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rum ttttttstttttti New Names in the News Dear Abby: Some sizzles from small fry Lexington residents Mr. and Mrs. Robert Haushalter are grandparents of twin boys, Thomas Edward and David Andrew Haushalter, born Aug. 1 to Mr. and Mrs.

Edward L. Haushalter of Marietta, Ga. Thomas weighed 8 pounds. Eulogio and Maria S. Alvarez of 1205 W.

Chestnut St. became parents of Lorena Alvarez Luna July 25. The 8-pound, 3'2-ounce baby is a sister of 2'2. Grandparents are Jose M. and Emilia Luna of 804 N.

Linden St. and Rodolfo and Maria R. Alvarez of 1205 W. Chestnut St. and Gail Hudson of El Paso and James and Betty Ann Wilkey of rural Secor.

Jessica Rae Puddy is the name chosen by Robert and Gwen Puddy of 720A W. Jefferson St. for their July 19 arrival. rShe weighed 9 pounds, 4 ounces and is a sister of Nathan Allen, HVi months. Maternal grandparents are Gary Bray of 1205 S.

Oak St. and Linda and James Jackson of 1711 W. Illinois St. Paternal grandparents are Marlene Brooks of San Jose, and Judy and Al Puddy of Oran, Mo. Jessica shares her middle name with her mother.

Sarah Elizabeth Bruehl, 21 months, has a new sister, Stephannie Anne Bruehl, born July 27 to their parents, Bob and Missy Bruehl of 89 Lunar Drive, R.R. 4. Pat Paul of 125 Southgate Estates, Fred Myers of McComb, and Gloria Bruehl of Saybrook are grandparents of the 7-pound, 7-ounce arrival. Mr. and Mrs.

John L. Thompson of rural Pontiac are parents of their first child, Jessica Eileen Thompson, born July 25. She weighed 9 pounds, 2 ounces and shares her middle name with her maternal grandmother. Mr. and Mrs.

James C. Rickey of Decatur and Mr. and Mrs. Durward Thompson of Chatsworth are grandparents. Dennis and Tina Simmons of LeRoy named their new daughter Debbie Marie Simmons.

She was born July 23 and weighed 9 pounds, 9 ounces. Debbie is a sister of Bradley, Michael, and Crystal, 10 months. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Loren Rogers and Mr.

and Mrs. Gene Simmons, all of LeRoy. She shares her middle name with her mother and maternal grandmother. Her brother, Bradley, named her. DEAR ABBY: I'm a 14-year-old girl and have put down on paper what my friends (boys, too) think are some good Do" and Don'ts for If you think they are worth printing, a lot of teen-agers will thank FAN DEAR FAN: Your Do's and Don'ts for Parents" are well worth the space in my column.

Here they are: Don't ever search your kid's room while he is at school, work. etc. Don't choose their friends for them. Don't read their diary or personal letters, etc. Don't give your child's things to another child without checking with the owner first.

11 you're divorced, don't ask your child why they love the other parents, or try to talk him out of loving the other one. Don't ever tell your kid that if he's not satisfied with the situation at home he can pack his bags and go. If your child is adopted, don't tell him that if he doesn't behave you will send him back Don't always make them bring a "tag-along" i younger brother or sister) wherever they go. Don't embarrass them by putting them down in public or in front of friends. Don't keep telling them how hard things were when you were a kid.

Don't call them names That really hurts a kid. Don't yell at a smaller kid. or hit him because he dropped, spilled or broke something. Nine times out of 10 it was an accident and lie's already sorry for doing it If you are having an argument, let your kid talk, too DO tell them you are sorry, or that you make a mistake once in a while, i Nobody's perfect Not even parents DO hug your kid and tell him in words that you love him. DEAR ABBY: I took your advice and went to a psychiatrist.

Let me tell you Vt I ff Mrs. Romano HJ George-Romano ff- Peggy L. George of Clinton became r'-'. 1 tho hriHo nf Nifhnlae Rnmann nf Peggy L. George of Clinton became the bride of Nicholas M.

