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STANDARD UNION MONDAY, JANUARY 20, 1930. 1 i 1 7 i somEwmcwB news FOR WOMEN AND FEATURES Just Among Us Gills Engagement Announced At Luncheon Saturday Chapped Lips Lack Beauty Sleepiness May Be Due To Toxemia Mary Louise "titmray To Marry Andrew Wilson Cards Attached to Flower Corsages Given to'Guests at 1 Luncheon and Bridge V. TlTRS. SAMUEL ELMER MUERAY, of 26 Woodruff avenue, 1X announced the engagement of her daughter, Misa Mary Louise Murray, to Andrew D. "Wilson, son of Mr.

and Mrs. drew Wilson, of 1821 Avenue at delightful luncheon and bridge at her home on Saturday. MissE.Moran if'1' "-V X. I vay It Women r4 ihor' minds 9 -o Jr I musb bo Miss Mary Lonise Murray's engagement to Andrew Wilson is announced on this page to-day. Housewives of Olden Day Vied in IQake CompetUion But Women of To-day Take, Easier Recipes Mary Dillon's Favorite Some Chinese Dishes By BUTTS BOSS Br TJLU HUNT PETERS, M.

J. DOCTOR: I am In 'D1 good health, but I am so very sleepy. I eannot sit down to read or sew without fall-irur asleep in a few minutes. It Just take the life out of me. I am 62 years old, I feet inches tall, and weigh 145 pounds.

What can I do to overcome my trouble? "MRS. Sleepiness such as you experience may be due to a form ot toxemia (which really means poison in tne Those who are overweight very frequently find they are sleepy most of the time. The poison in the blood In these patients partly comes front the super-saturation with food Erodncts and the stagnation due to of physical exercise, it may be possible that If you reduce your weight you will lose your symptoms entirely. Ot course, I suggest you have a physical check-up to see if there la any ether cause for your trouble. "Dear Doctor: Some time ago I read an advertisement of a pump for developing the breasts, and I sent for one.

It Is supposed to be used dally, and la claimed to be perfectly harmless and give sure results. Is this true? What 1s a good way to develop ths breasts? MRS. I don't believe any doctor would advise any sort of manipulation, with a pump or any other device, for developing the breast. In tlie first place, there Is always the possibility ef harm, because the breast tissue Is susceptible to cancerous changes, especially after the age of 40, and If there were any latent possibility of this disease, the manipulation would stimulate It. We don't knew anything about by any means, but we do know that chronic irritatlon'ls a factor in producing It.

In the second place, 1 don't believe these mechanical devices would accomplish the result desired, because the breast is glandular tissue, not muscle tissue, and develops after maturity only by the physiologic stimulus to produce milk. The only way to develop the breast Is to develop the chest and trunk muaeles so there is a better posture and the chest Is held in tho Tight position; and If underweight, to put on some fat, a share of which will go to the breasts. While speaking on the breasts, I will speak of another bugbear to women, and that Is the sagging or pendulous breasts. The chief cause tot this more or less deformity Is an over-accumulation of fat, causing them to become so heavy they have to sasr. Many attribute the sagging to nursing, but this In not true, although, of course, breasts engorged with milk, plus excess fat, will sag the quicker.

After the breast skin has stretched, Jt soldom recovers its tone, so the chief thing to do for sagging breasts is to prevent their occurrence by the prevention 6f and the wearing of an uplift Brassiere, espe cially during nm-Kinp. When the form was the style, the brassier designed to give that effect did help spoil many breasts. The only thing that ran bo done for sagging breasts after have formed, that I know of, is the surgical removal of the excess stretched skin and replanting of the breast tissue lo Its proper place. This is now done by tfnallded plastic For those who are interested, we have an article on the Atonic Abdominal Wall, which gives exercises to correct posture, and a pamphlet on Reducing and Gaining Weight. See column rules.

Editor's Note: Dr. Peters cannot diagnose nor give personal advice. Your questions, if of general Interest, wUl be answered In the column In their turn. Requests for articles or pamphlets on hand must be accompanied by a fully self -add ressed stamped envelope, plus the following small charge to help cover cost of printing and handling, for each ar-tide wented, two cents In coin; for each pamphlet ten cents In coin. The pamphlets are Reducing and Gaining, Hygiene of Women, KUney ana Bladdw Disorders.

Address Dr. Peter. In care of this papir. Write legibly, nd not over 200 words. Love Absolutely Necessary To Everyone's Happiness By PATRICIA KING.

