Sunday News from Lancaster, Pennsylvania • 35

THE SUNDAY NEWS, OCTOBER 12, 1958-35 Dr. Peale's Prescription: 'Keep Spirit TEEN ETIQUETTE, by Kitte Turmell Teenagers Learn Social Know-How In Foursomes The fastest, most painless way to learn the ins and outs, do's and don'ts of dating is on the double. 4 That's the advice of those who keep a professional eye on teenagers and their problems, Two of these experts, Dr. Rita Burdett, head of programming for the Camp Fire Girls, and Mrs. Eunice Brunst, national program adviser for the Horizon (Camp Fire teen-age groups), are all for foursome outings especially for the junfor high set.

Many young teen-agers, uneasy in their first boy-girl situations, just- don't know how to keep conversation going, they point out. Obviously, with four to contribute to the chatter, there'll be fewer self-conscious gaps. No matter what your age or dating status, some things to do picnics, skating parties, parlor games are "the more the merrier" activIties. Also, ideas about what to do and where to go flow more freely with more than two to make suggestions. Gain More Friends "Expanding your circle of friends is another reason for the "fun for four" approach," the Camp Fire leaders agreed in a double interview.

"No matter how much you thrill at the idea of your first steady, you're better off when you meet as many other boys or girls possible, and learn how to get along with all of them." On the debit side of going double, inability to get along with your date's friends may make your partner think less of you, they note. Having a best friend along sometimes encourages stuff" behavior like stealing signs. The other couple may neck conspicuously, want to drink or visit places that are "When the actions of others makes you uneasy, the best solution is to suggest a change not as though you are sitting in judgment, but as though you'd just thought of something wonderful to do," these youth-leaders advise. Aids Process of Learning "Most of the problems that come up also arise on single dates. There are always uncomfortable situations that one has through in the process of learning.

It's easier if you're BENNETT CERF Try And Stop Me I star came to New York be- for four deserving but penniless tween pictures with a wad of $5,000 burning a hole in his pocket. Problem: Should he buy a small piece of a pal's new musical revue, or get the little woman the mink coat which she had been yearning? He compromised by buying into the show but promising his wife two coats if it proved to be a hit. After the tryout, the star sent his wife this wire: "I've got bad news for you. Your coats closed in New Haven last night." A famous singing teacher accepted only particularly talented pupils with one exception. He allowed this lady to enroll who couldn't sing a note, but was so rich that the money he collected from her made up not alone while the lessons are in progress." Promptness is important on otherwise you keep three waiting.

The boys ought to agree, if they can get together beforehand, on where to go; compare the state of their wallets and arrange some payas-you-go system to avoid public financial negotiations. It's up to the remainder of the foursome to get the one with the earliest curfew home on time. Finally, good-nights be short, pleasant, and private. No one wants an audience for his tender moments! Blind Dates When a girl and boy have been dating long enough to know each other fairly well, the question of getting a blind date for her best friend or his favorite chum pops up. A little note-comparing will make sure that the tallest girl in school isn't being paired off with a fellow who just reaches her elbow.

Each of the blind could do with some advance information about the other. He can be told, for example, that she's whiz on skates. If she knows he collects rocks, she can brush up on her geology. It's up to you and your date Bennett Cerf man feel old and unwanted before his time?" demands Adams. "Consider the case of P.

T. Barnum. He was already 61, endowed with more wordly goods than ever he use for, when he first organized the circus that later known as the 'Greatest Show on Earth!" The very same fluffy pie that's known as Boston cream pie in Washington is called Washington cream pie in Boston. You explain it! SUNDAY CROSSWORD PUZZLE students he taught for nothing. One day she insisted that he tell her what he honestly thought of her voice.

