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4D Monday May I 2000 I wwwstar-telegrancom LIFELINE DEAR ABBY Adopt a pet and save a life ANN LANDERS A moving experience goes awry ED BRICE The Answer Man ABC Sports took the ball away from Esiason 41: What happened to Boomer Esiason? I understand that ABC dropped him from Monday Night Football ing him die in real life? Arlington Phil the millionaire wino was portrayed by character actor William Utay who came back as Phil's twin brother Will on several subsequent episodes ofNight Court Utay appeared in the films Play It to the Bone and Shogun Cop last year and he currently portrays mad scientist Dr Rolf on Days of Our Lives You can write to Utay in care of Days of Our Lives NBC Burbank 3000 Alameda Ave Burbank CA 91523 How old was Granny on the Beverly Hillbillies? DM Fort Worth Actress Irene Ryan was almost 60 when Hillbillies premiered in 1962 only six years older than actor Buddy Ebsen who played son-in-law Jed Clampett Ryan a native of El Paso whose birth name was Irene Noblette began performing at age 10 as a singer in Sacramento She died of a stroke in 1973 two years after the show went off the air Ed Brice appears on Monday Wednesday and Friday To ask a question: EDB-RICE (332-7423) Ed Brice Star-Telegram Box 1870 Fort Worth TX 76101 edbricestar-telegrancom New producer Don Ohlmeyer and other ABC executives are deciding who should accompany Michaels on broadcasts this fall According to press reports those under consideration include Steve Young Bill Parcells Jimmy Johnson and Rush Limbaugh who is campaigning for the job on his syndicated radio show To contact ABC about the show write to ABC Sports Attention Howard Katz 47 66th St NY 10023 On a rerun of Night Court the character Phil was killed by a falling piano Did the actor play JLR Mansfield Esiason was fired in March by ABC Sports President Howard Katz along with longtime producer Kenny Wolfe and director Craig Janoff Though Monday Night Football was a top-10-rated show last season its 133 rating was the lowest ever for the program "Al Michaels finally has what he's always wanted a single-man booth" Esiason told Newsday after the firing CATHY lite Arts MAN BUSINESS DISASTERS: MAK) BUSINESS DISASTERS: SENIOR EDITOR FOR FEATURES Julie Heaberlin (817) 390-7173 heaberlinstar-telegram tom In DEPUTY FEATURES EDITOR Catherine Newton (817) 390-7828 cnewtonstar-telegramocom HA1A iN 11 0 i I la Lel MA FACINICT BLISIMESS ElvIERCTENCIEb: HAT! 'e 1 --rr (sSrea Vs MAN FACIA BtASIKIESS BACK- STABBINCT: HELP 11'5 OK IRVIN(7 LET ME LEAD 'JOU TO THE MALL '91)-6 MAN MAN BUSINESS BACK- STABBINC7- BUSINESS CASUAL" HAIA I HELP 11'5 OK IRIANCT LET ME LEAD 'IOU TO THE MAIL 1 4 0 (I) 6' 7 HIR 'jtill 7 Ul itr 111112 1 F7411141 3 ot -ffi Is 11111 4 44 Si INFORMATION Phone (817) 390-7750 Fax (817) 390-7257 e-mail featuresstar-telegrancom BRIDGE Both vulnerable North deals leads a diamond West led the ace of diamonds and continued with the nine It was obvious what the defenders had in mind a diamond ruff That would do no harm if the spade finesse were going to be successful declarer would lose only a diamond a diamond ruff and ace of trumps But what if the spade finesse was doomed to fail? There was no sure way to guard against that but declarer did as well as possible After winning the second trick with the queen of diamonds declarer cashed the ace and king of clubs and ruffed a club with the eight of hearts If West overruffed that defender would have no way to get to partner's hand for the diamond ruff When West followed to the third club declarer exited with the queen of hearts to East's ace West duly obtained a diamond ruff to complete the defensive book But the partial strip had been successful Down to nothing but spades West was forced to lead from the king into South's combined tenace and declarer's spade loser had vanished! The Charles Goren-Omar Sharit-Tannah Hirsch bridge column appears Monday through Saturday Tribune Media Services NORTH EAST SOUTH WEST 1 NT Pass 31F Pass Pass Pass Pass Opening lead: ace of diamonds Do not be fooled Those charming people seated to your left and right at the bridge table do not have your best interests at heart But there is no need to submit meekly to their evil plots The auction is good old-fashioned Standard American The only difference with a more scientific approach is that if North-South employ transfer bids North would be the