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V1N39VIAI yiQVia ZOZlH- 3N33S 3383VS Tuesday, November 1 2, 2002 The Sacramento Bee E3 Coming Distractions No ticket, no lines: Joe Carnahan's latest film can be viewed online Street in Sacramento. The panel will meet in Classroom C. For more information: (916) 442-6210. Deck the arenas: It hasn't been widely promoted outside of broadcasts on The End (107.9 FM), but tickets went on sale Sunday for the station's annual Christmas concert, Jingle Ball, Dec. 14 at Arco Arena.

Starring the Goo Goo Dolls and co-starring Default, the tickets are at Ticketmaster.com. Sacramento director Joe Carnahan's second movie, "Narc," opens next month and is, according to the New York Times, the film that Hollywood is buzzing about. Tom Cruise is executive producer, and Carnahan is said to be on the short list for an Oscar But you don't have to wait until December to Mather Field in Rancho Cordova. And you don't have to go to a movie theater to see the film; just go to www.bmwfilms.com and follow the links to watch it online. The film is essentially a commercial for automobile manufacturer BMW, which funded it, but it's a very low-key approach that has the endorsement of some of the biggest filmmakers around: Guy Ritchie, Ang Lee, John Woo and John Frankenheimer have all made similar films for BMW.

Napster this: The next time you download music off the Internet, you may want contemplate the ethics of taking music that someone spent years making, without giving them anything in return. Then again, you might not. But Sacramento-based California Lawyers for the Arts wants you to at least think about it, and to that end the group is hosting a panel discussion tonight at McGeorge School of Law in Oak Park. Nationally known figures such as Jonathan Poneman of SubPop Records (the indie label that introduced Nirvana), musician Alan Sparhawk of Low and other representatives of various music interests will be present for "The Ethics of Digital Downloading" at 6 p.m. Tickets are free to students with ID, $5 for members of California Lawyers for the Arts and the Music Industry Consortium of Sacramento, and $15 for the general public.

McGeorge is at 3200 Fifth Ave. near 32nd Sacramento BeeLeilani Hu Joe Carnahan see Carnahan's work, because his newest film, "Ticker," is already "out." An 872-minute short starring Clive Owen, Don Cheadle, F. Murray Abraham and Ray Liotta, it was filmed on the Foresthill Bridge near Auburn and at Share entertainment tips, news and rumors with The Bee's David Barton at (916) 321-1075 or at dbarton sacbee. com. Jazz high notes Too often, the instrumental side of music-making feels like a boys club.

But this week two outstanding players have back-to-back engagements at Yoshi's Jazz House in Oakland's Jack London Square. Highly regarded Renee Rosnes finally leads her own quartet tonight and tomorrow night after years of coming to the West Coast as a supporting player. Having played with Joe Henderson, Bobby Hutcherson, J.J. Johnson and Wayne Shorter, Rosnes has an understated lyrical style with solos becoming roller coast ers of intensity and thoughtful dimen Following Rosnes into Yoshi's is Marian McPartland, a classy veteran admired as much for her unlikely staying power as her determined jazz advocacy. Though McPartland and her trio are more traditionalists than Rosnes and company, that doesn't make her stuffy.

She continually shows her open approach to contemporary jazz players on her weekly syndicated "Piano Jazz" program on NPR. Yoshi's shows are at 8 and 10 p.m. Tickets for Rosnes are $16 Tuesday and Wednesday; half price for 10 p.m. shows. For McPartland, tickets are $18 Thursday, $22 Friday and Saturday; half price at 10 p.m.

Thursday and Friday. Ivan Otis Renee Rosnes sions. Her lyricism dominates this year's intriguing release "Life on Earth," a sensual, globe-trotting affair with African, Asian and South American musicians contributing distinctive rhythms and textures. Convinc ing support comes from her drummer-husband, Billy Drummond, and saxophonist Walt Weiskoph. Both join her at Yoshi's along with classy bassist Peter Wash ington for what promises to be two dynamic evenings.

Prices for the 2 p.m. Sunday matinee are $5 for kids, $10 for adult with one kid, $16 general and $20 for the 8 p.m. show. At Yoshi's Jazz House, 510 Embarcadero West, Oakland. Information: (510) 238-9200 or yoshis yoshis.

com. Marcus Crowder Reach him at mcrowdersacbee.com Birthday bash Sacramento's oldest radio station turns 80 this year, so KFBK (AM 1530) celebrated last weekend with a little bit of nostalgia and a whole lot of Rush Limbaugh. Last Friday, a crowd of 1,300 turned out for the birthday bash at the downtown Hyatt Regency. Attendees were treated to memorabilia and audio clips detailing the station's eight decades. Also on the agenda were dinner and guest speakers, including current KFBK personalities Tom Sullivan, Kitty O'Neal and Limbaugh, whose first successful radio show was broadcast from the station in the '80s.