"My he announced gravely, "if you possessed in the upper register what you lack in the lower, you'd be starring at the Met this very moment!" Las Vegas, insists Joe E. Lewis, is a community where hostesses on approaching planes caution, "Please fasten your money-belts." Samuel Hopkins Adams, still writing best-sellers in his 80's, indignantly rejects the idea that a man should retire before he's at least seventy. "Why make a ACROSS 71-Macaw 133-Hauls 11-Beverage Marine 72-Possessive 135-Everyone animal -Smashed pronoun 138-Chinese 19-Weird events -Denude 14-Wearies pagoda 20-Trap 99-Need -Fitting 76-Tear 189-Possessive 27-Hostelry 101-Chilled momenta 17-In a Tow pronoun 29-Want 105 Vehicle 14-Sleeveless 78-Genus of 140-Music 31-Reverence 106-Undercloaks maple as written 36-Covers garment 1-Acquire 79-Hindrances 141-Wine cup 37-Mass of 107-Mix knowledge 82-Abate 142 That is floating lee 111-Chimney -Instruments 84-Near (abbr.) 39-Sole carbon 23-Country of 85-Great Lake 143-Pronoun 40-Preposition 112-Send forth Europe 86 Transaction 144-Fairy 41-Rodents 113-Wife of 34-Foreign 88-Girl's name 145-Mean 42-Modify Geraint 25-Emmet 89-Entrance 147-Trumpeter 43-Hastens 115-Sweet 26-Soiled 90-Deprive bird 44-Old potatoes 28 -Bury 92-Set 149-Collection of 46-Cooled lava 116-Bristle 30-Cognomen 94-Bubonia facts 48-Prophet 118-Malay canoe 32-Sun god plague 150-Liquid 49-River islands 119-Collections 33-Compass 98-Point of measure 50-Simians of facts point hammer 152-Smooth the 51-Swift 121-Angered 34-Insect egg 99-Fatigued feathers of 52-Growing out of 123-A continent 35-Shade tree 100-Man's 154-Revolt 53-All (abbr.) 36-Moos nickname 156-Burrowing 55-Spice 125-Style of 37-Evergreen 102-Wanders animals 56-Killed writing tree 103-Soak up 158-Unbound 57-Challenges 126-Edible fish 38-Number 104-Harvest 159-Doctrine 58-Look fixedly 127-Mexican dish 40-Deduce goddess 160-Turkish 61-Ireland 129-Quiet 42 Golt mound 105-Containers decree 63-Caudal 130-Courtyard 43-Conceal 106-Boxes 161-Publish appendage 131-Weight 44-Toward the 108-Pinch 64-Anon India sheltered side 109-Japanese DOWN 68-Presents 182-Task 45-Girl's name measure 70-Treachery assigned 47-Wiped out 110-Faroe Islands 1-Explosion 11-Fruit of oak 184-School of 49-Helpe whirlwind 2-Renovate (pl.) whales 50-Time gone by 111-Warbled 3-Grain 73-Cubic meters 186-Kind of 51-Tell 112-Raise -Symbol for 74-Journey cloth 54-Stalk 114-Crafty krypton 75-Strict 137-Fewest 55-Baker's 116-Algonquian 5-Goal 77-Showy flower 139-At this place products Indian 6-Discord 78-Century plant 140-Dirk 56-Hurries 117-Rumor 7-Walks 80-Ireland 144-Footlike part 59-One, no 119-Among unsteadily 81-Capuchin 145-Unit of matter which 120-Evergreen 8-Man's name monkey Japanese -Number tree 9-Prefix: not 83-Drink slowly currency -Sets of seven 122-Artists 10-Greek letter 84-Mountain 146-Silkworm persons stands 11-Heading passes 147-Arabian -Winter 124-Decay 12-Newspaper 87-Jumped garment vehicle 125--Cut paragraph 89-Depression la 148-Demon -Near 126-Dash 13-Deface cheek 149-Mohammedan 4-Parent 128-Small rag 14-Spanish 90-Trail name (colloq.) 129-Speck article 91-Indian tent 151-Preposition -Small bird 131-Command to 15 Church 92-Melody 153-Note of scale councils 93-European 155-Teutonic 09-Harvests cat 16 -Moving parts 95-Burma deity 70-Pedal digits 132-Pronoun of motors tribesmen 157-Conjunction 10 15 17 18 19 20 22 23 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 35 36 37 38 39 40 42 43 45 46 48 50 51 52 53 55 56 57 58 60 61 62 63 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 75 76 78 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 0102 00103 105 106 107 108 109 112 113 115 116 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 40 143 145 146 148 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 $160 161 Distributed by United Pestere NORMAN VINCENT PEALE Gloomy Negativisms Can Breed Disease "But, doctor, what then is my trouble? You say you find nothing wrong with me physically. But how can a person so badly and still check normally? It just doesn't make sense." The patient, a man in his early fifties, had for a solid hour unloaded a mass of gripes, cynicisms and gloomy negativisms to the London physician who told me of this incident. you aware of the sickening effect of such thoughts and attitudes?" the doctor asked.

