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at on a he my I've a of besides. 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 isn't to I of or can't this your one to This 15 THE FRESNO BEE Sunday. Oct 19, 1980 C9 Engagements SCHARTON-LANE Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Lindsey wish to announce the engagement of their daughter, Jane Lynn Scharton to Craig Eldon Lane.

The future bride is graduate of Bullard High School. the son of The groom is Mr. and Mrs. Bev Lane of Loveland, Colorado. Her fiance is a graduate of Campion Academy in Loveland, Colorado and is affiliated with Kings Canyon Dental Lab of Fresno.

Jane and Craig are planning a Dec. wedding at the Central Adventist Church. Pastor Helmer Heghasan of Corrales, COSTELLO New Mexico, brother-inMcCLOSKEY law of the groom, will offi. Mr. and Mrs.

David ciate at the ceremony Costello are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter, Lisa, to Scott McCloskey. A March 14, 1981 wedGRUSIS-TOSCANO ding is planned. A Valentine's Day Lisa is a graduate of being Wedding is planned Hoover High and is attendfor Virginia Grusis and ing FCC. She is employed Amador Toscano Jr by Valley Medical Center The engagement was Her fiance, son of Mr. announced at a family and Mrs.

Robert McClosbuffet dinner held the key, is also a graduate of bride's parent's home Hoover High. He attended the 17th of October Reedley City College and the The future bride is is employed by Jim Masdaughter of Mr. and Mrs. tro Plumbing. James Grusis.

After attending Fresno City College, she is a candidate for December graduation at California State University, Fresno in speech pathology. She is employed Gardner's Shoes. The prospective bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Amador Toscano Sr.

He is completing courses at Fresno City College for air conditioning, heating and sheet metal. He is currently employed at Fisher Indus- This girl is aching for a guy without job, money, hope AHL-HOUCK The marriage of Cynthia Dawn Ahl and Tom Houck took place on June 7, 1980, in a garden wedding at the home of the bridegroom's parents. Performing the double ceremony was George Gilchrist of the First Prebyterian Church of Fresno. The bride is the daughter of Mr. Mrs.

William Ahl. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. Mrs. Burl Houck. Peggy Millar was chosen as the bride's maid honor and Patty Micheli was the bride's matron of honor.

Bridesmaids Barbara included Michele Ahl, sisterof the bride, Johnson, Jackie Knowlton, sister of the bride, of Middleburg, Virginia, Debbie Martinez, Mary Avila and Angie Verburg. The best man was Kelly Di Pento. The ushers were Ed Houck, brother of groom, Dave Houck, brother of the groom, John Ahl, brother of the bride, Dean Brown, Bill Bopp, Brad Di Pento, Dave Lampe and Steve Dietrich of Pasadena. The ringbearer was John Ahi nephew the bride. Claudia Stone was the flower girl.

Serving as candlelighter for the ceremony was Jessica Ahl, niece of the bride. The vocalists were Twinkle Peterson of Morgan Hill, cousin of the bride and Syd Highley of San Francisco. The reception was also held in the garden which included a buffet dinner and music by Show Case. The bride is a graduate of Central Union High School and Fresno City College and is employed by Standard Rent-A-Car; Inc. The bridegroom is also a graduate of Central Union High School and Fresno State University and is a C.P.A.

employed by Arthur Young Co. The newlyweds are now residing in Sanger after a honeymoon in the Caribbean. Chwastek of Ansbach, Germany. The groom, who recently completed 7 years in the U.S. Army, is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. James Thompson, Sr. of Fresno. Following a honeymoon to the Grand Canyon, the couple will make their home in Fresno. STONERRebecca Anne Stoner and Philip A.

Lucas were married in an outdoor ceremony on the campus of San Francisco State University. Judge Louis Garcia of S.F. officiated. Tina Corkery of San Luis Obispo, fiancee of the bride's brother, was maid of honor. Matthew Stoner of Anaheim, brother of the CHWASTEK-THOMPSON bride, was best man.

Ruth Alice Chwastek Classical selections became the wife of James were performed by memWilliam Thompson, Jr. on bers of the S.F. ConservaAug. 30 in the Northgate tory of Music. Church of the Nazarene, The bride is the daughEl Paso, Texas.

Rev. ter of Mr. and Mrs. James Archie Hoffpauir per- Stoner of Clovis. She is a formed the ceremony.

A graduate Clovis High reception will be held Oct. and S.F. State Univ. She is 25 at the home of the employed by Citizen's groom's parents. The Savings in Daly City.

couple chose Mrs. Vicki The groom is the son of Little as matron of honor Mr. and Mrs. John Lucas and Mr. George Little as of Daly City.

He is a gradbest man. The bride wore uate of Highland Park a cream color blazer and High in Highland Park, Illinois and attends skirt with lavender blouse S.F. State Univ. He is and carried a bouquet of employed by Chanslor and pastel flowers. Lyons, Inc.

The bride is the daughThe couple will reside in ter of Mr. and Mrs. Pacifica. DIEZ-DANIELE Susan Diez and James Daniele were married September 13 at Our Lady of Victory Catholic Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Manuel Diez of Fresno and is a graduate of Fresno High School. James, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Daniele Fresno, is a graduate of Fresno High School and attended Fresno City College.

COUGHLIN-FOWLER Kristen Coughlin and Daniel Fowler were married July 26 in Fullerton. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Coughlin of Fresno. The groom is the son of Mrs.

Doris Fowler of Fullerton. Both are graduates of Fullerton High and Fullerton College. She is attending Cal State, Fullerton and he co owner of Central Printers in La Habra. The couple is making their home in Fullerton following a honeymoon in Hawaii. -NORRIS Mary Shelton Kerr and Timothy Garrett Norris are engaged and planning to be married December 27 in El Paso, Texas.