WE all want to be loved. We may be poor or rich, we may be young, old, lovely or homely, charming or repulsive, male or female, but we must be loved. Every housewife, not so many years ago, was Expected to be able to bake a cake that would vie with those ci her neighbors at the county fair or the ladies' aid bazaar. These-recipes would strike terror to some of our kitchenette housewives with the long instructions of how to cream the sugar and butter, cut ting it with a knife, slowly and dozens or. eggs.

iuany.oi tnese recipes, it must oe remembered, were perfected by women on farms, where butter and eggs were plentiful and time had to be filled in somehow, but except for those women who harken back to the good old days the Majority nowadays are1 content to choose simple, easy recipe Attractive flower corsage with tWA cards attached were nlaeed at each guest's plat at the Utile. Miss Murray is a graduate, of Packer Collegiate Institute and Mr. Wilson received nil education z.t Bxeter where he wa a member Tan Rho Kapna. Among those present were the Misses EUaabetr Farraday, Charlotte Turner, Eloise Brown, Helen Kelly, Helen James, Anals Kalten-born, Muriel Evens, Carolyn Ken-nedy, Kenny, Mabel Cooper, Marlon Adams, Madeline Birmingham, JEileen Bradley, Dorothy Jardine, Betty Mae Davids, Victoria Zimmerman and Mrs. Andrew Wilson.

AT THE OPENING o( the tit- teenth annual play by the blind girls of the Brooklyn Bureau of Charities, at the Academy of Music, this evening. Darwin R. James, president of the' bureau, will have as guests In hie box Mr. and Mrs. Henry P.

Bris tol, Mr. and Mrs, Norfleet Blaine and Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Peay. Mr.

and John Un- derwood will entertain box party, as will also Mr. and Mis, i'rsncis I. Wognn. Boxes for th second night will be filled by Mr. and Mrs.

Adrian Van Slnderen and Mrs. J. A. Mollenhauor and guests. Mrs.

William H. Kerr, chairman of the play committee, announces that one man whose wits had been afflicted with blindness before her death Is taking; row entire, wttiH. annual reservation as long as the blind eirl give their play. Cooperation ot the banks hog already brought In over $800 In programme advertising, according to Mrs. H.

D. Watsonj chairman ot the progmmme committee. Two 'one-act plays are to be presented Monday and Tuesday evenings, "The a rural New England comedy by Zona Gale, and "Playgoers," a farce by Pinero. All the female parts are being taken by girls who are either entirely blind or so nearly blind that sney see large objects dimly. The tour male parts are being; tnken by members ef Central Branch T.

Mt C. A. Dramatic Club. Between the two plays children in the sight conaervatio classes ot the bureau will give clown dance directed by Miss Mao Astroff, and a chorus o( blin women will sing. -Dr, Thomas Klley, general secretary ot th Charities Bureau, will make short address on the minimum TURS, STANLEY WILSON LISTER entertained the flower committee of Chaminade at her 222 Jefferson avenue, tjatur dav.

The committee Includes Mrs, John Welsh, chairman; Mrs. Wil lam Schneider, vice-chairman Irs. Maurice Ferrers, Miss Helen orster, Miss Joserana LincK. Mrs, ottr Lm-ansr. Miss Lucy McCul- ugh.

Mrs. Palllster, Miss Lucie wnolds and Mrs. Edward Spear, ie guests of the afternoon were jrs. William Dunbar, president, nd Mme. Emma Richardson JCus- v.cr, conductor.

Others Dresent were Mrs. J'ath Cavannah Parker, Mrs. ('red ilUon Baldwin, Mrs. Charles ES 1'orter. Mrs.

Frederick M. Gordon, lira. Ralnh B. Annls. Mrs.

Edward i H. Dare, Miss Grace H. Stanley and Mis. Blanche uea jvowax. MISS ETHEL JONES, of Pierrenont street, will give tea on Saturday, Jan.

26, for Miss Jean Gray tmerman. miss nnir-- man is the dautiuer ot Mr. and Mis. Arnold Watson Sherman Hotel Boesert. Her engagement in Maurice Job Taylor of Liverpool JJaguxnd, and St.

Johns, Newtouna land, wag announced recenny. 0 helen p. Mccormick head pt the organization, has announced a theatre party of the Big Bisters of -Brooklyn, to.be giv. on at the Majestic Theatre, Tues day evening. February 1.

Victor Herbert's "Babes in Toyland" Is to be the attraction. The committees are: Patroness, Mrs. Ernest J. Doyle, chairman Mrs. Itenhen de Coste and Mrs William C.

