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Gallagher-Holloman wedding on Sept. 13 Denise Holloman, 129 E. Jackson McAdoo, daughter of Paul and Magdalen Holloman, Rear 302 W. Sherman McAdoo, became the bride of Brian Gallagher, Back Street, Lattimer Mines, son of Nancy Gallagher, Back Street, Lattimer Mines, and John Gallagher, Drums, at 7 p.m. Sept.

13. The double ring ceremony was performed by District Magistrate Edward Verbonitz at his office in Milnesville. The couple was honored at a party at B.T.'s, Drums, immediately following the wedding ceremony, and a reception was held Sept. 14 at the home of the bride's parents. The couple plans a trip to the Bahamas.

They now reside at 129 E. Jackson McAdoo. Mrs. Deborah Pecora, Hazleton, was the matron of honor, and Ms. Angel Walton, Hazleton, served as bridesmaid.

Donald Walton, Hazleton, performed the duties of best man, and the usher was Richard Zola of Hazleton. The bride is a 1982 graduate of Hazleton High School and is employed as a legal secretary in the law office of Laputka and Pedri. The groom, a 1984 graduate of Hazleton High School and the Hazleton Area Vocational-Technical School, employed by Batch's Painting. HAZLETON CIRCLE 3, Military Order of Ladybugs will meet Sunday at 2 p.m. at the DrakeWear VFW Post, 95 N.

Wyoming Hazleton. Stella Greshko will preside for the business meeting and the luncheon will be in charge of Lorna Baker and Helen Henry. HALUPKI AND BAKE SALE will be held by The Lutheran Women of Ss. Peter and Paul Lutheran Church, Eighth and Alter streets, Hazleton, on Thursday from 11 a.m. until 5 p.m.

Takeout orders only will be available and containers must be provided. Crafts and knick knacks also will be on sale. CHILDBIRTH EDUCATION CLASS will be held in the auditorium of the Medical Arts Building, Nesbitt Memorial Hos- Miss Manners Cleaning lady wants to socialize By JUDITH MARTIN DEAR MISS MANNERS We have a wonderful cleaning woman who has worked for us several years. We value her highly, thank her sincerely, and pay her handsomely. But she wants more.

She wants to be friends. Miss Manners, I do not want to be her friend, any more than I would want to be friends with the pediatrician, the auto mechanic, the accountant or the mail carrier. I do not wish to appear heartless or rude, but I expect such people to solve their own problems and to look for companionship elsewhere. How does one politely convey such a message without coming across as meanspirited? GENTLE READER Miss Manners abhors the practice of commercial "friendliness," by which the manners of social intimacy are applied in what ought to be cordial business relationships. But she has to point out to the PATTERNS IT'S HERE! Only $2.50 $1.30 FREE NEW Fashion Craft Catalog, pattern with first order from catalog.

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1572, Box 4000, Niles 49120-4000. Print name, address, zip, pattern number, size. you that the employer-employee relationship that takes place in the home is one of special delicacy. Of necessity, your cleaning woman is privy to many of your private habits and cannot be treated as formally as someone with whom transactions are transient, brief and public. That is not to say that you must be friends with her; merely that you must treat her with special consideration.

And in this case, since her expectation is that you should share confidences, that involves making the distance between you seem unconnected with either her personality or her position. Even if you are always home when she is there, surely you are not lounging around looking bored. Whatever it is you have to do, you must do with some bustle and the kindly admonition: "I'm sorry I've got to get this done. I just don't have time to chat." DEAR MISS MANNERS When people write to tell me that they enjoyed being a guest in my home, I always respond by writing to say how much I enjoyed having them. To me, it's the thoughtful thing to do.

However, when the shoe is on the other foot, it's a different story. When I have been a guest in someone's home and I write my swer. I always they rethanks, I never receive, any anceived my letter. I don't expect to strike up a long-term correspondence, just a "thank you -enjoyed that? having you." What's wrong Am I expecting too much? Is it such a faux pas to do the thoughtful thing? GENTLE READER Miss Manners doesn't do too much business in the above-and-beyond thank-you realm. Most of the time, it's disgruntled brides or graduates, claiming that they don't have two minutes to write to Club held anniversary The Wheel Estates Trailer Club celebrated its 25th anniversary at Little Mexico Campground in Winfield near Lewisburg.

