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GUIDING STAR By Juanita Hamel Gbodli art YOUR HEALTH MY MARRIAGE PROBLEMS Adele Garrison's New Phase of Revelations of a Wife Of mat ma. kr Why Deep Breathing May Build Up a Thin Person By ROYAL S. COPELAND, M. D. Commissioner of Health, New York City Mi IIIIMM 4m TAc Fay Katfe Tooe iie Neics of Allen Drake's Demands.

fx seems almost an absurdity to say tnere are many pe persons who don't know how to fcreathe. But this yvSf ill MrvX can be said with absolute truth. Have you ever noticed that many very thin persons are big eaters? It sometimes seems as if it must make them thin to carry all they consume. The amount of food one takes does not determine fatness or leanness. What happens to the individual depends on the assimilation of the food.

Some furnaces eat up a lot of fuel and give out little heat There is something wrong when this happens. There is something wrong when much food is with the wonderful news which my father so unobtrusively had given us. Yet I felt a sudden inexplicable disinclination to discuss Mr. Drake's prospects with Lillian. "Well!" I rose, throwing out my hands with a little gesture of mock despair.

"This Isn't breaking -the dread, news to Katie. If you hear wild shrieks "I'll stand by in ambush with hand grenades," Lillian promised flippantly, and I left the room with the feeling that was Indeed going into battle. "Dis Too Mooch!" The feeling was Intensified a little later when after Katie had listened silently and unsmilingly to my list of the things which Mr. Drake would require during his self-imposed seclusion In his room, she put her arms akimbo and faced me belligerently. "You mean," she said, and with uneasiness I heard the tremolo which ar-ways precedes hysterical anger In her voice "you mean, I got to feex all sorts of nice tings all hours of day and night for dot boonch of soup greens vot alt' times stand und look at me like I vun peeg or foony animal from circus vot he nefer see before und vant to find out vot I do? Und me mlt all kinds of extra vork on hand, und shoost look at beeg family in dls house, vork enough for two, tree girls, und I nefer keeck.

und alvays try do shoost eferytlng you ask me, und take sooch care of dot babee, und stand all day dot old vomans no matter vot she say Oh I Oh! Dls too mooch! I no can do dot. Dot beeg sheep head he can cook heemself, eef he vanta sum ting. Me, I do noting for heem!" The flow of words, bo fast, so vehement that I felt as If a cloud had burst above my head, suddenly changed to the hysterical sobbing which I sometimes suspect Katie has on tap, ready to turn on at will. I had watched her closely, and had listened attentively, planning my course the whye. Now I stood perfectly silent and motionless while she wept and sniffled, waiting until her Insatiable curiosity got the better of her.

When I saw her eyes furtively peering me from behind the hands which she had flung before her face, I said, with careful Indifference: "Very well, Katie, I am sorry you feel that you cannot do this for me. But it something which must be nevertheless, my father has asked for it. So you will please leave the cooking things where I can get at them I will prepare Mr. Drake's meals CSrri.it. mjby Nwwp.oi, hW.5arrk.

Int. Cratt ttritale rMkttKMrnd TO pilot her ship of dreams freighted with the seae, she steers by a star which shines changeless in treasure of her hopes there is a guiding star, the sky. Safe to the harbor of happiness she knows she Like the first mariner who sailed the uncharted will sail, fot the star which guides her is true love! THE HOME KITCHEN JZfgtmZJTE YOUNG KOnTOH ii AuXiwity on Hoot Caotiae rn'1' What You Can Do to Protect Your Complexion from the Sun By LUCREZIA BORI The Famous Spanish Prima Donna Illustrated by Neva Harrison PEGGY MEETS A DEAR LITTLE NURSE MAID. PEGOT tumbled her baby sister over the grass, but gathered her ap quickly as she spied a tiny ant struggling through the grasses toward them. The ant had something held tlghtry In her pinchers of which she seemed to be very careful, holding It as high as she could, so It wouldn't drag over the grasses.

"Something she's caught," mused Peggy, holding her baby sister In her arras. "I don't want her to crawl on you. baby dear," and Peggy ran back to the baby carriage and put her little sister In It. then she hurried back to see if the little ant was still In sight "Going on a picnic, I'll bet a nickel," Peggy mused out loud, as she spied the little creature a second time. "I guess that's her lunch." "Then you have another guess coming," laughed a merry voice, and the tiny ant laid her bundle down tenderly on the grasses and nodded to the astonished Peggy.