Courtney, assisting; rhuiriruin: ticket. Mrs. Herman Dicks, chairman! Miss Nona Hart, Miss Susan lB, Dunn; programme, Miss Josephine ehalrman: Mrs. Mark I Cnnrenl. vine chairman! Mrs, TCmmA ftiitnn flchmltx.

Flowers and candy, Mrs. Eugene) w. n.vie. chairman: Dr. oun Everett, Mrs.

Blchard T. Mahoney Junior committee, Miss Teresa Cos. grove, ehairmanj Miss Sue uin Mm It. Furey. Men's Committee Edward v.nm chairman: Thomas Beardsley, John E.

Hlgglns, James J. Browne, James J. Byrne, George Fj. Brower, rteginaw uhuiw. Nicholas Caputo, W.

Bruce Cobb, Dr. Stephen de Costs, Dr, James ds Costa, Albert Conway, George aene W. Davis, Paul J. Donnel y. James A.

Dunne, Charles Doyle, wBtt- n. DnvlA. Charles H. Doda, George W. I.

Dwlnell, Dr. John J. Doyle, Daniel Enrlght, Joseph J-Eariv. John T. Eagan, John J.

cnnu. Paul Foots. Joseoh Flynn. Wllltarr. X.

Geoghan, John T. Gallagher. John Oaughran, win. lam GauKhran. Alexander H.

Gels. mer. George A. Gremse; Oscar Gude. William C.

Good, William Hagarty, William J. Heffernan, F. B. Hart. Leo J.

Hlckey. P. F. Hannon, Henry Hesterberg, An drew J. Igoe.

John J. Johnson, jsa ward J. Kenny, Gerard Kenny, Thomas A. Kenny, William Kenny, William F. Kenny, Frederick J.

H. Kracke. Edward A. Lasansky, Frederick Q. Lemmerman, Miohael Laura, Andrew Lioucke, H.

M. Mc Cullough, John J. McCooey, John E. MoCabe, Harry C. Mc-Glll, Daniel D.

McAteer, James A. By VIOLA PARIS WINTER' is the hardest cacn from many standpoints, hut most ot all from the standpoint of beauty. Cold winds ami steam beat are a bad combination, and our skins are bound to suffer from them. Is anything less attractive than some one with chapped Hps, dry and whits, and often cracked and bleeding? Many ot us suffer from these sometimes from biting them or wetting them when outdoors, sometimes from a cold, sometimes trom a naturally dry skin. An ft then having got ourselves Into this lamentable state, we sit and chew-miserably at them in a vain noim of improving matters.

As In everything else, a little prevention is a bigger aid than all oC the cures in the world. Of if one has a heavy cold and ouu not avoid breathing through thn mouth, there Is little to do beyonrl taking every faeaaure possible tu keep the lips from drying. Camphor ice at night Is an excellent and time-tried, remedy, but in th daytime a thick coating of grease is scarcely more to be desired than chapped lips themsclvru. Nothing is better lrr these circumstances than the useful little stick of lip salve in a rose tint -Lightly, applied, they give a completely natural effect, and there is epougli grease in their composition make them healing as well as becoming. The older womaifc and even the mere male may prefer this lip pomade In white, antr unlike other preparation, it is scareely, noticeable when lightly applied.

As for those who find themselves having chapped lips for no apparent reason, let them look to their lipsticks, as the more- variety are 'apt to be moi-o drying. By alternating and usinir a creamier one when going on th street, they may save themselvf from this minor but unfortunata disfigurement. and I time, he'll be convinced. A Mother Is Entitled To Her Son's Support Worried Wife: Of course, the mother must feel the difference in Income since you and her son have been married. You can't blame her for mi awing the steady-Income, and she- should, be paid for her care of the little boy, and that money should come in regularly, as a growing child needs good food and care.

It the trouble continues, the best way would be to take the matter to the probate judge and have him rule on whethir the boy's father or his grandmSther should hnve charge of him, and what is a fair amount to pay if your motlier-ln-law is appointed his guardian, Do you want the little fellow to live with you," or would you prefer that he should stay where he Is? There Is no excuse, of course, for the mother calling you name3lind trying to separate you end your husband, but I suppose she need the money that your husband haa been paying her and can't understand that your husband has been earning less than usual, and tliinkn you are to blame for her not getting It. Couldn't you arrange with her to pay less until your husband earns more, and then gradually pay up the arrears? The Houe wife's Idea Box An Eo-iy way to Frexlien Roils YOU need not light your oven to freshen l'olls. Just put them In the 'upper part of thj double boiler and oover tightly. Put water In the bottom of the boiler and heat up until the rolls ar ufflclently softened, THE HOUSEWIFE. ADVERTISEMENT.