Charter members of the group are Ray and Phylis Poltrock, Curtis and Ruth Mattern, Alvin and Harriet Cunfer, Emil and Verna Yannes, and Russell and Beverly Kisenwether. A plaque bearing theri names and 25 year membership, and a certififacte were presented to the couples at the club meeting. a dinner is planned for later this years. The club has 18 members and 15 were present at the anniversary campout, where a covered dish and dessert event was a highlight of the rally weekend. Fabulous FALL ON ALL OFFI Specials COUPON Enjoy Fall With A Beautiful New Perm! OCT.

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Georgia Farrow, president of the Weatherly club, said the bus will then go to Weatherly to pickup members of her organization. MARRIED WOMEN'S CLUB, at its meeting at the YWCA, voted against a previous motion to collect 50 cents from members since the club's treasury has sufficient funds Hostesses were Mrs Charles Paletski and Mrs. Joseph. Schaefer, and awards went to Mrs. John Redwinski and Mrs.

Stephen Leshko. The hostesses for the Nov. 5 meeting, Election Day, will be Mrs. Howard Ferrey and Mrs. Thomas Barrett.

The club meets the first Tuesday of each month at the YMCA and YWCA, 75 S. Church St. thank people who had the time, not to mention the kindness and the money, to think of selecting, buying and sending them presents. No, there is nothing wrong with writing charming little notes to house guests. It's an extra little practice that you have invented, and Miss Manners is happy to congratulate you on doing it.

But why couldn't you leave it at that, accepting Miss Manners' commendation as well as the satisfaction in which you are basking? There is something wrong in expecting your hosts to adhere to your habit. It is not standard practice, and you have no right to be disgruntled at its absence in others. Feeling incorrect? Address your etiquette questions (in black or blue-black ink on white writing paper) to Miss Manners, in care of this newspaper. The quill shortage prevents Miss Manners from answering questions except through this column. Birthdays Sean Dulina, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Greg Dulina, 912 James Hazleton, second, Sunday. A party will be held in his honor. Paul Matweecha 118 S. Wyoming Hazleton, today.

Jessica Lisa Pettit, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Pettit, 591 Arthur Hazleton, fourth, Sunday. A party will be held in her honor. Melanie Lynn Sarno, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Philip Sarno 16 Edge Trail, R.R. 2, Sugarloaf, ninth, today. A party will be held in her honor. Mrs.

Karen Bellfield, Hollars Hill, Thursday. Teresa Zavitsky, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Zavitsky, Box 792, R.D. 2 Drums, 15th, Sunday.

Teresa is a sophomore at Hazleton High School. Caitlyn Gliem, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Gliem, 1040 W. 19th West Hazleton, second, Sunday.

A party will be held in her honor. Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Brian Pliska 458 S. Poplar Hazleton, seventh, today.

The couple has four children, Brian Danielle, Heather, and Lee Michael. HARWOOD AREA LADIES CIVIC AND SOCIAL CLUB will meet at 7 p.m. Tuesday. Serving on the committee will be Catherine Wisda, Helen Bindus, Theresa Cherko and Dorothy Clark. Members of the special committee are Elinor Matulevich and Mary Pleban.

LADIES OF UNICO will meet Thursday at 6 p.m. at Ferdinand's Restaurant. Tressa Senape and Rose Cerasolo, co-chairmen, have announced that the speaker will be Dr. Geraldine Shepperson, director of pupil services in the Hazleton Area School District. Fall and winter projects and activities will be discussed and a report on the Christmas candy sale will be heard.

Margaret Veet, president, will be in charge of the dinner meeting. Prizes will be awarded at the conclusion of the session. THE OCTOBER MEETING of the Mountain City Mothers of Multiples will be held Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. at the Weatherly Country Inn. Final plans for the Halloween party will be made at this session.

For further information call Kelly Fisher at 455-8317 or Brenda Gonzalo at 788-5853. MADONNA SENIORS of Our Lady of Grace Church will meet at 7 p.m. Monday in Madonna Hall. SOCIAL CLUB will meet at 7 p.m. Monday at the Calbeth Firehall.

