The Miami Herald from Miami, Florida • 35

9' rvvy-rvrrryyr'ornnrrv Military Wedding afternoon beneath an arch of crossed swords The sword carriers all fellow aviators of the bridegroom from the aval Air Station at Coronado Calif wore their dress blues for the double ring ceremony which was followed by a reception at Im Gorce Country Club After a cruise in the Caribbean on the private yacht Thunder Bay II the daughter of Dr and Mrs Thomas Shearman Griggs of Bay Point and her lieutenant will go to Coronado to make their home Popular during World nr II and always a part of June Week at Annaprdis the military was revived in Miami this week Father of the Bride and His Daughter Dr Thomas Shearman Griggs and the former Ilonnie Griggs Donnie Griggs and Lt (g) Charles Roekne left Miami Shores Presbyterian Church Tuesday a a Secretary Dictates a New Life ugly to my friends and family Please tell me what to do THE FRENCH REVOLT 'TION 1ST Stop thinking nch as a matter of life and death and try to figure out hy you hate the teacher If you feel the teacher has it in for you ask why and what you can do to improve the yourself unless you enjoy it that is Look at the classified section of this newspaper and find another That's precisely what I did The boss was shocked My family was stunned No one could understand why I would arbitrarily abandon such a fine position Strangely enough my recovery was rapid and complete You'll never know how I hated you when I read your advice You'll never know how much I respect you now that I have taken it THANKFUL Congratulations The toughest dictation to take is the kind you get from your conscience By ANN' LANDERS Htrald Cclumnitf DEAR ANN: I just wanted you to know The dozens of boss-secretary affair letters which have appeared in your column have not gone unheeded One such letter changed my life I worked many years for a man I found inordinately attractive It was actually painful when his wife called My ambivalent feelings drove me mad when I made travel plans and attended to personal matters which involved them both Several weeks ago I read a letter in your column from a secretary whose situation was a carbon of my own Your advice was "Quit torturing Ann a s' booklet to Be Dete Ba gives sound and solid rules for teenage dating receive a copy enclose with your request 20 cents in coin and a long-self-addressed stamped envelope to Ann Landers The Miami Herald PO Box 630 Miami 1 Fla DEAR ANN: French is ruining my life It's not the language I hate it's the teacher Right now I have a splitting headache from worry and tension I am short-tempered and Ill ill lllir INCOMPARABLE OF COURSE Hildegardes Singing for Miamians By GRACE WING BOHNE Htrald StH Writer Whither Hildegarde at 58? Eying retirement? Never! Sophie Tucker can still keep going strong at 80 so can chuckled the goldenhaired chanteuse for 30 years the darling of fans on two continents As a matter of fact she has two new careers in view Hildegarde has already made her debut as a concert pianist and next fall she expects to appear In a non-singing starring role on the legitimate stage Right now proving in the Club Gigi that she still knows how to reach out and grip an audience by its heart strings sing In French Then I ask them to sing it with me in English You should hear Then she added "If there is one thing about audiences that does not change it is nostalgia They always ask for songs that they know and it would be like like asking you to take off your lipstick to have a picture she protested ACTUALLY Hildegarde has little to fear from a camera Her pink and white face is smooth her up-tilted eyes crinkle provocatively when she laughs If she is something of a health nut as her recent book 50 So would hint it pays off Her figure would get a beauty contestant within sight of the semi-finals at least She exercises every day even on tour Sometime between now and next fall she will start to learn her role in a serious play about Eve LaVallier the French actress of World War I vintage who encountered only cynicism when she got religion Hildegarde herself is devoutly religious has never married but repeated that she is willing "I feel that if it is meant to be I will" she said smili: Meanwhile practicing to be a singer a pianist and an actress is hard work "Memorizing is especially hard for she confided "People laugh at this but ever i ore nas been done the hard way" Staff Photos by ALBERT COYA fcTliey Always Ask for Songs They so says golden-haired chanteuse Hildegarde famous gloves to play the concerto she wears a dress with wrisl-lenglh sleeves Ignore it and only mention the old ones It kills Last fall in Milwaukee her hometown Hildegarde was presented with the Milwaukee Symphony playing a concerto by the late Isidor Achron the same one she played a year earlier with Arthur Fiedler in Carnegie Hall widow is her piano teleher Hildegarde said she removes the shining hair and eloquent long-gloved hands has made her own: Last Time I Saw Be 1 and of course "Darling Je Vous Aime Pouts Hildegarde "I work hard on each season's new songs to kc my repertory lip to date and the critics just but wears gloves when she plays other selections She wears satin stretch gloves and she won't take them off to have a picture taken or even to peel a lozenge this reporter discovered For one thing they're her trademark European Fashion AFTLIl THE STILE OF 1923 this (lark I due anil red horizontally striped dress of wind hy Jane Lend lakes a eue with Charleston detail iflie pleats spring from hip-Uvel and the military collar is dew orated with a jersey flower A AND ALWAYS they are 11 the songs that tfle Incomparable Hildegarde with her.