"Tou folks think that all we ants have to do Is to play, I guess. But let me tell you. that Is the wrong Impression. Why, it has been so long since I've been to a plcnlo that I wouldn't know how to act It Just takes about all my time taking care of the baby." "Oh, you dear!" Peggy exclaimed. "Tou have a baby! Why, thought you were Just a little ant." "So I am," laughed Tiny Ant "This Isn't my baby.

She Is my baby slater." "But where la your mother?" questioned Peggy. "Mother Is terribly busy," laughed Tiny Ant "Tou see, when she hatchet several hundred little ants out at once. "Where I Yoar MotWr Mother Ant can't take care of them alt If It wasn't for us older ants I doni know what she would do. I'm Just a nurse maid, you might call me, and It all I can do to take care of the baby ants given to me to. care for.

Why, would you believe me, I've never lost sight of this tiny sister ajnee she lay cuddled up in the egg that held her. Tou see. they have to be moved according to the weather. On warm days she must be brought up near the surface of the ground, and during wet weather I must carry her down Into one of our deepest chambers. Then, another handicap little sister suffers is that she was hatched without any legs." "My goodness!" exclaimed Peggy.

"How In the world does she how do alt her sisters get around?" "They can't unless we carry them." replied Tiny Ant. "Why, that little bundle you thought was my lunch, Tve carried In my pinchers for ever so long. But I've always carried her safe and she's In the second period of her life. She spun the light yellow cocoon in which you see her wrapped, and now any second she'll come out, I do believe," and Tiny Ant stooped over the tiny bundle lying on the grass. Then she straightened up laughing merrily.

Sure enough, the tiny ant inside the yellow cocoon was moving. Tiny Ant broke the outside case and helped the baby out then gently unfolded her tiny legs snd laughed with glee at the dear little wings as she smoothed thetn out Isn't that great!" she cried. "I have been wishing she would be a queen, and she Is! You know, the queen ants and the males are the only ants born with wings. Excuse me, I'm In a dread ful hurry to tell Mother Ant!" And without waltmg for Peggy to reply, Tiny Ant gathered up the baby ant and hurried away. Peggy ran back to her own baby sister and looked at her chubby little bare feet "Oh, I'm so glad you weren't born without feet!" Peggy laughed.

Cwrrtxbt 1921. tr Kenpiper TaUn Svrtt Is. WORDS of WISE MEN Lean not on a reed. There is no wisdom without worship. Let your deeds praise you, ywor toagua ever.

see When we cast off an old prejudice we are apt to take on a new one. There are bo doors aa evil-doer caa bolt to keep out self-condemnation. Whn we faea ftup nm AxtHmm there comes less need to com plats, It Is wise to strive for perfection yoar elf. but folly to expect It of others, Tou cannot envy, despise or bate an-, other without giving him some of your Urn. It is not the wise student who burns the midnight oil and sleeps away the morning sun.

Those who bring sunshine to the Uvea of others cannot keep it from themselves. see A ma new vt i. faithfully as when he is describing the Always take the part of an absent person who Is censured In far as truth and propriety will allow. i I'LL not take your wager," I told Lillian, smiling, "for I have no desire to bet against a certainty. Father Just told me Mr.

Drake was having some difficulty with the codes." "His trifling; variation." Lillian commented with a trace of mocking malice. "I'm only a novice In Allen Drake's end of this game, but I have a fancy that this time he has underrated the task set him. It wouldn't do him any harm to bump his now a bit, especially as he's sure to come out on top finally he al-wars does." There was In her Tolce, despite her feline little wish, a distinct tribute to Allen Drake's unusual powers, and I knew that the magnanimous soul of her was perfectly sincere In her belittling of her own knowledge of codes and her exalting of Mr. Drake's ability. Lillian can be a trifle malicious occasionally, but It is not In her to be petty.

"Do you mean that he will finally solve It?" I asked. "He'll get enough of It so that well know where things stand, and he won take final leave of the thing until every tiniest part is clear to him. Even If It takes months and consultation with foreign experts, and the dove-tailing of their various records, he'll finally get all of It. He's like a bulldes, only more tenacious. But It will be a solar plexus blow to his vanity not to get it all easily especially after that spiel he made to me.

