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Ml 15 BROOKLYN DAILY EAGLE, NEW YORK, TUESDAY, AUGUST 16, 1932 Helen Worth Advises Reader Contemplating Divorce So cietg If You Like Bronzed Hair Here Are Directions for Attaining Metallic Effect Creature Comforts Or Companionship? Which Is Preferable? George Werlemana Mairiet Miu Dorothy J. Achelu at Quiet Ceremony at Rumson Miss Dorothy J. Achelis of Rum been hearing so much about are similar to the metallic ones except that the bronze powder is not used. The coiffure is finger waved, dried and then brushed over with a small camel's hair brush dipped in French varnish or banana oil. Some people use plain varnish, but it ia harder to remove.

Alcohol may be used to take off the varnish when desired, then the hair should shampooed as suggested above for bronzed coiffures. Believing that viany persons are confronted with personal problems, anxious for advice, but unwilling to seek it from friends or relatives. The Eagle invites its readers to write to Helen Worth, irlio wi'U give mch communication close personal attention. Write vnder your own name or an assumed one AND OS QSE SIDE OF THE PAPER ONLY Adriee by Helen Worth Dear Helen Worth I am a woman 38 years old and have been married 12 years. My daughter is 11.

I was brought up in modest circumstances, but we always had enough. I married, as they say, for love. My husband has never earned enough to support our little vice as you give, to go forward with hope renewed. To be brief, I was left a widow very young with a small family. I tried so hard to be both father and mother to thpm, and the road was so rough at times, but the harder I had to battle the greater happiness it brought me.

Then when it looked as if I was to be rewarded for the hard years of struggling, God saw fit to take my boy, who was everything to me and I to him, that left me all alone. Oh, Helen Worth, it Is so hard to acquire and say "Thy will be done, A grief such as this sears our very souls. For years I had no time to culti Today's Fashion Dainty and Cool Here's a little dress of pale blue dimity with white dots. The cape collar and the bordored hem are plain pale blue dimity. It's very easy to make and cunning for Summer parties, carried out in yellow organdy.

Batiste prints, pastel lawns, voile prints and tub silks are also suitable. This pattern No. 1003 may be obtained in sizes 4 to 10, ready for Immediate delivery. Send 15 cents (In stamps or coin) to Pattern Bureau, Brooklyn Daily Easle. Write plainly name and full address.

Also number of pattern and the size you want. Send for Fashion Book price 15 cents. If ordered at same time as pattern price only 10 cents. but then one can never tell. He is one of those employers who try to act paternalistic to his young female help in the place.

I may seem too overanxious to you, or may seem to make a mountain out of a molehill, but this letter answered now may save others a similar experience, as this is the period for vacations. I will be awaiting your answer In the paper for the next few days. Perhaps I may have to write another one. JUST AN ANXIOUS BOY-FRIEND. My dear Anxious Boy Your letter Is being answered as promptly as It could be.

Only persons utterly oblivious to right and wrong could countenance such a trip. The man may mean well, but the chances are about ten million (or billion) to one that he does not! Any girl of ordinary intelligence, old enough to secure her working papers, should know enough to refuse such an offer. And any married man, young or middle-aged, who suggests ich a trip, should be horsewhipped! HELEN WORTH. 5 1003 1 1 Mrs. Edwin Sefton was Miss Marjorie Strong, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. George Strong of Edgewood Farm, Smith-town Branch, L. before her recent marriage. Mr. and Mrs.

Sefton will reside in Manhattan. By LOIS LEEDS METALLIC UNTS IN COSMETICS There are two general classes of beauty aides. By iar the greater proportion of cosmetics aim to enhance natural beauty The woman who uses them wants her drug-store complexion and her tinted hair to look genuine. She wants her coiffure to resemble naturally curly hair after it has oeen waved artificially. Then there is a smaller group of cosmetics that give decorative rather than natural effects.

They are usually rather faddish and never gain the wirie popularity of the former type. Among them are metallic colors fingertips and hair. Ruby-tinted finger and toe nails with gold or tips are not at all according to nature, but they are ornamental and enjoy a certain vogue. Bronze-tinted hauls ultra-chic Just now and is not difficult to acmeve. What is more, it is easy to remove the metallic coating when milady wishes her hair restored to Ks normal color.

