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i B-6 THE NEW MEXICAN Friday July 8 1994 I People grow out of pedophilia Stewart takes over for Arsenio Ann Landers Advice HBO Young Comedian's Special and MTVs You Wrote It You Watch It which led to his talk show on the music cable channel in October 1993 new show has been signed in 80 TV markets including New York Los Angeles and Chicago with more expected by its debut a Paramount spokesman said Thursday show had been airing in about 160 markets Arsenio Hall was generally seen in 11 pm or 11:30 time slots Paramount said program 'is targeted to the midnight or post-midnight time periods He faces more competition than David Letterman and Jay Leno Two late-night syndicated entries set to debut in September Last Call and The Newz stepped up their efforts to sign stations after exit LDS ANGELES MTV talk show host Jon Stewart will step into the late-night void left by Ar-senio departure Paramount Domestic Television which co-produced The Ars-enio Hall Show announced Thursday that The Jon Stewart Show will premiere Sept 12 in syndication am very excited by the chance to work with Paramount Although I had my sights set on Mary job this should be fun Stewart said of his New York-based hourlong show Hall quit his show which had been lagging in the ratings in May Arsenio Hall will continue to be seen in reruns through Sept 9 Stewart 30 a native of Trenton NJ began as a stand-up comedian in New York and performed at clubs around the country His TV appearances include and picks up my paper He says what did Annie have to say today? Anything juicy?" Then he starts to read your column out loud which I hate because I want to enjoy it with my lunch This morning was the last straw After he finished reading your column he said one I have to show my He then tore your column right out of the paper I had to go across the street to buy another one really ticked off with that guy and like to tell him off but I dare Any suggestions? Still Burning Dear SB: Prevention is far better than trying to find a cure Keep your paper well ditched and out of sight Gem of the Day (Credit Sue Wall in Phoenix): On Judgment Day if God should say Did you clean your house today? I will say I did not I played with my children and I forgot Feeling pressured to have sex? How well-informed are you? Write for Ann Landers' booklet Sex and the Teen-ager Send a self-addressed long business-size envelope and a check or money order for $36 5 (this includes postage and handling) to: Teens do Ann Landers PO Box 11562 Chicago III Dear Ann Landers: I need your help I just found out that my 29-year-old daughter was molested by my father when she was very young In- my wildest dreams I could not imagine this happening I confronted my father who is now 74 He did not try to lie his way out of it or make excuses He admitted the abuse and begged me to forgive him But Ann I just I am simply crushed My daughter says she has forgiven Grandpa as part of her healing process and she want me to tell her grandmother My mother is not well and afraid this news would just about kill her I have talked to my brothers about it and we all agree that Mom should not be told The problem is I let go of this hideous nightmare When around my parents I try my best to pretend that everything is the same as it always was but impossible I find myself pulling away from my touch and I turnmy head away when he speaks to me Meanwhile I am scared to death that Mom will sense something is wrong building up a lot of hostility toward my father and am tempted to turn him in to the police but if I did this my mother would find out and it would tear our family apart I cannot believe that this terrible thing happened to my baby girl and that I was so naive I see what was going on I hate how I feel but I would feel a whole lot worse if my mother heard about it I want to hurt her Please tell me what to do Desperate inNC Dear NC: You say your daughter is 29 and you just learned that she was sexually molested by her grandfather when she was very young It is imperative that you get some counseling at once I am worried that you will make yourself sick if you unload your anger Meanwhile if there are any great-grandchildren around do not leave them alone with Grandpa Pedophilia is not something that is outgrown Dear Ann Landers: You probably think you have heard every problem in the world by now Well I have a new one for you I live in Schenectady NY and I buy The Daily Gazette strictly for your column Almost every day my boss comes by my desk Iglesias is top among Hispanics I Too Few Chances Alfred Sheinwold Bridge Jacqueline Bigar Stars based on earnings His gross income for 1993 and 1994 is expected to total $515 million the magazine said Iglesias a superstar in Europe and Latin America long before his arrival on the US charts has more than 200 platinum and gold records worldwide Following Iglesias was singer Gloria Estefan with gross earnings of $385 million Talk show host Geraldo Rivera was No 3 with $375 million SANTA BARBARA Calif Julio Iglesias reigns supreme among Hispanic entertainers in the United States Hispanic Business magazine ranked the Spanish crooner the top Hispanic crowd-pleaser raise to three hearts and he bids four hearts The opponents pass What do you say? ANSWER: jump shift promised siam interest his hand should be worth at least 17 points When he simply bid game next he said his interest was only mild Still you have a sound hand anj all your high cards may be useful Bid six hearts South dealer North-South vulnerable NORTH 8 4 A 9 4652 Iron Mike wannabes turn out in force had four count four chances to make it" South sighed after deal South won the second spade in dummy and tried the club finesse West won and led a spade to the ace as East threw a heart When South next finessed with the jack of diamonds East won and led the queen of hearts South won and tested the clubs