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PAGE SIX! WOMAN PAGE THE DAILY TIMES. MAMARONECK. N. SATURDAY, AUGUST 26, 1944 Mamaroneck League Seeks Opinion On Post-War World WOMAN'S PAGE Of seven persons Interviewed by members of the Mamaroneck League of Women Voters this week, four believe that America has a better chance to keep the peace if it Joins some kind of a union of nations. The question was posed In an at- empt to clarify the opinions of I those voting in November, elcct- I ing congressmen who will them- elvea be called upon to answer it.

Mrs. Rose Civettinl of 632 Fenimore Road, Interviewed by Mrs. Leif Arup of 620 Grand Street, replied: "I sure think there would be a I better chance to keep the peace if all nations liked each other and joined a union. Why, It would be Just like a family; all the members are loyal to each other, you MRS. ROBERT C.

LEVERICH Constance Valadon Becomes Bride Of Lt. R. Leverich At Our Ladys Chapel, St. Patrick's Cathedral, New York, Miss Constance Valadon, Pelbrook HaU, Pelham, daughter of the late Mr. apd Mrs.

John A. Valadon, became the bride yesterday afternoon ot Lieut. Robert Cameron leverich, Infantry, sen of Mrs. Leonard R. NewelJ, Morehead Drive, Rye, and the late Cameron Leverich.

The Rev. Thomas Graham officiated and a small reception for the immediate families and a lew friends followed at the New Weston Hotel. The bride, niece ot Mr. and Mrs. James C.

Davison, Stockbridge, formerly of Larchmont and Pelham, wore a white faille princess gown, sweetheart neckline, and a fingertip veil which fell from a coronet She wore an amethyst pendant which HPLD belonged to her mother and carried white stephanotis. Mrs. Charles S. Towle of Manchester, formerly of Larchmont and Pelham. was her cousin's only attendant.

She was attired in an aqua silk jersey gown, an equa featured calot and carried yellow roses. Richard Mackie ot Pelham was best man. Mrs. Leverich is a graduate of Mamaroneck High School and her husband is an alumua of Pelham Memorial High School, the University of Virginia and itG Law School. He is a member ot Pi Kappa Alpha.

Following a wedding trip to Seaj Island, the couple will their home near Fort Benningj where the bridegroom is to bff stationed. MRS. JAMES W. COLBERT JR. by Korma Miss Lorna Tuck Married To Pfc.

James Jr. Divorce Figures In Customary Use Of Bride's Initials By EMILY POST This wistful question comes from a husband: "Will you please tell me why everj-thlng in my house has to be marked with my wife's initials? It Is true that I have left it to her In my so long as I live It's my house. And yet, every blessed thing in It is marked my wife's ones as well as present. "Well, I don't care very much about myself, but our son Is being married. He is a surgeon.

Our wedding present to him and his to-ide is a set of table silver. My wife says )t should all be marked M. B. J. lor the bride, Mary Brown Jones.

My son is Robert Haynes Smith. "A friend of mine has put It into my head that the reason why things are marked with the bride's name Ls that If she obtains a divorce, all' those initialed Items are her own. As the father of the groom I don't like the Idea. Perhaps you can explain to me how this all came about, anyway. Please print your answer soon, because we are waiting to mark the silver according to you." In answering this, can assure you that your friend is wTong about the divorce motive.

At least it Is true that long ago when divorces were practically unknown, everything in the house was marked with the bride's maiden initials. Today, when divorce hangs hke a "sword of Damocles" over too many marriages, it has become customary to mark all wedding presents -with the bride's married initials. I do agree with you that nothing Js more stupid than going into a house of the Smiths and finding all the towels in the bathroom marked with a for Jones, as well as the napery tor the table. But there are certain things that are marked for the husband! First, his name on the door-knocker! Glasses lor all beverages not served at table. There is also one new of marking matching bathroom with two cets of initials-half and with hers to hang cn one side of each towel rack, and those with his to hang on Some time I wrote an article called "Party For A Soldier On Furlough" which 1 am now having reprinted and TTUI be very glad to give to anyone sending a 3-cent stamped, envelope to in care of this paper, PERSISTENT A local motorist has a market fori his automobile any time he de -l (ides to sell.

Daily for the paslj few weeks a prospective buyer has left his name, address and thlsj note tied to the auto: "I need 2 car like yo-ois." Miss Loroa Tuck, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Edward Tuck of 80 Chatsworth Avenue, Larchmont, and Seventh Lake, N- Was married this morning at 11 o'clock to Pfc. James William Colbert, A.U.S., son of Mr. and Mrs.