-There are difffient shades of bronze powder may be used as they are or else blended to ob tain original effects. They may be purchased at stores where artists' supplies are sold and some beauty shops have them, too. Bafore the coiffure is treated with the metallic powder it should be finger-waved and thoroughly dried. The hair is not combed out because a smooth sculpturp. effect Is desired.

Of course the bronze powder will not adhere as well to a loosely waved, fluffy type of hairdrcss. After the coiffure is given its final shape it Is sprayed all over with brilllantine which will hold the powder on the hair. The powder itself is then dusted on with a piece of absorbent cotton. Pat it on as smoothly and evenly as possible. Now, if you want a very striking effect, go over the ridges of the waves with a little bronze powder of a lighted shade than that used for the rest of the hair.

The final step Is to spray the coiffure with ban.na oil to keep the powder on and to give luster. Use an oil atomizer for the purpose and go over all parts carefully. Now the coiffure is finished and ready to be the cynosure of all eyes at a formal party or costume ball. The bronze powder Is removed by shampooing. Just use a liquid dry shampoo which may be bought at any shop where a complete line of cosmetics Is for saie.

Finish with your usual soap and water shampoo. If the hair at all inclined to dryness, have a warm-oil treatment before washing your hair. The lacquered coiffures we have pi 5 Reducing I'pper Arms and Lcirs Dear Miss Leeds -Please tell me a quick way of reducing upper arms and I am 20 years old and 5 feet 3 Inches tall and weigh 145 pounds. Can it be that I am going to be a fat old woman at 30 years of age? I ask you to help me solve this problem. Am I too short to be attractive? RESTLESS AND REGUSTED.

You are probably built on a sturdy, athletic type, and you should not become disgusted nor allow yourself to become flabby or out of condition on acount of your build. Take an active interest In outdoor sports and remember that you have five more years to go before you are fully matured; ufter that time your body will readjust itself and you will have a aupple, youthful body with flexible muscles if you train from now on. Swimming would be an ideal hobby for you, because it keeps tha muscles supple and flexible. Your height is average, no too short. The flabby msucles of the arms and legs would take on graceful and firm contours if you practice regularly.

Spend 10 to 15 minutes each night and morning in doing special exercises like the following: (1) Stationary running for a few minutes. (2) For the hips: ie on your back on the floor, raise lees up vertically. Keeping trunk flat on the floor, swing legs lrom side to side ten or 20 times. (3) For upper aims: Hold arms out level with shoulders, fists clenched. Slowly twist the hands forward as far as they will go, keeping arms out at sides.

Twist In opposite direction. In this exercise the fists describe a small circle as they twist. (41 Do arm-llinging exercises and the windmill swing every night and morning. Write for leaflets on the indoor woman, beauty exercises and reducing lower limbs. Be sure to inclose a self-addrtsseO.

stamped envelope. No, indeed, you are not too short to be attractive if you bring out your own good points. iiitz-Jajultoiv ATLANTIC CITY America Smartest Soanide Hotel Oabtna ihi bwh Prial Iar fr balding tract from raomi Kumpran Plan American Plan lc Koom from 14 Sintl Boom fram tft Double nam from 17 Double nam from 14 Weekly rata ii timet ilaily rata Far Rrrvatina Telephone Pl.ara JcrHi I'. SADkow, Mnnofting Dirrrtir Rlmnre Prnpri Manacntrnl. Inf.

Long Island Society Miss Margaret D. Daingerfield And John Kirkman Berry to Be Married; Announcement Today Mr. and Mrs. Algernon Daingerfield of Garden City L. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Margaret Duncan Daingerfield, to John Kirkman Berry, son of Mrs.

John Kirkman Berry of Meadow Lane, Greenwich, Conn. Miss Daingerfield attended D'Er-mitage. Versailles, France, and made her debut In 1928. She is a granddaughter of Maj. Foxhall Parker Daingerfield, whose ancestors on both sides settled In Virginia in the 1600's.