Romano of 4 ounces and David weighed 7 pounds, 12 ounces. They have a 2-year-old brother, Stephen Robert. Robert Gundlach of Winnetka also is a grandparent. Tara Beth Mileham is the July 26 arrival for Richard and Sherry Mileham of Lincoln. She weighed 8 pounds, 14 ounces and Tiffany Ann, 5, is her sister.

Grandparents are Francis and Helen Cline of Decatur and Claude Mileham of Lincoln. Randy L. and Gwendolyn P. Wilkey of Secor are parents of Amanda Leigh Wilkey, born July 29, weighing 7 pounds, 12 ounces. She shares her middle name with her father.

Grandparents are Oren LIVING Today Pantagraph A-9 Bloomington- Normal, III. Aug. 4, 1979 ft- Julie Gritton, Mark Lundvick exchange vows PAXTON-Julie Ann Gritton and Mark Kenneth Lundvick, both of Peoria, were married in a 1:30 p.m. ceremony July 28 at St. Mark Church in Peoria.

A reception was held at Holiday Inn in East Peoria. Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Gritton of rural Paxton and Shirley Lundvick and Kenneth Lundvick of Des are parents of the couple. The bride was attended by Lisa Gritton, Valerie Heintz and Kristina Lundvick.

Attending the bridegroom were James Heintz, John Fricke and Mike Ricci. The newlyweds are graduates of Bradley University. Mrs. Lundvick has a bachelor's degree in nursing and is employed by Methodist Hospital in nutrition support services. Her husband is employed by Brown's Sporting Goods in Peoria in retail sales.

After a wedding trip to the Ozarks, they will reside at 2228 W. Reservoir St. in Peoria. The Granachers Spray photo Granacher rite read at Epiphany Phyllis Jean Stockley became the bride of Vincent Paul Granacher July 14 at Epiphany Catholic Church in Normal. Parents of the couple are Mary A.

Stockley of Serena, Herbert D. Stockley Sr. of Ottawa and Mary Ann Granacher of Normal. The new Mrs. Granacher will graduate from Illinois State University in December after completing her student teaching in Ottawa.

Granacher has a bachelor's degree in accounting from Illinois Wesleyan University and is a graduate student in business at ISU. He is employed as an accountant by Borg Warner Corp. in Ottawa. The couple will reside in Ottawa. iii.j mi .1 in i jjiiiijumh I JJ Ashley Eugene Price was born to Robin Denise Price of 1105 N.

Evans St. July 28. He weighed 6 pounds, 1 ounce and is a grandson of Owen and Janet Price of 306 S. Low St. Sarah Ann Field is the first child of Michael and Emily Field of Gridley.

The new baby was born July 27 'and weighed 7 pounds, 2Vj ounces. Her grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Carroll Nelson of rural Sheridan and Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth Field of Pontiac. Mrs. Russell Umstattd photo Wall-Russell Janice Marie Wall of 1108 W. Mill St. and Jerry T.

Russell of Bloomington exchanged wedding vows in a 1:30 p.m. ceremony Sunday at Grace United Methodist Church. A reception was held at Sinorak. Cindy Barlow and Steven Wall were attendants. Mr.

and Mrs. James Gibson Sr. of the Mill Street address and Mr. and Mrs. William T.

Russell of .135 Park City South are parents of the couple. The bride is a graduate of Bloomington High School and is employed by Osco Drug Store in Four Seasons Square. Her husband attended BHS and is a merchandise manager. They will reside in The Orwigs Haycock photo Debra Renee Huff becomes bride MINIER (PNS)-Debra Renee Huff, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Keith Ray Huff of Minier, and Kenneth S. Orwig of Delavan were married July 7 at First Assembly of God Church in Minier. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Orwig of Delavan are parents of the bridegroom.

The couple are residing in Delavan. Orwig is a graduate of Delavan High School and is employed as an agent for Robert Orwig Insurance Agency. The bride graduated from Olympia High School. "Pepsi Nothing bugging some readers wwww, what happened. The psychiatrist has more problems than I have.

