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(bspeciaily for We omen EdrMd by BFTTE DRISCOU Ann Landers Sounds Like a Pussycat Dtu Au Landers: I don't know who wrote this but it makes a lot of sense these days when more and more men are retiring and getting on Iheir wives nerves. My copy says. "Sent In By Modesto, Ruth Strait, I hope you think it's worth printing. -ANOTHER CALtt'OHNJAN Dearly Beloved: I'm coming to live with you 24 hours a day. Something I've been looking forward to-for 40 years.

1 didn't marry you so I could work. 1 worked so I could marry you and 1 figure we've spent cause of my job. I hope to make amends in Ihe years left to us. I'm sorry I'm not the same nandsome fellow in the wedding picture, wilh black, wavy hair and a wastli'ne a belt could go around and legs that could still chase you around the dining room table. But I do have a deeper appreciation for you and a better understanding of what marriage means.

1 owe you a great deal. You stood by me during some rough Ijmes. You never worried me wilh oilier men (not too much, that is) I made. You put up with my peculiarities arid you were nice to my nutty relatives. I don't have many requests, but 1 do have a few.

1 was a fairly important man down at the office. Please don't make me a flunky at home. I don' mind doing some of the chores but don't ask me to do woman's work. And when your lady friends drift in and out of the The Wests Married 25 Years KITTERY Mr. Thomas R.

West Sr, o( State Road were honored it a party recently celebrating their com jig 25th wedding anniversary, Sept. 3. The party, held at Iheir home, was arranged by their son and at least 100,000 hours apart be- and you never spent more tlian me to to see don't ask host; They come not me. And now that the kids are gone and we vacant bedrooms, have will please let me have one? Not to 'sleep in. 1 still want my place next to you in the old-four poster, but I'd like a room where 1 can throw my junk around, or take a nap, or just accumulate things, (iive me these few privileges, dear, and a lillle time to adjust, and IT daughter-in-law, Mr.

and Mrs, Thomas R. West Jr. of Kennebunkport, and their son, Donald C. Wesl, and his fiancee, Miss Barbara Fabbo of Pinehursl, Mass. Among those attending were Mr.

and Mrs. Harold Durgin, Mr. and Mrs. Edward Johnson of York, Mrs. Gertrude Kennard play of Massachusetts, you, Thompson, Mr.

and Mrs. John kids Culls, Mr. and Mrs. Ronald two slow, Miss Ethel Iliggins, Mr. you and Mrs.

I.uke Wilsan, Miss Jerlie Wilson, Albert Crawford, Mr. and Mrs. I.ou Fabbo of Pinchiirsl, Mr, and Mrs. Bogdahn ot Saco, Ralph Iliggins of Scarborough, Mrs. Jay Boomer of Addison and Mrs.

'Dorothy Allard of Dover, N.II. Guests from Eliot included be Ihe finest you ever retired with. Devotedly, Yonr Loving Husband Deir Hustad: You sound like a pussycat. I hope your wife Mrs. Eric R.

Gieenman fiKsi Cirleen-M. Kidd, formerly of Porismonth and Green- UK), daughter of Airs. Flora M. Purvis of Dallis, and Tbnus KMd recently became the bride Eric Ray Grrnman of Dallas in the First Church of Religions Science, Dallas. The bride wore an Ivory gown Irimraed in Saby Wnc and her three attendants wore French Hie gowns.

A UM a lield at the church after the crrrmojy. After a kMcjBomi In New aid Cauda, the eoapfe will Ktt)e Dallas. is'smart enough to smile and say "Yes, dear Dear Ann Landers: I've had my share of problems, but by the grace of God, 'and a marriage counselor who couldn't save our marriage but helped me grow, I've come through my divorce stronger and better person. am presently involved in a situation that has me half crazy with indecision. I've been seeing a divorced man who has six soils.

I believe 1 am in love with him and have told friends that we might marry. The consensus is that I would be crazy to mix up three children (two boys and one girl) with his six (all boys). My mother tells me we would be fighting over the i constantly. am not a child (I'm In early 30's), and I realize 10 marriage is without picte- ems, but I dp love this man lid don't want to lose him this thing wilh the children an be worked out. What are he chances, Ann? I should tell ou that his sons 'are well rehaved and they seem to like me very much.

