The Kansas City Times from Kansas City, Missouri • Page 75

THE KANSAS CITY STAR. THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 19, 1959. in Increasingly Roil Men By Hal Boyle. EW YORK, Nov. has been a rash of criticism about the hen-pecked U.

S. men lately, but nobody has been putting the U. S. woman under the microscope for flaws. Isn it about time somebody performed this neglected public service? There are certain traditional objections that are always voiced when the subject of what is wrong with women comes up.

They can be summarized: A woman talks endlessly but rarely says what she really really knows what she says, so how can a man ever understand her? A man can understand only things that make sense. In keeping appointments a woman always arrives by the calendar instead of the clock. A woman is supposed to have the right to change her mind, but actually never nobody can make her change it. A mind also never lets go the memory of a fancied every husband knows. A woman never knows the value of a sound dollar or a good man until both are gone from her.

There is no doubt that most of these moss-grown objections to women are still fairly valid, and probably always will be. But if you polled most American men I doubt these reasons would explain the fact there is a vast and growing grudge among many males against U. S. women. They are, after all, old sins of the fair sex, and man has had to put up with them throughout history.

What tends to annoy a man most today is that he is being made a sucker of in a new way by a new kind of woman. This is the woman who demands the status of a man while still insisting on all the ancient privileges accorded women by the etiquette of romantic chivalry. As an elderly gentleman observed a bit bitterly: woman goes into an office and takes a job away from him; then if they ride down in the same elevator, she expects him to take off his hat to her before he goes out to look for another Are U. S. women becoming racketeers in girdles when it comes to the field of ordinary courtesy? Do they take for granted the polite favors and small human kindnesses men still like to extend to them out of old habit? Many men think so.

Many men think women have lost their manners and charm of gentility and are more arrogant than appreciative for the little gestures of knighthood men still like to extend them. Maybe the country needs a national kick-a-woman- in-the-knee day to put the whole question of modern chivalry back on a sounder footing for all. 19 9 Society M1 RS. Frank Grant Crowell will be hostess of a small dinner Saturday night at the Kansas City Country club for her guest, Mrs. Raymond E.

Lee of Washington, and for Mrs. Frank Jack Fletcher of Mason Springs, Md. Mrs. Lee will arrive tomorrow for visit with Mrs. Crowell.

Mr. and Mrs Paul G. Koontz have as their guest Mrs. Rich ard L. Bower of Pebble Beach, Calif.

Mrs. Koontz and Mrs. Robert L. Dominick enter! tained Tuesday with a small luncheon honoring Mrs. Bower at the Junior League clubhouse.

Mrs. Bower, who is returning from Europe, will leave Monday to return to her home in Pebble Beach. Mrs. Ronald C. Knutson of Buena Park, was the honor guest at a tea this afternoon given by her mother-in- law, Mrs.

Clinton V. Knutson, at her home. You and Your Child Elaborate Toys Hold Only Brief Interest Among the out-of-t own guests who will attend the wedding of Miss Margaret Jane Murrill to Mr. Thomas Charles Peterson Saturday at St. Episcopal church will be: Mr.

a Raymond Murrill, Mr. Randall Murrill and Mr. and Mrs. William Norvell, all of 9t. Louis.

Mrs. Einer Peterson at Aurora. Mrs. Archibald Thompson of Gallatin. Miss Marie Remien of Chicago, and Mr.

and Mrs. Allan Tappan ot Mansville. O. Mrs. Charles T.

Daniels entertained with a buffet lunch eon and kitchen shower today at her home honoring Miss Janice Woodworth Weber. Mrs. Carl Tripp, Mrs Charles Nigro and Miss Rose Nigro. gave a luncheon today at 210 for Miss Judith Ellen Smith. den, son of Mr.

and Mrs Charles W. McFadden of Jamestown, N. November 7 at the Second Presbyterian church. Dr. H.

Louis Patrick performed the ceremony in a setting of lighted tapers, white chrysanthemums and gladioli. The bride, given in mar riage by her father, wore a gown of point over white satin. A Grecian band held her veil. She carried a bouquet of lily of the valley and stephanotis. The flower girl was Danielle Bollier.

She wore a pale yel low dotted nylon dress. Yel low sweetheart roses filled the basket she carried. Mr. George Stewart of Parkville. and Mr.

Dave Young of Lawrence, ushered. Following a reception at the church, Mr. and Mrs. Kick entertained the members of the bridal party with a formal dinner in the Napoleon room. Mr.

and Mrs. McFadden will be at home in Washington. The City club will have the following hostesses for the club dinner tomorrow ight: care for and love, but the clothes are irrelevant. She would much rather have an old blanket she can wrap the By Marcia Winn. OYS each year more and more elaborate, but the children This is a thought parents baby in.

would do well to hold high in their minds as Christmas ap- the same token, a small proaches. A toy is wonderful JLJ boy should not have an only if a child can do some- elaborate train, particularly thing with it. Toys are a not an electric one. All he tools for learning. To can do is watch it gc.

If he learn with a toy a child must is to have a train, it should be able to do something with it. Many of us give our children toys that we, as adults, think the most wonderful toys in the world. They are wonderful, but the children look at them, gape, and go on to have a track he can learn to assemble himself, cars he must buckle together by hand, and cars he can fill himself. A train made of shoe boxes tied together gives him endless no scoldings if he breaks it. Most authorities on play feel that wind-up or electric trains are a waste of money before the age of 5 or 6.

Concentrate on toys that are sturdy, bright and educational. A doll is educational, any of the good outdoor toys wagon, a tricycle, a sand box or a gym set. (Chicago Tribune-New York Syndicate.) A small child wants a doll he or she can wash, drag and step on. Care for fancy tovs comes much later. something else.