Jd.me3 William Colbert of Chatsworth Garden Apartments, Larchmont. The Rev. Thomas A. Sportsmanship Means Playing Fair With Your Parents By DOROTHY DIX A group of girls asks me if I will give them my idea of a girl who Is a good sport. Well, my Idea of a girl who is a good sport is one who plays fair.

Especially with her mother and father. She doesn't take everj'thing and give nothing. She doesn't let Mother sew her Angers to the bone making her a pretty party frock and then, when Mother asks her where she is going and when she will be back, tell her it is none of her dam business and that she will come home when she pleases. She doesn't keep her father hump-shouldered paying her bills and then scoff at his opinions as thoes of a senile Dodo. On the contrary, she recognizes that her paients have worked hard and made many sacrifices for her, and that the least she can do Is to give them a run for their money by being affectionate and companionable to them and causing them as little anxiety as possible.

Has Brave Attitude My idea ot a girl who Is a good sport is one who has the brave attitude towards life. There is not a whine in her whole system. She takes what comes in her stride and makes the best of It. Maybe she would like to be a play girl Instead of a working girl. Undoubtedly she would like to wear the sUks and satins and furs and jewels she sells to rich girls.

Surely she would like to lie abed of a morning Instead of haring to punch an office time clock. But if she would, you never hear it from her. She never bemoans her fate. She thanks God she has the intelligence and ability and grit to hold down a good job. My idea ot a girl v.ho is a good sport is a square shooter.

She is honest and frank and above iward and she doesn't consider that her £ex is an alibi for fibbing and welching and double-crossing. She doesn't hold up the boys who date her and make them spend more money on her than they can afford. She doesn't jolly a poor simp Into taklrvg her to a party and then ditch him and spend the evening dancing with other men. She doesn't have a birthday every time she sees a bag or wriat watch she wants. And.

If she is a business girl, she doesn't try to make sex appeal take the place of good work, and rolling her eyes substitute for accuracy and efllciency. My idea of a girl who is a good sport is one who plays the game. She is not puffed up by prosperity nor down-hearted over misfortune. If she Is rich, she is not a snob. If she Is poor, she Is not a toady.

She is neither a braggart nor a sell- pitier. She neither runs after men nor away from them. If they show her attentions, well and good. If they don't, also weU and good. Life is full of a number of things lor her besides dates.

My idea of a girl who is a good sport Is one who carries on. She is no quitter. She doesn't sit down and wring her hands and cry every time she meets a difficulty. She doesn't give up when the sledding gets hard. She simply Ijcnds to her work and puts her heart and lier back In It and struggles on to success.

Ail ot the big business and professional women are good sports. So are the v-ives who hold their husbands. Because they don't give up the time things go wrong. That is my idea of a gocd sport; That's the girl lor my money. Before giving fii-st aid at home for any injury, don't forget to wash your hands with soap and Deegan celebrated the Nuptial Mass at St.

Augustine's Church. Breakfast followed at the Larcn- mont Shore Club. The bride, given In marriage by her lather, wore a gown ot Ivory satin with Alencon lace, long train, long tfght sleeves, modified sweetheart neckline, tight basque and panel and yoke of lace. Her tulle veil was held in place by orange blossoms which were also worn by her mother. She carried white orchids and stephanotis.

Miss Colleen Tuck, who served as maid ol nonor for her sister, wore delphinium-colored faille with matching tulle hat and carried American beauty roses. Bridesmaids were Miss Eddigard Delany and Miss Nancy Fee ol Rochester, cousins ot the bride; Mrs. Fred P. Motz ot Larchmont. twin sister of the bridegroom; Miss Celia Justice ol Grosse Pointe.

Miss Jeanne Bevier and Miss Maiy Blake ot Larchmont. All wore American beauty laillo gowns with matching hats and carried delphinium and American beauty roses. Mrs. Tuck wore a gown of sher. pink chiffon with matching hat and orchids.

The mother of the bridegroom wore a gown ot mid' crepe with contrasting hat and orchids. Bertsel D. Brandon ot Forest Hills served as best man. Ushern. ail of whom are classmates ot the bridegroom at Columbia sity, and all in military service, were J.

Howland Auchlncloss and Albert J. Stunkard of New York City; James B. Dealy of Newton Mitchell Cummins of Minevillt, N. Robert C. Masland of Carlisle.

and Mark Upson ol Cincinnati. Mrs. Colbert, a graduate of Elmiiurst, Convent of the Heart, attended National Park and Marymount Collage. Her husband, now a student at the College of Physicians and Surgeons, Columbia University, was graduated from lona School and Holy Cross College. Magna Cum Laude, Clasn of 1942.