Thanks for your elp. TEETER TOTTER Dear Teeter: I see no reason Mrs. Evelyn Johnson, Mr. and Mrs. Reginald Muchmore, Mr.

and Mrs. James Rogers, Kenneth L. West, the Wests' younger son, assisted in serving at the party. MRS. STEVKN' J.

CASWEM, (Joseph Jay Studio) Dr. Marjory A Wybourn Will Direct Birth Study Dohna Allen, Harry Yee, Wed in Christ Church Christ Church, a a Road, was the setting ot the recent marriage of Miss Donna P. Allen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Leonard W.

Allen Jr. of 5 Bridge Kiltery, and Harrw Yee, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward Yee of Cambridge, Jlass. The Rev.

Gordon i officiated in the double ring ceremony. Grover Marshall was organist. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a nylon organza gown trimmed with Venice lace. Pink a i i the collar, bishop eleeves and front of the gown The bride wore a mantilla aix carried a bouquet of while carnations, pink roses and baby's breath. 'Matron of honor was ilrs Patricia Soulhwick of Kittery tisler of the bride.

She wor i floor-length pink chiffon gow over taffeta. The bodice anc aleeves were trimmed wilh pin green flowers. She carriec bouquet of pink carnation and while roses. Bridesmaids were Miss Kri; Una Allen, sisler ot the brid and Miss Mary Yee, sister the bridegroom. They wo 1 aqua dresses in the style the matron of honor's.

The gowns were trimmed wil ellow and green The fried bouquets of yellow arnations and while roses. Fred Wong of Cambridge, a ncle of the bridegroom, was jest man. Ushers were David 'Chin omerville, a cousin.o Se bridegroom, and -Natha einer of Canton, a of the bridegroom. The bride's mother wore a ink chiffon coal over an A-line nealh dress. The bridegroom's vore a ehort-sleeved, princess style dress in purple.

The guest book was presented Miss Brenda Brady of Brock- on, Mass. a friend of the couple, and the cake was" cut ly Miss Sherry Ann Hamrick, a cousin ot the bride. For a wedding irip to Nova Scotia, the bride chose a yellow jrincess style dress with a white collar. The bride graduated from Traip Academy in 1966 and from Northeastern University, Boston, this year. The bridegroom graduated from Cambridge High and Latin in 1966 and Northeastern this year.

Mr. and Mrs. Yee are living in Cambridge. why you not have successful marriage- with a father six boys provided VCA agree in advance on the groiux rules: No favoritism, and no 'do you know what'-your son did to my daughter" complaints. When the kids squabble (and JOAN UNDERWOOD Oct.

2 Wedding Is Announced Mr. and Mrs. George B. Underwood of Essex A announce the engagement of heir daughter, Joan Gabrielle, Kennelh Joseph Brooks, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Abram C. Brooks ot Albany, N.Y. Hiss Underwood k.i graduate of Aquinas 'High School, Dover, and attended St Bonaventure University, Glean N.Y. Mr. Brooks graduated from DURHAM Dr.

Marjory A. Wybourn of the University of New Hampshire Dept. of Home Economies has been selected by Ihe American Home Economics Association, Washington, D.C., to direct an international study of how home economists may bring family planning informa- lion to women in less developed; countries. The association has received grant of $118,000 from the Agency I a i a Development and the funds will be used lo investigate the role of Ihe home economist in poverty pockets and isolated areas having high birth roles. Dr.

Wybourn, who joined UN1I in 1962 as professor and department head, be on leave from Sept. 1 to June 30, 1977, for the assignment. Sho wil! be'involved wilh organizing anc conducting a small conference discuss the potenlial for amily planning in less develop- you can bet your life they will) there must be no taking sides. Punishment should be swift, just, and equal. SI.

