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839 3. 1 call all Record, Saturday, July 13, 1974 York Daily What's Your Problem? De Developing A Conscience This is a series offerd by Family Service of York, a United Way agency. It deals with problems that a great many people bring to the agency, for counseling and advice. The professional staff members of Family Service are trained and experienced in helping people solve these problems. The telephone number is 843-9925).

Recently, a psychologist developed a system of exploring the moral values of children by telling them stories and asking them questions. First, there was Johnny. He was called to dinner. Unknown to him, behind the door of the dining room is a chair holding 15 cups. As he enters the.

room, he knocks over the tray and all the cups are broken. Then, there is Billy. He tries to steal some cookies out of a tall cupboard, and in the process knocks over one cup, which breaks. "Which child was naughtier?" the researchers asks. Most of the small children (up to about five or six) said that Johnny was naughtier.

He had broken SO many cups. But older children said that Billy was naughtier, because he had intended to do a wrong thing. Johnny was just unlucky. The older and more mature children were able to judge an event based on the York Daily Record Family Section Married Friday Evening ring service, followed 1 by a reception at the Avalong Restaurant. Wedding music was presented by Terri Sheets.

flutist. and Thomas Davies. organist. Honor attendant for her sister was Kelli Huber. Bridesmaids were Kimberly Wilt, sister of the bridegroom.

and Mary Gross, cousin of the bride. Serving as best man for his brother was Bryan Wilt. Steven Huber, brother of the bride. and Steven Rawlinson ushered. Mr.

and Mrs. Wilt are graduates of William Penn Senior High School. The bride is employed by the Standard Register Co. and the bridegroom works at Dale Wilt's Body Shop. The couple will reside at Pine Hill Farms Apts.

Wed At Delta Church The wedding vows of Sheila Mae Miller, and Jeffrey Lee Rice. 533 Thomas were solemnized Saturday. July 6, at a double ring ceremony at Trinity AME Zion Church, Delta. The Rev. Carl A.

Thomas officiated at the 3 p.m. ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Shirley Onley, 719 N. Pershing Ave.

Mrs. Betty Rice, 131 Kurtz is the mother of the bridegroom. The bride's sister. Vanessa Onley, served as matron of honor. The bridegroom's brother, William Rice, Detroit.

acted as best man. Michael Onley, the bride's MRS. MARTIN WILT nee Kimberly Huber Kimberly Ann Huber became the bride of Martin Dale Wilt Friday evening in a candlelight setting at St. Luke United Methodist Church. The bride was given in marriage by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Nelson A. Huber, 738 Oatman St. Parents of the bridegroom are Mr. and Mrs.

Dale L. Wilt. 727 Parkway Blvd. The Rev. Thomas R.

Jones. pastor, performed the double brother, and Ronald Brown, Edgewood, the bride's cousin, ushered. Following the wedding ceremony, a reception was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Stewart Brown, Delta RD 1.

The couple honeymooned in Atlantic City. The bride is a 1973 graduate from William Penn Senior High School. She is employed by the U.S. Post Office. York.

A 1971 graduate of the same school. the bridegroom is a business administration major at Kentucky State University. The couple will reside at 502 Piemont Circle, where the bride lived prior to their marriage. Daily Memorandum Applications To Wed Murray Albert Sewell II. 436 Divorce Business Supply Squadron, Dover AFB.

Wayne Eugene Bush. and Cynthia Jean Bupp. Actions granted: Stewartstown RD 1, and Dawn 1725 Church Road. Donna Mae Mort from Vanessa Leight, New Freedom Romauldo Angelo Palmieri, Kenneth Eugene Mort. RD 1 1250 Wellington and Sandra E.

Ann Snell. 133 W. High Red Roger Masimore Jr. from Dale Bruce Crall 114 E. Lion.

Elizabeth H. Massimore. Seventh and Carolyn Roger Ellis Miller. 300-I Vera J. Flaharty from Estella Trout, 114 E.

Seventh Queensdale Drive, and Ellen Ronald V. Flaharty. Ave. Motoviloff. Luther J.

Stayrock from Lois 2767 Woodbridge Samuel Leon Flinchbaugh, Edison, N.J. J. Stayrock. 111 W. Sixth Mt.

Wolf, and Michael James Panos, 4 W. Natalie M. Lobach from Christine Diane Davis, 360 Broadway, Bel Air, and James F. Lobach. Gwen Drive.

Elizabeth Ann Grove, Harold I. Albright from 118 N. Linneman. 305 Manheim St. Barbara J.