A Laojjtirng Promise. "There's one thing certain. We won't know he's fallen down unless your father spills the beans. There's Just one person In the world to whom Allen Drake yields deference and obedience, and that Is your father, and it Is the Chief, alone, who will know what he accomplishes or doesn't." A thrill ran through my pulses. To Lillian Underwood and Allen Drake my father's remarkable rejuvenation, and the triumph which was almost in his grasp, were matters of professional Joy, vf loyal but a bit impersonal pride In a brilliant chief.

To me there was a tensely poignant happiness In knowing that the father whom I adored was coming Into his own again. Allen Drake's success or failure was a matter of Indifference to me when compared Tomorrowls, HOROSCOPE THURSDAY, JUNE 22. Although the sidereal operations for this day point to the breaking up of long-thwarting obstacles and congested conditions, yet there are certain portents of deferred hopes. The financial outlook la not satisfactory, and the outlay of money may be hazardous, either for speculation or Investment. There Is come promise of advancement or recognition for those In the employment of others if they are qualified.

It Is a time for making plans for future sub-stantlal progress. Those whose birthday It Is have a forecast of breaking up of old obstacles and crystallized conditions, but the prospect for Immediate financial remedies is not encouraging. Those In the employment of others may meet with some advancement or recognition. Avoid all money risks. A child born on this day will be steady and industrions, but may be Inclined to fritter away its earnings through extravagance unless carefully trained In thrift.

By Temple WHERE A MOTHER SELECTS CAN she bake a cherry pie. charming Billy?" This old song cornea to the mind of the traveler when he visits In a household In Turkey where there fa an eligible son or daughter whose parents are desirous of marriage for them. The procedure Is very direct and business-like. No time Is wasted In getting right down to requirements and effl- What Can Your Daughter Do ciency in Turkey when a young man considers matrimony. His mother takes this business In hand and attends to It thoroughly.

Not a stone Is left unturned, until a per-factly satisfactory wife has been procured for tsr son. Such a thing as courtship does not exiat in Turkey. Romance and sentiment hare little to do with marriage. Practicability and efficiency are the only points considerednot by the man. however.

His mother Is the Judge of the qualifications of her future daughter-in-law. WTien a young man Is ax a marriage I at is if ing of an for set of out She she she her as son DR. COPKIANP bones. reasons why, you are thin. Dyspepsia Vf.

B. Will you kindly ten roe if bensoyl bensoate Is a good remedy In the treatment of high blood-presrureT A While benzoyl bensoate Is beneficial In many conditions. It should always be prescribed bv the nhralclan and rnever used without such direction. O. E.

Win you please tell me what keloids are? Can they be removed by radium or will they disappear of their own accord In time? A Keloids are due to a growth of tissue to replace that destroyed. They sometimes become small In size by treatment with different rays and radium, but do not entirely disappear. K. R. No matter what time I go to bed, I cannot get to sleep before 11 o'clock.

What can I do for this? A Take more exercise and try deep-breathing exercises. Do not read for half an hour before retiring. A warm drink before going to bed might prove helpful, as will a warm bath. MRS. M.

B. Will you please tell me If it Is dangerous to have a mole removed by the electric needle? A If yon are going to have the mole removed, you should make sure that the doctor who Is going to operate Is an expert, as It very often happens that the scar is worse than the mole. A. J. S.

Is It dasgerons for young children to wear socks In cold weather? A Children should be dressed according to the weather. However, If a child is In good physical condition and used to having the knees exposed, there Is practically no danger. Dr. Copeland will answer for read-erg of thig paper question on madt-cal, hygienic and sanitation subjects that aro of general interest. Where th subject of a letter is such that it cannot be published in this column, Dr.

Copeland will, when the question is a proper one, write you personally, if self-addressed, stamped envelope it enclosed. Address ALL INQUIRIES to Dr. R. S. Copeland, in care of this office.