Drugs Excite The Kidneys, Drink Water Th American men an! women must guard constantly ag kidney trouble because we often eat too much rich food. Our blood is filled with acids which the kidneys strive to filter out: they weaken fiom overwork, become sluggish, tho diminutive tissues clog ond ths result is kidney trouble, bladder weakness and a general decline in health. When your kidneys feel like lumps of lead; your back hurts or the uriuo is cloudy, full of sediment, or you are obliged to seek relief two or three times during the night; If you suffer with sick headache, or dizzy, nervous spells, acid stomach, or if you have rheumatism when the weather is bad, begin drinking lots of Kocd water and get from your pharmacist about four ounces of Jail Salts. Take a tableapoonful In a glass of water before breakfast for a few days and your kidneys may then act fine. This famous salts Is made from the acid of grapes and lemon Juice, combined with lithia, and has been used for years to help flush and stimulate clogged kidneys, to tms acids in the system ko they no longer are a souree of Irritation, thus often relieving bladder disorders.

Jad Salts Is Inexpensive; cannot Injure, makes a delightful effervescent llthia-water drink and belongs in every home, because nobody can make a m'stake by having a gou kidney flushing any time. iw mi''f Chooses Her Wedding Day 4 Will Become Bride of Thomas S. Dwyer Jn St. Augustine's Church TITISS EUGENIA MARIE If JL MORAN. daughter of Mr.

and Mrs, Eugene Moran, of 225 Lincoln place, has chosen Feb. 13 as Jje date of her marriage to Thomas 8. Dwyer, son of Mr. and Mrs. James 8.

Dwy. er, of Kingston, N. Y. The ceremony will be performed in St. Augustine's Church by.

the Rt. Kev. John L. Bclford end will be followed by a' reception at the Park-Lane, Mls Clair Moran, twin "sister ot the brido, will be maid of honor and Mrs. John Cray, a cousin of the bride, will be matron of honor.

The bridesmaids will be the Misses Marjorle'-Johnson, Frances John, son, Louclle Claffey and Marion. another sister. John Hughes Dwyer wm ue nis brothers best man and the 'lers will include Eugene F. Richard F. Lenahan, Clifford'- Meany, Franklin.

D. Hodnon, Howard C. Carroll, Gerald C. Kelleher. James A.

Dwyer end WIHlam J. Dwyer, brothers ot the bridegroom. I After a West Indies' cruise Mr. Dwyer and hig bride will make their home at B6 Plaza street. frilB LIST of patrons tor Jhe Anise tsa.il 10 oe neia at Eev-erlch Towers on Feb.

8 and which has as Its chairman Mrs. Stanislav Rembskl with the following Junior committee, Louise Ooetze, chairman; Mary Mrs. Howard Burdiclt, Mrs. V. Hall Everson, Mrs.

Thoman Moore Urell and Miss Elizabeth Stcbblns, Includes: Mrs. John Anderson, Mrs. Frances Anne Ballard, Mrs. Thomae H. "ioardsley, Mrs, Daniel de Uolxo-flon, Miss Dorothy Bette, Miss Stella Blatchford, Mrs.

Wadlaw Blazowier, Mrs. Edward C. Blum, Mrs. Charles A. Boody, Dr.

and Mrs. Clark Burnham, Mrs. James Norman Carpenter, Mrs. James Ollvor. Mrs.

Dudley Dakin Campbell, Mrs. 'Otis 6wan Carroll, Mrs. Oliver Goldsmith Carter, Mrs. Thomas F. Casey.

Mrs. George W. CVauncey, Mrs. Crom. well Chlldo, Mrs.

Frederick L. Cranford, Mrs. Harris M. Crist, Mrs. Oeorge Bherman Dalzell, Mrs.

Henry J. Davenport, Mrs. James Sherlook Davis. Mrs. Philip A.

Dohsrty, Mrs. Ira B. Downs. Mrs. H.

Edward Drier, Dr. and Mrs. Cameron Duncan, Mr. and Mrs, William V. Eastman, Mrs.

A. Kuuiley KldredKe, MVs. Joseph Ferris, Mrs. Sumner Ford, Mrs. Lewis Wltherbee Francis, Mrs.

George 8. Frank, and Mrs. Alexander Hamilton Fraser, Miss Marie Jf'ru-gone, Mr. and Mrs, George H. Gartlan, Judge andMrs.