In three visits I knew all about his lousy marriage, his rotten kids and his childhood hangups. I thought a psychiatrist was supposed to let the patient talk, but all mine did was talk about himself. I tried to tell him about my sleepless nights, my feelings of loneliness and frequent depressions, but he always turned the conversation back to himself. When it comes time for me to leave, I'm so frustrated I can hardly wait to get out of his office. I told my husband all of the above and he said maybe that was the doctor's way of making me feel that my problems weren't so heavy after all.

Is this the way psychiatrists operate? Or did I pick a lemon? How many more sessions do you think I should have to give him a fair chance to help me with mv problems? He charges $40 for 50 minutes. -BEWILDERED IN BRENTWOOD DEAR BEWILDERED: It appears that your psychiatrist needs a psychiatrist. Inform him at your next session that you have decided to see another therapist. Tell him why, and encourage him to seek help from a colleague. If you need help in selecting another therapist, consult your county medical society, your family doctor or your local mental health association.

Do not continue with a therapist you're not comfortable with. CONFIDENTIAL TO "FERTILE MYRTLE IN PITTSFIELD, You are very wise to take no chances. According" to the Guinness Book of Records, the oldest woman to give birth was Ruth A. Kistler of Glendale. Calif.

She had a baby girl in October 1956 when she was 57 years and 129 days old. But records can be broken So, to all sexually active menopausal mamas, the word from here is. "Tenga cuidado." in Spanish. "Sei vorsichtig" in German. "Ostotozhno" in Russia and "Be careful" in English! What's bugging you? everything a girl could want, I am a very happy girl.

Sincerely, Cathy. Dear Loretta: I am sorry I don't have a problem. I'm having a good life without any problems. I am a lucky guy having no problems. Sincerely, Lucky Guy (age 10).

Dear Anastacia, Daid, Cindy, Miss Happy, Cathy and Lucky Guy: You are right, you are lucky and I'm delighted to hear that you realize it. As you can see, I have devoted a whole column to your letters, because I believe that most of us would find our lives could be better if we would take notice of the good things around us instead of concentrating and 'complaining about the bad things. There is always another way to look at what seems to be a problem. Please don't wish for problems. I'm happy to hear from you anytime with or without them.

Love, Loretta. Something bugging you? Loretta will listen to you. Write Loretta Long at The Pantagraph, Bloomington, 111. 61701. Cootie auxiliary to hear reports Reports on the July chicken dinner, the eighth supreme convention and council of administration meeting held in Chicago will be heard at the 8 p.m.

Wednesday meeting of The Military Order of Cootie Auxiliary at the VFW Post Home. Cars will leave the post home at 6:10 p.m. Aug. 21 for a scheduled trip to Lincoln Developmental Center. JERRY WILSON "Is your homeowners insurance as valuable as your home?" 1112 E.

(Mi. AMERICAN FAMILY 829-3391 AUTO HOm tALTM Iff 15 Discount On New Homes 9 Mokena in a 2 p.m. ceremony July 28 at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Clinton. A buffet reception was held poolside at the home of Mr.

and Mrs. Fred Murphy of McLean, uncle and aunt of the bride. Janet Harrington was matron of honor and bridesmaids were Barbara House and Ann Dentino. Mike Herzog was best man and groomsmen were Jerry Morgan and Mike Conte. Ushers were Scott Marten and Tom Murphy.

Parents of the couple are Margaret George of Clinton and the late Lester C. George and Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Romano of Chicago. The bride is a graduate of Illinois State University.

She has a master's degree in special education and will be an early childhood teacher in Lockport. Romano, also a gradute of ISU, has a master's degree in special education and a specialist degree in educational administration. He is a learning disabilities resource teacher at Victor J. Andrew High School in Tinley Park. They will reside in Lockport.

