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Beaver Dam Daily Citizen Friday, September 13, 2019 A9 00 1 FRIDAY EVENING AT CH CHARTER, CL CENTURYLINK SEPTEMBER 13, 2019 AT CH CL 7 PM 7:30 8 PM 8:30 9 PM 9:30 10 PM 10:30 11 PM 11:30 BR AD CA ST ABC (12) (27) 12 12 27 Am.Housewife "Phone Free Day" Fresh Off the Boat "Grand- Mahjong" Reef Break "Endgame" (SF) (N) (12) News (27) 27 News at 10 Jimmy Kimmel Live (12) Nightline (27) Nightline CBS (3) (58) 5 3 9 3 Hawaii Five-0 "Hewa Ka Lima" Magnum P.I. "A Kiss Before Dying" Blue Bloods "Identity" (3) News (58) CBS 58 News The Late Show With Stephen Colbert Guest(s): Curtis '50 Cent' Jackson, Jillian Bell, Tori Kelly (3) J.Corden (58) J.Corden CW (15.2) (18) 18 18 16 EA Sports Madden NFL 20 Classic Peaking "James Stewart" (N) Peaking "Jenny Rissveds" (N) (15.2) News (18) Goldberg (15.2) TMZ (18) Goldberg (15.2) Black (18) Last Man (15.2) Black (18) Last Man (15.2) Friends (18) Celeb Page (15.2) Friends (18) FunnyAsk FOX (6) (47) 6 6 47 BH90210 "The Long Wait" MasterChef "London Calling" Pt. 2 of 2 from Sept 6 (6) FOX 6 News at 9:00 p.m. (N) (47) Fox 47 News at 9:00 p.m. (N) (6) News (47) Daily Mail TV (6) Sein.

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Black Knight Martin Lawrence. SHOW 852 478 852 Movie Murder in the Bayou Coup.Therapy Coup.Therapy Murder in the Bayou Coup.Therapy Movie DEAR ABBY: watching the slow-motion destruc-tion of a childhood friend on Facebook. There is substance abuse, infidelity, divorce, the whole lot. It hurts. He recently admitted that he has struggled with depression for years, but insists he in- terested in seeing a doctor or a coun- selor.

It sounds like been burned in the past. I know I do anything until he asks for help, but I intend to be there when he does. What resources are available for someone who is clinically de- pressed and self-medicating? TRYING TO HELP IN THE WEST DEAR TRYING: Support groups for people who are de- pressed have emotional issues exist. But to join one, the person must admit there is a problem and help is needed. Because your friend is resistant to the idea of professional help, you might suggest a group called Emotions Anonymous.

It was started in 1971, and its mission is to help people who are expe- riencing emotional difficulties. It offers chat, Skype and phone meetings as well as in-person groups. If you would like more information, you can find it at emotionsanonymous.org. DEAR ABBY: I have been dating this woman for a few years. We in a committed relationship, but she wants me exclusively to herself.

a very jealous type, and a com- ment she made took me over the edge. She told me that my late picture should only be displayed in my room, and that still holding onto her, which is preventing me from moving forward with any woman. I will never remove any pic- tures of my mother out of respect not only for my departed loved one but for my children as well. What do you think of this? RESPECTFUL IN TEXAS DEAR RESPECTFUL: If you keep a photo of your late wife next to your bed, I can see how it might bother someone you have been dating for a few years particularly if you hav- made a commitment to her. That said, if displaying a picture of your wife in a public room of your home is so threatening to this woman that she would make the kind of scene you describe, it may be time to replace her with someone who is less easily threatened.

DEAR ABBY: I have been happily married (for the most part) to my husband of 40 years. He is a good husband, provider and father. Only one thing about him really bothers me. When he is telling someone a story, he frequently it and changes it to something not actually the truth. What he says really matter or hurt anyone, but it still bothers me.

It makes me wonder if what he is telling me about something is the correct version or version. Like I said, it is never anything of importance, so I un- derstand why he even does it. I have asked him about it, and he really explain. Do you have any idea what would make a person do this? WIFE IN WONDERLAND DEAR WIFE: Some people to impress or to make themselves look more im- portant, or because they think it will make the story more enter- taining or exciting. Not knowing your husband, I answer for him.

It might help to reassure him that you love him just the way he is, and the truth is always better than fiction. Contact dear abby at www. dearabby.com or p.O. box 69440, Los angeles, Ca 90069. Concerned friend wants to help ADVICE ENTERTAINMENT TV LISTINGS Should my ex-husband be wel-comed in my home as if it were his? I think when he picks up his son he can wait at the door or in his truck.

Is there any reason he should be allowed to wait inside until he is ready to leave? His son is 12-years-old so the child can carry his own bag out. Do you think I am overreact- ing? good ex-etiquette? I think people ask me if they are overreacting when they know they are overreacting. If you why would you ask? I believe in looking for ways to eliminate animosity and uncom- fortable feelings, particularly at exchanges when the child is present. the reason I developed the Ten Rules of Good Ex-etiquette for Parents. Although you may not realize it, you are a parent now.