Edwin L. Garvin, Mrs. Walter Gibb, Miss Louise Goetze. Mrs. Otto Goetze, Mrs.

William H. Good, Mrs. E. M. Lawrence Oould, Mrs.

Percy R. Mrs. John Quilfoyle, Mr. and Mrs. "Herbert F.

Gunnison, Mrs. J. Morton Halstead, Mrs. Walter Hammitt, Miss Eve Handy, Mrs. Theodore.

Marline Hardy. Mrs. Charles M. Hlgglns, Mrs. James M.

Hills, Mrs. Robert Honeyman, William M. Hornsr, Mrs. C. Paul Humpstone, Mrs.

Joseph A. Igoe, Miss Bailie A. Ingalls, Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Ingersoll, Mr.

and Mrs. Henry A. Ingraham, Mrs; Frederick L. Jo-hanna, Mrs. Ralph Jonas, Mr.

and I Mrs. Wallace Jones. Miss Kath. enns journeay, Mrs. Julian W.

T. Kastondleck, Mrs. Frederick A. Keech, Mrs. William Kennedv.

Sr. and Mrs. Parke Rexford Kolbe, lss Helen Tayntor Kracke, Mrs. B. Meredith Langntaff, Mrs.

John Eadle Leech, Mrs. Frederick D. MacKay. Mr. and Mrs.

Henrv Mackay, Mrs. Edwin P. Raymond, Miss Helen P. McCormlck, Mrs. Charles J.

MeDermott. Mrs, Francis D. McCarev. Mra Jamss J. Meador, Princess Leven Mellkov, Mrs.

John M. Moody, Mr. and Mrs. Emmet Moore, Mrs. Jawin fftlnley Morse, Mrs.

Ne'son B. Nelson, JLIrs. Joserjh Newman. Mrs. William C.

Newman, Mr. and Mrs. Foss Nichols, Mrs. Car. poll Leja Nichols, Mrs.

William A. r-auy, Mr, ana Mrs. William A. Paul, Mrs. Oeorge Pletssner, Miss Marv Onhnrrt Pnlalr Charfes N.

Potts, Mrs. George Hunt x-reniiH, rs. tsenjamin Prince, Mrs. Helen Appleton Read, Mr. and Mrs.

Rutiolph Relmer, Mrs. Stanislav Rembskl, Mrs. Frank Reynolds, Mrs, Charles E. Rorera. Mm.

Donald Ross, Mrs. Frederick H. Bcniuter. Mrs. John D.

H. fthnl. Mr. Frederick Bherman, Col. and Mrs.

Edward A. Bimmons, Mrs. Prank Marvin Binclalre, Mr. and Mrs. Matthew 8.

Sloan, Mrs. Harold I. Small, Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Symross, Judge and Mrs.

Franklin Taylor, 'Mrs. Helen Stutzer Tavlor, Mrs. Gilbert Thlrkield. Mrs. Walter Truslow, Mrs.

Stanley 8. Turn- Dridge, Mrs. Henry Cushman Turner, Mrs. John' T. Underwood, Mrs.

Rufus Vanoe, Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin van Nostrand. Paul Vernon, Mrs. Tracy, 8.

Voorhees, Mr. and Mrs. Walter F. Wells. Mr.

and Mrs. Eugene A. Wldmann, Mr. and Mrs. Oscar O.

Widmann, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Gerard Williams, Mrs. Harry M. Wingle.

Tlf RS. JOHN B. BIGGINS, presl. dent ot St. Johns Colletre auxiliary, announces through her chairman of the Juniors, Mrs.

Edward L. Delany, that the Supper dance which the lunlor auxiliary la spgnioruist on. the evening of Minnie-A. Buzbee, Banker Advises Women Investors Practically all the many lettent that come to me are from people who are unhappy because they are not or think they are not, loved. Young men write that they are arrald tne girl friend does not care.

Girl write in by the score that they are Jn love and the boy friend is not showing the proper interest, and what shall they do. Wives write that their husbands show them no affection, i.urt bus. bands that wives prefer other men. 'It is too bad that married people lorget the courtship days so soon. Husbands forget "that wives were won by sweet words and kisses.

And wives forget that husbands were ensnared by loving glances and ad. nitration of their masculine powers. If they would both only rejnember inese inings ana try to snow Tneir appreciation instead of taking things for granted or fault finding, there would be fewer aching hearts and aivorces. "DEAR MISS KINO: I wish you could help ms out. I am a married woman 21 years old.