"The weather was lousy and parking was a bit of a hassle downtown, but it was warm, friendly and familial with Rush and 1,300 of his closest friends (inside)," says Ken Kohl, the operations manager and program director for both KFBK and KSTE (650 AM). Limbaugh talked about his memories of Sacramento. He talked about the recent national elections. He talked about President Bush and the Democrats. When all was said and done, he had talked for nearly two hours, Kohl says.

"He looked at his watch in shock," Kohl recalls. KFBK began broadcasting in 1922 as "KVQ" in order to sell radios for its owner, Hobrecht Electric. Since then, it has been home to live music, sports (it was the home of Sacramento's original minor-league baseball team, the Solons) and plenty of breaking news, including the infamous flood of 1986, which literally came to the station's doorstep, Kohl says. "We actually had guys in rowboats broadcasting from the parking lot." Weekend box office Weekend Total receipts Weeks in receipts (Millions) release (Millions) Title Associated Press Rush Limbaugh It has also gone through a number of owners, including the McClatchy which publishes The Bee. Clear Channel Communications acquired the station in 1998.

Though Limbaugh no longer broadcasts from Sacramento, his show can still be heard on KFBK weekdays and Saturdays from 9 a.m. to noon, Saturday nights from 10 p.m.-l a.m. and Sunday nights from 1 1 p.m. to 2 a.m. With those kinds of numbers, it's clear Sacramento is listening and, judging by Limbaugh's speech Friday night, the feeling is mutual, Kohl says.

"He made more lifelong friends in his four years in Sacramento than any other place in his life," Kohl says. "Because of that, he has this deep, everlasting connection with the station and the city. 1.8 Mile $51.2 1 $51.2 2. The Santa Clause 2 $24.7 2 $60 3. The Ring $51.5 4 $85.6 4.

1 Spy $8.8 2 $24.5 5. Jackass $7.1 3 $53.2 6. My Wedding $5.8 30 $192.9 7. Sweet Home Alabama $3.8 7 $118.5 8. Ghost Ship $3.1 3 $26.2 9.

Femme Fatale $2.7 1 $3.4 10. Frida $2.7 3 $4.5 Associated PressBob Marshak Greg Kane Reach him at gkanesacbee.com Eminem stars in "8 Mile." Exhibitor Relations Co. Inc. Today's Cruel hunt for a loser' turns up a lover boy Rainy day ideas New videos released this week include "Bad Company," featuring Chris Rock as an identical twin of a murdered CIA man; "The Importance of Being Earnest" stars Reese Witherspoon; and "Star Wars: Episode II -Attack of the Clones" focuses on a young Jedi knight who will one day become Darth Vader. Family program Puppeteer Jim Jayes presents "Toyland on Strings" at the North HighlandsAntelope Library.

When: 3:30 p.m. Where: 4235 Antelope Road, Antelope Cost: Free Information: (9 1 6) 264-2700 Either way, the last thing you want is to compound your cruelty by sharing it with him unabridged. Even if he does laugh it off or at least forgive, I can't see anyone ever forgetting what it's like to hear, "When I needed a loser, you were my No. 1 choice. At the same time, if the falling for him is real, he deserves to know what you are capable of.

We all have evil thoughts, but you pursued them through victim selection. Wow. Knowing full well you might lose him, tell him what you did in less devastating words: You were tired and embittered, and went out with him because he seemed easy to be with and safe and then he wound up showing you that maybe those things were the whole point of being in love. Tell him he helped you grow up. Your friend may blab do you trust her not to? But you'll be better for being out front.

E-mail "Tell Me About tellmewashpost.com; fax: (202) 334-5669; or write: "Tell Me About It, co Washington Post Style Plus, 11501 5th St. NW, Washington, D. C. 20071 Chat online with Carolyn Hax at 9 a.m. Fridays at www.washingtonpost.com.

DEAR CAROLYN: I did a horrible thing. Friend and I had bad breakups at about the same time, so we decided to have a "least eligible bachelor" contest. The goal was to find a "loser," get him to fall for us and then dump him. I've been seeing my "loser" for six weeks now. And, since I've been acting like a dumb teenager, in classic teen movie fashion I've actually started to fall for him.

