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D4 LIFE FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 23, 2007 DECATUR, ILLINOIS www.herald-review.com 5 is OBITUARIES Dinner guests bearing gift put hostess in a pickle Buckley Continued from D3 Long DECATUR John Edward Long, a loving husband, father, grandfather and retired corporate Vice Presi iiitlil Burris DONNELLSON Ethel Lola Burris, 96, Donnellson, formerly of Springfield, hardware store owner operator, died Wednesday (Feb. 21, 2007). Services: 2 p.m. Sunday, Greenville First Christian Church. Visitation: 2 to 5 p.m.

Saturday, Bass, Patton, Dean Funeral Home, Hillsboro. Burial: 11 a.m. Monday, Oak Hill Cemetery, Springfield. Memorials: Cookson Hills Christian Ministries or Senior Citizens of Sangamon County. Barnes CHARLESTON David Lynn Barnes, 60, Charleston, Navy veteran and Quantum Chemical Co.

employee, died dent and President of the Research Division of Archer Daniel Midland, passed away Tuesday February 20, 2007 due to complications from multiple myeloma. Memorial Service: 1 pm John Long ARMY Friday February 23rd in the Founders Chapel at First United Methodist Church of Grapevine, Texas. Memorials: In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation (MMRF), 383 Main Avenue, 5th floor, Nor-walk, CT 06851. John was born in Monett, Missouri on April 16, 1929 to John and Jane Long. He received his undergraduate degree from Oklahoma State University in 1951 and his PhD in Chemistry from Ohio State University in 1958.

While stationed in Denver, Colorado at Fitzsimmons Army Medical Center, John met Faye Stevens, and they were married on September 8, 1956. John retired from Archer Daniel Midland after a 25 year career spent in Cedar Rapids, Iowa and Decatur, Illinois. Survivors: His wife of 50 years, Faye Long of Col-leyville, Texas; son, John Allyn Long, and his wife Sue of Portland, Oregon; daughter Lynda Agnew and her husband Gary of Colleyville, Texas; sister Rose Ellen Cal-ton and her husband Kenneth of Monett, Missouri; and grandchildren Lauren Agnew, Mike Agnew, Alyssa Long and Matthew Long. Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at www.legacy.comherald-review Obituaries.

asp Ui-A Mitchum DECATUR Edward "Chief" Mitchum, 80, Decatur, retired from Wagner Castings died Tuesday (Feb. 20, 2007). Services: 1 p.m. Saturday, Church of the Living God PGT 3. Visitation: one hour before services in the church.

Burial: Greenwood Cemetery. Arrangements by: Walker Funeral Service and Chapel. Schwengel OREANA Lois C. Schwengel, 63, Oreana, Kohl's employee, died Saturday (Feb. 17, 2007).

Services: 10 a.m. Friday, GracelandFairlawn Funeral Home. Visitation was Thursday. Burial: Graceland Cemetery. Casual attire requested.

Memorials: donor's choice. Send condolences: www.gracelandfairlawn.com. Williams DECATUR William Lee Williams 77, Decatur, Army veteran and Millikin University professor, died Monday (Feb, 19, 2007). Services: 10:30 a.m. Saturday, Brint-linger and Earl ARMY Funeral Homes, Decatur.

Visitation: one hour before services. Burial: Lake Bank Cemetery, Latham, with military rites. Memorials: Millikin University Global Studies Program, Bethlehem Presbyterian Church or edualumnigifts.asp. Stubblefield DECATUR Robert D. Stubblefield, 70, retired research chemist, died Wednesday (Feb.

21, 2007). Services: 10 a.m. Saturday, Glen Oak Christian Church, Peoria. Visitation: 5 to 8 p.m. Friday in the church.

Burial: Swan Lake Memory Gardens, Peoria. Arrangements by: Hammitt-Hott Funeral Home, Princeville. Memorials: Glen Oak Christian Church Dan Merrick Music Library and Chapel, Eureka College or Boy Scouts of America. Send condolences: www.hammitt hott.com. Member: Glen Oak Christian Church.

Survivors: wife, Margaret; sons, Jeffrey R. Stubblefield, Peoria; Curtis L. Stubblefield, Monument, Sgt. Douglas R. Stubblefield, Camp Lejeune, N.C.; adopted daughter, the Rev.

Patricia L. Jones, Jacksonville; brother, Richard Stubblefield, Decatur; three grandchildren; three step-granddaughters; two great-stepgrandchildren. Preceded by: parents. Online guest book at www. legacy.comherald-review Obituaries.

asp jjy CENTRAL ILLINOIS Ashby CLINTON James Ashby, 62, Clinton, Army veteran, died Thursday (Feb. 22, 2007). Services: 11 a.m. Saturday, Calvert Funeral Home, Clinton. Visitation: one hour before services.