My husband is 29 and we have a boy going on three. I was just starting to have a good time when I married, because mother vu.u nut icv i.iv ujv r. i 1 1 wjw. "My husband had his good time when be was single. This makes bis second marriage.

I want someone to love and kiss me. He is different. I have tried for four years to make life pleasant for us all, but be said he has been In misery all the time, so what ran I do? He won't trust me. I would do anything If only he would lore me. could stand a lot tnen.

"UNHAPPY WIFE." Your better was too long to print al ot it. You are sure that you have done lust what you would ex. "ct him to do urder all elrcum- letting- him know Safest Way of Saving for becomes of those who followed the Piper. "If you are a business woman and hava invested the savings aecummu lated through hard endeavor In speculative stocks, and then at the break, fast table some morning should read Bottom Falls Out ot Block Market, well, tt'a a little different and you are apt to feel you are sinking into a bottomless pit with nothing to hold to. It is the steady average earnings that count and not the spasmodic earnings a large amount this year, a small amount next," Scholarship Honors Dave Davidson of Brooklyn, a junior at Long Island University and a former student at Boys' High School, appeared first on the 1928-29 scholarship honor list of Long Island University posted by Dean Oeorge R.

Hardle. Jacob Joseph Schwartsberg, of Manhattan, a graduate of the High School of Commerce, was ranked second; Benjamin Alperlh, of Boys' High School. Brooklyn, third and Ber nard Felsensteln, of Thomas Jfter. son High School, fourth. Other students with high scholarship ratings.

In the order of their rank, were Ruth Levy, Bronx; Sidney Dlnkln. Brooklyn; Aaron Bacha, Brooklynr Julius. Lebowlu, Man. hattan; David Cohen. Brooklyn; Florence Taft, Brooklyn; Bertha Gurewits, Brooklyn; Relna Rappel, Brooklyn: Alice Taft Brooklyn, and Mnbel Emma Otterstedt, Richmond I Ultl where you were when you were not at home, and aril that? One has to try to put themselves In another's place to see just how one's actions affect others.

A man may really love his wife a great deal and not think it necessary to show It. Just take it for granted she knows. The fact that your husband Is jealous of you makes it seem that he is not indifferent. It is too bad his work takes him away from you In the evenings Just when you could get out together. I would advise you to try still harder to get along for -the baby's sake as well as yours and hi.

1 don't believe be means It when he say, he's through. Your case is like that of so many other young girls who ar not allowed to have their boy friends at home and so run off and get married, not realizing at all that that means much less freedom and usually great un-bapplness. Invite Tour Friends Home No Matter What Their Calling; DEAR MISS KING: To you this Is just one of those silly, every, day love affairs. I am in love with a I guess you know what reputation a sailor and this has made me backward In asking him to the house. I am allowed to go with other fellows.

Do you think I should ask him to come to the house? He has already asked me to go steady and I have consented. "WONDERING." I certainly do think you should sk him to come to the houre to nv-et th folks. I think the poor sailor are slandered, don't you I mi sure a boy can be Just as nlc in that profession in any other, and your boy friend must be nlc-or you wouldn't love him, would you Your folks may tease you a lot about being; a sailor a sweetheart, but I'm sure they will not hold his job against him, Why Not Try Growing Up a Little Bit? TRUE BLUE LOU: Don't be a little silly. The Idea of sending a boy cards without a signature and calling him on the phone and then hanging up! No wonder he Isn Interested in you. Try to be a sensible girl and you'll have other friends it ha doesn care.

Yonr Friendship Mlrfit Help Him Change Ideas BETTY Persistent chap, the boy trisnd, isn't he? I think you like him pretty well, don't you? It you feel you have made him under stand that you are a sweet, clean girl and that no nonsense win oe tolerated, glvs him your friendship, provided, of course, your parents do not object, Don't Be Among Those Termed "Boy C'rasy" VA LOR If the young man feels the same as you do about the matter, he should take the Initiative. -Possibly 'ie feels that it would not he the thing, as you are pupil In the school in which he teaches. If he does feel that you are meant for one another which is possible he will find a way to ask tor a date, so don't worry about tiie matter. And don't do anything about It yourself. Girls of your age are quite apt to "think about" such things.

Sometimes they think so much about such matters that they get the reputation of being "boy crazy." Don't be in that class. Make Sure He's "Worth The Effort First. "Dear Miss King: I read your advice and practice some of it. I would like you to help me in one thing. I am going; with a young man and think a lot ot him, but he doesn believe I true to him, although I try very hard to be.