hoping for a 3-3 break but East threw another heart With one chance left South cashed the A-K of diamonds but discard ended his hopes ALL WRONG was wrong" South said Including the way South played the hand When East discards on the third club South knows that West started with five spades and four clubs South can next cash his second high heart and West follows suit South then cashes the ace of diamonds When West follows suit again South knows that last three cards are two diamonds and a heart South therefore leads last heart East must win and lead a diamond up to K-9 DAILY QUESTION You hold: 4 A 3 You open one club and your partner bids two hearts You NEW YORK Lights Camera Tyson A roomful of JJike Tyson wannabes turned out Thursday for a shot at portraying the jailed former heavyweight champion in an HBO movie due out next year There were Tyson affectations gold teeth sleeveless shirts tattoos close-cropped haircuts but no dead ringers And there were two guys named Tyson brothers Leonard and Melvin Neither had experience on the screen or in the ring said Melvin a 6-foot-l 227-pounder His brother who is 6-3 and 230 pounds is a big Tyson fan just had to give it a he said hoping for the The movie Tyson is based on a biography written by former light heavyweight champion Jose Torres Filming starts in August EAST 63 VQJ1062 OQ 1085 484 WEST 1092 5 063 4K1097 SOUTH A75 0742 4AQJ3 1 HAPPY BIRTHDAY for Friday July 8 1994: It could be an extraordinary year in which your creativity will surge get way ahead with your projects and come out on top Allow your creative interests to develop in new ways Listen to your instincts and follow through on what works for you The Stars Show the Kind of Day Have: 5-Dynamic 4-Positive 3-Average 2-So-so 1 -Difficult ARIES (March 2 1-April 19) You need to have serious conversations in which you express your vulnerability The more direct you are the better off you will be Creative ventures are important Be aware of a new beginning or offer that comes your way Tonight: Be where the fun is TAURUS (April 20-May 20) You are more talkative and creative Listen carefully to what you are saying to someone who means a lot to you Friendship plays a significant role today Make time for a group event Tonight: Chat up a storm with a buddy GEMINI (May21-June20) Be careful with spending Do not go overboard Handle a situation carefully Expenses could be overwhelming Be aware of your career Be aware of your image and community role Tonight: Your treat CANCER (June 2 1-July 22) You are a big spender and you need to rethink your expenditures An opportunity to increase your finances is highlighted You get ahead because of your approach Tonight: Be personality-plus LEO (July 23-Aug 22) Rethink a career situation Life could be rather out of whack leaving you wondering which way to go Prepare to act Listen carefully to a feedback Tonight: Flow with the opportunities VIRGO (Aug 23-SepL 22) Zero in on what's important Be aware of what makes you happy Creative centering helps you to visualize important A partner chips in and helps you out and you feel much better as a result Tonight: Go for your South 14 1 NT North 10 3 NT Enst Pass All Pass West Pass Pass PHD LEVEL 7 Monkey Serenade (A J) Answer 8 My Map (FB) Answer real objectives LIBRA (Sept 23-Oct 22) New beginnings are possible in the career arena Be more conscious of your image Work-related events might have you rethinking an offer You know what works for you Be ready to take the next step to get ahead Tonight: Hang out with friends SCORPIO (Oct 23-Nov 21) A creative endeavor needs to be pushed ahead The more aware you are of your liabilities and objectives the better Listen to going on A loved one really does care about you Tonight: Have some fun SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22-Dec 21) One-to-one relating is highlighted be it business or emotional You manage to make clear statements to another who as a result is able to respond in new ways Listen to your intuition A new partnership makes you happy Tonight: Make it a duo CAPRICORN (Dec 22-Jan 19) It is wise to defer to another You might not have all the answers but you are beginning to get a handle on a situation New beginnings allow you to handle a situation differently Tonight: Accept an invitation AQUARIUS (Jan 20-Feb 18) Your work situation improves As a result you can get ahead Focus on financial stability Your creativity surges and you feel happy Tonight: Make the most of an opportunity PISCES (Feb 19-March 20) Creativity surges You get a new start with a loved one No longer mince words Be ready to take the next step A loved one needs your attention Tonight: Add more flirtation to your life BORN TODAY Singer Steve Lawrence (1935) Sen Phil Gramm (1942) ballerina Cynthia Gregory (1946) Opening lead 1994 Los Angeles Times Syndicate 9 Carolina Mom (MD) Answer Take Isaac Super Quiz to a FhD Score 1 point for each correct answer on the Freshman Level 2 points on the Graduate Level and 3 points on the PhD Level Subject: SONG TITLES AND CELEBRITIES Each song title has a One letter has to be corrected to restate the title Then use the initials to Identify the personality who is closely identified with the song Eg When the Moon Comes Over the Fountain (KS) Answer: Mountain: Kate Smith FRESHMAN LEVEL 1 Thinks for the Memory (BH) Answer 2 So Nice to Have this Tour Together (CB) Answer 3 Love in Gloom (JB) Answer ANSWERS: 1 Thanks: Bob Hope 2 Hour: Carol Burnett 3 Bloom: Jack Benny 4 Moon: Vaughn Monroe 5 Love: Mario Lanza 6 Train: Duke Ellington 7 Donkey: Allan Jones 8 Man: Fanny Brice 9 Moon: Morton Downey SCORING: 18 points congratulations doctor 15 to 17 points honors graduate 10 to 14 points plenty smart but no grind 4 to 9 points you really should hit the books harder 1 point to 3 points enroll in remedial courses immediately! 0 points who read the questions to you? 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