The Kingston Daily Freeman from Kingston, New York • Page 8

EIGHT THE DAILY FREEMAN. KINGSTON. N. TUESDAY EVENING, SEPTEMBER 21, 1971 Dont Tell Mate Friend Thinks Hes Cool By ABIGAIL VAN Bl REN Tribiinr- Inr.i DEAR Six months ago I was in the hospital for several weeks and became very friendly with Gloria, a patient who shared my room. Gloria was a divorcee, my age.

We exchanged a lot of confidences and I told her about a fling I had with an old beau to get even with my husband who had a thing going with my best friend. When my husband would come to visit me. he'd kid around with Gloria, and after he'd leave she'd tell me how cool she thought he was. I teased my husband about Gloria digging him and he just laughed. Well Gloria got out of the hospital before I did.

and wouldn't you know, she aged to get together with my husband. I find out about this until after I caught Dear Abby them and the kids were even home at the time. My husband says it was all my fault because I Gloria at him. Don't you think they are equally guilty? I am madder at her than I am at him. Have you any advice for me? CHEATED ON DEAR CHEATED: Yes: ever tell your husband another woman thinks he's cool.

It drives up his therms slat. DEAR ABBY: I am 39 and have three preschool children. I am married to an absolute nut who has made a fortune in business. He devotes 100 per cent of all SHOP NEW LOCATION: Route 9W North, Kingston Nortk of 20f Circle next to Newt Phone 331-4123 Come In See Our Beautiful Fall and Winter Apparel Dresses, Fant Suits, Sweaters. Panty Hose Lingerie For the Tall and Demi Tall time to his to other people.

He tells me what to do and when to do it. I feel like a robot who is wound up every morning and programmed to do whatever he wants me to do. If I open my mouth. I get a lecture or a black eye. Sometimes both.

I told him 1 was leaving him and he said I needed to see a psychiatrist. So I saw one. and the psychiatrist told me to send in my husband. My husband said, "I'm not going. All those head doctors are nuts themselves." So where it stands.

Abby. I wan out of this jail I'm living in. If it for the kids I have left him long ago. How important is it for children to have a father GOING NUTS DEAR GOING: You can't he staying in that jail because YOUR PROBLEM you want to deprive your children of a father. From what you say.

he's not much of a father anyway. Children need at least one sane parent, so stay with the psychiatrist and let him unbraid your brains. DEAR ABBY: We have some neighbors who borrow eggs, half a dozen at a time, and bread by the loaves. never get anything back. Last week we got an invitation to an outdoor party given by these neighbors.

We accepted and had a very good time. They had good eats and plenty of drinks. Here's the clincher: Yesterday we got a bill in the mail for $8.60 with a note. "This is for your share of the food and drinks." Do you think we should pay this hill? If so. should we mail it? Or should we deliver it in person with a few choice words? When we were invited they didn't sav anything about paying.

SHOCKED IN ALBUQUERQUE DEAR SHOCKED: I would ignore the bill. And the neighbors. For booklet to Have a Lovely send $1 to Abby, Box 69700. Los Angeles. Cal.

90069. (Hear Dear Abbv Mon. thru Sat. 9:25 a.m. SOCIAL ACTIVITIES Griffin Lahl Wedding Announced Here Mr.

and Mrs. Bo R. Olund. D. 4.

Box 394. Kingston, an nounce the marriage of her daughter. Lynette Flora Griffin. to William Albert Lahl. son of Mr.

and Mrs. Albert C. Lahl. 152 Doris Street. Port Ewen.

The wedding took place on Sunday, Sept. 5 in Presentation Church, Port Ewen. The Rev. Father Murphy officiated at the double ring ceremony. James Sweeney, organist, accompanied Mrs.

James Sweeney, who sang traditional wedding selections. Baskets of gladioli decorated the altar. The bride was given in marriage by her stepfather. She selected a traditional gown of Chantilly lace with a bouffant silhouette. The paneled front featured ruffles to the bottom of the gown.

The gown was styled with a scalloped sabina neckline and juliette sleeves. Her mantilla with blusher was fastened to a juliette cap. The bride carried a colonial bouquet of white daisies and pink rosebuds. Miss Christina Lahl. Pym- rock Road.

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Her skirt was a floral print of varied shades. Miss Lahl wore a matching wide brimmed hat and carried a colonial bouquet of pink rosebuds and white daisies with streamers. Miss Robin Olund and Miss Anna Lisa Olund. both stepsister of the bride. R.D.