Vicki Barth honored at shower MINONK (PNS) A miscellaneous shower in honor of Vicki Barth was held Tuesday at St. Paul's United Church of Christ. Prizewinners at games were Arlene Johnson, Barbara Isaiah and Monica Dornbush. The future bride's aunts were hostesses. Miss Barth will become the bride of Gary Hovey Aug.

24. Pinochle winners EMDEN (PNS) Pinochle winners when the East Side Pinochle Club met at the home of Marie Barry Tuesday night were Agnes Marten, first; Helen Wiebers, second; and Dorothy Eeten, third. To host brides-to-be A "nearly-wed party" for engaged girls will be hosted by Welcome Wagon at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday at Central Station. Adrienne Hixon, 662-5693, and Shirley Pople, 452-4169, are accepting calls for more information and reservations.

Pride of The Holloways Vermillion photo McCaughey, Holloway rite read Carolyn McCaughey of 111 N. Orr Drive, Normal, and John Holloway of 1405 Hanson Drive, Normal, were married in a 3:30 p.m. ceremony July 28 at Cullom United Methodist Church. A dinner reception was held at the Palamar in Pontiac. The bride is a daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Merle McCaughey of Saunemin and the bridegroom is a son of the Rev. and Mrs. Jack Holloway of Colona. Ellen McCaughey was maid of honor.

Cheryl Telford, Carol Gosteli and Judy Turney were bridesmaids. Ken Drilling was best man. Groomsmen were Mike Holloway, Greg Holloway and Kevin Gray. Greg Neumann, Al Whitman and Jeff Strachan were ushers. The bride is a graduate of Saunemin High School and Illinois Wesleyan University.

She is a Unit 5 teacher at Hudson. The bridegroom is a graduate of Blackhawk College and is attending Illinois State University. He is employed by Modine. They are residing at the bridegroom's address. Robin Swank Young photo Swank-Hendry Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Thurman and Mr. and Mrs. Robert Swank of Galesburg announce the engagement of their daughter, Robin Ann Swank, to C. Richard Hendry, son of the Rev.

and Mrs. Carl Hendry of Maroa. They plan an Oct. 6 wedding at Grace United Methodist Church in LaSalle. 4 By Loretta Long Dear Readers: The following letters offer a change of pace from my usual j'mail: Dear Loretta: I am 10 years old, I don't even have a problem.

Well, I'm in the fourth grade. 1 see you every day in "Sesame Street." Bye, Loretta. Sin-l cerely, Anastacia. Dear Loretta: I am 8'z years old and I have no problems at all and I have a good life and I never want to have any problems. I had a problem but it stopped now.

Sincerely, David. Dear Loretta: I am a girl who is 9 years old. I am in the 4th grade and don't have a problem at all. I must be lucky to not have a problem. I wish I had a problem so you could help me with it but when I have a problem will write back to you.

Cindy. Dear Loretta: I am 9 years old and I am happy and I have no problems. I am a sorry I have no problems to share, but .11 have everything I want Sincerely, Miss Happy. Dear Loretta: I am a very lucky girl. I don't have a problem.

I only have one 1 very little problem. My little problem is I am chubby and people call me fat. But I am on a diet. My mother said that it's 1 baby fat and I'll grow out of it. I have hope that I'll be skinny some day.

So I don't really think that's a problem. I am sorry I don't have a problem. I have Wins at bridge Ella Windisman, 306 Hershey Road, was a section leader in the charity game -at the American Contract Bridge "League's 1979 Summer North American Championship Tournament, still in progress in Las. Vegas, Nev. Bridge winners Mrs.

Homer Swartz and Mrs. John Schlosser were winners at Woman's Club Card Club Thursday at the YMCA. Hostesses for 'next week's game at 1 p.m. are Mrs. H.L.

Alverson and Mrs. Fred Wolff. Salesman for July 1979 Heritage Club plans games at church Members of Heritage club will meet at quet and table games on the church lawn 1:30 p.m. Wednesday at First United is planned for persons 55 years old and Methodist Church in Normal. An after- over.

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