She is a granddaughter on the maternal side of Henry T. Duncan of Lexington, Ky and a great-great-granddaughter of Dr. James Abercrombie, rector of the Episcopal Church established by the Church of England in Philadelphia. Mr. Berry is the nephew of Thomas Bealle Davis and J'iseph E.

Davis of Manhattan and a grandson of Mrs. Coburn D. Berry of Nashville, Tenn. Mr. Berry was graduated from.

Yale University In 1930 and is a member of the Society of the Cincinnati, the Yale Club and Troop of Squadron A. Mrs. Nicholas F. Brady, who Is at present in England, will sail Saturday on the United States liner Leviathan to return to New York. She will be accompanied by her niece, Mrs.

Michael Scott, who will be with her at Inisfad, Manhasset, L. until late in September. Miss Nancy Roberts, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Percy L.

Roberts of Sea Cliff, L. gave a luncheon at the Maine Maid yesterday in honor of Miss Vivian Vyse, who will sail this week for a year of study in France, and Miss Peggy Rathborne of Rochester. Mr. and Mrs. Earl E.

T. Smith, who were at' the races at Saratoga Springs, left yesterday for Sands Point, L. accompanied by their daughters, Iris Aida and Virginia son, N. was married to George E. Werlemann of Locust Valley, L.

son of Mrs. Henri yerlemann of 249 Carroll Park, Brooklyn, yesterday In the rectory of Holy Cross Church In Rumson. The Rev. Father John Murray performed the ceremony. Miss Achelis was escorted by ner brother, Johnfritz Achelis.

She was unattended. Due to the recent death of the bride's father, John Achelis, the wedding was a small one and witnessed only by Immediate rela rtlves. The bride was graduated from the Wasters School In Dobbs Ferry, in 1921 and made her debut In the autumn of that year. Mr. Werlemann Is a graduate of Brooklyn Polytechnic Institute, class of 1918.

Mr. and Mrs. Werlemann, who are pit the Hotel Pierre, Manhattan, will bail for Bermuda today on the Fur- piess-Bermude liner Franconia and will make their home in Rumson lupon their return. i Brooklynites Hosts at Their Homes at Boothbsy Harbor Mr. and Mrs.

Frank Seward Allen of Detroit, who are at their Summer home at Boothbay Harbor, Maine, entertained there recently at a large reception. Mrs. Allen was assisted by Mrs. Clarence Allen of Boston, Mrs. Edgar Hannan of Mon tana and Mrs.

Carroll Leja Nichols of Brooklyn. About 150 persons at tended. Dr. and Mrs. Carroll Leja Nichols of 230 Hancock St.

were hosts at a obster supper at their Booth Bay Harbor home recently in honor of iDr. Edgar Kahn, assistant professor lof brain surgery at the University of Michigan. Fourteen guests were present. Mr. and Mrs.

Charles-O. Grim and Mr. and Mrs. P. E.

Weaver of Brooklyn, Mr. and Mrs. Franklin (Tyson of Forest IJills and Col. and Mrs. Robert Mazet of Plandome, L.

are at the Sunset Hill House, Sugar Hill, N. H. Mr. and Mrs. Howard Peterson and L.

C. Christenson are at Twin Mountain House, Sugar Hill, N. H. Dr. and Mrs.

V. L. Pierce and Mr. and Mrs. C.

K. Moffatt are at the Eagle Mountaim House, Jackson, IN. H. Mr. and Mrs.

Peter Bennett of Brooklyn have taken the Butterfleld kottage at Manchester, for the remainder of the season. Mr. and Mrs. Gilbert M. Stratton (are among the Brooklynites who will entertain guests at the Raoio nail to be held at the Lido Country Club At Lido Beach.

on Friday. A Jmicrophone will be arranged on the foutdoor terrace overlooking the Jocean and tables will be placed around the patio. Mr. and Mrs. G.

Schenck Van Siclen of Brooklyn and Sayville, L. I gave a welcome home supper party at the Tidewater Inn. Sayville, recently in honor of their guests, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Suy-dam Rapelje (Gertrude Van Siclen, and Mr.

and Mrs. Nicholas Rapelje (Helen Suydam) of Hollis Park Gardens and Brooklyn, who returned last week from a two months' visit abroad. Among the other guests were Mrs. William E. Maynard.