Albright. David Alan George Andrew George C. Whitacre Jr. West Red Lion. and Rogers Ill.

Susan Carla Ziegler, Red Lion Wrightsville RD1, and Linda from Cheryl A. Whitacre. RD 1. Joan Wasser, York RD 9. D.

Lowell Zercher from Michael Patrick Lone, Dover John Morgan Fair III. 1756 Suzanne J. Zercher. RD 2. and Tina Marie White.

Ridgewood Road, and Patricia Carol Ann Landis from Dover RD 6. Fuziak. Red Lion RD 1. Nevis J. Landis.

Moments Remembered 50 Years Ago 25 Years Ago 15 Years Ago A group of West End Boy Scouts led by Ben Sipe hiked to Gettysburg and toured the battlefield. The scouts were Dawson Bailey, Ira Herr. Carl Falkenstein, Curtis Dennis, Richard Hodgson, Lewis Sipe, Lester Sipe and Lavere Baker. The annual excursion of the employees of the York Safe and Lock Company was held at Hershey Park. The annual Stambach reunion was held at the home of Mr.

and Mrs. C. A. Stambach, 1338 E. Market St.

The Be Square club announced its plans to hold their annual camping trip on the East shore as one week guests of Ernest Polack. Internal Revenue officials launched a drive in the York and Adams Counties for filing of partnership returns. intent of the culprit, rather than the results. How do children develop this kind of judgment about their own actions and those of actors? Does it just develop naturally, as they grow older, or does it require some kind of stimulation on the part of parents and other influential adults? Family counselors feel that children consciously and unconsciously learn moral values from their parents and other adults close to them. Babies are not born knowing what they should or shouldn't do.

A two-year-old might well carry home an attractive toy from the home of a little friend, without knowing BEVERLY A. LANDIS Engaged Mr. and Mrs. Milton Landis. York RD 12, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Beverly with Larry M.

Flinchbaugh, son of Mr. and Mrs. Nevin Flinchbaugh, York RD 12. The bride-to-be and her fiance are graduates of Eastern High School. She is employed by Yorktowne Mutual Insurance Co.

and he is employed by Epstein and Sons. A fall wedding is being planned. Albright College Dean's Students Albright College, Reading, recently named three York are students to the dean's honor list for the spring semester. They are, Nancy L. Wagner, 126 Pine Springs with a perfect 4.0 average: Cary R.

Woods. 600 S. Main Red Lion. and Elaine R. Hamme, Pigeon Hills Road, Spring Grove RD 3.

BERTIDAY Saturday, July 13. 1974 LISA ARENTZ. 16. Hanover SHARI BRICKER. 8.

Brick Town RONALD CARTER. 14. Fawn Grove E. IZABETH DRUDEN. 2.

270 W. Jackson St STEVEN EISENHART. Hellam RD 11 ROBERT FERGUSON. 7. Spring Grove RD 2 JACKIE FREY.

13. Red Lion ISCOTT GATES. 13. Wrightsville ROBIN GRAHAM. 8.

Red Lion RD SUSAN GUMPPER. 11. 351 Maryland Ave KATHY HAKE. 13. 827 Wayne Ave PENNY HARTZELL, 7.

Dallastown RED I THERESA HAAKE. 14. Wrightsville CONNIE HENSHAW. 10. Red Lion JEFFREY HYLAND.

7. Peace Dale. RI ELAINE JONES. 8. 151 Willis Lane ANNETTE LENTZ.

9. New Freedom RD NANETTE LENTZ. 9. New Freedom RD CHARLES LITTLE IT. 8.

Stewartstown RD 1 RONALD NICHOLAS JR. 13.25 W. South St NATHAN ROBINSON. 14. Craley MARSHALL ROYER.

16. 27 Mt. Zion Rd PAULA RUPPERT. 5. 1479 Haviland Rd JOHN SNYDER.

Dallastown RD 1 SUSAN SPICER. 14. 33 Main Glen Rock KEVIN STEINHAUER. 7. 945 Prospect St SHERRY THOMAS.

1 15. Wrightsville RD LISA TREAT. 13. Dover RD 3. SHERRY TYSON.

15. Felton ROBERT VANDERMARK JR 8.2100 W. Mason Ave BRIAN WILDASIN. 7. Glen Rock RD 2 LISA WILT.

8. 566 W. King St Sunday. July 14, 1974 KENNETH ABEL. 17.