Bonaventure, Class of 1971. An October 2 wedding is planned. ed nations. She will also eonduc ield consultations in three 'our countries and recommenc what type interaationa sponsorship might be developed for continuing promotional anc field programs. Durham home has" resigned 'her positions, a president of the New Hampshir Home Economics Associatio and chairman of the state pres dents' unit of the AHEA wad the project.

According to AHEA's exec live director, Dr. Doris E. Ha diiats oise Dear Heloise: While going about my kitchen chores I had an wea I like and am going to pass along for whatever its worth. Not too Jong ago we used lunch pails and made them into very attractive purses antiqued them, and really dressed them up. ru longer use mine as a purse but the thought came to me "Why not use it as a cooky jar?" It's just too pretty, and too much work went into it to let it sit op the closet shraf.

It Is lined with bright plastic and can be easily washed. The grandchildren can enjoy it without any fear of dropping end breaking it. And best of all, it opens up wide enough so that several little hands can help themselves to Grandma's cookies at the same time. Amell DenloT) LETTER OF THOUGHT Dear Heloise: What do you think about peopie who snore? Your personal opinion, please! Married I don't get into family quarrels, and I'm certainly, not a referee, but my personal opinion is that I'm jealous. I just wish I had my mind blanked out and thinking ol nothing like they are! They are at the utmost when it comes to relaxation.

in order to get to sleep, I put a smile on my face and try lo their breathing pattern. It reaUy works. Soon I am asleep myself. I to' to keep in mind that they are m4 worrying and that all their muscles are completely relaxed. Wonderful, I say.

Heloise P.S. My own family teils me that I have started snonng recently. Bui couldn't prove it by me''-- I don't hear it! Dear Holoise: We had trouble keeping our miniature pictures hanging straight until I pressed little balls of plastic hanging material on the bottom of each. Now don't get out of line. Mrs.

R. N. W. Dear Heloise: When you are greasing a cake pan with your hand inside small plastic sandwich bag. be sure that when you sre finished YOU grasp the two inside corners of the bag and pull your Jiand out.

This turns the bag inside out and you will not get any of the leftover margarine or butter on everything when discarding the bag. Carol Pileggi Dear Heloise: When my baby arrived I found that as an inexperienced mother, my timing was olten jusl a lilUe ofl. Sometimes I didn't wash the diapers soon enough and ran out, or 1 didn't fix enough formula. So I came up with some good insurance until I learned the "trade" belter! kept a of disposable diapers for the limes I didn't wash on time, and a supply of ready-to-use formula case I know this probably sounds silly, but, you know, new molhers il's little things like this that make for real traumatic experiences and if it can be prevented, why not? Mrs.D.C. Dear Heloise: Iiy buttermilk in mashed potatoes, instead ot whole or canned milk.

They're really mouth-watering good. son, "Family planning is a area in which home economis are prepared to offer invaluab assistance. profession long-term focus on individu in-the family environment pr vides a' dimension which believe will be useful in findi: solutons to this vital proble which involves people every- DR. MARJORY WYBOURN here as well as in the less eveloped countries." Dr. Wybourn, a native of Van Oliver, British i a anoda, was graduated from th niversity of Washington in nd holds master's and doctora egrees from Teachers College olumbia University, New Yor As home economics chat man at UNH she has directex a program pj studies proyidin tpWWlOR 'amily studies for seconda Keene Girl Married at St.

James KKENH St. James Episcopal Church was the setting for the recent high noon wedding Roberta Alice Randal-Burr nd Steven John CaswelJ 01 ortsmouth. The brkle is the daughter of Ir. end Mrs. Robert Randall- urr and Hie bridegroom is the on ot Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Caswell of Portsmouth. Rev. Chandler McCarty ifficiatcd at the double ring cremony. Farina was organist and Mrs.