CopmlcM, I til, Bf Hwipitwr rotsn Strrtea, be, 1-- By VCU WINSTON i i Tucks and PisJi Georgette Bands Era- broidered in Whit Trim This Pink Crcpe-det-Cbiae) Pajama Salt. i PAJAMAS aeem to find Increasing favor, especially when they intro duce some novel touch which makes them a bit different from th erdmary. Pink crepe de chine is ased te the model above, which gains added character by the Introduction of matching georgette bands embroidered in whit polka dota Note the novel use Of tucka. runnlnr both vertically and crosswise, at the front and back of the ooat tr-t draws the material up shorter here. wnue tne untucaea portion drops down longer at either side.

eaten and no flesh is added to the There may be many physical interferes wntn proper oigesrion oi uiey food. Heartburn, water-brash, belching of gas, vomiting all these symptoms are signs of Indigestion. Tou cannot enpect to be firm in flesh when the digestive organs fail to function. Ulcer of the stomach, gaJl-stonea chronic appendicitis, bad teeth and bad tonsils are possible causes of loss oi weight or continued thinness. If you are 111 for any cause and stay fll long enough, there will be loss of weight and sometimes long-continued thinness.

But you may have perfect teeth, healthy organs, normal action of the stomach and Intestines and yet be as thtn as a rail. Tou may "eat everything which does not bite you first" and stl be thin. You may select your diet with painstaking care and not be able to add a pound to your weight. Outside of disease of some sort, the most common cause of thinness Is "hallow breathing. Have you ever seen a fine-looking girl, with strong body and strong lower limbs, but with a fiat chest and outstanding eollar-bones? There may be great hollows below and above those bones.

Invariably this lack of symmetrical de. velopmtnt of the body Is due to failure to breathe properly. Good lung action is essential to good health. There is a faithful and useful clerk In an office I visit. Recently I talked 'TKh her about what deep breathing might do to benefit her health.

Shevfolloweil Instructions for two weeks and reported a gain of two pounds. There is no reason why perseverance will not add many more pounds. To stand out on the porch and Indulge In a lot -of deep breaths makes some folks feel foolish. To attach this Idea to some sort of sport or game helps a lot I have advised a great many times that blowing exercises be taken. Stand ln front of a lace curtain or a short distance from a strip of paper sua-nended from the celling.

Then fill your lungs and blow steadily until the cut-Lain or paper moves with the current of air. Needless to say, ft Isn't the blowing but the flBlng of the lungs which must be done In order to blow that causes the development of the lungs. This exercise will open many air cells and whole areas of lung tissue which have seldom been used before. Practiced two or three times a day, this exercise will lead to the habitual use of Increased hing tissue. By the way, do not overdo the blowing exercises at first.

If you do, your chest muscles may become very Bora and lame. Blow till the object moves, and then step back two feet and try again. Gradually Increase the distance, and very shortly yon will have enlarged your lung capacity and will have materially increased your weight. Fill your lungs with good air, load your red corpuscles with oxygen, and your food wfU become of real value to you. Tour chest will fill out and your figure will Improve correspondingly, More than this, your power to resist dis ease will be added to, and your chance of long life will be Increased.

Answers to Health Questions FRANK My eyebrows are always very red and the hair Is scant. It Is very noticeable and embarrassing, Wbotn should I consult? 2 I always have a foul breath and a bad taste in my mouth. My tongue Is always coated. What causes this? a. This may De a oirtnmarK or It may be some form of skin disease.

Con si't a skin specialist and follow his ad- viov. 2 This condition Is probably due to constipation. For full particulars on Its treatment, send a self-addressed. stamped envelope and restate your question. READER, Will you please ten me what I shall do te get rid of malarial fever and whether It would be advisable to go to the mountains during the sum mer? A If you are suffering from malarial fever, you should be under the care of your family physician, who will exam Ins you and then will be able to advise you whether a change in climate would be beneficial.

I would not consider that you were disloyal to his memory or to the love you had for each other if you should marry the young man with whAm you are In love now. I am also sure that the young man who Is dead did mot realise the promise he was asking you to make. I hope you will be very happy, say dear. J) EAR ANNTB LAURIE: Is a girl In love with a young man when she heeds what other people say against htm. and becomes disappointed and undecided? Tour answer will be appreciated.

ANXIOU3. ANXIOUS: Tou have no guide but toot own hArt tA tll juu. UIJ dear, whether you are In love or not No one can help you In this matter. IU Is something you will have to work out for yourself. Remember, time Is the, only real test of true love.

Five Delicious Fish FISH soups and chowders are economical, for the main dish of the dinner to be served afterward may be light and Inexpensive. But both soup and chowder should be prepared accord to a well tried recipe, and served attractively. Fish 8tock for Soups. Buy a cod's head and shoulders, or some of the smaller fish with bones and trimmings, and put them Into cold water with the outside leaves and stalks celery, two bay leaves, parsley, a sliced onion, a half-bud of garlic, a half-saltspoonful of curry powder, one clove and a sliced leek. Boll gently for then strain, reheat, boll down twenty minutes slowly; season, and aside to cool.