He was a member of the Purple Key and honor societies Alpha Sigma Nu and Delta Epison Sigma. A Thought for Food SERVE JELLIED MADRILENE Jellied Madrliene FrieU Chicken Dry Ric- Broccoli Com Sticks Chilled Grapes (Recipes Serve Four) JeUied Madrliene One veal bone Mixed soup greens One clove garlic Salt and pepper to taste Three quarts water Three cups cooked tomatoes One bay loaf One teaspoon celery salt Simmer all these Ingredients gently for four or five hours. Skim several times during the process. Strain carefully through a fine sieve. Cool and remove grease.

(Add vegetable coloring if you wish it very red,) Chill thoroughly In the refrigerator. This makes four very generous portions and keeps well in the refrigerator if carefully covcretj. Th? question of whether home-made jellied soup will jell is problematical, but veal bone Is most likely to make It work. However, If you want to Insure the jelling, add one ta'olespoon of gelatin to the above, dissolving It in some of the hot soup firct. This will not make It stiff, an unbearable quality in madrliene.

Corn Sticks One cup flour One-hall cup cornmeal One-half teaspoon baking powder One tablespoon sugar One-half teaspoon salt One egg, well-beaten Three-quarter cup milk O.ic tablespoon melted margarine Mix and sift flour, cornmeal, baking pcwder, salt and sugar. Combine cse and milk and add to tha first mixture. Stir only until dry Ingredlenti arc moist. Stir in melted margarine and bake in greased com stick pans at 425 degrees for 15 to 20 minutes. (Muffin tins will do It ycu have no com stick pans.) WAR BONDS wUl bring our flighting men back home sooner.

Encourage Child In Accomplishment Of Handiworks By ANGELO PATRI "He Is such a handy boy," "Kate Is so handy about the house." That is old fashioned praise but just as desirable today as it was In our grandfather's time when "handy" was a compliment meaning gifted in handwork. Most ot what we learn about life we learn through our senses and the most effective of them all Is found in the fingers of our two hands. We touch and get the texture, temperature and weight of things. We handle them, that Is, we change them with the movements of our fingers and the feeling in them to something different and much wanted. We can take a bit of clay and make It into all kinds of useful and beautiful things.

We can take materials of all sorts and through the skill of our hands, change them into necessities ot comfortable living, it we are "handy," Intelligent in our hands. Was Taken For Granted In days gone by this hand Intelligence was taken lor granted. Only dull people were unhandy. To be called "unhandy was to be classed among the unfit. Our recent generation ot children are not allowed to be handy and so are behig cheated of a vast lund ot Intelligence.

Just check on what your children can do with their hands. List their accomplishments against the child ol 1800 and then ask what is the matter with our training ol children. When a child a skill, even as simple a one as tying a knot, he has added skUl to his touch, power to his hands, inteli- gence to his mind. Every skill he masters adds to his mental physical ability and puts him somewhat higher on the upward, lor- ward march toward success. Work Must Be Real There Is an important element In these experiences, however, and 11 it Is wanting, the work will not Junction.

The knot that is tied must be real, must be useful and necessary to the work in hand. Tying knots that are just knots along a string won't do much lor the child beyond exercising his fingers. When he ties the knot In fishllne, a hoisting pulley, a sail line or in a stanchion, he grows by the experience. That knot has to hold or something unpleasant happens. When It holds he feels pleasantly responsible and elated.

He goes up in his own estimation and that is tonic to childhood. What can your child do with his hands? Just see how handy he really is. Encourage him and praise him lor handiness keeping In mind that it Is hand Intelligence you are fostering, not getting a Job done. The good job is the reward of handiness but the real quality we seek Is the intelligence, the the skill. We cannot have too much of that.

A child can forget an old habit when you teach him a new this is the way to avoid bad habits! Angelo Patrl has written a helpful leaflet on this subject, P-10, "Changing Habits." To obtain a copy send 5 cents (coin preferred) to him. 0 this paper, P. O. Box Station G. New York 19, Y.

have a peaceful family. The same would go for the world too, I am suie." Civettinl Is the proprietor of a delicatessen store. A Mamaroneck housewife and former teacher told Mrs, John MuehlUe of 504 Chestnut Avenue, that she wondered It It were possible to keep the peace at all, "Because of the mixture of nationalities and temperaments by Europe, particularly In the Balkans," said the housewife, "wars on a small or large scale seem almost inevitable. A strict international police force? Yes-and right on the scene. Its action should not be dependent at any time upon an act of Congress," "I would like the men I vote into Congress to see that America relies on her own strength." a beauty parlor operator told Mrs.