Toys are not for looking or admiring. They are for doing. To give a little girl of 2 or 3 a doll with a tpitak full of beautiful a waste of time and molfey. A little girl that age waitfcs a baby she can Mr. and Mrs.

Robert P. In gram, announce the birth November 12 of a son, Robert Palmer Ingram III. The Eleanor Shutz Memorial Library will have its annual birthday party tomorrow at the R. J. DeLano school.

Cochairmen for the event are Mrs. Joseph W. McCoskrie and Mrs. George H. Slough.

Members of the committee are: Mrs. Donald Chisholm, Mrs. Frank Cort el you, Mrs. Lyle Cooke. Mrs.

Edward M. Cox, Mrs. Eugene Wasson and Mrs. C. A.

Shepard. The Theater group of the Junior League will present Apple- Miss Annettli Apollonia Baumann, daughter of Mr and Mrs. Konrad E. Kick of Kansas City, formerly of Claremont, became the bride of Mr. Robert H.

McFad- ni mh Ruth Carswell, Mrs. Ida Maier, Mrs. William Smith. Mrs. Fred Huff, Miss Ranier Tillotson and Mrs.

J. H. Brooking. La Causerie will hold classes in French and Spanish from 9 until noon tomorrow at Epperson House, 5200 Cherry street. At noon Dr.

Armando Marino will speak in Spanish on Relations and Customs of Ecuador. After a Thanksgiving holiday, classes will resume December 4. El Club Interamericano will meet from 3 to 5 Saturday at the home of Mr. Arnie Soem, 4922 Westwood road. Mrs.

Robert H. McFadden is the former Miss Annettli Apollonia Baumann, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Konrad E. Kick of Kansas City, formerly of Claremont, Calif.

She was married November 7 at the Second Presbyterian church. Mr. and Mrs. Charles W. McFadden of Jamestown, N.Y.

are the Garcia photograph). party at 8 tomorrow night at the seminary, Seventy-second street and Euclid avenue. Guild members will be hostesses. Delta Theta chapter of Sigma Phi Gamma will hold a pledge and initiation service at 7:30 tonight at the Little Banquet restaurant in Mission. Mrs.

James Bunton will conduct the ceremony and Mrs. Victor Yuska is program chairman. The Marguerite Robins circle of the Florence Crittenton home will meet for luncheon at 12:30 tomorrow at the home of Mrs. Harry J. Smith, 2018 West Forty-ninth street terrace.

Mrs A. R. Maulsby and Mrs. W. S.

P. Robins will assist. Mrs. Clyde Shipley will give the devotions. The Round Table Luncheon club of the Missouri Federation of clubs will hold its annual philanthropic card party tomorrow at the Council of Clubs, 501 Armour boulevard.

aid H. Hewitt, Seventieth street. 633 West Hostesses: Mrs. Virgil Russell ami Miss Elizabeth Wilson. Circle No.

4 of the Country Club Christian church will meet at 11:30 tomorrow with Mrs. D. J. Lovett, 215 West Fifty-third street terrace. Mrs.

Newton Campbell, devotional. Mrs. Ingram Kidd, program. Assisting will be: Mrs. Oswald Griner.

Mrs. Charles Steams and Mrs. J. J. Foster.

The Ladies Auxiliary to the Postal Supervisors will meet at 8 tomorrow night at the World War II Memorial building. New officers are: Mrs. C. L. Kester, president: Mrs.

F. H. Richmond, first vice-president: Mrs H. S. Ott, second vice-president: Mrs.

H. Zimmerman, secretary, and Mrs. J. R. Peck, treasurer.

The Nixon-Baber Unit No. 332 of the American Legion Auxiliary will meet at 8 tomorrow night at the World War II Memorial building Mrs. Kenneth Elliott will present the program. The Wesleyan Service Guild of the Avenue Methodist church will meet at 6:30 tomorrow at the home of Mrs. Katherine Summerson, 323 Garfield avenue.

Miss Bessie Crabtree, devotions. Miss Helen Redheffer has charge of the program. The Countryside Methodist church Autumn festival will be held at 4 tomorrow and Saturday. Buffet supper served from 5:30 to 7:30. The Troost Avenue Methodist church Society of Christian Service will meet at 10 tomorrow at the home of Mrs.

Raymond Thomas, 3735 Wayne avenue. COUPLE WED 60 YEARS Mr. and Mrs. John A. Buie, 3657 Belleview avenue, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary with an open Mi iv mmm -a EvSv.Ji:-; Ai? (41111 J.

OCIA JF OU UjJCU The Women Association of kouse from 2 until 5 Circle 2 of the Country Club Christian church will meet for luncheon at 12:30 tomorrow at the home of Mrs. Don- the Second Presbyterian church will meet tomorrow at the church. The executive board will meet at 10. Spiritual Life class at 11. Luncheon at 12:15.

Mrs. Russell Salsbury will be the afternoon speaker. The Ladies of the Central Reorganized Latter Day Saint church will have their Christmas bazaar Friday and Saturday on the lower level of the community concourse of the Blue Ridge Mall. The Delta Phi chapter of Epsilon Sigma Alpha will meet at 8 tomorrow night at the home of Mrs. Virgil A.

Anderson, 18 Valley lane, Parkville. St. Diocesan Seminary Guild will sponsor a card Sunday at their home. The couple was married November 22, 1899, in Shawnee. Before his retirement about 10 years ago Mr.

Buie was a Rosedale grocer. Mr. and Mrs. Buie have two sons, Donald A. Buie, Salt Lake City, and Walter S.

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