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NEIGHBORS THURSDAY, JUNE 15, 1995 Page 20 Hints from Heloise Dear Heloise: I use the boxes my checks come in to compartmentalize two big drawers in my vanity. They're plenty sturdy and a great size! Allison, Addison, Texas HOMEMADE STARCH Dear Heloise: Would you please send me the instructions for a syrup that stiffens the ruffle for a crocheted doily? Mrs. Lois Echard, Genoa City, Wis. I'll print the homemade starchy syrup right here for you. Combine cup sugar and cup water in a small pan and place People you know The infant son of Mr.

and Mrs. Ronald Coleman, Danielsville, was baptized Jarred Ryan, by Msgr. Francis J. Beeda in St. Joseph's Church, Hazleton.

Sponsors were Helen Suchajda, Allentown, and Christopher Coleman, Bloomsburg, aunt and uncle of the child. A reception in the child's honor was held at Dubatto's Library Lounge, Hazleton. Jarred's mother is the former Lisa Suchajda, RN, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John R.

Suchajda, West Hazleton, and his father is a son of Mrs. Linda Crease, Bloomsburg, and Ronald Coleman, also of Bloomsburg. Alexandria Kristine Ator, infant daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Franklin A.

Ator, West Hazleton, was baptized by the Rev. Francis Kulik in St. Mary's Church, Greenwood section of Moosic. Sponsors were Janet Yankelitis, Plains, and George Ator, Hazleton, aunt and uncle of the infant. Receptions followed at Valentino's Restaurant, Scranton, and at the family residence in West Hazleton.

The child's mother is the former Mary Ann Yankelitis, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Yankelitis, Scranton, and her father is a son of Mr. and Mrs. George C.

Ator, Hazleton. on the stove over low heat. Stir the mixture (don't let it boil) until it is completely clear, then remove from the burner and let it cool. Next, dampen the doily with water, patting out any excess with a paper towel, then dip it in the cooled mixture. Gently squeeze to remove the excess starch from the doily and lay flat or place over a cup, glass or bowl to get the desired shape.

Allow it to dry thoroughly, then remove it. That's all there is to it. Heloise SWEATER SNAG Susan Stortz becomes bride of Robert Moyer Susan and Robert B. Moyer Mr. and Mrs.

Alfred F. Stortz Lake Nuangola, announce the marriage of their daughter, Susan, to Robert B. Moyer, son of Mr. and Mrs. Leroy B.

Moyer, Line Lexington, on May 6 in Christ United Methodist Church, Mountaintop. The Rev. Bruce Gallop assisted by the Rev. Calvin Yoder performed the double ring ceremony. A scripture reading was given by Bonnie Moyer, sister-in-law of the groom.

Ruth Brand was organist, and Kathy Harris, soloist. Following an afternoon cocktail hour and reception at the Lookout House, the couple left for a honeymoon in Scotland and Wales. They now reside in Weissport. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a silk off-theshoulder ballgown with short sleeves, bodice and train with pearled single lace flowers, back buttons and bow, and a cathedral train trimmed with a single row of floral lace. She wore her mother's veil.

Pamela Dean, the maid of honor, wore a mauve crepe floor-length sheath gown with short sleeves, an asymmetrical waist accented with pearl buttons, and a tulip skirt. The bridesmaids, who were similarly attired, were Dianne Bailey, Kathy and Elizabeth Harris. John Miracle served as best man, and the groomsmen were David and Alan Moyer, brothers of the groom, and Robert Smith. Mrs. Moyer, granddaughter of Leah Humphrey, Wilkes-Barre, and the late Dr.

Isaac Humphrey, Nanticoke, and the late Mr. and Mrs. Alfred 1 F. Stortz Wilkes- Barre, is a graduate of Crestwood High School. She received a bachelor of science in mathematics and master of science degree in education from Wilkes University, and is a member of the faculty of MMI Preparatory School, Freeland.

Mr. Moyer is a graduate of Central Bucks West High School and Dickinson College, where he earned a bachelor of arts degree in international studies and Russian. He is an export coordinator with Victaulic International in Easton. The bride was honored at a shower hosted by her attendants at the Coxe Home, Drifton, and the couple was honored at a shower given by the faculty and staff of MMI at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Michael Peal, Conyngham. The rehearsal dinner was hosted by the groom's parents at the Stagecoach Inn. At wit's end Simple outdoor meal is no picnic in the park ERMA BOMBECK The kids returned home a few weeks ago and decided 1 it would be great to go on a picnic. My heart swelled (at my age what doesn't?) at the thought of taking a couple of packages of hot dogs in a cooler, some chips and buns, and a thermal bag for the drinks. I was halfway out the door yelling, "Let's do it!" when my daughter said, "I'll make the pasta salad if someone will go to the store and pick up a loaf of French bread and a smoked salmon spread." My daughter-in-law said, "I'll pack the sunscreen, the carriers for the Perrier, and the backpack in case we want to do some hiking." "Don't forget the radio," yelled a voice, "and check the video camera to see if the batteries are charged." "Where's the fire starter?" asked my son.

"In case we want to roast marshmallows." "Are we talking matches?" I asked. "No, the fire starter. Is there fluid in it?" "Don't forget the tablecloths and the blankets oh, and some citronella candles in case it gets buggy." "Is the cellular already packed? With crime being what it is, I wouldn't leave home without I watched in horror as they whipped around the house carrying out folding chairs and chaises, umbrellas to protect us from the Dear Heloise: I recently used a hint from your column to carry pens and pencils in a toothbrush holder to make them easy to find in my purse. I've received lots of compliments on it! Here's my hint: I often get snags on my sweaters when I'm at work or out someplace where I don't have a needle handy. I use either a fishhook-type earring or a paper clip by pushing it up through the sweater from underneath and using it like a needle to pull the snag through to the other side.