Geraldine Oarro, vocalist, sang "Because" and "Ava Maria." While bows and flowers marked Hie pews. Given in marriage by hei 'alher, the bride wore a while iilk gown with circulai rain and bishop sleeves cuffw wilh satin. Thc m.ind.iriu neck line was trimmed with lace and Hie modified Empire i bodice was accented with a satin! licit. The bodice and front of tile controlled skirt were trimmed wilh Venice lace. A wide satin band at the Irem of skirt was accented wilh matching lace.

ller long mantilla was ot il- I hision was bordered in lace and the back panels the gown were accented matching lace appliques. I She carried white cattleya orchids with baby's breath and slephanotis. Miss Kathie l.awson of Kcenc, a friend of Die bride, was maid of honor. Stie wore an Empire gown with bishop sleeves, a violet chiffon skirt and while or- nra bodice trimmed wiih Kilet braid. Her headpiece was matching bow with (ulle.

Bridesmaids wore Susan Mc- cvilt of Dover, Susan Campbell Rochester, both classmates the bride; Debbie Wordcn Surry, the bride's cousin and Vendy Caswell of Portsmouth, ic bridegroom's sisler. Robin ordcn, a cousin ol the bride, as a junior bridesmaid. They ore gowns and headpieces entical lo the maid of honor's i a paler shade of lilac and I attendants carried orchids nd purple baby's breath with Herald (N.H.I Fri, August 27, 1971--U Seacoast Chatter school and pre-school editcatio careers, and family and co i Written for BETTE DniSCOLf, i By MARTHA HAMILTON Tonight at 8 p.m. is the annual Ycclc County Apple Competition at the Acton, Maine fairgrounds. The represent granges from throughout die county, Saturday Night Dance Young people will be interested in a tomorrow sponsored by the Neighborhood Youth Corps.

The danc is from 8 p.m. to 11 p.m. in the upper level ot the High-Hao- ova- parking lot and is open to all. Last Concert 'Iliis weekend will maik the end of this summer's eorv cert scries by the Slrawbery Banke Quartet. Pieces by Mo- zait ar.d Brahms will be part of the program and Sunday, beginning at 8 p.m.

Ttie concerts are held at Old South Meeting House, Marcy St. Admi.vion is free. Auction Sejside dinners for two. clothing, sporting goods and eveti Hips will be among items suuionwl ofl at Hie Hamilton l.iuiu Club auction at Ihe Hamp- lon Dr-ac-h bambhell. Auctions will be fiom 4 p.m.

to 5 p.m. and fivm 8 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. IlejiMw Now County r-idonl. wlio make handcrafted can Join tho Knckingham Craftsmen, as enrollmel is opan, 'Jfaifc in- can register wilh Ihe Kxtrnjion County Building.

Kxete-r. The craftsmen will hold a fair in Kingston, in November. Walk Through Hhlonr IlLyoiy buffs will a lo plan on the Slrawbeiy Banks Walking Tour Wednesday. The lour, which begins at 10 a.m., will include seven privateiv owned, restored homes of the 1700's and early laOO's. It is'sponsorcd by the Guild of SUavr- bery Bauke.

I earn to Square Dance Adults Mix) like to learn to square dance or a rcfrciher conr.se should bring their feel lo the Rye Town Hall Sept. 9 at p.m. A series of weekly classes will he- gin thai night under Ihe direction of Jim Wicks, assisted by the Spindrifler's Square Dance Club. Tiiore won't be-any charge the first night. Fabric Forum Now Is the time lo request a free ticket to the first fabric forum of Ihe fall scries sponsored by the Uockingiiam County Extension Home Economics.

The forum, Sept. 13 from 10 a to noon, will feature a demonsU-ation and discussion on sewing machines. To obtain a ticket for this and other fabric forums, those inlerested may wnte (lie extension. County Building. Kxelcr, or call 772-4711, erf.

36. Sunglasses Should Match Shape, Size of Your Face ong purple ribbon streamers. Dciores Naranjo of Nashua flower girl. She wore a white silk organza Empire gown vith bishop sleeves and lace cuffs. The bodice was accented vilh a satin belt and lace.

She carried a basket of gladiola lowerets and purple baby's breath with purple i streamers and. a barrette ol flowerets was worn in ler hair. Roland Parsons Ports mouth, a classmate of the bridegroom, was best man. The ushers were Mo Phee, Dennis Kelley of Ports- It somelimes is difficult to separate the sunglasses- from the girl, and Ihe image that emerges can look more like a koala-bear. Or, if she isn't wearing those over-sized eye frames that give a little face a lost little-bear look, she may be wearing frames that give her Ihe look of a startled fawn.

