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Jon. 25, 1975 THE SUMttblUM-S Reality is Cronkite burgers Everyone has a hall nob Geggle except the honor ee Pood yon think about while eating a Hamburger at home in the den with Walter Cronkite and the evening news: A large plate of rice for lunch in the dining room of Tokyo's Pacific Hotel, with sunlight and shadow making charming patterns in the garden outside the windows rice savored with curry sauce ladled generously from a large silver gravy boat and your personal blend of pineapple, chutney, coconut, peanuts and other condiments. Course after course of the Chinese dinner at the Taipei Hilton's night club to the music of a clever combo and the dances of many countries by the talented Chorus girls. And, by golly, a lissome songstress sang "I Left My Heart in San Francisco." Peking duck carved ex- barbecued. We were late, but a gracious chef in spotless white stayed on so we would not miss this typical delicacy of his land.

A Chinese lunch in, of all places, a Japanese house in Kamakura, eight of us seated on the floor on cushions about a round table with each course served on the biggest lazy susan you ever saw in the middle. That beef sukiyaki dinner at the Kowaki-en Hotel in Japan's Hakone National Park. We all wore unfamiliar kimonos. It took the smiling floor maid little time to make sure mine was proper, but the more elaborate one for Patricia took more doing. The maid showed me how I could do it if needed some time.

I'd dare not try. Very British rare roast beef sliced at the table in a delightful dining room of the Mandarin Hotel In Ann 'X'V Landers an the next day, but I didn't notice it at an. And aU the other meals, for the hotels in the Orient do not offer a restaurant or two, but a number. Japanese food, Chinese, French, American even Mexican in one, can be enjoyed in restaurants at floor level, the floor below, atop the hotel with sweepung view of, the city spreading at its base. Breakfast buffets, are adventures in dining, directed to the tastes of the ubiquitous American tourists.

Every variety of Southeast Asian fruit: papaya, pineapple, citrus and, as wen, that old familiar American watermelon; coconut, orange, tomato and grapefruit Juices: crisp bacon, ham and sausage; scrambled and sometimes soft-boiled eggs. Coffee in my opinion, the finest I've ever had, and, naturaUy, tea the way tea should be brewed to taste. AU these are the food you think about while finishing the hamburger in the den with Walter finishing the sews. "And that's the way ft is. This is Walter Cronkite.

Good night" pertly at the table in an upstairs restaurant in Hong Kong just a few blocks from the Sheraton on Nathan Road. tell me the ducks are kept in jugs and fed through the opening to preserve their tenderness of meat and symmetry of form, and come from the People's Republic of China. Dinner by the side of a small pool in the garden of the Kuala Lumpur Hilton in Malaysia. Unforgettable was the satay: meat skewered on thin sticks of bamboo, dipped in sweet chili and peanut sauces, then Dear Ann Landers: Am I sick or am I a normal mother? When my 17-year-old daughter has a problem with a boyfriend and cries from being disappointed or hurt, I cry, too. (Not in front of her.

I go where she can't see me.) When she is happy about something wonderful that has happened, I'm right there with her, on cloud nine. I was popular when I was Singapore. They were observing Britain's week in Singapore, and next to us was a most un-Oriental display of English shields and swords and armor, and of course, the Union Jack. Dinner at the Baan Thai Restaurant in Bangkok a once private home set in a quiet garden approached by a narrow street off a busy thoroughfare. A spicy clear soup, followed by Thai rice best in the Orient to be dipped into dishes of various sauces with hot overtones of curry.

No knives; they're thought unlucky. And how those lovely Thai dancers speak with beautiful yet silent eloquence in gentle body movements and graceful hands. An unusual Korean barbecue at the Dong Won Restaurant in Seoul. We sat around a kidney-shaped table with grill in the center on which our chef with smile as broad as his chef's cap was large dumped first a tower of garlic cloves for browning. Next, on top, he heaped chunks of beef and, when cooked, loaded our plates with meat and garlic.

Pat ate none of the latter. I overindulged. She claims I smelted of garlic God can honor love Dear Ann Landers: A giant raspberry to "Turned Off," who thinks birthday parties for 1 and 2 year-olds are ridiculous. Sure it's dumb to Invite people you haven't seen since the wedding, but such a celebration is wonderful for close friends and relatives who have been following the child's growth and develop-ment since birth. In these days when the American fajmily circle is being murdered, it's a treat to get together and celebrate a young child's birthday.

Even if the kid doesn't know what's going on, he at least senses the love and festive aura that surround him, and these days that's a big plus. Please Invite Me To Yours Dear Please: I'm for any happy get-together that gives people a chance to express love and concern for one another. Lord knows there are enough of the other kind. Dear Ann Landers: Our-son's wife divorced him a year ago because he was a lazy, irresponsible slob. She never saw a dime of his paycheck and had to go to work full-time to feed and clothe herself and the darling little boy they adopted.

My husband never accepted the adopted child as a real grandson. Since the divorce, he ignores the boy com pleteiy. We have a big fight atnr "Insight appears days in Living. every time I mention visiting the child. My husband says, "He's not ours by blood or anything else." I love the boy dearly and want to include him in our will.

My husband insists that our only "real grandchild is our daughter's son. I have no Income of my own and my husband keeps track of every penny. He said, "Write to Ann Landers. She'll agree with me." Do you? Sad Granny Dear Granny: Your husband has rattled the wrong cage. I'm with you.

That adopted grandson deserves to be loved and treated in exactly the same manner as your daughter's child. If "Lord Bountiful" won't give you any money for extras, you can bake cookies, cakes, pies, for your little grandson. This will mean much more than any store-bought gift, if you bring them with loving hands and a warm heart. About the will chances are that you'll outlive the cuss which could put a significant crimp in his plans! Billy Grahams a teenager, so I don't have to relive my youth through my daughter. My own marriage Is a good one so I'm not escaping from reality by fantasizing.

