Corpus Christi Caller-Times from Corpus Christi, Texas • 114

J4Sunday January 14 1996 Cftpttf Cjjritf Called tmtf i i SEQUEL Good Marriage: How and Why Love (Houghton Mifflin 1995) couple feels there was love and respect and mutual need then an act of infidelity wouldn't break A Washington woman who is 48 and the mother of three and Who refused to be identified discovered that her husband of 22 years was having an affair at work was angry and hurt when I found out about the affair but I wasn't going to throw away a lifetime together because of another she said know some people think foolish to stay with him but Fd be even more foolish to leave a man I still love very much in spite of what Adultery a crime in 45 states unr til 1970 is still a crime in 27 states including New York and Connecticut The statutes are tardy enforced To many moralists look-the-other-way attitude is overly tolerant: even leaving religion out of it a vow is a vow a contract is a contract And some philosophers on religion stress that the biblical notion of forgiveness of sin is not equivalent to blamelessness can't be pompously judgmental but we don't have to accept the sin as normal or acceptable said Dr Paul Mohan professor emeritus of philosophy at Catholic University have the idea that prevalence constitutes Others say the broader sense of right and wrong reflects a more enlightened view calls us to live a life of marital fidelity but He also recognises that there are going to be said Dr James Bretzkc professor of Christian Ethics at the Graduate Theological Union at the University of California at Berkeley Of a woman caught in adultery said the one without sin cast the first he continued adding doesn't say OK but in the end no one is left to cast that AFFAIRS FROM PAGE J1 generally people will said Dr Shiiley Glass a psychologist in Owings Mills Md Once you get into specific reasons she added as a spouse who is sexually deprived or who falls in love with someone else you get more Michelle Farinet 40 a married Manhattan woman of five years and the mother of a 2-year-old daughter said: institution of marriage is sacred but humans do things that ate not a spiritual person and one of faith and not easy just to say Thou shalt As you get older you understand there are more gray The less-condemning attitude toward inappropriate behavior is a sign of the of the 1990s some authorities say How else to explain the Disneyization of Nathaniel replete with sex violence and Demi Moore and Gary Oldham skinny-dipping? In the film die lovers ride off happily In the novel they are together only after death Often the partner who has been cheated on feds as much or more shame as the one having the affair That is especially so for couples in the public eye Jackie Joseph an actress is president of LADIES (the acronym stands for Life After Divorce Is Eventually Sane) a support group in Los Angeles for what has become known as Studies one conducted by Dr Glass and another by Dr Judith Wallerstein the founder of the Center for the Family in Transition in Berkeley Calif have shown that couples frequently make distinctions between a one-night stand and a long-term affair a one-night stand would be upsetting but more forgivable depending on the strength of the marriage the marriage had trouble the infidelity is looked at as the final said Dr Wallerstein who with Sandra Blakeslee wrote temper And he often is hilarious in his efforts to control his high-tech artificial leg (shades of To bring into the '90s Henkel added a female villain named Darla played by Tonie Per-ensld The sexy sociopath is Yuma's girlfriend Texan Renee Zellweger who starred in and a plays Jenny the run-for-your-life prom date who is the only victim to survive the latest She rivals her bell-bottomed predecessor the scream queen but in tune with the '90s less of a wimp Working with first-time director Henkel on was and physically demanding" Zellweger said from Los Angeles kind of a dark film You have to take yourself to Maces you wouldn't like emotionally John Dugan and Paul Partaine actors who played in the original returned fix1 cameo appearances in the sequeL John Dugan was not yet 20 years old when he landed the role of Grandpa in the 1974 film Makeup artists aged him considerably to May Grandpa the patriarch who was too feeble to eat anything but a few droplets of Mood he sucked from a finger Dugan became an actor and film lighting technician in South Central Indiana He appeared briefly in a hospital emergency room scene at the dose of sequel was a lot of said die 43-year-old Dugan was just as hot as it was the first time Nothing like bang under 20000 watts of lights in Texas in Dugan and Henkd remained friends after the filming of the original They were brothers-in-law for a short time Henkel is a divorced father Dugan said he appreciates his sense of He chuckled at the memory of the late nights he spent watching Henkd stare at his typewriter Henkd lived in different Texas seacoast towns as a child when his the wrecker's balL The grainy