Lebanon Daily News from Lebanon, Pennsylvania • Page 15

I'Mary Haworth Those )udging Others Are Greater Sinners f- Dear Mary Haworth: Thank you very, very much ifor your burning rebuke of AA, who was so volubly happy to have broken into print with a letter publicly exposing an office romance between a foolish girl and her married boss. Your consistently challenging advice isn't always cognizant of the grubby realities of human nature, I sometimes think. But this time you sure hit the nail on the head! I would say that in the event AA's first published letter has shattered the office romance, as she crows in her second letter, then it wouldn't have lasted anyway. It would have flickered out in the course of time. Those who sit in judgment, self-righteously, are guilty of a worse sin than the man's to date; and my advice to the injured wife is, don't let the gossip break up your marriage.

E. P. Asks Discussion Of Facia! Tic Dear Mai-y Haworth; Please discuss nervous facial tics in an adult. Although not the painful kind, still this is a constant worry to me. Thank you very Much.

C. L. Dear C. As I understand, facial tics are somewhat akin to compulsive nervous gestures of any sort. The assumption Is that they have fin emotional origin.

Thus I feel you should have expert diagnostic help in getting down to brass tacks, to heal your distress of mind and body. Short-term Intensive psychiatric therapy might do the Job; or some dmg medication may be required, or even pos- sihly minor surgery. In any case, lake your guidance from a physician. M.H. TOPS Members Drop Pounds Dear Mary Haworth: Recently a young wife, at grips with subtle worries, confessed her difficulty in losing weight.

You suggested (among other things) that she read "Body, Mind Sugar" by Abrahamson and Pezet. This book worked a miracle for my boy friend. It was mentioned in your column the before I took it from the library and "I got the last of 16 copies! The librarian said you've practically put it on the bestseller list. Back to Ihe young wife's veight problem: She might also Join a chapter of TOPS (Take Off Pounds Sensibly), a nationa self-help endeavor organized along the lines of Alcholics Anonymous. Meetings Spark Helpful Insights The national headquarters ad dress is TOPS Clubs, 3180 Lebanon Daily News, Lebanon, Tuesday, June 16, 1964 Page 15 Recent Brides South 27th Street, Milwaukee 15, Visconsin.

There are 24 chap ers in my state, and more are orming. Through discussion and sug- we members gain in- ights and incentives that pro- luce results. Within four months, I had lost 30 pounds vithout special diets, pills or exercise, thanks just to the in- erest and kindness of fellow members. Thanks for a wonder- ul column. P.

P. Has This Critic Read The Book? Dear Mary Haworth: You write frequently about hyperin- sulinism (low blood sugar), a most excellent thing to do. However, I don't believe the book 'Bod Mind Sugar," to you often refer, affords 'ull coverage of the subject. As I recall (it is some years since I read the book) it treats he condition in physiological erms exclusively, and assumes so-called Harris diet will correct imbalance. My experience is that the sugar imbalance follows quickly upon anxiety states.

Thus the sasic solution consists in correcting the "anxiety-overwork- fear-frustration" complex. Unrelieved tension will perpetuate the sugar imbalance, even if one stavs on the diet 3etty Levy Is Bride Of VlurrayCohen The marriage of Miss Betty Levy and Murray Cohen was olemnized this morning at the ome of the bride's parents, Ir. and Mrs. Herbert Levy, ebanon RD 5, Mr. Cohen is he son of Mrs.

Rose Cohen of Jaltimore, Md. Rabbi Alvin Poplack of Floral 'ark. Long Island, (formerly of officiated. The groom is a Phi Beta Kap)a graduate of The Johns Hop- dns University and received his master's degree from the Uni- ersity of Wisconsin. He will continue his graduate studies at Johns Hopkins University in the all.

