to other women to keep an eye on her. As for a divorcee's alimony, unless her husband is well-to- do, she is lucky if she gets as much as she earned before marriage. The divorcee living on fat alimony payments exists —but she isn't typical. And poor old papa, likely as not, IS helping to support his divorced daughter . and her children—not because he is required to, but because divorced daughters. have a way of bringing their problems home. On top of that, mama may find herself bringing up her grandchildren so the divorced daughter can hold down a Job. Nope, even in America the life of a divorcee isn't glamorous. It might seem so to a casual observer—especially on« from another land. But behind that bright smile and that independent attitude the divorcee, even in America, is just a woman without a man of her own. (All Rights Reserved. NBA Service. Inc.) Tomorrow's Dinner Rice-tomato bouillon, crackers, cold sliced ham, designer fruit saiad, assorted seeded and plain rolls, butter or margarine, cheese, lemon meringue pie, coffee, tea, milk. fror the lady In waiting MATUNITV CLOTHIS PAULINE'S Huutt ol tiutUQa*—UoBtUtllo MM. Body BMlUttUl Inn stimuM AhaBaiHB •*•* ^•••w wippwv MKI'TUN JUNIOI WOMINY APA1U PATRICIA'S DMIM SHOP 90*9 C**tnU Ave, HO Local Teachers Will Scented Soap Be Married July 31 Summer Guests Welcome ALICIA ttARf HtSA Beauty Edltof Summer is the one season of the year when, tor many women, hospitality Is revived on a full, scale. Vacation time means that there's an opportunity to Invite friends and relatives for a visit lasting anywhere from a weekend to a week or more. tn order to enjoy these visits, make your, preparations in advance. The hostess who waits until the last moment to clean the bathroom, put out fresh towels and get the guest room in order Is usually the one full of breathless apologies as her guests arrive. And somehow, from there on, nothing ever really gets organized. / Be thoughtful of your guests' comfort, just as you expect them to be considerate of you. Small sizes of cosmetics, toothpaste and other oddments are readily available at the 5-and 10. Be sure that you have them on hand. Don't expect your guests to share a squelchy bar of the family soap. This isn't really an inviting prospect. Instead, put guest size cakes of soap out on the dressing table in your guest room. A famous French perfume house has brought out a fine, hard-milled, long-lasting soap scented with its classic perfume. This soap comes in guest sizes, packaged in a modern black and white plastic box. There are eight bars to a box and the price, for luxury soap, is not high. A last word to the wise: when you extend your invitation to guests, make the time limit very clear. This way, no hard feelings will arise from an overextended visit. MISS WHITTLEMAN Engagement Told at Party The engagement of Miss Donna Day Whittleman and Robert Halton Rich was announced Saturday evening to family members and close friends at an outdoor party at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Echols, 228 Westwood PI., Rosewood Heights. The couple will be married in the First Methodist Church, Wood River, on Oct. 8. • The bride-elect, a 1960 graduate of the East Alton-Wood River Community High School, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Whittleman, 175 Eighth 'St., Wood River. Her fiance is the son of Mr. and Mrs. A. Robert Rich, 222 S. Ninth St., Wood River. He is a 1957 graduate of the same school, and attended Alton Residence Center of Southern Illinois University. Mr. Rich is employed by the Mechanic's Planing Mill, Inc., Edwardsville. Baptism Sunday Margaret Mary Nolan, infant daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edgar Nolan, 202 Mounier St., was baptized Sunday afternoon in St. Ambrose Church. The Rev. A. K. Robinson officiated, and the sponsors were Mr. and Mrs. James L. Lyons. Beauty Tips Soaps and detergents are the traveling woman's best friends. They rate an important place in every suitcase, even when your trip will be a short one. Eyebrows can be made , to look more high fashion and glamorous when groomed with an eyebrow brush before and after pencilling. Eyelashes look thicker and softer when brushed apart with an eyelash brush or a spiral wand. Every teen-age girl should learn that frequent shampooing can turn dull, lifeless hair into a lively beauty asset. News has been received here of the forthcoming marriage of two area teachers, which will take place July 31. The bride-elect is Miss Jean Schmidt, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herman Schmidt of Owa neco, 111., and her fiance is Samuel S. McPhail, son of Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Mc- Phnll of West Frankfort. III. Miss Schmidt is a teacher of physical education in Roxana, and Mr. McPhaiJ teaches In the Alton School System. Miss Schmidt was graduated from MacMurray College with a bachelor of science degree, and the prospective bridegroom received his bachelor's t and master's