Wrighsville RD 1 VICKI ADAMS. 14. 128 Rockwood Ave STEVEN ALMONEY. 13. Delta RD 2 TROY BOYD.

14. Red Lion RD 1 JUDITH CASLOW. 13, Spring Grove RD 1 BONNIF COOPER. 13. Stewartstown RD 3 LAURA DENNIS.

13. 149 Hiestand Rd LISA FUHRMAN. 13. Red Lion LYNN HOOVER. 5.

2694 Broad St. MICHAELLE INNERST. 8. 665 Madison Ave DAVID KANN JR. Spring Grove RD 2 ELISE KLINEDINST.

14. 684 Philadelphia St MITZI LENKER. 9. 1186 Lancaster Ave KRISTE MUNDIS Mt Woll RD I CAROL NESS. Wolf RD I SOLITA PLAMER 235 Green St LORI RICHARDS Wayne Ave DEIDRE RIDER.

10,318 N. Newberry St TIMOTHY ROSENBERG. 16. 843 Philadelphia St NEVIN RUTH. -16.

37 N. Penn St DONNA SLENKER. 15. 7 Crestlyn Dr. CHRISTOPHER SMITH.

7. 9 Woodward Dr ROBERT SNYDER. 7. Spry STEPHANIE SNYDER. 6.

870 Jessop PI JOHN SNYDER. 13. Orlando. Fla JESSICA STAMBAUGH. 12.

Spring Grove TODD STONER. 8. Glen Rock RD 2 DENNIS TOOMEY. 15. Mt.

Wolf RD A KELLY TRABERT. 13. Railroad JACQUELINE WINDON. 16. Delta RD 2 KATHLEEN WISEMAN.

12. 24 S. Dewey St STEVEN YINGER. 11. 941 Belure Lane CASSANDRA YOUNG.

15. Lewisberry RD that he'd done anything unacceptable. It's up to the parent to explain, in terms that the youngster can understand, the property rights of others. Obviously the two-year-old was not stealing. It takes time for a child to learn how to behave in our society.

Fundamentally, the way he can tell acceptable behavior from unacceptable behavior is by his parents' reaction. And since he wants their love and approval, he will usually follow their wishes. The 12-year-old who takes home his pal's new baseball glove is different from the two-year-old, who does not yet understand property rights. The older boy should know that what he is doing is wrong, and the chanes are that he does. It's up to the parents to discover why he took that glove.

Is this an isolated instance, or part of a habitual pattern? If this is the first time that the boy has taken something that did not belong to him, was he doing it to get attention? Or is he worried about something, for instance. trouble between his parents? If this act is part of a pattern, something is definitely wrong, and it's up to the parents to discover what is behind this clearly unacceptable behavior. If the parents find that they cannot get at the root of the problem, they might want to consult an expert, for instance a family counselor. If the problem is deep-seated and long standing. a child psychiatrist may be helpful.

In any case, if a youngster does something that is clearly contrary to his usual standards of behavior, the parents will want to discover what is causing the change. It is a good idea to deal with a problem as soon as it arises. Once the youngster has gained a reputation as the neighborhood terror, he may feel that he has to live up to his image, and then it is much harder to help him change his ways. Club Highlights IS FUN Yorkers To Tour Md. Fire Museum Members of the Fire Museum of York County, Inc.

are planning a visit to the Fire Museum of Maryland, near Towson, Saturday, Aug. 3. All York members will be admitted free of charge. The visit by the York delegation is scheduled two hours before the museum opens that day to the general public. A guided tour will be led by Stephen Heaver, president of the Maryland museum.

Fire Chief Robert W. Little Jr. said York museum members will meet at 11 a.m. at the Maryland Museum parking lot. Some members plan to leave at 9 a.m.

from Queensgate Shopping Center parking lot, where those needing transportation will be met. Members needing transportation are asked to call city fire headquarters, 854- 3921, to make arrangements. YORK HIKING CLUB The York Hiking Club will take a five mile circle hike in Spring Garden Township Sunday. Members will meet at 1:30 p.m. at 140 W.

Market St. WHITE ROSE BRIDGE CLUB Last week's winners of White Rose Bridge Club games were: Monday, Mrs. Evelyn Donley with Mrs. Clair Forry and Wells Gemberling with Philip Shepp; Tuesday, Charles Kelly with John H. Miller and Arlene Seitchik with Harvey Ackerman.

Wednesday 11 a.m., Mrs. Evelyn Donley with Mrs. Clair Forry and Paul Husson with Marvin Silberger: Wednesday invitational. Mrs. Carl Williams with Mrs.