He doesn't trust me. He thinks I care more for other than I do for him. Now I am sura you can advise me what to do. A FRIEND." "Actions speak louder than words." Friend. Act as If you care for him and don't flirt with others.

Suggests First Mortgages as painstakingly, then beating, oh domestic, mix if quickly and an with the many demands made upon ner py ner position as president ot a iiirge corporation and her varied philanthropic and civic activities, yet shs finds a keen in tcrest in cooking and the home, ONE TWO THREE CAKE. 1 cup butter 2 eups sugar 3 oups flour .4 eggs cup milk 1 teaspoon vanilla 8 teaspoons baking ppwder teaspoon salt. Cream butter and sugar, beat yolks of eggs thoroughly, add with milk and flour. Whites beaten to fluff added last with flavoring. Bake in moderate oven.

CHINESE ADAPTATION When you see the numerous Chinese restaurants and the large crowds that go there it may be a source of wonder to you that the Chinese cooking is so popular with Americans, but the success of the Chinese in catering to the Is not alone in the cook ing, but in cleverness of the Chinese to adapt tneir a lanes to the American taste. Probably the most popular dish on every Chinese menu Is chow meln. This is entirely an American concoction thought out by some un sung hero or the kitcnen bland and politic as his race, insinuated the Invention into bis patrons' favor. i It Is probable that the boiled noodles ot which the Chinese are so fond, calling them In their pidgin Engliifi, "a noodle," were rather flat and tasteless to the American untj It was discovered that they could be fried until browned and flavored. The fol-' lowing Is a recipe for chow meln as It Is made in America, and then follows the French realpe for plain fried noodles.

CHOW MEIN Half package wide noodles 1 pound fresh pork chicken or crab meat 1 cup water 1 1 teaspoon corn starch 1 onion 1 bunch celery pound mushrooms hi pound walnut meats Cut the meat or fish in small nieces. Cook 6 minutes in fat. Add waier wan tvrn Biaiijii, miiiiiict. In another pan fry onion, add celery with mushrooms, cut up. Combine with the noodles.

FRIED NOODLES Noodles may be purchased or made at home. They may be used to take the place of potatoes at dinner or may be used as the main dish for luncheon. Cook in boiling salted water for 20 minutes. Allow to stand for five mlnutees in the Water. Then drain as dry as possible.

Fry thorn In butter until golden bfowif and serve as a border on a platter meat, NOODLES JAPANESE. Mixed the cooked noodles with lVt cups of milk, three tablespoons of flour, three tablespoons butter, salt, pepper, four sliced mushrooms and bake ten minutes in hot oven. Another substitute for potatoes Is rice, which lends itself to so many appetizing ways of cooking. In China the best rice la saved for the use of the Chinese; the second qualities being exported. Usually, the rice is served as 'part ot the meal or as the whole meal, but takes the place of bread In Europe or America.

Is a favorite dish In Italy, and a rice pilaff favored In Turkev, Is a dlah to whet the of an epicure. The rice dish- called rlssotto, and jvhep they feef especially bake tt. MISS DILLOM PROMISES. Miss Mary Dillon, president of the Brooklyn Borough Gas has selected her favorite recipe for a culo viat will be made with ease by even the lesser experienced cooks. Muss DUlori Is a busy worn.

Friday, Jan. 14, at the Leverlch Towers, will be followed by a fash ion and entertainment in which many of the younger people In Brooklyn are taking an active Dart. The tlrst list ot patronesses in cludes: Mrs. Anna B. Bennett, Mrs.

John E. BIu-Bins. Mrs. John T. Blake, Mrs, John Bodenhelmer, Miss Ber-nadine Backus, Miss Rita Bene-vllle, Mrs.

Casey. Miss Eleanor Casey, Mrs. C. Stewart Cavanaugh, Mrs. Thomas Campbell, Mrs.

Hugh Copeland, Miss Helen Cotter, Miss Mary Q. Cau- fleld, Mrs. Mdward L. iteiany. Mrs.

William F. Donohue, Mrs. Joseph A. Donohue. Mrs.

Richard A. Dns coll, Mrs. Owen J. Evers. Mrs.

Gardiner Fox, Mrs. Leon ax, Mrs. Jelale Del Gerlno, Miss An-toinette Del Oerlno. Mrs. James uinna, Mrs.

irea tt. Haenlein, Mrs. Josepa A. Igoe, Mrs. Edward J.

Kenny, Mra. Ber nard A. Keenan. Mrs. George H.

Lesratt. Mrs. Robert W. Murtha, Mrs. John A.