"The physical body is sensitive to mental depression such as yours. Medicine can do nothing for you. In fact, I won't prescribe anything, not even sedative. But will give you a prescription, and if you follow it I believe you can become a healthy person." 'Get Your Spirit Lifted' The doctor scribbled something on his prescription pad and shoved it across the desk. The man stared at it.

"Get your spirit lifted" was all that it said. "But that is no real prescription," the patient complained. "What do you mean, get my spirit lifted?" "What I mean is that you need some inspiration that will purge your thinking. At present you are bogged down in mental and spiritual darkness. And diseases breed in such darkness.

Better change your outlook. How do that? Well. try listening to some high grade music. Read a really great book. Maybe go to Switzerland and live with the mountains for a fortnight.

However you do it, get your spirit lifted or you can expect trouble," concluded the physician. Don't Let Inspiration Sag How right he is. We must ever be on guard lest the zest and inspiration of life sag on us. You've got to keep the tone up if you really want to enjoy life and be effective as a person. "Get your spirit lifted." What good advice that is! But long before I heard that from a London physician my mother tried to teach it to me as a child.

She was a person of boundless enthusiasms. To her everything was exciting. She got an enormous thrill out of living, and even advancing years, together with sickness and suffering, did nothing to dampen her keen and joyous delight in life itself. She taught her children, both by example and advice, that, "You can do anything with yourself if you really want to." How often I heard her say that. "But to do that," she warned, "you have got to keep in tune with the highest.

Never, never let yourself sag. Cultivate a Godreplenished spirit and you can always meet life with victorious enthusiasm." That was her philosophy and she drummed it into her three boys. Always Look Up The Bible, which is always concerned with our welfare, also prescribes the up- Ifited spirit. It urges us to lift up our eyes unto the hills. Because I am writthis column in Switzerland, it is scarcely possible to avoid heeding this Biblical injunction.

Perhaps one reason people love Switzerland is that it keeps one constantly looking up, so that presently you actually begin to feel uplifted. One of my favorite places in this gem of a country is balcony on the hotel at Interlaken. My longtime friend, Ulrick Liggenstrofer, true Swiss host, always keeps this same room and balcony for me. There I've watched the mighty Jungfrau in all its moods. Even my bed is so arranged that if I awaken early I may watch.

the great mountain emerge from the dawning mists to meet another day. How many times I have repeated those words as I have looked upon the Jungfrau: "I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills," and felt my spirit rise. They Can Relax All day long, amidst intermittent sun, fog and snow. I have been watching climbers heading upward from near the base of the Matterhorn. All of these mountain climbers seem to have bright eyes.

And they have a marked ability to relax. There is no tension in them, only a quietly expressed joy and friendliness. And now, come evening, I am astonished at the sense of peace and happiness within me. Perhaps this really wonderful contentment is from having fellowship with kindly, simple, strong people who themselves possess this uplifted spirit which my doctor friend in London prescribed. So, it is good to live with big thingsmountains, music, art, big thoughts, great ideas--and most important, God.