Sunglasses are a definite part of the fashion picture. But there is a vast difference between he effect of fad glasses tha are worn for fun ana sun glasses hat are selected as an accessory' to enhance a fashion wardrobe. The trend Is to darker tinted lenses, including brown, grey sumer services as well as those human i.utrition and dietetics. Prior to joining the UNH faculty she had been a Fulbright lecturer in Madras, India; a home economics advisor in Oklahoma and Lahore, Pakistan, and had traveled throughout Europe and the Far East. Among her publications are those concerning improving international and intercultural competencies of students, and clothing and textile education for foreign college students.

The style of frames may lot to do with facial contours, you want to choose the proper yle glasses for particular obk, decide whether your face oval, square, heart-shaped, diamond triangle or kmg and arrow. For example, a round- aced girl wearing round frames sn't giving herself a beauty reak. One should match ocfft the most nattering frame hape aisl then decide on lens LINDA JOHNSON Miss Johnson To Be Married KITTERY -Mr. and Mrs Edward E. Johnson of Philbrk Ave.

announce the engagemen of their daughter, Linda Ann to Russell J. Belleville, son Mr. and Mrs. Merlon Moulto of Kittery Point. Miss Johnson is a Tra Academy graduate and i employed at Liberty Mului Insurance Portsmouth.

Mr. Belleville is stationed with the Coast Guard at San Juan. Puerto Rico. A spring wedding is planned. Wvent Church 'o Host Singers The Rev.

Clinton E. Taber, astor of the local Advent Chrisan Church, announced today at the United Diversity singers rom Berkshire i i a ollege will present a musical rogram at the church on Sun- ay evening at 7 o'clock. This group of collegians are 11 sludents at Berkshire Chrisan in Lenox, and have pent the summer on tour iroughout the eastern states hey have sung in churches amps and various outdoor set ings. Having a cpntemporarj ound, the group is especial( wpnlar with young people. The public is cordially invitee The church is located on th corner of State and Summe Sis.

mouth, Steven Plante of Rochester and Douglass Spaulding Concord, all friends of the bridegroom. Alan Caswell of Ports mouth, the i brother, was junior usher. Brian Spaulding of Concord was ringbearer. For her daughter's wedding Ihe bride's mother a dress and coat ensemble of Mauve silk shantung and a purple orchid oh her purse. The bridegroom's wore a mustard gold long-sleeved dress with flaired skirt, accented wilh tiny pearls and rhinestones.

A reception, in a setting of vhite mums accented with ilacs, was held at Keene Coun- ry dub. Some 175 guests al- ended. dark blue. And there are Basses that flatter the sports-minded Chic boating-Wue lenses gold-finished thin wire fram seem to provide a just-rig accessory to the sailing whit the boating crowd. And for the gal who follows the Grand Prix there are big silvery frames with pierced metal racing temples, a unisex item.

Although a great many max! color and frames. Here is a handy guide to. making (he choice: Long, narrow face: Pick rec- angular or oval shapes to span your face horiKHrtally. The to give the illusion ofiridth. Oval: The ideal lace ptefartd, by.

artiste and photographers, because of its naturally good proportions. can wear any; shape. If eyes, nose, mouth are: less than perfect, she can git an assist from lens sizes -large tenses tend to minimae large noses and medium to small lenses make the eyes look larger. sunglasses are available to provide the bug-eyed took, tie trend is toward smaller circles, ovals and the geometries hexagonals, octagonals, c- tangles and squares. The bride is a 1969 graduate Keene High School and attended Plymouth State College.

The bridegroom' graduated from Portsmouth High School and New Hampshire Technical Institute, Concord. For a wedding trip to Nova Scotia, the bride chose a brown, Italian cotton dress and jackel with bone top-stitching and bone accessories. She carried a smal old-fashioned nosegay: The couple will make their home in'Keene. Square: Round-shaped soften the angles. Round: Squarish or geomeWe shapes help reduce fullness.

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