Julius Silver of Greenhaven. "America will have to be armed to the teeth and have her muscles bulging," she continued. "That's the only way we'll be safe from enemy attack, even by robot bombe. I want one foreign country on our side, though, and that u.ll be Uncle Joe Stalin. He's winning the war for us in Europe nd he ought to have his own way on the continent but I would like him to be our friend In the future." "Let's rely on our own strength; we'll be better off" was the statement of Cnrtord Brower of 550 Mamaroneck Avenue, Interviewed by Mrs.

James Helming. Anthony Russo of the same address told her that "something has to be done. Of course a lot of people against one can win, but I still think we're better off alone." Another woman at that address declared, "We must do something to make for a lasting peace. We must all get together and work on it Otherwise you can't bring children Into this kind of a world. You have no right to, Joseph Crutcher of 1251 Flagler Drive answered Mrs.

Harvey Conover ot the same address In this manner: "By joining a union of nations we would show that we are a nation for peace and happiness. we had a union of nations we would understand what was going on. Pulling together would work better than trying to stand by our own strength. 'United we stand, divided we fair." PROPPED CP. back to back.

Betty Shiras, on the left, and Laurel Talerner. right, both of Pelham Club poor photographer, while relaxing between plunges at the Pelham Coun- Camp Fire Girls Returning Today From Last Session Eighteen Mamaroneck and Larchmont Camp Fire Girls return today from Camp Talualac. '3 Comers, N. after the final nine-day session this Summer. Mamaroneck girls arriving today at Grand Central Station are E11-- abeth Morehouse.

Barbara Oinnor, Judy Burchell, Janet Guttman, Florence Kyser, Patty Clarke. Dorothy Primrose, Madeline and Oer- aldine Twig. Helen Scherff, PaUy Billing, Anita Pavlo, Nancy Savage and Barbara Decker. Larchmont girls Included Arlene Joan Bowler, and June Lang. Eight Girls Win Day Camp Prizes For 'Enthusiasm' One girl from each group In the girls camp of the Larchmont Day Camp, Windward School, received an award of "Best Camper" recently In recognition of her "ability and enthusiasm," Armbands and certificates were presented Thursday by Dr.

Edward J. Storey, camp director, and Miss Irma Ralta. director of the girls camp at the annual end-of- the-season parent-camper picnic and entertainment. The winners Include Ann Gingrich, daughter ot Robert Gingrich, co-director of the boys camp; Roflslj'n Margoluls, Arline SchJe- nvan. Amy Sweedler, Cecile Schac- know, Maria Winterberg, Bunny Meadow and Susan Buxbaum.

Mrs. Per-Lee Wins Kickers Tourney At Bonnie Briar Fifty members and guests attended Ladles' Guest Day Friday at the Bonnie Briar Country Club, with Mrs. Jack Per-Lee of Larchmont winning the members' prize in the kicker's tournament. Mrs. Harold Herrlck ol New Rochelle won the low gross for guests.

Mrs. E. A. Beverly of Bronr- ville won the kicker's prize tor guests and Mrs. Helen Shutz of Bronxvllle won the prize for the least number ol putts for 18 holes.

Next Friday the qualifying round for the president's trophy Is scheduled. Following golf, the following Larchmbnt members entertained for bridge: Mrs. Walter Berg had as her g-jcsts Mrs. George Gibbs, Mrs. Joseph Walsh and Mrs.

Henry Mendes of Larchmont; Mrs. William B. Kuntz entertained Miss Carol McCuIlough and Miss Henrietta Fording of Pittsburgh and Ray Hamann ol New Rochelle. NIPPED BY COURT NEW YORK, (AP). Joseph ISchlelfer told a U.

S. District Court judge that he kept a supply ol alcohol on hand because he liked an "occasional nip." Agents found he had 23 gallons on hand and the court fined him $100 on a charge ot possessing untaxed alcohol. Mrs, Baum Named Low Gross Winner At Winged Foot Low gross winner in the qualifying round of the Ladies Club Championship yesterday at the Winged Foot Golf Club WELS Mrs. 5 C. Baum of Greenhaven.

First low net winner was Mrs. A. J. Dedrick of Larchmont, and second low net winner was Mrs. Ernest Freudenberg of Larchmont.

The 16 players who qualified In the championship bracket included Mrs. Baum. Miss Jeanette Bro- 'dil ot New York, Mrs. W. Bergstresser ot Greenhaven, Mrs.

R. C- Yard ol Larchmont, Mrs. Freud- fenberg, Mrs. Paul Davenport ol Mamaroneck, Mrs. Dedrick, Mrs.

Thomas A. Lyons ol Larchmont, Mrs. Donald O'Brien ol Mamaroneck. Mrs. M.