Am I crackers or what? Canadian Candor Dear C.C.: It's normal for a parent to emphatise with a child. You'd be crackers if you didn't But to shed tears over her little disappointments and hurts is a bit much. Either you aren't busy enough or you are identifying in a way that is unhealthy. Check the umbilical cord and see if perhaps it isn't a little too short. Are your parents too strict? Hard to reach, Ann Landers booklet, "Bugged By Parents? to Get More Freedom," could help you bridge the generation gap.

Send 50 cents in coin with your request and a long, stamped, self-addressed envelope to Ann Landers, P.O. Box 1400, Elgin, HL, 60120. (Copyright 1975) Bandini weed prevention sals Although separated for four months, my husband and I are back together. He has mental problems, but currently is getting help. The difficulty Is that 1 can't find love for him again.

I'm only 28, and I can't see living with a man I don't love. You said on one of your programs that where love once existed, it can again. But how? Lonely There's a great hymn that asserts God can "stir the slumbering chords again." Since He is the Author of love, and the Creator of man. He can work that miracle. Yon should read the famous 44).

But everywhere the Bible, hate of the spiteful kind is condemned. That seems to be the sort you have because I detect some cynicism in yonr remarks. A Christian has no room for that Paul talks about -the remedy for hate in Titus 3:3: "Once we too were foolish and disobedient; we were misled by others, and became slaves to many evil pleasures we hated others, and they hated us. But when, the time came for the love of God our Savior to appear, then He saved us YouH never get rid of hate if you're depending on the world around you to shape up and deserve your love and kindness. Faith in Jesus makes possible the eviction of hatred by the infilling of love the same way yon get rid of the darkness by turning on the light KEIweed Where are the pioneers? before they sprout and grow.

Compare Labels! There's 50 more plant food In dying from a self-inflicted shot "It was uncertain whether dame Fourbon could recover, Ma- but Select's for Dichondra Lawns SALE $11.95 Reg. $12.95 $1 OFF she evidently did, for the next year Super 3 -Way Weedllizer than In competitive brands. Bible story of a visit to the potter's house. It's in the 18th chapter of Jeremiah. What became marred, broken and useless was reshaped in the hand of the master craftsman.

The prophet then quotes God as asking, "Cannot I do with you as this potter?" That's the marvel of the Gospel that the broken can be more than mended it can be remade entirely. Now there are times when love has to depend not on the superficial and- the sensory. It takes Its cue from something deeper from truth, from vows made, from a sense of honor and duty. You continue to maintain your devotion and God will honor it. Your love win have then the depth of sincerity that testing always gives it I have tried unsuccessfully to pt hatred out of my souL But how can this be done in a lousy world where many an individual would sot be averse to selling his own sister into white slavery, if it meant an extra buck in his pocket? J.P.H.

In the Old Testament, hatred of evil and evildoers as long as It was purged of personal malice was commended. In the New Testament, however, It Is brought by Christ under the higher law of love (Matthew 5:43, 25Mq.lleottrag mm Select 5 for Blade Grass or Dichondra Lawns. SALE $8.95 Reg. $3.95 $10FF lSOOtq.ft.eow.9 ARPEK compiled in 1965 "in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of master of arts" at the University of Redlands. She was in her 80s then and is still active.

Researching old newspapers for the thesis, Mrs. Hinckley found that "Madame Fourbon of blind pig fame was the victim in a serious attempted murder. It seems that in one of her former marriages she had had two sons by the name of Jure. These boys lived two doors from her on Sylveria 'Street "A former husband, Dave Davies, 'had been trying to persuade Madame Fourbon to remarry him, but without success. One Saturday night, Davies told the boys, in order to get them out of the way, that they were wanted at a dance that was going on.

"He then entreated Mrs. Fourbon to marry him and was again refused. Davies then gave her a tremendous blow on the head with his revolver. She was able to dash out of the house, and not finding the boys at home, she dashed through the window of the next neighbor, who called the police. The police found Davies (Continued from A 4) woman was Eliza P.

Crafts, who with her husband, Myron, settled in the Crafton area east of Redlands. "She was the entrepreneur. Her husband helped the Indians and grew successful crops, but she was the one who could see the possibilities of turning the place Into a health and tourist resort." She was also a historian, writing "Pioneer Days in the San Bernardino Valley." Ironically since so few records of women's life stories remain, many of the Redlands historians have been women. Helen Beattie, who died in the 1950s, was co-author of "Heritage of the Valley" with her husband, George, who had come here in 1874. She translated Spanish documents used in the history and also translated the memoirs of Jose Maria Lugo.

Mrs. Fourbon, who ran the "blind pig," was written about by Edith Parker Hinckley, best known for her history "On the Banks of the Zanja." Her manuscript on "Crime and Scandal in Early Hedlands" was she was arrested for the 18th tune. The last mention of Madame Fourbon in this decade was in April 1919, when she was again arrested for having a blind pig." Most of the library's records are about more constructive citizens. Burgess mentioned Grace S. Mullen, founder of the Community Music Association and the Redlands Bowl summer programs, as an example of a civic leader of the post-1920 period.

"Her original scheme was to find musical entertainment for people who were not wealthy enough to leave town in the summer. By her death the free summer music series had become an important institution. She battled through her idea and won." Looking in the portrait file, Burgess found no photograph of Mrs. Mullen. And that brought him back to his original request "We need more pictures and information brought in." i mi i Come in for your free copy of Bandini's Lawn and Garden Care Hints now.

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