degrees from * Southern Illinois University. The ceremony will be read at 3 o'clock In the Methodist Church In Owaneco. MISS SCHMIDT Ann Lattders She's Not Married and She's Delighted About It DEAR ANN: I'm a career girl 31 years of age—and yes, I look It. (I'm the first woman who has ever written to you and made that statement!) I have a stimulating job. My .life is full. I'm i content. As for men—I can take | them or leave them alone. [This is a ducky I arrangement be- I cause there are I times when I I don't want to 'be bothered with Ann Lnndera. the hungry male ego which begs constantly to be pampered. This brings me to the main reason for writing. My married friends are everlastingly trying to find me a husband. They refuse to believe that not every woman wants one. Perhaps there's something missing in my makeup but I have no desire to be wife, mother, mother - in - law or grandmother. I do exactly as I please, have the entire bed to myself and I don't have to put up with a guy who wants his snorts ironed just so. Pleast print this letter as a public service to other gals who are— BLESSEDLY SINGLE DEAB SINGLE: If you haven't tried it—don't knock it. * • * • DEAR ANN: We've been married 10 years. The fourth specialist just told my wife that we will probably never have children. He suggested adoption. My wife is Against adoption for the following reasons. She claims that some babies who appear normal at birth turn out to have defective vision, damaged brains, and inherited weaknesses. She expressed it this way, "It's bad enough when your own turn out to be defective but it's a double tragedy when you go out and look for trouble." I hate to think of a life without children. Perhaps if some of your readers who have adopted children would give her the benefit of their experience, it would help. And may I have your opinion, Ann? STILL HOPING TO CELEBRATE DAD'S DAY. DEAR HOPING: A few years ago a similar letter appeared in this space—only it was a wife who wrote about her husband's fear of adoption. I invited adoptive parents to express themselves. Never have I had such heart-warming response. 1 hope the readers will respond again. Millions of homes have been transformed from lonely, dreary dwellings to palaces of fulfillment and happiness. Adopted children produced this magic. Repeatedly I've heard adoptive parents say, "We should not have waited so long. Before, we only existed. Now, we are living." » * » » DEAR ANN: The beef from "Outgrown Wife" prompts this, my first letter to a newspaper. This woman bawled in print because she worked for years to put her husband through college and now he's an egghead and she's a knuckle-head. "Outgrown Wife" moaned MViii0iiii||i>ii|!iiiB>iii|!ili9iiiiBp CHICKEN] SUPPER f Ivti by IT, PETER'S LUTHERAN CHURCH •f SEPTEMBER IBtb Prtlrtetown Fireman's Hall • JULY ONLY DRV OLEANIN6 SPECIAL 1LAHKETS because she wns out of place with his friends and didn't speak their language. She also hintr-d that her Ph.D. was ashamed of her. I've listened to this .jar/ from my sister-in-law for years, and I'm sick of it. Iliis.n't "Outgrown Wife" ever heard of extension courses, adult-education classes, correspondence courses and just plain libraries? Anybody who wants an education can net it. All it takes is the desire, drive and hard work. A wife who would sit by with a dunce-cap on her head is just lazy. I know what I'm talking about. Ann, because my wife put me through law school. She didn't stagnate however. She studied right along with me and even though she has no degree, she has a broader genera) knowledge than I, of many things. OUTSPOKEN HUSBAND AGAINST OUTGROWN WIFE. * V * • To learn how to keep your boy friend in line without losing him. send for Ann Landers' booklet, "Necking and Petting —And How Far to Go," enclosing with your request 20 cent* in coin and a large, self-art- dressed, stamped envelope. (Ann Landers will be g!ad to help you with your problems. Send them to her in care of the Alton Telegraph enclosing a stamped, self-addressed envelope.) (C ISM Field Enterprise!, Inc.) Lodges Alton Women of the Moose will have a business meeting for chairmen at 8 o'clock Tuesday evening in the Moose home. Mind Your Manners It is much more gracious to say to another person, "I was talking to your employer" or "to the head of your department" than to say, "I was talking to your boss." If you borrow a tool or some other piece of equipment from a neighbor, be sure to return it as soon as you have finished with it. Compktt Lint off Popular, LP and Stereophonic Records GOULD Music Co. 501 B. Brand way HO 5-8218 AN NO fOtLMwy. HPMI77 ;min;m SOAP CUSTOMERS For your powder room, you on gel deluxe CANNON hand loweU in choice of six colon. Whisper pink, yellow, •pice brown, turquoise, green mist and white. You can get a* many towels as you desire. Each towel it 25* and two wrappers from either Saynan Lanolated Soap or Saymao Vegetable Wonder Soap. 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