Mack and white film explores how the bar regulars cope with the changing ur-1 ban scene and the decline of Texas traditions The independently-produced received critical acclaim at film festivals and held its own on the ait house circuit Commercial reward remained elusive for Henkel but be never took another job successfully fought a mainstream said his sister Betsy Henkel an assistant county attorney for Nueces County only kept semi-normal hours since the birth of his son" Ian Henkel was born 14 years ago He lives with his father while attending middle school in Port Aransas Positive reviews Critics on the film festival circuit last year praised Henkel's of the Texas Chainsaw for being at once genuinely scary and a sharp self-parody A few critics panned the 93-minute film as a rehash Horror movie tneyyinge and syndicated movie critic Jqe Bob Briggs (aluL Joe Bloom) are salivating over the sequel The picture could do well if its release coincides with the summer opening of John Grisham's next film Time To Henkel said The New RegencyWarner Brothers picture stars Matthew McCon-aughey as a young lawyer The 25-year-okl McConaughey also Mays Vilmer a homicidal wrecker driver and 1 brother 1 in of the Texas Chainsaw The maniacal McConaughey trolls for teens on a battery-operated leg McConaughey an Austinite whose star is on the rise first garnered attention as the post-high school burnout in and then as the male lead role in on the Side" A reviewer for attending the Southwest Film and Media Conference a year ago wrote that McConaughey in way way over the top with his mood-swinging menace and tripwire father was la captain in the US Merchant Marine His father CM Henkd Jr is a longtime newspaperman who still writes columns fix the Aransas South Jetty and the Refugio County Advantage Press The family of seven struggled to get by with very little money Without a television the brothers and sisters read a lot of books and relied on each other fix entertainment Mary Judson a writer fix the South Jetty says her older Mother Kim is a man with a vivid She remembered the creative teepees her brother would build as a child Younger brother Joe Henkd an El Paso banker' has an altogether darker memory of playing Indian with Mother Kim had to have a victim and I became the tortured person (The Mothers) tied me up to a stake surrounded by cactus I was more mad than he said laughing An early glimpse of his horrific imagination was evident on a boy's night out in Robstown where Henkel attended high school for two years Henkd qnd his friends staged an elaborate murder scene on a darkened road They waited until a driver's headlights swept the street The driver saw a hatchet-wielding man hacking what appeared to bloody corpse they could get the dummy loaded up the police got there and arrested said Henkd III a lawyer in Corpus Christi and Kim older brother got a long lecture from the chief of police that this could cause someone to have a heart Henkd graduated from Refugio High School and attended Dd Mar College In 1969 he went to the University of Texas and majored in literature In Austin he met Hooper and the two collaborated on their first film a bizarre psychedelic fantasy From there they wanted to make something that would grab the attention of commercial film distributors Horror seemed the way to go FROM PACE J1 almost Poe-like reputation fix having a gruesome imagination just as weird as you can imagine but no weirder than the average Henkd says laugh a lot while Early on in his career Henkd became pigeonholed as a honor film writer some extent I'm afraid of being he says most of the time Fm so poor I don't care what I cut from could have been hundreds of thousands but he and co-writer and director Tobe Hooper say they walked away with practically nothing The 1974 film raked in $100 million in box office and video rental sales Henkd collected some money when the film was re-issued on the midnight movie circuit Bryanston Distributors Inc a movie distribution company with reputed Mafia ties got the better of the two unsuspecting screenwriters Henkd says The Los Angeles Times documented the infiltration of legitimate moviedistrib-uting in the 1970s Both Universal and Warner Brothers vied fix these good oF boys from Texas following the success of But after an artistically disappointing few years on a Universal contract Henkel returned to the Coastal Bend He tired of the studio politics that yanked him from good to bad projects He wrote decent films that languished on studio shelves he said While Hooper achieved feme directing Steven Henkel scripted his way into the world of Texas art films He stayed on familiar turf with true-to-Texas movies such as Night at the During the early 1980s he collaborated with Eagle Pennell on Night at the using a $25000 grant from the National Endowment fin the Arts This feature length film is about a bar on the outskirts of Houston that is slated to fell under Can I give the most romantic gift ever?" 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