B. McHugh of New York, Mrs. David Christiansen of Mamaroneck, Mrs. Malcolm D. Simpson ol New York, Mrs.

John McGee of Harrison. Mrs. Karl Ulrich ol New York, Mrs. Fred Doolittle of White Plains, Mrs. I Owen D.

Mandeville of Larchmont. Those qualifying in the second flight were Miss Louise Struckman and Miss Olive Koch of (Larchmont, Mrs. A. C. Shipman of Bronxville, Miss June M.

Storey of New York, Mrs. John B. Barry of Larchmont, Mrs. W. F.

CarrolJ of New Rochelle, Mrs. Jamea F. Bitler of Bronxville, Mrs. John Kade! of Mamaroneck, Mrs. tor Lazo of New York, Mrs.

Andrew C. Scott of New Rochelle and MJss Katherine Kelly of New York. Matches will be played otT Monday and the finals, Thursday. PARENTS TO VISIT Mr. and Mrs.

Lewis Beyes of Sound View Gardens Apartments, Mamaroneck, expect a visit from Mrs. Beyea'a parents, Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Palmer of Watertown, N. Y.

RECUPERA'nNG James M. Peterson of 132 Chatsworth Avenue, Larchmont, is recuperating from an appendectomy at the New Rochelle Hospital. BARCIIA ON BRIDGE UNWISE PASS COSTLY 2T CAN cost you just as much to pass when you should bid as to bid when you should pass. That is especially true of opening bids. When you are vulnerable it Is especially important to bid when you have enough for a sound opening.

Failure to do so opens the door for a wily not-vuinerable opponent to begin the auction with a psychic which may talk you and your partner out of a game. Especially be sound when you are in the second hand position, just at the left of the defiler, for then your not-vulnerable foe is in the third-hand spot which is ideal for a. confusing psychic ca'i. 4Kgs A7 64 3 A 8 4 J64 QS7 4 A 10 6 4 QJ952 J4 (Dealer: West. North-South vulnerable.) West North 1, Pass Pass INT 2.

Pass 1 Pass Pass Pass Pass East Dbl South Pass Rdbl Dbl 4 Players with a penchant for trickery were in the East position at both tables ot the team match where this hand was contested. Both tried their utmost to bamboozle their opponents, but only one of them got away with it. Why? For the simple reason that North had made an Tinsound original pass. At the flrst table North was one of those players who think your cards won't take as many tricks when you are vulnerable as when you are not He therefore wants more strength for an opening bid. His fetish cost his side the deal.

After his pass, it was pretty hard for South to make a vulnerable spade ovcrcall of the heart. North could not very well bid over West's No Trump bid, and when it reached South again, he could not dare to try spades at the level ol two. Can you imagine Soutb's chagrin on contemplating North's original pass, after his side had taken the first eleven tricks? It produced a score of a dinky 250 points for his side. At the other table. East could not bamboozle the opponents after North had opened.

Your Wcck-End Question If attention has been called to your insufficient bid, what should you figure out before you make it sufficient? Distributed by King Features Syndicate, Itc. "IN WESTCHESTER EMBASSY For DISTINCTIVE DRY CLEAXING AND TAILORING 3 HOUR SERVICE FUR COATS J. REMODELED and iOfwm GLAZED as low as I FOR PROMPT SERVICEI I Call Larchmont 2-3718 I LOMUS I I.ORCUMONT Babies tiiis week-and he hasn't seen his own grandson!" the Doctor hoping to J. early, so he could take a two-hour train trip and enatch a look at Lis new 4-tlay-old grandson. But phone caught Mm again.

So now he's to deliver Mrs. Doctors have always been 'round-the-clock men. But since Pearl Uarbor, with half of our physicians in the armed forces, each civihan doctor is more in demand than ever. He ie on calJ today to an average of 1700 people. Your doctor's minutes may he lifesaving time too precious to waste.

Help him save time for people who need him urgently, for yourself in an emergency, by remembering these four hclpfid things when you are ill: PuoNE HIM nBST. Tell him as clearly as you can what's uTong. Let him decide whether ho should come to sec you, or you should go to him. Go To nna you arc able. House visits take Iota of your doctor's when someone cUe may really need him urgently; KEEP YOUR APPOTNTMENT promptly, don't postpone it; make it at his convenience, so that he can plan his crowded hours better.

FOLLOW Yoim DOCTOR'S ADVICE to the so that your trouble doesn't drag on, get com-- plicated, or need extra attention from him. SAVE YOUR DOCTOR'S TIME IN WARTIME! 329 Mamaroneck Avenue Call Mamaroneck 644.