declarer and face the same predicament if East NORTH ()J vKl063 LW AK53 WEST EAST K108753 62 v72 vA4 A9 108643 J94 Q1076 SOUTH A94 v()J985 ()52 82 The bidding: Dear Abby: Please tell your animal-loving readers everywhere to mark their calendars Pet Adoptathon 2000 will take place on May 6 and 7 The first Pet Adoptathon of the new mil- 1 (4 4t le ni um promises to be the biggest 431" most exciting lifesaving --)1 :1:7 weekend the Al world has evet experienced' Last year's event was unbelievable more than 37000 anil mals' lives were saved through the hard work and dedication of more than 2400 animal organizations around the globe 1 What began as a local event at North Shore Animal League has flourished into a huge interna: tional celebration the foremost occasion in the 21st century for all animal groups to join forces and find loving homes for more orphaned pets This year the league and shelters across the country and around the world are working tirelessly toward one goal to increase the number of dogs cats puppies and kittens placed with loving caring adopters during Pet Adoptathon 2000 North Shore Animal League is calling on all animal lovers to start off the century on the right foot and paw Open your hearts and homes to the innocent animal orphans available for adoption Their lives depend on it John Stevenson President North Shore Animal League Dear John: I'm pleased to help spread the word Readers for the name of a participating shelter near you call the North Shore Animal League's toll-free number: (877) 236-9725 Many shelters will be open extended hours some through the night to help you find that special pet that perfect furry friend who 4 will give you a lifetime of love and devotion That said I would like to add: Before you rush out to adopt one of these orphan pets please take a moment to be sure you are ready to make a commitment that will last for many years Pets are wonderful but they require proper care and attention and many require training to be the pleasurable companions you may be seeking If you are ready for this responsibility get to the shelter early and select the pet who was born to be loved by you! Dear Abby: Have you ever heard of a "weight-loss The premise of the shower is a celebration of weight loss The individual hosting the shower has lost 30 pounds and this definitely is cause for celebration The "catch" to this shower is that the guests are expected to bring monetary gifts so the hostess can buy a new wardrobe to fit her smaller figure I would love to hear what you and your readers think about such a shower Ambiguous In Connecticut Dear Ambiguous: Weight loss certainly is a positive reason for supportive family and friends to get together and help the hostess celebrate However she has no business hosting her own "shower" Furthermore I'm taken aback by the idea that guests will be expected to foot the bill for a new wardrobe If such a shower is successful what's to stop someone who ha's put on a few pounds from using a shower to raise money for wardrobe for his or her fuller figure or a kitchen shower to replace broken dishes or a beading shower because the sheets are getting thin? Readers care to comment? 4 -1 Dear Ann Landers: I have been dating "Garth" for four years We are both divorced single parents and we get along great I am 44 and Garth is 49 Three months ago my land- F1 r-- lord informed me that my rent 'ct would soon be 4 -3 i 1" ill increased sub- i-s ir" If stantially This 14 meant I could no longer afford to live in my apart- ment and I expressed my concern to Garth He suggested that my daughter and I move in with him I was thrilled and surprised since never before had he so much as hinted at living together At first things seemed great Garth put new carpeting in my daughter's bedroom and let her select the wallpaper All the little adjustments went smoothly and we were getting along wonderfully well Or so I thought Three days ago Garth told me I could not live with him any longer and that he wants to be alone with his children in the house He then said I could take my time finding another place to live and that he would help me relocate Here's the real kicker Ann Garth wants us to continue to see each other the way we did before I moved in but I simply cannot handle this I told him when I move out it's all over between us I have always been upfront about wanting to get married and he knew I would not wait forever Now I