Miss Edith Dwight, Mrs. George Taylor, Walter T. Lungberg, Mrs. Edgar Gordon, Miss Jane Potter, Miss Nancy Eastman and Miss Nathalie Knox. Mr.

and Charles Raphael and their daughter have taken a house at Chatham, N. for August. Dr. and Mrs. M.

A. Murphy, George M. Smith, Mr. and Mrs. Allen MacKrell, Mr.

and Mrs. A. B. Colburn, Mr. and Mrs.

Henry W. Gerdan, Willard J. Gerdan and V. D. Cronin are at the Prospect House at Lake Bomoseen, Vt.

Amone the Brooklynites at the bnarshall House, York Harbor, Maine, are Mr. and Mrs. J. nuju, Boyd John E. Peabody, Mr and Mrs.

Randolph Nexsen and Harold Nexsen. i jfo Rtlnsnn. Miss 1 Mr. BI1U Alia. a.

a. Eleanor Metz, Mr. and Mrs. William Baldwin mi. Her, Mr.

ana wis. Miss Lucile Tibbels. William Keene, Forest Wilson, Mrs. Isabel Lewey, and Miss Alice Peters of Brooklyn it- Ifnina are at uguiiquit, Mrs. Robert Mallory Jr.

and her iTam Mallory. of Rye, N. are at Kennebunkport, Maine. a Aihurt r. Firth had as their weekend guests at Little Neck Estates, Bayville, L.

Mr. and ma ue. Mr. and Mrs. Alfred G.

McCourt. Miss Cora i Pen- HiPtnn and miss viib" of Brooklyn. The Misses Evelyn and Ida Smith of 196 Lenox Road will sail on Saturday on the Cunard liner Trania to visit Halifax. Quebec and Bermuda. Robert Linden Hubbard Wed To Miss Otelia E.

Gibson Miss Otelia Evelyn Gibson and Robert Linden Hubbard were married at Plandome, L. on Saturday Miss Gibson is the daughter of Mrs. Gladys Lee Dillon of Denver but has resided for some time in Plandome with her uncle and aunt, Mr. and Mrs. John Mey-forth, at whose home the ceremony took place.

Mr. Hubbard is the son of the late Frank L. Hubbard and Mrs. Nell Parfitt Hubbard. The c-remony was performed by the Rev.

Donald McAlpine. Mrs. Carmen Soper, cousin of the bride, was matron of honor, and Shirley Soper. the bride's niece, was ring bearer. Frank L.

Hubbard Jr. acted as best man for his brother. Both the Parfitt and Hubbard jrera among tba jpionee family and I have always had to scrape and save, sometimes to the bitter extreme. Twelve long years of worrying about where the next dollar will some from has "fed me up." I have held the friendship of a man, some years my senior, for several months who Is independently wealthy. He is a gentleman in every respect and has sympathized greatly with my circumstances.

He has intimated that he is lonely and would be proud to have a wife like me. What am I to do? I have lost the love I originally had for my husband. His lack of ambition, weakness and his stand-pat idea of letting well enough alone, have almost driven me to despair. I am now thoroughly aware he can never attain any heights in the business world. He will simply remain where he Is without ever attempting to strike out.

My future can only be a repetition of what I have gone through la the past, with th possibilities of even greater hardships if he loses his Job, a daily possibility these times. I have practically decided to take steps to secure a divorce. As the wife of a man of wealth, I can educate my daughter properly and live a life unfilled with the horrors of poverty. Don't you think I owe this to mvself and my child? A READER OF YOUR COLUMN. My Dear Reader Obviously you are motivated by material reasons.

"A life unfilled with the horrors of poverty" sounds desirable. But creature comforts are not the only consideration in this world. Congenial companionship rates high, tenderness and kindly consideration ditto. We are all prone to forget that the ability to make money, to save It, or to manage it. Is not a universal characteristic.