MoCaHrey, Mrs. Ar. thur McDonald, Miss Alice Mo- Nallv. Mrs. William C.

Plessman, Miss-Lucy O'Bulllvan, Mrs. Oeorge Rafter. Mrs. Joseoh J. Ryan, Mrs.

John Hilev. Miss Eugenic Reilly, Mils Margaret Retlly, Miss Cather ine Reilly, Mrs. John omun, Miss Claretta etubenbord, Miss Eleanor Thomson, Mrs, Bernard A. Thomson, Mrs. ueorge u.

wigg, Miss Urilida Urlvila, Mrs. John J. Welsh, Mrs. Harry Zimmer, Miss Vivian Pavna and Mm. P.

Frank MRS. LBN HARRIS, I of 1048 v.nmt Twentv fourth street president of the Women's Association of the American Ort, and Mrs. Anna P. Boudln. of 477 East Six teenth street, past president, were the Brooklyn members or the committee receiving for Dr.

Leon Bramson, of Berlin, International Ort president, at the in his honor at the Hotel Astor; Man. hattan, yesterday. The women's oommlttee of the American ot which Mrs. Her-bert Lehman Is honorary chair, man, Include besides Mrs. Harris and Dr.

I Mrs. Henry Zuckerman, Mrs. Howard S. Cullman, Mrs. Paul Felix Warburg and Mrs.

Mark Eisner. MRS. ALEXANDER HAMILTON FRAZER Is chairman of the patroness committee for the Colony House performance, "Lady Light-tlngers," to be given at the Academy of Musle Feb. 3 and 4. Mrs.

Fraser is assisted by Mrs. John Duncan Graham, Co-chair man; Charles Aaams, mrs. Henry 8. Allen Mrs. Edwin Oates Babcock, Mm.

William a. urnimii, Mrs. Allan E. Crocker, Mrs. Elliott F.

Drlggs, Mrs. T. T. A. G.

Figgatt, Mrs. E. Rodney Fiske, Mrs. Eugene J. Grant, Mrs.

Harry C. Helsler, Mrs. Robert B. Honeyman, Mrs. Andrew H.

Mars, Mrs. Nelson B. Nelson, Mrs. Eugene W. Ong, Mrs.

Theodore Revlllon, Mrs. Stan islav Mrs. Susie- C. Snyder, Mrs. Louis E.

Strong. Mrs. Frank Williams and MrB. Wilson B. Zlmmen The executive committee Includes Mrs.

John Lansing Swan, president of the board of directors; Mrs. John M. Tallman. chairman of the Capers; Mrs. E.

Clifford Place, co-chairman of the Capers, and Mrs. George E. Morson, treasurer. Rainy Day Br ELEANOR MEADE your Pied Piper story again." IV The advice of Minnie Buzbee, one of the best known Women bankers in the country, to the average working woman with some money to invest. that women don't know much about handling their money, Miss Busbee, visiting New York from her office in the Little Rock (Ar.

kansas) National Bank, as ths re. cently chosen head of a campaign of the National Federation. of Business and Professional Women on the matter, explodes the customary fl nancial dream and announces It's a slow proeejis this attaining financial security. "The best Investment, one she can personally Inspect, one with the min imum of risk, and the soundest, is Investment In first mortgage real estate, especially when the loan Is one made by a reputable bank or mortgage house," says Miss Buzbee. Who hasn't heard the siren song of the Pled Piper of Higher Interest It's a great temptation.

But, after all, It might be well to get out your story book and find out again what found on nearly every Italian table, Is as follows: RISSOTTO. 2 onions 2 tablespoons butter 1 cup rice '4 cups water or stock 1 small wine glass of cider (Th Italians would blush to see the substitute for the sherry called for fn the recipe.) pound grated Fry the dry rioe In the butter chop in the onion, without letting it boevwn Add the elder, cup of cheese, some water, then more cheese until the whole has been used. The rlssotto should cook at least 4 of an hour. McCabe, Alonzo A. McLaughlin, Edward J.

McGoldrlck, George V. McLaughlin, Oeorge A. Martin, Martin Manton, Algernon I. Novo, As- William Profriedt, James M. Ryan, Edward Rhatlgan, William James P.

Kellly. Meier Bteinbrlnk, Arthur 8. Somers, James J. Sexton, Frank Sloan, Fat-rick Toole, Cyril Trlnser, W. H.

Todd, Edward A. Toole, John J. Tormey, Oeorge O. Tormey. George T.

Valentine, Rev. J. Leo. Williams and James J. Walsh..