On the agenda will be a discussion of upcoming activities. HAZLETON-ST. JOSEPH MEDICAL CENTER AUXILIARY will hold its regular and board meeting at 7 p.m. Monday in the hospital cafeteria. BUSINESS GIRLS CLUB OF THE YWCA will meet at 1:30 p.m.

Tuesday at the with President Maria Smith in charge. Hosteses will be Betty Kulp, Alice Hartung and Gladys Esterly. The Travelers Cheque is 100 years old. Senior Living Community ADULT DAY CARE PROGRAM providing Socialization and Recreational Enhancement Help With Health Related Problems Complete Breakfast Full Course Noon Meal Nutritious Snacks Various Planned Activities Handicap Van Transportation Some Dept. of Aging Funding Available Licensed By Commonwealth of Pennsylvania Programs Available Monday-Friday 8am-4pm Beautiful Fritzingertown Setting Call Paula Sagan RN For More Information 788-4178 9am-5pm Another Service of Fritzingertown Senior Living Community 1162 Old Turnpike Road Drums, PA 18222 Kim R.

Smith Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith, Bride-elect Oakmont Acres, Ebervale, announce the engagement of their daughter, Kim Rene, to John D. Buglio, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph T. Buglio, Hazleton. Miss Smith was graduated from West Hazleton High School and is attending Penn State University. She also is employed at the Holiday Inn, Hazleton. Mr.

Buglio is a graduate of Hazleton High School and West Chester University. He is a teacher in the Tamaqua Area School District and is a member of the band "Kartune." People you know The infant daughter of John and Stacy Seritsky, 99 S. Church Hazleton, was baptized Candace Ann by the Rev. Dr. Carl G.

Schweitzer in Trinity Lutheran Church. Sponsors were Tiffany Diefenderfer, West Hazleton, and David Kupusnick, Frackville, aunt and uncle of the child. A dinner in the child's honor followed at the West Hazleton Knights of Columbus. The infant's mother is the former Stacie Diefenderfer. Kelly Nicole Miller, infant daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John Miller, R.R.2 Weatherly, was baptized by the Rev. William J. Schields in St. Nicholas Church, Weatherly.

Sponsors were John "Herbie" Miller, Weatherly, and Amy Dinofrio, Freeland, cousins of the child. The infant's mother is the former Amy Kuchar, daughter of Mr. and Mrs John Kuchar, Weatherly, a and the father is a son of Josephine Lechner, Hamburg, and Edward Miller, Weatherly. A reception in the child's honor followed at the Miller residence. JoAnn M.

Woodring, Hazleton, has been named Employee of the Month for Octobert at Hazleton General Hospital. Mrs. Woodring has worked in the housekeeping department at HGH for 15 years. She and her husband, Albert, have three children, AnnMarie, Andrew and Michael. The award is given to employees who demonstrate outstanding courtesy, attitude, respect and enthusiasm.

Any HGH employee (except senior management) can be nominated by hospital staff, physicians, patients or patients' families by dropping a nomination form in the box in the hospital lobby. Winners of the 10-table Mitchell game played by the Hazleton Bridge Club at the Greater Hazleton Senior Citizens Activity Center on Tuesday evening were: North-South: first, Joseph Walton and Evelyn Wallen; second, Mr. and Mrs. Vincent McNertney; third, Lillian Cohn and Beldayre Ellis; fourth, Paula Benz and Judy Haber. East-West: first, Emily Bloss and Flo Mason; second, a tie, Irene Schnaufer and Mary Ann Romano, and Dr.

and Mrs. Milford Barnes; and fourth, Annette Johns and Dee Krynock. The winners of the four-table Howell movement game played by the club on Thursday evening at the senior citizens center were: first, Joseph Walton and Emily Bloss; second, Beldayre Ellis and Lillian Cohn; and third, Mike Barbuti and Flo Mason. NOTHING LIKE LIVE "THE CASUALS" PLAYING ALL TYPES OF MUSIC! Available For WEDDINGS, ANNIVERSARIES, PARTIES, ETC. We Will Work Within Your Budget! FOR MORE INFORMATION: CALL 717-929-1307 OPAL SALI Save At Least Off Our Everyday Low Prices On All Opal Jewelry! The brilliantly colored opal was said to have all magic powers, because of its play of many colors.

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