If you are not happy, but very much want to be, I suggest a trial of the prescription, "Get your spirit lifted." WORD GAME TODAY'S WORD -PTERYLA (PTERYLA: TER-i-la. A feather tract.) AVERAGE .56 WORDS TIME MINUTES At least 63 dictionary words of four more letters can be found in the letters in "Pteryla." Can you find as many or more? RULES OF THE GAME-1. Words must be of four or more letters. 2. Words which acquire four letters by the addition of such as "hats," "eats," "dies," are not used 3.

Only one form of a word is used. For example, either "pose" or "posed," not both. a noun is formed from a verb by adding or "er," such as "finder," either the noun or the verb is used, but not both. 5. When an adjective is formed by adding an adjectival termination to another word, "worthy" from "worth," "poetic" from "poet," either the adjective or the word from which it is formed may be used, but not both.

6. Slang words are not used, nor words of foreign origin unless well established in English. 7. Proper names are not used. Answer on Page 28.

15-Year-Old May Be Next Chess Champion Of World NEW YORK (AP) There's a Batman comic book on his bedside table and a rock 'n' roll program blaring over his radio. He's slouchy, gangly and crew-cut. But Batman is sprawled over an open chess book and his nailbitten fingers are deftly moving chess pieces over the black and white board which means more to him than anything else in his life. Bobby Fischer doesn't want to be a baseball star or a football player or the most popular fellow at the prom. He wants to be chess champion of the world and it seems a pretty sure bet he will be.

To Beat Russians? Most Americans don't know it, but their honor in a big international contest with Russia is riding on the thin shoulders of this 15-year-old boy from Brooklyn. Bobby is hailed by 1 the perts as the greatest chess mind the world has produced in many years. "He doesn't look like one he looks more like a farmer's boy than an -but he is a genius," says Hans LAST WEEK'S PUZZLE TRAMP RHEAS SAPUD RAKES RURAL EOSIN ARENA OVOLO ODE ASTER MODE CE TAD TEA PURE ATE ERR HATED RED MORE ACER AGo ERENOW PANE ASH STRAPS SEAT BARE TEE MOTTENS POLE OR ON RAP LEAST PACE STA NOW AIRED NOT BROS STEP LESSEN CARDS ROPE ULUS DOTS TOLA DEBTS ESTATE ELLS ORE RESTS DOE PDA KRIS TRADE DAL UR OD ANTS PRESIDE REP EPD COED TENT SETTEE ATT PART DENIES ERN CAME BED DETER ALB AWE AGAN ARA TEN VA ELAN THARA SEEDS ATA TOADS BEARD OILED 09033 Dr. Peale m. You'll enjoy your first dates more if they're foursomes or "moresome" for group activity.

Dating with other couples is the sugar-coated way to learn the hows and whens of boy-girl relations. to go with the boy to pick up his blind date. You perform the introductions girl's name first, remember. When she greets, you at the door. Then the introductions to parents naming them first.

If a girl is wise, and time and family-schedule permits, she'll offer a cold "coke" or "pop" in the kitchen or dent to break the ice. For lists of date-guide booklets, write to: Dept. TE at Public Affairs Committee, 22 E. 38th New York City 16; Science Research Associates, 57 W. Grand Chicago 10, and Association Press, 291 Broadway, New York City 17.

RALPH AND TERRY KOVEL Know Your Antiques Ralph is examining a covered in a collection of and small table are both by this interesting religious Q. Is Shaker furniture being made today? A. Shakers do not make furniture but small baskets and other items still are being made. Shaker furniture always was simple in design. It is claimed to be the inspiration for many of today's modern pieces.