Marcia Stutzman, Harrisonburg, Va. Sharing hints is 3 what this column is all about. Thanks for writing. Heloise CUP OF COFFEE Dear Heloise: My friend was surprised to see me pour one cup of water into my full-size coffeemaker and put one scoop of coffee in the basket and come out with a cup of perfect coffee. She thought you had to buy a special coffeemaker that made only one cup.

If she didn't know it, maybe other people think they have to make a full pot of coffee, also. Phyllis Ullman, Seattle, Wash. What teens need to know about sex, drugs, AIDS, and getting along with peers and parents is in "What Every Teen Should Know." To order, send a business self- addressed envelope, plus check or money order for $3.95 ($4.50 in Canada) to: Dear Abby, Teen Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, Ill. 61054-0447.

(Postage is included.) Michael Markham and Colleen Shelley Colleen Marie Shelley, daughter of Engaged and John and Michael Nancy Charles Shelley, Markham, Hazleton, son of Charles and Claire Markham, State College, announce their engagement. The bride-elect is a 1994 graduate of Penn State University and is currently employed as a corporate software trainer with Electronic Data Systems, Camp Hill. She education this fall. Mr. Markham, a 1989 graduate marketing representative with UST in Camp Hill.

An Oct. 21 wedding i is planned plans to begin a career in secondary of Penn State University, is a Sales and Marketing Company in State College. Dear Abby By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: Our first baby will be born within the next 30 days. My husband and I are very excited. it's a boy and have been trying to come up with a name we can agree on.

My mother-in-law wants the baby to be named after my husband. You had a letter in your column about naming a child "Junior," GRADUATING WITH ROYALTY Sugarloaf native Alison Dryfoos received a bachelor of arts degree in fashion design from The American College in London during ceremonies held at the London Hilton with 360 international graduates from 96 countries. The commencement address was given by Lord Tonypandy, former Parliment Speaker of the House. Above, Alison, second from left, is joined for graduation by her parents, Llewellyn and Caroline, and sister, Jennifer. At right, with curtsy of respect, Alison greets Her Royal Highness Princess Anne, who attended the graduation fashion show at The American College's Marylebone Theatre.

The show, "Collections 95," a Royal Gala, benefited The Association of Combined Youth Club of which Her Highess is patron. "The Princess is so kind and genuine. She complimented me on my collection," said Alison. "To think that my parents and I met her at my graduation show at the college will be a memory I shall always cherish with great fondness. It was truly exciting.

My parent's were over the moon." Alison's stunning evening wear collection, "An Affair to Remember," will be presented at the prestigious Bhs Fashion Graduate Week at the Islington Business Centre in London and will be seen on BBC-TV's "Clothes Show" this month. which my cousin had pasted in her baby book. Would you please run it again? It may settle the argument. EXPECTING IN JULY DEAR EXPECTING: I think I know the letter and I hope it helps you. Read on: DEAR ABBY: Please print my letter sO other mothers won't make the same mistake I did.

After 19 years, I realize the error of naming our son after his father. When he was a baby, it was no problem. We called him Billy and his father was Bill. When he got older, he decided Billy was too babyish, so he asked us to call him Bill, which wasn't too bad we called one Big Bill and the other Little Bill. That worked out fine until Little Bill got bigger than Big Bill.

Now it's worse. It's Young Bill and Old Bill, and you can imagine how thrilled Father is to be Old Bill at 44. Not only that, but their voices are identical, and they are constantly being mistaken for each other on the telephone. Their mail also gets mixed up. It's a pain i in the neck.

I should have named him Lawrence, like I wanted to. I've always loved that name. Phooey on these "Juniors." TOO LATE NOW sun and pillows to spread around the blanket. "Hey, gang," I said, "we're not closing on escrow here. It's just a little picnic in the park." "I've just thought of something," said my daughter.

"Did anyone remember to make reservations? You know how crowded it is on weekends." "Reservations?" I gasped. "You make reservations at Wolfgang Puck's. You don't make reservations for a picnic table." At the park I watched them all unpack the station wagon that was bursting with stuff. How did life get so complicated? My mind drifted back to when they were small and I carried three diapers in my handbag, stuck pacifiers in their mouths and put them on a blanket to crawl around. I looked over at the next campsite.

There were cribs, swinging chairs, car seats, mobiles hanging from the tree limbs, a box of toys, and a smoking grill watched over by guy in a chef's hat and an apron that said, "Kiss the Cook." COOKIES AND ICE CREAM Ice cream and cookies is one summertime combo that never goes out of style. For a quick cookies 'n' cream sundae, crumble a cookie in a dessert dish, top with a scoop of ice cream, your favorite ice cream topping and another crumbled cookie. Finish off with a dollop of whipped cream. DEAR TOO: Thanks. Expectant parents take note! a The merican DEAR ABBY: "Harold" and I have been happily married for 15 years.

It was a first marriage for me and a second marriage for him. Other then his daughters' weddings, we have never socialized with his ex-wife's family. Recently, his ex-wife's grandmother, died, so Harold sent flowers to his former mother-in-law. When I asked him why he did this, he said, "Emma was my daughters' great-grandmother, and I liked Abby, given the circumstances, I think a nice sympathy card from both of us would have been acceptable, don't you? Also, is it necessary to acknowledge such events in the lives of former inlaws? SEMI-SYMPATHETIC SECOND WIFE DEAR SEMIPATHETIC: Your husband did the right thing in sending the flowers to his former motherin-law for the reasons he stated. However, he should have put both your names on the flowers.

When a woman marries man with children from a prior marriage, she must accept the fact that there will always be some connection between the families..