The "bride will be a senior at Goucher College, Towson, Md. Immediately after the ceremony, the couple left for Madison, for the summer where the groom has a research assistantship in the department of English at the University of Wisconsin. The bride was attended by her sister, Miss Ruth Levy. Mr. and Mrs.

Sidney Cohen of Cincinnati were present for the ceremony. Mr. Cohen groom's brother. Cordially, R.T. Dear R.

Seriously, have you read the book? Or perhaps only read about it? In any case, it plainly reports that unrelieved life situations may contribute (o setting-up and-or perpetuating hyperlnsu- llnlsm. It also quotes Dr. John Schindler's testimony concern- Ing the close relationship between burdensome circumstances and psychosomatic illness. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview.

Write her in care of the Lebanon Daily News. Amy Vanderbilt Unwelcome Guests "DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: la it proper for parents to invite themselves to their children's homes for week-end visits? Mine do, without any consideration for our plans. With three school-age children we find it impossible to get out nights during the week and consequently try to plan entertainment for the (Uhler) MRS. DALE E. EBERLY'S wedding- took place in Imntanuel Evangelical United Brethren Church, Cleona.

The bride is the former Beulah Ann Tobias, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Tobias, 535 E. Penn Cleona. The groom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Walter Eberly, Annville RD 1. (Alexander) MRS. CARL E. WISE JR.

was married in the First Baptist Church. The bride is the former Ruth Elizabeth Kreitz, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles S. Kreitz, of 609 S.

Fourth St. The groom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Carl Wise Sr. of Greensburg, Pa.

Contract Bridge By B. Jay Becker South dealer. East-West vulnerable NORTH A A A 5 7 5 A 10 7 fi WEST EAST 4 9 7 5 3 4 8 6 4 6 4 7 3 2 8 4 3 A 2 SOUTH A 10 2 10 9 8 is the CHILDREN'S DAY NOTED A Children's Day program was held Sunday at Memorial Evangelical United Brethren Church. Children of the nursery and primary departments presented recitations and songs. The program and decorations were prepared by 'the superintendents and teachers in the two departments.

4 A 10 8 5 The bidding: South West North East 1 Pass 3 Pass 1 Pass 3 Pass 4 Pass 6 Opening of spades. It is a basic principle of play that if the contract can be made only when the defenders cards are divided in a certain way, declarer should proceed on the basis that the necessar distribution exists. This is cer tainly a sensible attitude take, since there cannot be much point to giving up on a hand without trying to mak the contract. Here is a sample of the the ory at work. South is in si hearts and West leads a spade The contract looks hopeless a this point, since the loss of spade and a club appear in evitable.

But situations like this ar made to order for the smart de larer. He must try to visualiza ands the defenders might hava hich allow the contract to ba nade. In line with this, declarer ins the spade lead and cashes he A-K of hearts, both oppo- ents following suit. He now tops playing trumps and cashes he A-K of diamonds, followed a diamond from dummy. When East follows with tha ine, South, who has Q-10 left, at the crucial point of tha land.

The question is whether ie should play the ten or tha queen. Acutally, there is only ona correct play at this point, even vithout seeing the opponents' cards. South must finesse because he cannot possibly maka he contract unless he does. First let's see what happens the actual hand when tha 'inesse succeeds. South next cashes the queen of diamonds, discarding a spade from dummy and then ruffs a spade.

As a result, he makes the slam, losing only a club trick. Now as to why the finesse is a mandatory play. South realizes he cannot make the hand if the diamonds are divided 3-3. He is bound to lose two tricks in such a case. His only hops of making the slam is the East started with four diamond and three hearts.

The odds are tainly against this possibility, but it is South's only chance. Tomorrow: The unnatural play. week ends. But interference galore! "Mother and Dad who live only two miles away have made their plans, too. They call to in form me that they nre paying us a weekend visit.