"What will you have?" says God. "Take it and pay." If the education of your child and the mental ease which comes from a substantial bank account are your two chief desires, perhaps a divorce would be wise and worth the psychic disturbance it is bound to create. But to think the matter over most carefully, and proceed slowlv. is the advice of HELEN WORTH. Widow, Childless Seeks Acquaintances Dear Helen Worth: Am turning to you as so many have, when cares and problems lay heavy on their shoulders, and am sure after reading the answers you give to some of the letters written you, you must surely bring hope and encouragement to so many who falter on the way, and need just such kindly ad i 1 ifflfffi Yet she 7 1 I if 3 I iiV 4 a I vate friends and nov find myself without any.

Sometimes the lonell ness is almost unbearable and it's so hard to pick up the threads of life again. I am a Protestant, 48 years old and would like to correspond with some one of the opposite sex similarly situated. He must be a gentleman. SINCERITY My dear "Sincerity" Your grief and loneliness are pitiable, your de sire to make friends thoroughly understood. Thank you for the kind things you say.

I do hope that not only encouragement but some new acquaintances may come to you via this department. Letters forwarded. HELEN WORTH. Such an Invitation Should Be Refused! Dear Helen Worth I have read your column many times since the paper has been coming to our home. I have received great help from it sometimes, but this is the first time that I am writing a letter to you for advice.

ijo you think it is proper for a young girl who works in an office (only two girls in the office) to ac cept an offer from her employer, a married man, to accompany him. to nearby Summer resort for a weekend trip, even though it Is (or may be) legitimate? The man is almost middle-aged, and seems to mean well. His wife and children are in the country also, but not at the same place where he stops weekends. He always goes by automobile, so as to save railroad fare, which runs into quite a sum. (This he told his employe, so as to save her money.) The young lady's family has said It Is all right, even though they know as much about him as I do.

maintain that pleasure and social duties should not be mixed with business, even if it Is your employer. He may have honest intentions, 9 4 9 iiffljffii'rrfr WfJrifrriiMifiriii Pi to' residents of Bensonhurst. Mrs. Hubbard and her sons have been living in Port Washington for several years. Mr.

and Mrs. Hubbard will reside at Burnett Court, Flushing, L. for the Winter. Miss Catherine Heslin is spending the Summer at Camp Tegawitha, Mount Pocono, and her brother, Thomas Madden Heslin, is a Junior camper at Camp Namaschaug, Lake Spofford, N. H.

They are the children of Dr. and Mrs. William F. Heslin of 694 St. Mark's Ave.

Midweek Entertaining Extensive in Berkshire! Great Barrington, Aug. 16 Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Murphy of Englewood, N. were recently entertained at a dinner party by Mr.

and Mrs. Rodney S. Jarvis at their Summer home, Wheelbarrow Hill Farm, South Egremont, Mass. Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Picaso of 200 St. James Place are entertaining Russell Page of Hyde Park. at their Summer home, Sheffield. Mass. Mr.

and Mrs. Edward F. Stevens of 1(8 Columbia Heights have been the recent guests of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas H.

Blodgett, Great Barrington, Mass. C. Mason Dutcher of Engbwood, N. is the guest of Mr. and Mrs.

Frank Sharp, Oconomowac, Wis. Dr. and Mrs Harry B. Ogdon of Great Neck, L. 1..

are entertaining Dr. and Mrs. Richard Dawson of East Orange, N. at their Summer home. Quarry Cottage, Sheffield, Mass.

Miss Dorothy Ray of Port Washington, L. is also the guest of Dr. and Mrs. Ogdon. Mr.

and Mrs. James Hatch of Trenton, N. are with Mrs. Hatch's parents, Dr. and Mrs.

Horace Mann Snyder, at Monteray, for two weeks. Sidney Darlington of 344 12th Manhattan, is the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Frederic Darlington, Great Barrington, Mass. Mr.

and Mrs. Ira Underwood Cob- leigh and their son Ronald Cobleigh of Douglaston, L. left on Satur day for a four weeks visit at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Irving cobleigh at Coneacrcs, East Haddam, Conn.

Mr. and Mrs. John E. Buhl of 319 St. John's Place announce the birth of their second ton, Thomas Buhl, at the Long Island College Hospital on Aug.