He's smart, and funny, and kind, and treats me with more tenderness and respect than any guy I've ever been with. The only "loser" thing about him would be that he's overweight (and maybe that he's involved with me, the real loser here) and of course now I don't find his weight unattractive, I think of him as a big teddy bear. The obvious problem is whether and or how to come clean with him. I feel he has a right to know and I want our relationship to be built on solid ground. Any advice would be appreciated, and, yeah, I do realize I probably don't deserve such a good guy.

Maryland DEAR MARYLAND: Too bad, because I would have enjoyed telling you that. You took so many (hard-earned) shots at yourself that you didn't leave any for me. Well, not many: I would like to make a small correction. Likening Tell Me About It By Carolyn Hax yourself to a dumb teenager is an insult to dumb teenagers. What you and your friend did was breathtakingly cruel, and forgivable only with more information.

Would you be so hard on yourself now, for example, if this guy didn't turn out to be great? Is cruelty only wrong when the victim is someone you like? Do you still think fat people are "losers" until they prove themselves to you otherwise? Did your friend have her own bout with shame, or did she follow through with the plan? And if she gleefully stomped a guy's heart, what did you say to her then? In what other ways are you ruthless, assuming this can't be the first? The answers to these aren't for me, which is a good thing, because I'm talking to a screen. They're for you, to help you decide whether you really have been enlightenedor whether your guilt andor his kindness are the only reasons you've stayed. Musical note The 25th annual Festival of New American Music hosts the San Francisco Contemporary Music Players, with David Milnes conducting. When: 8 p.m. Where: Music Recital Hall, CSUS, 6000 St.

Cost: Free Information: (9 1 6) 278-5 1 55 Associated PressTouchstone Pictures Chris Rock stars in "Bad Company." The Rage rages on DJ Dan mixes today's hottest new tracks during his new CD release tour. When: Doors open at 9 p.m. Where: 1 890 Arden Way Cost: 1 0 for ages 2 1 and older, 1 2 forages 18-20 Information: (916) 929-0232 For more listings of things to do, see Friday Ticket, Sunday Ticket and sacticket.com. Linda Black's VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept.

22) Today is a 6 What you've been working on has not been overlooked. You're attracting attention, and that could lead to more work. Better enlist a partner who can help with some of your other duties. LIBRA (Sept. 2 3-Oct.

22 Today is a 7 Check again to make sure everybody's on the right track. Let them know what they've accomplished and what's expected next. Your team can win if everyone is after the same goal. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov.

21)- Today is a 5 It may feel as if you're talking to a brick wall. The person you want to convince is pretty firmly set. Try listening instead. That may take him or her by surprise and allow you to get a point across. SAGITTARIUS (Nov.

22-Dec. 21 Today is a 6 -You've been making all kinds of changes lately, so why not a renovation at home? It's worth discussing with the family. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 1 9) Today is an 8 -Worries about business soon fade, as your curiosity takes you down a new path.

Don't invest in more than your own education for a while. You've got a lot to learn. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 1 8) Today is a 6 Considering how intelligent you are, money shouldn't be a problem, right? Use that fabulous brain of yours to concoct a scheme, starting tonight.

PISCES (Feb. 1 9-March 20) Today is a 7 Scratch those last few chores off your list so that you'll have a clear conscience. That'll make it easier to concentrate on love. IF TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY: This year will be great for finishing up household renovations. Remodel, add a room, or simply paint the kitchen the choice is up to you.

You don't need to spend more than you can afford to win praise and admiration. Check the day's rating: 1 0 is the easiest day, 0 the most challenging. ARIES (March 21 -April 1 9) Today is a 7 There's a lot of talk going on, but how much of it will produce results? Some ideas are too expensive, and some just flat won't work. Be choosy before offering your support. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) Today is a 6 Another day, another step closer to success.

Use wisdom gained the hard way to bring in more money and allow you to spend less. Ignore those who say it can't be done. GEMINI May 2 1 -J une 2 1 Today is an 8 Push toward your goals even if achieving them seems impossible. It's good to have intentions that are borderline insane. CANCER (June 22-July 22) Today is a 7 Once you've finished your business (which shouldn't take long), you'll have more time to play.

Get the important stuff involving other people's money out of the way ASAP. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) Today is a 6 Don't even try to explain. Let somebody else do that for you. Also ask them to do the research to support your claim.

They'll do a better job than you would. You can write the checks. OUTPUT: 111102 16:42 USER: RBL0MSTER BEEBR0AD MASTER 06-26-02.