How can you be rude and walk out on guesls? We cancel all plans and spend a weekend sulking. My husband and I are both very much annoyed by their practice but can think of no way nf changing it without hurting their feelings. J.S.C., Newark, N.J." Certainly, parents should feel free to ask if they may visit their children at a certain time, hut they should not make a hahlt of such requests and they should not ever descend upon their children as your parents seem (o do. It Is Important Ihal you be firm hut pleasant with your parents about this, or it can turn into an insurmountable problem. They do at least call ynti Instead nf dropping in.

Next time they call, tell (hem that you have plans for that weekend and try tn set a date that will be agreeable to you both. Say that you like to he with them and to entertain thorn, hut of course you have other social obligations from time In time you must fulfill. You cannot very well cancel dales you have made, as this would be offensive to your friends. It takes a very slim figure to wear lace that Is accented with re embroidery, sequins, rhlneslones, and so forth. A size 5, 8 or 10 may look charming In a Chanel type )ace dinner suit, whereas a size 18 may well wish that she had never tried.

If you love lace, however, get the very best quality. In my opinion, black, white, brown or any of the beige laces are far smarter than lace in other colors. Tnls is going to he a big season for lace for the mother of Ihe bride. Just be sure you have the figure for It. Lace has a long fashion life (It should be gnod now for at least two seasons and be good for one or mnre re- modelings when it comes back into style), but cheap lace looks it.

"DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: I am attending a large banquet in late June. Would if he appropriate to wear a black lace dress with sequins? It has a back. If so, what color shoes should I wear? T.S., Norfolk, Va." The dress you describe could look wintry. It is hard for me to know without see- Ing It. I suggest that you look at the fashion magazines Vogue In particular has had a groat deal on late spring and summer laces which are currently high fashion.

Look at the lace late day clothes In your smartest shops, then decide whether your dress will look right. Lace, too fussily handled, can look tacky and matronly, Cooks Corner UCTUM Dr. and Mrs. Vedat Uctum, 159 N. College Palmyra, announce the birth of a son on Friday at the Hershey Hospital.

The mother is the former Gail Summy. KREIDER Mr. and Mrs. Wilmer Kreider, Lebanon RD 4, have a son who was born on Friday at the Hershey Hospital. The mother was Joanne Weaber prior to her marriage.

DRESCHER It's a daughter for Mr. and Mrs. John. Drescher, Palmyra RD 2. The infant was born on Saturday at the Hershey Hospi tal.

The mother is the former Adeline Kerr. FAKE Mr. and Mrs. Donald Fake 501 W. Oak Palmyra, an nounce the birth of a son on Saturday at the Hershey Hospi tal.

The mother was Marilyn Kray prior to her marriage. BODENHORN The Alfred Bodenhorns, 129 Cedar Hershey, are the parents of a daughter who was born on Friday at the Hershej Hospital. Mrs. Bodenhorn is the former Jeanette Deibert. WOLFE Mr.

and Mrs. Raymond Wolfe Palmyra RD 1, announci the birth of a son on Saturda; at the Hershey Hospital. Th mother was Jean Martin prio to her marriage. WHITE Mr. and Mrs.

Robert G. Whid of Detroit, announce th birth of a daughter, Cynthia Sue in the Garden City Osteopath! Hospital, Garden City, Saturday, June 13. The mother i the former Nancy Marie Wolf daughter of Mrs. Ethel Wolf, 101 Chestnut St. The father is a ma chinist for the Initial Tool Company of Detroit.

The couple also has a son, Richard Alan, 15 months old. SCHAEFFER A daughter, their first child, was born to Mr. and Mrs. Lee Schaeffer, Locust Street, Pine Grove, Saturday in Pottsville Hospital. The mother is the former Rose Marie Sotillo.

Nancy Taylor Romance Of Fragrance Dear Nancy Taylor: I am curious about some of the history behind perfuming. Is it true that men used to use it? S.F. Dear S.F.: Did you know perfumes and scents have been used since the beginning of time? Probably the first use was an offering to the Gods by Heathen priests. Later, these priests became the healers and doctors for their tribes, and perfumes were used as healing oils, as well as to drive away evil spirits from the body. Throughout history, no royal rite or ceremony was ever held without fragrance having its own place among the rituals or "estivities.