4, Box 394, Kingston, served as bridesmaid and junior bridesmaid. respectively. Robin wore a green gown and a matching wide brimmed hat and carried a colonial bouquet of gold daisies and rosebuds with streamers. Anna Lisa was attired in a gold gown and carried a colonial bouquet of green daisies and rosebuds, trimmed with streamers. A gold ribbon served as her headpiece.

Thomas Burt. 235 Linderman avenue. Kingston, served as best man. Ushers were John Fay. 153 Linderman Avenue.

uncle of the bridegroom; and Richard Olund. Ulster Park. A reception for 100 guests was held at Capri Restaurant, Route 9W, Port Ewen. The bride selected a green pant suit with black accessories for her wedding trip to Niagara Falls and Canada. Mrs.

Lahl was graduated in 1970 from Kingston High School. Her husband is a 1967 graduate of Kingston High School and a 1969 alumnus of Alfred State College. He is employed by Kingston Mechanical Contractors, and is serving with the National Guard. The couple will reside at Jockey Hill Trailer Park. Sawkill.

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Phone 338-3970 Kingston, N.Y. MRS. WILLIAM A. LAHL (Lakeside Studio) Democratic Club Picnic Ulster County Democratic Club recently held its successful annual picnic at Upper Hasbrouck Park. Everyone in attendance had an opportunity to meet and talk with the Democratic candidates from the City of Kingston and the County of Ulster.

Circulating among the many who were assembled were incumbents, Mayor Francis R. Koenig and Alderman at- Large T. Robert Gallo. City of Kingston Aldermen, John E. Finch, 5th Ward; Donald E.

Quick. 6th Ward: Michael S. Perry, 7th Ward; Emillio Primo 8th Ward; Clifford Sinsabaugh, 10th Ward; Majority Leader of the Common Council. Edward Norton. 11th Ward; and Peter Mancuso, 12th Ward.

Alo attending were first time candidates for alderman, Joseph McGrane. 2nd Ward; Paul Mills, 3rd Ward: Clarence Stoutenberg, 4th Ward; and Philip DeCicco. 9th Ward. John Coffey, the 1st Ward candidate is a former candidate for the old 12th and William Bodenweber. 13th Ward, was for merly alderman from the old 9th Ward.

Also, incumbent county legislators, Orrie R. Riehl, Dr. Gerald Gorman. James Gilpatric, William F. Edelmuth.

William (Pucker) Davis and Lewis Kirschner with newcomer Larry Kithcart, former supervisor James Carroll of the old 10th Ward. Kingston, and Alderman John Heitzman who is making his bid for a seat in the County Legislature. The picnic, under the chairmanship of Agnes Loughran and Emma Brandow was the 22nd such affair sponsored by the Ulster County Democratic Women's Club. Here Look Here Mrs. Homemaker Morning Comes the Rush School bells are ringing and suddenly clothing lists and new schedules materialize.

During this annual reorganizing period, good to include an evaluation of cleanliness practices. says Phyllis W. Barlow7, Extension Home Economist. The summer emphasis on casual living usually means that regulations for both bedtime and careful grooming slip a little. And re establishing routines and as the school year begins helps to get the household in good running order.

The first consideration is the up-and-out schedule for each family member. Then there are the individual personalities to dovetail into the bathroom-breakfast scene. There are those who seem to D.A.R. RUMMAGE SALE Corner Green Crown Streets THURSDAY Sept. 23 FRIDAY 24 9 to 4 awaken immediately as their feet touch the floor.

Others require a 15 minute arm-up period before embarking on the day. So if several have to be off to school at the same time, put the speedier members ahead of the slowpokes in the shower, face washing, tooth brushing lineup. Or awaken the pokey a little earlier if need be so that he will have plenty of time to get going. Insist that each person clean up after himself. It take that much longer to put things in order.

Naturally, dad deserves first choice for convenience. And if he is one who likes to ease into the morning and only one bathroom is else has to make the best of it and do more before bedtime preparation. Clean skin and teeth, combed hair, freshly- laundered clothes and a nutritional breakfast are the daytime start a mother can give her family. So worth scheduling and getting up early to accomplish. RUMMAGE SALE ST.

PAUL'S LUTHERAN CHURCH 355 HASBROUCK AVE. Wednesday, Sept. 22 5:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Thursday, Sept.

23 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. RICHARD I BEAUTY SCHOOL N. Y. Stato V.

A. APPROVED BUDGET ARRANGEMENTS STUDENT LOANS BRIE PLACEMENT SERVICE REFRESHER COURSES ENROLL NOW start Oct. 12 Nov. 8 Dec. 8 'C 7 in for Information 773 BEOADWAY KINGSTON.

N. Y. 331-7042 288 MAIN STRUT POUGHKEEPSIE 471.2211.