realize if he could not manage to live with me for three months marriage is probably out of the question Garth says I am being ridiculous to end a perfectly good relationship over this Am I wrong to break it off Ann? I realize I would be losing a very special relationship but at my age I don't think I should continue to wait for something that may never happen Am I being foolish or wise? Please tell me what to do I am Heartbroken In New York State Dear NY: In my opinion you would be wise to break up with Garth You want marriage and he wants a playmate If he asks you to reconsider don't negotiate Stick with your position I am betting Garth will come around If he doesn't don't lose any sleep He wasn't worth the time and energy Dear Ann Landers: I have read your column every day for years but this is the first time I have ever written to you It was the letter about putting the hamster in the freezer that did it When our daughter "Brenda" was 4 years old (she's 6 now) we went to Disney World for a vacation While we were gone her Uncle Bill was in charge of caring for her cat and her goldfish Uncle Bill was quite a tease and told Brenda that he was going to feed her goldfish to the cat Shortly after we left town the goldfish died Uncle Bill was worried that Brenda might think he had actually killed her beloved goldfish so he took the dead fish to the local pet shop and asked for an identical replacement Brenda's goldfish was not particularly remarkable or exotic The store employee held the fish by the tail and checked out each tank in an effort to get a very good likeness in terms of size and coloring When we returned from our vacation Brenda rushed to the tank to say hello to her beloved pet She took one quick look and said "That is NOT my fish" What do you make of it? GG Bridgewater NJ Dear Bridgewater: I make of it that you have a very astute daughter Please don't try to fool her about anything ever again You'll never get away with it She is too darned smart Gem of the day: Wisdom does not always come with age Sometimes age comes by itself JODIE LYNN Parent-to-Parent Make a smooth ride when traveling with youngsters mi kits bead buddy kits (take along a large plastic bowl with lid) stationery cross-stitch stamped kits embroidery calligraphy books CDstapes crossword puzzles and word finds Mad Libs is really good and your problem will change into too much laughter New books and small Lego kits also will keep them busy Be sure you have all the supplies needed such as scissors and plastic bags Little cans of Play-Doh Model Magic or Silly Putty (bring along the Sunday comics) help calm and soothe restless kids of all ages Most anything is fun when wrapped up and presented in the cat Cathy Douglas O'Fallon From Jodie A Fort Wayne Ind dad called to remind families not to forget books on cassette tapes A mom from South Dakota says to give away a grand prize each time you go through a new town It goes to the child who has counted the most car license plates of different states "Allow the children to keep track of the license plates by writing them down themselves Grand prizes can be as simple as a flavored sugarless stick of chewing gum and a collectible coin" Can you help? How can a single parent keep the price of "extras" in balance with the family budget? At what age is it safe for a child to ride his bike from one area to another on busy streets? Please share your tips and help other parents Send them or other parenting questions to: Parent to Parent 16572 Manchesterlioad Suite 131 Grover MO 63040 Send e-mail to mommy4ceoaolcom Knight Ridder News Service t't We will be traveling in the car this summer What an tips for a family with children of various ages 1 including two pm- 4 teens who bicker? It worked for me 1 Headphones 1( with CD players '1 leave little time for arguments It's worked for us for the past couple of years Wilson Nashville Tenn I We're an Air Force family so over the years we've had the opportunity to make many long car trips with three children We encourage our kids to pack things they like to do by themselves Make sure each child has his or her own tape or CD player to listen to music of their choice Pack books and other quiet activities i '''1 1 I Small pillows and blankets can help make them comfortable Try to take a cooler with juice and some snacks You'll save a lot of money at gas stops and avoid the sugar overdose Try to get lunch and take it to