Greeks Loved Perfume Both tha men and women of ancient Greece loved perfume the men used the perfumed oiis for thejr elaborate baths. And the art of perfumery was passed on by the Greeks to the SUMMER LUNCH Give salad tang with this exceptionally good dressing. Lettuce, Sardine, Cucumber Salad Russian Dressing Rolls Cookies Beverage RUSSJAN DRESSING i cup mayonnaise 1 tablespoon chili sauce 2 large green olives, cut fine 1 shallot or scallion, minced 1 hard-cooked egg, chopped fine Mr. WHITMAN and Mrs. Thomas (Uhler) MRS.

NED BOMGARDNER took her marriage vows in St. Mark's United Church of Christ. She is the former Jean Carol Williams, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Alcala, 377 N.

Ninth St. Her husband is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Leroy Bomgardner Annville RD 1. List Winners Of Duplicate Bridge Game The weekly session of the Mt.

Gretna Duplicate Bridge Club was held Monday evening in the Chautauqua Community House with 11 tables in play. Winners are as follows: North-south: Norman Braman and Seymour Leibowitz, both ol Lebanon, first; Mrs. Milton and Mrs. Irene Smith, both of Lebanon, second; Mr. and Mrs.

Charles Trainor third; LeRoy Bundens and R. A. Machusick, of Lancaster County, fourth. East west: Mrs. Freeman Rice of Lebanon and Charles Slupe of Lancaster, first; Miss Marion Fellenbaum and Dan Bare, both of Lancaster, sec ond; Miss Ruth Whitman and Mrs.

L. Saylor Zimmerman (UhleO MRS. GORDON GINGRICH'S wedding took place at Seventh Street Lutheran Church. She is the former Marie Brucker, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

John F. Brucker, 479 N. Fifth St. Her husband's parents are Mr. and Mrs.

George Gingrich, 1921 Church St. F. Whitman, 523 Cumberland announce the birth of a son on Monday at 2:47 p.m. in the Good Samaritan Hospital. The father is employed at the Resti- co Clothing Company.

The mother is the former Elizabeth A. Karoscik. SHANAMAN Mr. and Mrs. Dale Otto Shanaman, Main Street, Richland, announce the birth of a son at 1:20 p.m.

on Monday in the Of mm course, we haven't tha Roman Empire famous Roman beauties thought it necessary 'to have various types of scents for each different part of the body. Some Roman beauties even had different perfumes created for each separate room in their home! French Renaissance During the French Renaissance many lovely ladies of the court would change the scents in their drawing rooms according to the day of the week, and even according to the time of day! There are Still exotic spoiis in the world where the art of perfumery occupies a good part of every lovely woman's particularly in the Orient. time in this country to anoint ourselves with various oils bathe in fragrant rose water follow a lengthy ritual of scenting our hair and painting our fingers and toes with fragrant ointments or even of continuously draping our bodies with garlands of jasmine as do the lovelies of the South Sea Isles. But we do have time to remember that perfume stimulates the atmosphere of beauty and joy in life. And, as I said before, perfume is tha most subtle means of revealing your femininity that you can use.

Mix together all the Sanatorium. The father is employed with Interstate ents. Makes almost cup enough for 4 to 6 servings of salad. Feted At Shower Miss Arlcne Ritchie was feted at a surprise bridal shower held at Uie home of Mrs. Ethel Eberly, 223 Mifflin Sunday afternoon.

Fourteen guests attended. Miss Dress Carriers. The mother is the former Donna Layser. DETWEILER Mr. and Mrs.

Russell Detweiler, 1443 E. Chocolate Her shey, announce the birth of a daughter today at a.m. in the' Lebanon Sanatorium. The father is employed as an instru ment technician for Lear ant both of Lebanon, third, and Mr and Mrs. Allen M.