The rules will help you maneuver through the trials associated with your new identity. That said, there are all sorts of qualifiers you might want to look at. First, welcomed in my home as if it were Would you feel that way if a friend came to your door? Now, granted, I know your ex may not be regarded as a friend, but my point. Would you require a friend to sit in his truck thinking that if he waited in your home he was treating it as if it were his? Doubtful. I think this is because this man was once married to your wife and yours now and so is the home.

about ownership and territory. not about love and acceptance two key points that must be present if you want a second marriage work. you say. this is not my second It yours, but it is hers. You approach subse- quent relationships like they are first time romances the past does follow you in the form of children and their fathers or mothers and their extended family and all those prickly rela- tionships you wish there but are because you fell in love with someone who had children.

the best advice I can give you you make your life. Make it easy on your wife to share her child with his father and she will be forever grate- ful. It will make your union a far happier one and she will be devoted to you because you saw the big picture and loved her child. Promote love, include her child, call him or and you will have a partner for life. Continue down the same road you are on and you are signing your own marriage epitaph.

You may not be saying it out loud, but your actions are asking her to choose you or her child not her ex, but her child. She may stay for the time being, but she may also leave when she can no longer stand the pain your attitude will cause her and her son. It will not be worth con- tinuing the relationship. So, with that, may I suggest you pull up a chair, visit the Bonus Families website, partic- ularly the Ex-etiquette Depart- ment, and start reading. You have a lot of work to do.

good ex-etiquette. email dr. Jann blackstone at dr.jann@exetiquette.com. ex wait outside EX-ETIQUETTEENTERTAINMENT COmmeNtary DEAR ABBY What I learned from 5 days of binge-watching YouTube MARY MCNAMARA Los Angeles Times Sometimes you just have to cut your losses and get out. This was one of those times.

After five full days spent falling through the wormholes of YouTube, I finally had to wrench myself away. Even if it meant I would never know how to hydro dip my Nike Air Force 1s or see what happened when Morgan cat met Shane cat for the first time, or make it even halfway through the Bucket List Fami- 50 countries in 100 weeks. Otherwise I feared my fam- ily would find me slumped over my laptop, clutching a notebook filled with strange and increasingly illeg- ible phrases like and It had started, as madness often does, from a place of love. For years now, whenever I ask my younger daughter are you she inevita- bly answers When I ask her for the 957th time to be more specific, she will sigh and say something like, the Bucket List Family took their kids somewhere with penguins and which sounds harmless enough, and boring, so I stop listening, which is no doubt ex- actly what she intended. Then I started reading about all the concerns over inability to regulate what its younger viewers see how easily a child-friendly video can lead to images of violence or sex or just seriously weird human behavior.

I decided it was time to log in to her account and check out her history to see what, exactly, my daughter meant when she said she was The good news: I found nothing more objectionable than far too many scenes from and the fact that by watching YouTube on her TV, she had been able to bypass restricted mode to watch 30 minutes devoted to the of a cheesy potatoes addict on Other than that it was pretty much just a lot of young adults with limited camera skills say- ing, guys, before talking about themselves, and many products, in a variety of do this random and pos- sibly sponsored make a plant-hanger from a T-shirt, visit the haunted rooms of the Queen Mary at night, go on a juice cleanse, pretend we have a child, buy outfits for each other, give another YouTube star a makeover, eat a bunch of food in the car. The bad news: Once I was in YouTube land, it was difficult to get out. If you think Netflix is an algorithmic Slip Slide of and that has turned television into a dig- ital pie-eating contest, you are not ready for the howling vortex of time-suck that is YouTube. But like so many digital time- sucks Twitter, Facebook, all those Wayfair emails you get if you buy one stinking ham- mock the 15-year-old, Goo- gle-owned platform is part of a powerful, multibillion-dollar shadow culture, shadow en- tertainment industry, shadow economy, well, shadow every- thing. So it deserves as much time and attention as, you know, Marvel movies and the location of the state of Alabama.

Even prepped by almost two decades of watching TV pro- fessionally, I lost my footing almost instantly, sliding into a greased-up game of Chutes and Ladders during which the sun rose, set and rose again while I just keep clicking on things like Bomb or my squishy or Mr. Opened a Free Car Although I found much of it a bit wearing at almost every given moment I would have preferred to be rewatching, say, episodes of I am not here to hate on any specific channel or the YouTube experi- ence in general. At a time when watching TV often means bing- ing 10 hourlong episodes only to get to another cliffhanger and much of social media, not to mention the 24-hour news networks, is filled with partisan hate, 20 minutes spent watch- ing a really good makeover or an amiable brother and sister try to go through a day in Los Angeles without spending any money can be quite soothing. If you can watch only that and maybe some cute baby vid- eos. I There is much to learn on YouTube, including how to identify a Mukbang (a show in which a person eats a lot of food while talking to the audience) and a VSCO girl (oversize tees, stickered Hydro Flask, puka necklace, scrunch- ies, Birkenstocks and photos edited on VSCO).

But I am going to have to pull myself to- gether and tie a rope around my waist before I ever return. Seeing me emerge from my foray into her world, my daughter just shook her head. my God, she said when I started rattling off where been, what seen, get too caught up in all that; those people are JEANNE PHILLIPS JANN BLACKSTONE.