This should yield Manning A WIFE FOR HER SON. able age, his mother takes an Inventory the eligible girls of the town and sets to call on their mothers. She makes no bonea about her visit. calmly walks In. sits down and after the two ladles hav been served with coffee, the young man's mother gets tight down to business.

Without any preamble or Introduction, deliberately says: "What can your daughter do?" Immediately the young lady's mother goes to the cupboard and brings out samples of her daughter's handiwork. WUh great pride she shows the carpets has woven, the re sacs she has made and the embroideries worked by daughter. There is no embarrassment on either side. After the first visit each girl in town Is Investigated as to her prowess a housewife. Then the mother returns to her home and reports to her her decision as to the most satisfactory wife for him.

Wife hunting In Turkey la one of a mother's Important duties. 5 washing. It tends to make your akla white and ciear. Chapped skin, too, often results front exposure to the wind. It also cornea from the use of too much soap, especially if your skin is Inclined to dry.

Be sure to dry your skin thor oughly after washing, before going out-of-ioors. The following lotion Is recommended: Glycerine and rosewater In equal quantities. A little bensoln. Apply to your face, lips and hands before going to bed at night. If you have freckles, yourself, yon probably do not like them.

Those who have none often insist that they think frecklos are attractive. This may 1 some consolation, but tf it Is not enough there are means of treating freckles which will at least make them more dim. I consider lemon Juice the most effective of an of these remedies. Pure lemon Juice Is likely to Irritate the delicate skin of your face, and should be left on only about five minutes. Remove it with a little milk, either plain, sweet milk or buttermilk.

Pure lemon Juice can usually be left on your neck and arms without causing Irritation. ODD FACTS There are three places in the world where green snow has been fotyid. The deckmg of houses and ehnrches with evergreens at Tuletlde In order, as one authority puts it, "that the sylvan spirits might repair to them, and remain unnipped with frost and cold winds until a milder season had renewed the foliage of their darling abodes," is one ot the many Christmas customs derived from heathenish practices. The use of the mistletoe as a decoration at the Christmas and New Tear's holiday season Is of Druidical origin. Cut by the Archdruld.

it fell upon a snow-white cloth outstretched by the priests for its protection. Later the people received It from the Druids as a sacred relic, with the words, "The mistletoe for the New Tear." Soaps and Chowders. about three pints of thick broth, or stock, ready for use. This stock Is called "fumette." and will keep in a cold place front twelve to fourteen hours. New England Clam Chowder.

Chop one dozen chowder clams coarsely after straining off the Juice. Take a pint of Juice and a pin i of water, add a tablespoonful of white celery leaves, large, thlnly-sllced onion and six sliced potatoes. Boll for twenty minutes; add a pint and a half of hot milk, the clams, and a dozen fresh pilot crackers broken in pieces, pepper, a teaspoonful of sugar and a tablespoonful of butter. Cover the chowder, and let It stand at bollng point for twenty minutes, then let It stand away from the fire. When ready to serve, reheat but do not boll It.

Creole Soup. Take one quart of fish stock and add to it a large can of tomatoes, a big Spanish -onion sliced, a bay leaf, a minced green or red pepper, a quarter-cupful of chopped celery leaves, a half-bud of garlic, a saltspoonf ul of curry powder and a tablespoonful of sugar. Heat and simmer gently for thirty minutes. Heat two tables poonfuls of butter with three tablespoonfuls of flour, cook together until blended, then add to the soup and cook gently for fifteen minutes. Rub through a puree sieve, reheat, add pepper and salt to taste, and stir In a cupful of freshly boiled rice.

Fish Chowder. Place, a few slices of fat bacon on the bottom of the chowder pot and on them two thick fish filets, cover with thlnly-sllced onion, then a layer of sliced potatoes, butter, pepper, salt and the crumbs of one pilot cracker. Next, add another layer of fish and repeat the order, covering the top with buttered pilot crackers broken In pieces. Pour over all a quart of fish stock, and cook gently for forty minutes. Cream of Oyster.