The future bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Crawford S. Kerr, Jr. of El Paso.

She graduated from El Paso High School and earned a B.B.A. de. gree in Finance at at the University of Texas El Paso. She is affiliated with the Zeta Tau Alpha soronty. She is currently study ing for a degree in Ac.

counting. fiance 1S the son of Mrs. George McCready of and Albert G. Fresno, San Francisco. Tim graduated from Bullard High School and Fresno City College.

He attended Fresno State University where he was an All-American golfer and Athlete of the Year in 1980. He is now a professional golfer. DEAR HELEN: I wonderful guy a month has no job, car, money hope of getting any. He family problems and quiet so it's hard to things with him. met ago.

He or much also has Helen is very discuss Help Us He asked me to have sex with him but so far I've refused, By Helen Bottel though I want to. The trouble is. hasn't asked me to be his lady We've never gone out together, even on a moneyless DEAR NEEDING: Do this date I'm sure we love he doesn't mess other girls. How do be man? We're school. ACHING letter clip your poignant and pin each other.

it to your mother's pillow. around with In a large, busy family, the I get him to quiet "not often outgoing' both out gets lost. Perhaps parents FOR HIM think you don't need them be. cause you express your love in words. May this column DEAR AFH: Our question.

bring you much closer together! do you want a with fellow HELEN What who has no job, little ambition, won't take you out even on moneyless date, and expects sex with no commitment? DEAR HELEN: anTyper Janet who Smarten up, sister! swers tired of dialing for her ableHELEN bodied boss. agree: Unless person's fingers are broken, 17 there any reason why he DEAR HELEN: I'm at West Side dial can't push telephone. vear-old senior buttons. When he expects his Senior High School and all secretary let her fingers do want is my parents' love the walking, he's wasting her Though I have seven brothers time, and he's being pretentious and sisters, I'm very lonely SECRETARY Lite may turn out rewarding to me but I don't want to savor my triumphs by myself. They're to be shared, and my parents just DEAR HELEN: As a boss' to care.

already who his don't seem asks secretary "Getwon honors at school. No one at so-and-so the line," I must dishome pays any attention. agree with "Typer Jane. She's think I'm a warm, respect- paid to let her fingers do the I able, responsible and intelligent walking and saves me valubut not very outgoing. able time.

don't need the a agperson, I'll be off for college soon (sev- gravation tracing someone. en years, thank but be- down via phone calls when my I leave I want things to be secretary is available for that fore at home, and to know I'm task. BOSS right loved. Natalie Cole said "Hold on and don't look back." How can I Got a problem? Or a subject hold on where there's nothing when to I for discussion? Direct your hold to, or not look back questions to Helen Bottel, King want so badly for my parents to Features Syndicate, 235 E. 45th look at me? New York, N.

Y. 10017. How can I make them see I am desperately NEEDING LOVE BUT HELPLESS King Features Syndicate, Inc. Anniversaries DAVIS Jim and Pauline Davis celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary Oct. 5 at the Garden House Tea Room.

More than 40 rela- DEMES tives and friends enjoyed Lucille and Amil Demes the buffet dinner. celebrated their 50th Out of town relatives and guests Sept. 19, 1980. included their Wedding Anniversary on son, Dale and Monique The festive occasion Davis and sons from Las hosted their chilVegas, Nevada. Brother, dren, Max and was by Martha Leland and Mary Stevens, and Mike and Nan Stevens, Louie and Demes.

Tables for Flaming Sula Zaninovich, eight were arranged in the Harold Carolyn and Carolyn Shields. Erling and garden of the Flaming Theresa residence, and a buffet The couple was dinner was served to 60 married Aug. resided in Fresno 60 years. guests. 10, 1930 and have The couple was honored Mr.

Davis and Electric with a champagne toast by retired from Pacific Gas Max Flaming. Ferol StanCo. and real estate. They ton acted as master of have been spending ceremonies. Fresh fruit their retirement traveling ex- and candles were used as tensively South East Asia in centerpieces with large and will depart floral arrangements on the November.

serving tables. Amil served as a Narcotic agent in the District Attorney's Office of Fresno County for 37 years. Many of the guests had amusing anecdotes to relate about his experiences. Amil and Lucille were married in 1930 in Reno, Nevada. Their four grandchildren were also present at the celebration, Mark and Stacey Flaming and Michelle and Noah Demes.

It's your wedding It's your wedding and now it's your choice of what the wedding story and picture, should include. The Fresno publish free an announcement of your wedding, but if you want to include a picture of the bride or the couple, or other details about that special day, call The Bee's bridal desk, 441-6141, for information on paid announcements. Details on paid engagement and anniversary announcements are available through the same number. FABRIC SALE OCT.19 THRU NOV.1 Toni Lynn Coito and Douglas Rosendahl were married Aug. 9 in the Lutheran Church of Easton.

The bride chose Mary Vernava as her matron of honor. Her bridesmaids were Terri Sandridge, cousin of the bride, Deby Rosendahl, sister of the groom and Debi Ramentas. Kari Quintana, niece of the bride, was flower girl. Best man for the groom was Mark Vernava. Scott Coito, brother of the bride, and Brian and Chris Rosendahl, cousins of the groom, were ushers.

Cindy Christensen and Leesa Mendes were candlelighters and the guestbook was attended by Carolyn Clay. Shirley Chase was vocalist. Toni is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Cliff Coito.

She is a graduate of Washington Union High School and FCC. She is employed by Rutter Armey Inc. Doug is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Stan Rosendahl.

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