4. Mrs. Buhl is the former Miss Emily Healig. Miss Lucile Burton of 187 Hicks St. was hostess on Saturday at a luncheon and shower for Miss Dorothy Welch, daughter of Colonel and Mrs.

George M. Welch of 348 E. 23d who will be wed to Henry B. White of Virginia on Sept. 3.

Among those present were Mrs. L. W. Burton, Mrs. H.

W. Chadwick, Mrs. Bertram Longbotham, Mrs. Laurence Manning, Mrs. John P.

Radcliff, Mrs. George M. Welch and Miss Ruth Bates. Mrs. Emerson Hostess Mrs.

Louis H. Emerson of 4012 Farragut Road gave a luncheon at her residence yesterday in honor of the 10th birthday of Joseph A. and Mary Hart, twin children of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony J.

Hart of 4010 Farragut Road. The guests were Mrs. Anthony Hart, Mrs. Karl Montelin, Miss Mary Hart, Joseph Hart, Leo Hart and Eugene Hart. Alonzo P.

Lenz, treasurer of the Brooklyn Sunday School Union, and Mrs. Lenz and William and Miss Sarah Lenz are spending the Summer at Lake St. Catherine, Poultney. Vt. Miss Lenz was graduated from Froebel and will enter Packer Collegiate Institute in the Fall.

William Lenz is a student at Poly Country Day School. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Coles of Lawrence. L.

and Mr. and Mrs. Leo Gocdkind and Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Hains of Woodmere, L.

are at the Leland House, Schroon Ji r- I lis if "i "'I 4 i uonsueio smith. Belle Terre Flower Show To Take Place on Friday The third annual flower show of the Belle Terre Garden Club will be held at the Golf and Country Club of Belle Terre on Friday from 2 to 9 o'clock. Tea will be served. There will be 25 classes with 14 open to outside clubs. Mrs.

Joseph E. Pogue is In charge of entries. Mrs. John P. Caffrey Is general chairman of the committee which Includes Mrs.

Ralph Pratt Hinchman, staging; Mrs. Joseph Pogue, entries; Mrs. Joseph F. Maxwell, Mrs. Bayard L.

Peck, Judges; Mrs. Charles B. Chrystal, prizes; Mrs. Harry H. Purvis, hospitality, and Mrs.

Harrison Boehm, Junior department. Mrs. Hinchman is nreiident of the club. She will donate a cup which will be awarded for the most artistic arrangement of fruits and vegetables arranged for beauty of color and grouping. The boxing bouts which were scheduled for the pool at the Atlantic Beaib, Club, Atlantic Ecach, L.

were postponed on account of rain and will take place tomorrow night at 10 o'clock. The original schedule for three four-man classes, nine bouts of three rounds each, will be followed. Motion pictures will be shown at the club for the first time this season on Friday night. The pool will be the locale and will be turned into an outdoor moving picture theater. The Sigall exhibition of portraits, under the sponsorship of Mrs.

Frank Vance Storrs, will open at the club tomorrow for the' benefit of the Tonsil Hospital. Mrs. James H. Gray of Garden City, L. and her daughter.

Miss Charlotte Qray, are at the Invcr-aurie Hotel at fiimilton, Bermuda. Mir mill 'Mmntf feAii, i AiuA. wears underthings a second day Wah thii 4-mimitc wyl Ont tablespoon of Lux does one day' underthings stockings, too. Squeeze lukewarm suds through fabric, rinse twice, shake out. Avoid ordimrv np cakes, powders, chips.

These often contain harmful alkali which weakens threads, fades colors. Lux has no harmful alkali. Anything safe in water is safe in Lux. Don't risk offending in this way! Lux takes away acids and odors completely yet so gently that it cannot harm the finest fabric or the daintiest color. Lux underthings and stockings alter every wearing.

This dainty habit takes only 4 minutes or less! FRESH AS A ROSE, she steps from her tub and then too often she puts on lingerie stale with yester day's perspiration! And, of course, she perspires again today. Everyone does, at least a little. All too soon other people get that penetrating hint. jj ClntheDhhpon wL 7 If A I I k('P ft. (yr9S I whti4 llh.

It CO.WKlltl' I LUX removes perspiration acids and odors yet Saves Colors.