The Shakers were a religious sect that did not allow its members to have children, and all Shaker children were adopted. The sect dwindled until only a handful remain today. Q. Twenty eight years ago I found a small box under the sewing basket Terry has disShaker furniture. The chair 19th century pieces made sect.

eaves of an old house. The sides appear to be pressed wood with a grape design. The lid pictures a lady and gentleman. She appears to be offering him something over a counter. Above them are the words "VAR SA GODOCH TAG EN PRIS." Underneath them it says "TACK MIN VAN." Can you help me identify this? A.

You found a Swedish snuff box. This box seems to be a commercial package that probably was made before 1900. The Swedish words say "Be SO kind and take a snuff)," "Thanks my friend." TIZZY by Kate Osann gaur 1958 by NEA Service, Ina. T.M. Reg.

Pat. "Homemaking, phooey! I call it K.P.I" Kmoch, secretary of the Manhattan Chess Club, which is the nerve center of chess in the United States. "Fischer is something unique. None of the great ones ever complished SO much SO early." Youngest In History He has become an internati al the youngest in the long history of the game and will meet the world's top seven players this year in a challenger's tournament. The exact date and place remain to be determined The winner will get a crack at the present world cham- -By CLAY R.

ARIES APR. 20 According to the MAR. 22 Your Daily Activity To develop message 015-17-23-26 43-49-87-88 read words corresponding of your Zodiac birth sign. TAURUS 1 Get 31 An APR. 21 2 Someone 32 Attractive MAY 21 3 If 33 What 4 Mingle 34 In 5 Accept 35 2- 9-28-31 Today 32-45-53 6 Someone 36 Bring GEMINI 7 With 37 Who're 2 MAY 22 8 Fails 38 Experience JUNE 22 9 May 39 Comes 10 People 40 Issues 1-16-19-36 11 New 41 Valuable 40-48-81-82 12 You 42 May 13 Con 43 Mind CANCER 14 And 44 Element JUNE 23 15 You 45 Money JULY 23 16 Busy 46 A 17 May 47 Of 22-25-27-52 18 Unexpected 48 To -54-62-65 19 And 49 More 20 Travel 50 Thrill LEO 21 Has 51 Loved JULY 24 22 You'll 52 Someone AUG.

23 23 Change 53 Proposition -20-21-29-44 24 25 Sway Thrill 55 54 You Desirable 26 Your 56 Ones VIRGO 27 To 57 You CA SEPT. AUG. 24 22 30 29 28 An Others Present 60 59 58 Will Seem Today 5-33-39-58 Good Adverse 61-64-67 Russia's Mikhail Botvin- pion, nik. So much look pastime ple fine to best Europe sents the much war He far, this hasn't meant to most Americans, who on chess as an intricate for contemplative graybeards. But now even peouninterested in chess are beginning to feel it would be feather in Uncle Sam's cap have Bobby whip Russia's players in a game that commands great attention in and South America.

Bobby himself who prea porcupine exterior to world doesn't show interest in possible coldimplications of his career. just wants to be champion. POLLANGuide 4 SEPT. 23 Stars. oct.

2 23 for Sunday, to numbers 112-13-24-30 69-78-83-84 61 Without SCORPIO 62 And OCT. 24 63 Favor 22 64 Any 65 Attroctive 3- 6- 8-34 66 Fortunate 46-75-89-90 67 Misgivings SAGITTARIUS 68 In NOV. 23 69 With 70 Endeavors DEC. 22 71 You 4 7-10-35 72 Risk 37-41-74 73 Today 74 Contacts CAPRICORN 75 Pinch DEC. 23 76 To- JAN.

20 77 In 78 Your 79 Surprising 42-50-55 80 Ways AQUARIUS 81 Final JAN. 21 82 Conclusion 83 Persuasive FER. 84 Talents 85 Gain 57-59-66-68 86 Objectives 70-76-85-86 87 Than PISCES 88 Once FEB. 20 89 Act 90 Promptly MAR. 21 )Neutral 171-77-79-80 (FOLLOW THE STAR GAZER DAILY IN THE INTELLIGENCER JOURNAL).