Alboum Lancaster, fourth. Next week, the first maste point game will be held. Game will continue until Labor Day open to the public. Mrs. U.

Samuel Angle served as hostess ast night. Mrs. A. H. Burnham the registrar.

A special committee, s. Samuel Ressler, Mrs. Ralph and Mrs. H. K.

Geyr, has been formed to arrange for the charity game to be held June 29. Proceeds will be given the American Cancer Society and the United Cerebral Palsy Association. Personals MR. and MRS. NORMAN B.

DINGER of visited recently with their son-in-law and a xi DR. and MRS. HOWARD JACOBSON in Brookline, Mass. Upon their return they toured the Franklin D. Roosevelt estate at Hyde Park, N.Y.

MRS. VINCENT UNDERKOFFLER of Fort Lauderdale, has returned to her home after a visit last week with her parents, MR. and MRS. A. J.

BUDY, 5 E. Weidman St. She returned by plane on Friday. MR. and MRS.

RICHARD KERCHER and daughter JEAN of 1318 E. Maple Annville, returned home Sunday from an, extended trip to the New England States. They visited points of interest in Rhode Island, New Hampshire and Vermont. On. their return they visited Lake George, N.Y., and the Poconos.

Ritchie will become the bride ofiSiogler. The mother is the (or Joseph Camastra on August 15, Imer Helen Grace Bucher, fete Heiseys For 25th Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Heiscy of Hershcy RD 1 entertained at a surprise luncheon in honor of the. 25th wedding anniversary of their son and daughter-in-law, (Uhler) MRS.

EDWARD J. SWANGER was married on Saturday, June 6 at Richland by the Rev. Lee D. Loos. She is the former Sheila Rae Weik, Myerstown RD 3.

(Uhler) MRS. RONALD LENTZ was married in the Midway Church of the Brethren. The former Allene Blouch, she is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Blouch, Lebanon RD 5.

Her husband is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Warren Lentz, Lebanon RD 1. Mrs. Gettfe Hostess To Missionary Group The Missionary Circle of St.

Mark's United Church of Christ met Monday night at the home of Mrs. William Gettle. 47 Crestvipw Drive. Thirty women attended. Mrs.

Arlone Taylor led the worship service. The topic was "Witnessing in Our Changing Culture." The group held a discussion on social problems in the City of Lebanon, in schools, employment and housing and in worship in the churches. Plan.s were made for participation in the fall bazaar at St. Mark's and also for the Missionary birthday social in October. The social committee served refreshments.

Mr. and Mrs. J. Earl Heisey, Palmyra RD 2. The luncheon took place Sunday at the Ralph Heisey home with 65 guests in attendance.

Special music was presented by Terry Heisey and Frank Hy nicker. Mrs. Heisey is the former Helen Miller of Lebanon. Mr, Heisey is supervising principal of the Swatara Township School District. For Birthday Friends and relatives from Lebanon and Lancaster County honored Mrs.

Mildred Wilson, 430 Freeman at a surprise birthday party on Sunday at Brandywine Hall. Mrs. Wilson, the widow of Paul W. Wilson, received many cards and gifts. She will celebrate her 60th her eight children.

Mrs. Wilson has eight children, 26 grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Most of them were among the 95 guests who attended the party. Household Hints Uncooked, cured pork can ba stored longer than fresh pork cuts, but the fat will become rancid if it is kept too long. Deodorize jar or bottles with A simple socket adapteri a ron solution of dry mus- makcs three-way lamps from standard table lamps.

A switch on the adapter turns the light lard and water. Fold nesv material over an to the low, msdiurn or high old belt and fasten the center birthday anniversary on Wed- wattage rating of the three-way on the underneath side with nesday. The party was given by bulb. I iron-tape. Presto! A new belt..