Plant Soup. Scrape and cut In pieces one bunch of oyster-plant, boll until tender, then mash and add to a soup made of a quart of fish stock, a pint of milk, seasoning and a half-cupful of crumbs. Turn into a tureen on a well-beaten ere. speak of that miserable evening. Do you think she care for me still? I would do anything possible just to win her back again.

HURRY HARRT. HURRY HARRT: Tes, it is usual for the young woman to send presents of value back when she quarrels with a young man. Of course. It Is wrong for her to accept them In the first Jlace unless she Is engaged. If the fault was yours you should try to see her.

She may care for you as much as ever, but may be terribly hurt. Toa should do all In your power to atone for your rude behavior, and determine that It will never happen again. TEAR ANNIE LAURIE: I am a girl 20 years old. I have a boy friend who Is two years my junior. He seems to love me very much, and wants to marry me.

I do bat feel that I love him dearly enough to marry him. but he says if I dis Hi complex- Ion Is often uppermost In the mind of the woman who spares no pains to look her charming best. Ks-peclajly Is this so at this time of rear, when so many agents seem to be working against the beauty of the complexion. The sunshine is LUCREZIA BORI wonderful, and like to be out In It every minute of the day that we can. But even as we feel Its health-giving 'rays bringing color Into our hair and radiance Into our faces, we, cannot help but feel a pang at the-thought that it -may also be bringing out freckles and sunburn.

To be sure, there are many types to which sunburn la most becoming. Some persons who spend their summers in the country or near the water acquire a heavy coat of sunburn which does not wear 'Off until, late Into the autumn. This is a sign of such vigorous health that no one should mind Its presence. In fact, the week-end visitor who goes to the bathing beach where others have spent long days In the sunshine feels decidedly pale and anemic In comparison with the sturdy, sun-browned specimens of health on all aides. So not feel too unhappy If exposure to the oat doors is making Inroads on the smooth whiteness of your skin.

Re.ther be glad that you have a chance at the healthful sunshine. At the same time there are certain helpful sneasures which you will bo glad to know and practice. Here is an old lotion for whitening the skin so o'ji that we have records of Its having been used by the women ot ancient Rome. Tou need only the following three Ingredients: Strawberries An equal part of water A pinch of borax First, mash your fresh strawberries to a pulp. Take the Juice- which cornea from them, strain through a cloth and dilute with an equal part of water.

Add a pinch of borax and keep In a corked bottle. Rub this on your face at night after appoint him be wfll be heart-broken. Please advise me what to do. UNDECIDED. UNDECIDED: In the first place, my dear, the young man Is too young now to think ot marrying.

He Is a mere boy not even of age. In the second place, a girl does not marry a man simply because he Is In love with her. She marries hint because she loves hire and he love her, and for no other reason. Never let a man play on yeur sympathy and become engaged to hlra because you are sorry for him. Many unhappy marriages result from this very cause.

Walt until yon really fall In love. Tou will know It when you do. and will have no Indecision In the matter. In the mean time have the young man for a friend, but tell him frankly that la all he can ever be to you. This Is only fair tohtm and to yourself, and.

moreover, it is the honorable thing for you to do. 1 ADVICE TO GIRLS By Annie Laurie TVBAR ANNIE LAURIE: I am a young man 21 years of age. I have been going with a young lady, now 20 years for about a year and a half. She said she loved me, and I love her dearly. She tola me that some day she would marry me.

We have had several quarrels, all due te my own misdoings. Once she wtf going to return to me a couple of gifts that I had made her of some value, but I told 't not to until she had thought It over. Sne decided she cared for me still. Is It the proper thing for a young lady to return your gifts when she decides that she no longer cares for you? Last time I was with her we Quarreled. I was almost brutal.

She said she was going to send everything back. I have not received them. I have written to her to apologize, and I have telephoned. Ehe spoke pleasantly, although she would not JJSAR ANNIE LAURIE: A few months ago the man with whom I was very much in love, and whom I Intended to marry very soon, was killed. A short time before his death he asked me if I would be true If anything happened to him.

I promised I would. Now, I am In love with another man, and he wishes me to marry him. I am still very young. Should I keep my promise to my dead lover or shall I marry the man with whom I am now In love? BLUE ETES. BLUE ETES: Toa should marry the man you are In love with now, my dear.

Ton are young and have your whole life before you. I am quite sure that your friend who died would not hold you to your promise If he could talk to you. He loved you, and love Is unselfish. He would not wish to rob you of the natural life for a wom anof home and children..