Bur ARMY ial: Evergreen Cemetery, Waynesville, with military rites. Memorials: James G. Ashby Memorial Fund. Beck ASSUMPTION Mary Frances Beck, 82, Assumption, nursing home cook, died Tuesday (Feb. 20, 2007).

Services: 10 a.m. Saturday, Mount Pleasant Church of God, Assumption. Visitation: 6 to 8 p.m. Friday, Seitz Funeral Home, Assumption. Burial: Mount Pleasant Cemetery, Assumption.

Brown CLINTON Virginia Karen Brown, 68, Olathe, formerly of Clinton, died Monday (Feb. 19, 2007). Services: 2 p.m. Saturday, Calvert Funeral Home, Clinton. Visitation: one hour before services.

Burial: DeWitt Cemetery, Dewitt. Memorials: hospice of donor's choice. Haenggi OLNEY Harold Haenggi, 74, Olney, died Thursday (Feb. 22, 2007). Arrangements incomplete: Summers-Kistler Funeral Homes, Olney.

Stonecipher OLNEY Mary Dayton Stonecipher, 86, Olney, died Wednesday (Feb. 21, 2007). Services: 10 a.m. Friday, March 2, St. Joseph Catholic Church, Olney.

No visitation. Burial: St. Joseph Cemetery, Olney. Arrangements by: Summers-Kistler Funeral Home, Olney. Memorials: St.

Joseph Foundation Trust or University of Illinois Gertrude Gassmann Scholarship Fund. the other wraps around the urethra the' tube that drains urine from the bladder to the outside. It's the second sphincter that is frequ ently impaired after gland surgery. Quite often, men regain control over the bladder in six months to a year after the operation. It might be only a matter of time until your problem goes away on its own.

PANA Leota L. "Toots" Buckley, 91, of Pana died Thursday, February 22, 2007 at 6:15 a.m. in Heritage Manor Pana. She was born May 11, 1915 in Assumption, IL, the daughter of Lewis Edgar Flora Elizabeth (Beckett) Bridgman. She was a home-maker and lived Leota Buckley in the Rosamond area until 1979 when moving to Pana.

Toots was a member of the Rosamond Community Presbyterian Church; Rosamond Home Extension; Pana Senior Citizens, Heritage Guild and Pana Community Hospital Auxiliary. She married George Roosevelt Buckley on November 7, 1931 in She is survived by her children: Elizabeth L. Hartman, Decatur, IL; Richard Buckley, Cerro Gordo, IL; Larry Buckley, Litchfield, IL; Audrey Durbin, Tower Hill, IL; Jean-ette Daniels, Strasburg, IL; 21 grandchildren; 36 great grandchildren; 13 great-great grandchildren; and by her sister: Genevieve Blosser, Assumption, IL. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband in March 1987, son Arnold Buckley. 1 grandchild, 3 brothers and 4 sisters.

Memorials may be made to Rosamond Community Presbyterian Church or First United Presbyterian Church of Pana. Funeral services will be Saturday, February 24, 2007 in McCracken-Dean Funeral Home at 2:00 p.m. with Rev. Marilyn Rauch and Tim Ha-worth officiating. Burial will be in Rosemond Grove Cemetery, Rosamond, IL.

Visitation will be Saturday from 12 noon until time of service at McCracken-Dean Funeral Home. Light a virtual candle or send condolences to the family at www.mdfh.com. Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at www.legacy.comherald-review Obituaries. asp jj Spires ATWOOD Larry C.

Spires, 63, of Atwood, formerly of Stonington passed away 3:19 a.m. Wednesday, February 21, 2007 at Decatur Memorial Hospital, Decatur. Funeral services will be 10:30 a.m. Saturday at McMullin-Young Funeral Home, Sullivan. Visitation will be one hour before the service on Saturday morning and 6:00 to 8:00 p.m.

Friday at McMullin-Young Funeral Home, Sullivan. Burial will be in Mackville Cemetery, Atwood. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made in care of the family. Larry was born March 3, 1943 in Stonington, the son of Clifton and Virginia (Daniels) Spires. He married Betty Dowell April 9, 1993 in Lincoln.

He was employed at John Deere as a Parts Manager. Larry was a member of the Lincoln Southern Baptist Church, Lincoln. He is survived by his wife Betty of Atwood; daughters, Michele Rae Reed of Evans-vUle, IN, Darcy Haney of Olney, Benita Elizabeth Swisher of St. Joseph and Michelle Durbin of Sullivan; brothers, Kenny Spires of Litchfield, Roger Spires of Chatam, and Gary Spires of Raleigh, NC; sisters, Linda Price of Bay Minette, AL and Mary Ann Sheets of Decatur; eight grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents and two grandchildren.

Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at www. legacy.comherald-review Obituaries.asp If it doesn't, there are ways to improve the situation. One example is the artificial urinary sphincter. It works like a blood pressure cuff.

At all times, the tiny cuff, encircling the urethra, is inflated and keeps urine in the bladder. When the man feels that his bladder is full and wants to empty it, he activates a small pump, which is placed in the scrotum. The cuff deflates and urine passes of the bladder. The cuif is programmed to inflate on its own after the bladder has emptied. The device works well, but it might need periodic revisions.

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Whether it has something to do with your job, home, school or community, we'd like to hear your story. Our goal is to include as many of your stories of progress as possible in the Outlook sections, which will be published on Sunday, March 18, and March 25. If you have a story to tell, don't delay, send it to: Dave Dawson, Managing Editor, co Herald Review, 601 E. William Decatur, IL 62523, or e-mail it to ddawson Essays should be less than 300 words long. And they should be in our possession by 5 p.m.

Wednesday, March 7. Include daytime and evening phone numbers. The stories do not have to be limited to individuals. If your community, school or business has a story of progress to tell, share that, too. 'mrnsm" Wednesday (Feb.

21, 2007). Services: 10 a.m. Saturday, navy Harper-Swick-ard Funeral Home, Charleston. Visitation: 6 to 8 p.m. Friday, with 8 p.m.

Masonic rites. Burial: Kickapoo Cemetery, Charleston. Memorials: New Mercy Worship Center building fund or the Disabled American Veterans. Pierce MATTOON Louise Tilford Pierce, 83, of Mattoon died at 3:35 p.m. Wednesday (February 21, 2007) in Sarah Bush Lincoln Health Care Center, Coles, IL Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m.

Saturday in the Lovins-Lockart Funeral Home, Windsor with Rev. Michael Louise Pierce Snow officiating. Visitation will be from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. Friday. Burial will be in the Windsor Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to the First Baptist Church, Mattoon. She was born in Mattoon March 16, 1923 the daughter of John Franklin and Amy Dean Walker Rose. She married Walter Tilford August 16, 1942 in Mattoon and he preceded her in death May 7, 1988. She then married Frederick Pierce May 22, 1999 in Mattoon. She was a former lifelong member of the United Methodist Church, Mattoon and now a member of the First Baptist Church, Mattoon.

She was active in the Boy Scouts, and taught classes in the Red Cross and Civil Defense. She graduated from Windsor High School in 1941. She served as Executive Secretary of the Illinois Emergency Services Management Association for 20 years retiring in 2000. Surviving are her husband Frederick; sons, Michael Tilford, wife Betty of Mahomet and John Tilford, wife Theresa of Mattoon; daughter, Patricia Christy, special friend David Dombrow of Mattoon; step-daughters, Margene Slighton, husband Lyndle of Mattoon and Phyllis Weaver, husband Jeff of Lerna; grandchildren, Angela Hustmeyer, Mark Tilford, Marsha Hays, David Tilford, Matthew Christy and Andrea Reed; step-grandchildren, Dan Olson, Matthew Terrell, Lana Swanson, Amy Terrell, Brad Turner, Malia Turner-Hall, Dylan Weaver and Jared Weaver; 8 great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband, Walter, brothers, Wendell Rose, Franklin Rose, Walter Rose and Russell Rose and sisters, Jewell Baker and Barbara Edwards.

Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at www.legacy.comherald-review Obituaries.asp copy by writing: Dr. Donohue No. 1001, Box 536475, Orlando, FL 32853-6475. Enclose a check or money order for $4.75 with the recipient's printed name and address.

Please allow four weeks for delivery. Eating raw eggs Dear Or. Donohue: My son eats raw eggs every morning to build muscles. Is this healthy? R.W. No.

Raw eggs can carry Salmonella, a germ that brings on unpleasant illness. Raw eggs do not build muscles. That's an idea whose time has long passed. Dr. Paul Donohue writes for North America Syndicate.

Send letters to Box 536475, Orlando, FL 32853-6475. Loss of bladder control may follow prostate surgery Dear Dr. Donohue: I am 47. Six months ago, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. My doctor was quite surprised because of my age, and so was I.

Four months ago, I had my prostate gland removed. The doctor said he got all the cancer, and I am happy about that. I am not happy that I have lost control of my bladder. What can be done? R.M. The urinary bladder and the nerves that serve it lie in close proximity to the prostate gland.

In removing the gland, it is next to impossible not to injure nerves or the muscles that keep the bladder closed. Those muscles are called sphincters, and there are two of them for the bladder. One ties at the bladder outlet and.