Peter Hoet and Atty. and Mrs. Martin Ebbert, and Saturday, Julia Diener with Alice Adler and Mr. and Mrs. Philip Shepp.

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throws in for humor has a lot of truth in it. The single man in his Says she, when discussing the men's keeps his friends posted baths of the Far East: "They don't lurid details his imagination have the barber shop for gossip, and up. After all, his reputation we're all agreed that men gossip more The greatest prey for than women." male gossip are the married What she should have added is that conquers. It's too good a men are not only gossips, but vicious spread around. gossips where women are concerned.

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Beware of the biggest lie to roll off his lips: "My wife and I are not getting late twenties along. One of these days we'll be getting with all the a divorce." He knows divorce would can dream ruin him financially if not socially. But is at stake. it is a good line to drop for emotional the vicious effect. women he Remember, too, that the only reason tidbit not to a man never admits he's having an affair is simply because he's afraid he may get caught and have to accept a spread the divorce.

You'll neighbors. find yourself being blamed for the mess. my dears. Don't say I didn't warn you. Dear Abby By Abigail Van Buren" DEAR ABBY: Debbie and I graduated from college 13 years ago.

We were sorority sisters and close friends. I got married first and invited Debbie. She couldn't come, but she sent me a wedding gift. (She lived in San Francisco and I lived in Chicago.) Two years later I got an invitation to Debbie's wedding, and I am ashamed to say I didn't even acknowledge it. I kept meaning to send her a present but I never did.

Debbie married a fellow who didn't have anything, but since that time I heard he has made a fantastic success in business. My husband and I are moving to Oakland, which is just across the bridge from San Francisco, and I want to renew my friendship with Debbie, but I don't know how to go about it. Should I send her a wedding present with a card: "Hi! Better late than never," and then follow it up with a letter saying we are moving to Oakland and I'd like to get together? GOOFED DEAR GOOFED: No. Debbie might suspect that your sudden interest in renewing the friendship is in some way connected with her husband's "fantastic (Is it?) DEAR ABBY: I was surprised to learn from your column that a 19-year-old patient can report her psychiatrist to the ethics committee of the local county medical society psychiatric society if he betrays her confidence- even to her parents. What about underage adolescents? Don't you think parents have a right to know what's going on in the minds of their children? CURIOUS Mrs.

James Wood, 707 W. Market won an electric range and Mrs. E. J. Schaeberle, 44 S.

Pine won a gas rane in a contest sponsored by Food Fair Stores. Inc. York was chosen as the location for the 27th annual convention of the Sheriffs Association of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. Paul C. Kimmons, 721 E.

Boundary was appointed chairman of the decorations committee for the summer prom at the University of Wisconsin. York was allocated two television channels in the ultra high frequencies under changes proposed by the Federal Communications Commission. John Singley, 17, son of Mr. and Mrs. James B.

Singley, 312 Garfield toured London on the first leg of a European tour sponsored by the National Association of Student Councils. Krista Kieffer, four -year-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph T. Kieffer, 46 Girard Dallastown.

was crowned "Miss York Telephone 1959" at the annual picnic of employes of York Telephone and Telegraph Company and their families. Prothonotary David P. King, leader of the York City Band, spoke on the history of bands and on the development of band instruments at a meeting of the Women's Democratic Club of York and York County at Knights of Columbus Hall. DEAR CURIOUS: Most psychiatrists try to be extremely protective of an adolescent's confidences, but if an adolescent is involved in some serious antisocial or illegal behavior. the psychiatrist may have to disclose some confidential information for the protection of the patient and his parents from the consequences of such actions.

There is an increasing trend toward family therapy in which the adolescent and his parents are treated together. so the issue of confidentiality does not even arise. DEAR ABBY: I have been living common law with a man for 12 vears. He pays the bills and we are just like man and wife. Our kids him Daddy" (we have eight).

I just found out by accident that he is also "Daddy" to seven other kids, and has been living common law with another woman 90 miles from here. For years he has left here on Monday morning and come home on Thursday evening. If I can prove that he spends more time with me than he spends with the other woman, is he my common law husband. or is he hers? Can a cominonlaw husband be a bigamist? And where would it leave me if he fell over dead? Thank you. CONFUSED DEAR CONFUSED: It would leave you with a lot of questions that only a lawyer could answer.

Why don't you see one now? It's a lot easier to get information out of a live common-law husband than a dead one..