a rest area or park where everyone can get out and get some exercise We came up with the idea of "Trip Fairy" presents when the kids were young and they still like to get them! The idea is to give small gifts (to keep the kids busy) and also to reward them for good behavior We try to "catch" the kids before they get restless and irritable and the gift will give them a surprise to occupy them for a while If you're lucky the kids can share the presents If it's an extremely long day in the car two gifts may do the trick Ideas are: new and interesting art supplies gel pens and dark paper journals or drawing lxx)ks travel games origa TODAY'S HOROSCOPE Aries (March 21-April 19): What a Monday Challenge pressure more responsibility and money Deal with higher-ups Don't go hat in hand Complete project talk of love Libra represented Taurus (April 20-May 20): Make new start look behind scenes and face music directly and early You exude aura of sensuality sex appeal Some confess they can hardly resist you Gemini (May 21-June 20): Look beyond the immediate Give attention to proposals involving business partnership marriage Dinner could be a feast featuring seafood Cancer (June 21-July 22): Focus on diversity versatility ability to select quality and to be with people of quality Some urge you to run for political office Sagittarian involved Leo (July 23-Aug 22): Emphasize drama showmanship Tear down for purpose of rebuilding You will be asked to participate in seminar Give a smile you'll get many smiles in return Virgo (Aug 23-Sept 22): You learn by teaching Share knowledge Trip may be necessary in connection with relative Legal papers could be involved Flirtation OK yet enough is enough Libre (Sept 23-Oct 22): You are called upon to handle sound problem Strive for harmony make gesture of friendship to family member Let your true feelings be known Aries in picture Scorpio (Oct 2-Nov 21): Slow down play 'ASK DR DONOHUE Dear Dr Donohue: 1 love chocolate candy My cholesterol and triglycerides are in acceptable ranges 1 feel I am addicted to chocolate Does it cause insomnia? Reader Dear Reader: '4A -4 1 "Addiction" is too strong a word No 1 et- one suffers with- drawal symptoms i- '1 W- on stopping their chocolate habit Chocolate contains substances alleged to enhance the immune system and to prevent heart disease It also appears to calm its devotms On the minus side one ounce of chocolate has about 157 calories Occasional indulgence in chocolate is not harmful Complete deprivation only increases the urge for a chocolate splurge An ounce of chocolate has 18 mg of caffeine One 6-ounce cup of coffee has 103 mg If a person ate large amounts of chocolate before retiring the caffeine might induce insomnia Write to Paul Donohue at Box 536475 Orlando FL 32853-6475 Dr Donohue's colurnri appears Monday Wednesday and Friday kin41" Arnesritn Cline4ipetes waiting game Individual you once defeated is back for more Strive for another victory Pisces plays your game Sagittarius (Nov 22-Dec 21): Accept added responsibility You will receive additional recognition State your case and price Financial situation is brighter than anticipated Celebrate Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 19): Look for new fields to conquer Knock on doors of fame fortune Strive for universality seize opportunity relating to foreign land Aries plays role Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18): What goes around comes around: You missed boat once you'll get second chance Focus on cooperative efforts politics marital status Leo featured Pisces (Feb 19-March 20): You learn more about financial status what to do to improve it You also locate lost articles and make decisions concerning marriage Cancer native involved If today Is your birthday you are creative sensual an original thinker independent capable of making the old appear new Leo Aquarius play dramak roles in your life could have these letters initials in names: A During this year you involved in financial transactions promotion production Marital status will be emphasized September your most creative romantic profitable month of the year Sydney Omarr's column appears daily 4 'f Los Angeles limes Syndicate Write to Abigail Van Buren (Dear Abby) Box 69440 Los Angeles CA 90069 Abby's column appears daily Universal Press Syndicate Write to Ann Landers Box 11562 Chicago IL 60611-0562 Ann Landers column appears daily Creators Syndicate i) I.