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RECORD (Lompoc, Calif.) Monday, May 7. 1984 Valley Life. This 'n' that about town NARFE meeting The National Association of Retired Federal Employees (NARFE) will meet Tuesday at 1:30 p.m., at the Valley of the Flowers Half Century Club, 341 North St. President Bob Berry will report on a recent district meeting. Reservations will be firmed up for the convention at Palm Springs.

Eunice Early will report on a recent opportunity sale and future luncheon reservations. All members and friends are encouraged to attend. Marriage licenses Marriage licenses have been issued to Gerald Joe Hurst 22, and Angela Tina Dusablon. both of Vandenberg Air Force Base; and to Mark Scott Shepard. 23.

Lompoc. and Janet Lee Wright. 23, Oxnard: and to George Fletcher Taylor. 30. Altus.

and Valeisa Machell Younger. 23. and to Nicholas Robert West. 28. and Sandra Alta Houck.

17. both of Lom-. poc: and to Jaime Morales Lopez. 20. and Peggy Sue Guerrero, 26.

both of Lompoc: and to Randy Earl Sims. 23. Clovis. and Barbara Marie McGuire. 21, Lompoc: and to Paul Caleb Turner.

48. and Neola Caveny Graef. 35. both of Lompoc. Also, Lee Hanes Amidon: 22.

and Nancy Grace Miller. 23. both of Madera: and to Paul Philip Larson. 27. and Lesa Anne Kolakowski.

23, both of Lompoc: and to Gary Steven Nunez. 23. and Susan Carol Benedict. 16, both of Lompoc: and to Wayne Daniel Mazurkiewic. 27.

and Otelia Demate Quidol. 20. both of Lompoc: and to Kenneth Marvin Schoen, 25. Troy. and Sandra Jean Wheeler.

20. Buellton: and to John Martin. 22. Vandenberg Village. and Marie Therese Garcia.

Lompoc: and to Robert Victor McMahon. 21, and Patricia Ann Koonce. 18. both of Lompoc. Wildflower slides.

Janet Sainz. noted photographer and naturalist will present the slide program "Spring Wildflowers of Santa Wednesday as the final program of the season for the Los Padres Chapter of the National Audubon Society. The 7 p.m. meeting will be held at Los Berros School in Hills. Nonmembers are welcome.

For further information, call 736-2063 or 925- 1640. Kid's Stuff sale SANTA MARIA The Family League will sponsor its fifth annual Kid's Stuff Garage Sale 'Saturday from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at 1720 North Broadway. Sale items will include infants.

children's and maternity clothes. baby items. and car seats. There also will be a drawing items donated by local merchants. For more information.

call 922-2471 or 344 Hospital auxiliary Care for the Aged and Handicapped" will be the topic of Dr. John P. Sanders. local dentist, at the 2 p.m. May 14 meeting of Lompoc Hospital Women's Auxiliary at the Saves brother's life Cub Scout John R.

Marley from Den Four recently received a special Award of Merit for saving his brother's life. While riding in the back seat of the family car in May of 1983. John's 3- year-old brother managed to open the car door. John grabbed his brother as he was falling out the door, nearly falling out himself. During the Cub Scout Pack 66 Pinewood Derby April 27.

winners in the 8-year-old division were Jason McCune. first: and Joseph VonNiederhausern. runner-up. Nineyear-old winners included Michael Barro. first: Rvon Mortenson.

second: Jared McCune, third: and Brian Barron. alternate. Winners in the 10-year-old category were Jeb Enns. first: Jesse Smith. second: Richard Chubbs.

third: and Heath Laffoon. alternate: Shad Duncan Convalescent Care Center, 216 North Third St. A short film will be included in his presentation. A graduate of Northwestern University. Sanders has been a Lompoc resident for 20 years, retiring from service at Vandenberg Air Force Base.

Election of officers will be included in the brief business meeting preceding the program. Members voted to again pay the building rental fee for the May 12 Health Fair from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Veterans Memorial Building and auxiliary members will assist as volunteers. The public is encouraged to avail itself of the day.of free medical screenings with the only cost $14 for a battery of blood tests which could cost five times as much if done privately.

Shirley Phelps and Florence Tolman were guests in April and Thelma Vermillion was welcomed as a new member. A special gift of 72 toy bears presented to the hospital Gift Shop by Ron Lindemann. branch manager of Home Federal Savings and. Loan, was accepted by managers Jeannette Lombardi and Elsie Wall. Guests are welcome at auxiliary meetings.

Further information may be obtained by calling 736-6208. "Hospital newborns April 28 A girl. Tricia Louise. 6 pounds. 14 ounces.

inches. to Mr. and Mrs. Miguel 0. Casarez.

1209 West Oak. A girl. Alexandra. 6 pounds. inches.

to Mr. and Mrs. Anthony E. Nelson. 1010 West Chestnut Ave.

won for "Best Design' and Judd Laffoon for "Most Awesome." Den Two won the attendance award for the pack meeting. Other awards presented included. for Webelos: Jeb Enns earned his artist. craftsman. forrester.

and naturalist merit badges: Richard Chubbs received his citizen and naturalist badges and was Cub of the Month: and Health Laffoon. Justin Riggs, and Eric Montage all received their naturalist merit badges. Scout of the Month for Den Two was Josef Von Niederhausern: for Den Three. Judd and Den Five. Jared McCune.

Den Four Cub Beau Wilkins earned his Wolf Den Five Cub Gary Locken received his oneyear pin: and Jared McCune earned his gold arrow and one silver arrow. May 1 A girl. Adrienne Renee. 8 pounds. 1 ounce.

20 inches. to Mr. and Mrs. Michael G. Carson.

3910 Mesa Circle Drive. May 2 A boy. Arthur Burton, 7 pounds. 6 ounces. 20 inches.

to Mr. and Mrs. Arthur T. Velasco. 608 North Ninth St.

PLEASE NOTE In an effort to keep news of events on this page as up-todate as possible, pictures and information concerning weddings, anniversaries, and similar occasions are not accepted when the event is more than two weeks past. Perry-Marco rco vows exchanged St. Marv's Episcopal Church provided the setting April 14 for the marriage of Valorie Anne- Marco. daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Clifford W. Marco of Oakland. and Ross Holmes Perry. son of Mrs. Henry Perry of Lompoc.

The Rev. Stuart Fitch officiated at the 7 p.m. double-ring candlelight ceremony. The bride's gown of white organza was styled with modified Queen Anne neckline and slim skirt which swept into a chapel train. Pearl-studded silk Venise lace outlined the fitted bodice.

bishop sleeves and hemline. and a wreath of flowers secured her fingertip veil of illusion As jewelry, the bride wore pearl stud earrings, a "single pearl suspended from a fine gold chain. Bruce Fall Photography BALL DECOR Working on decorations for the May 26 Coronation Ball at the Elks Lodge are Anique Moye, left, and Luella Mundel. decorations chairman for the annual event which is planned and executed by the Lompoc Valley Dear Abby Mother's young lover is one son too many DEAR ABBY: I'm a 29-year-old divorced mother of two boys: I own my own 'home and am presently involved with a 20-year-old man. We've been living together for two years.

It was my idea that he move in. He wanted to marry me. but I hesitated because of one failed a marriage. trailing He's very intelligent. responsible carna for his.

age and is great with my and kids. but he shows his immaturity by by constantly flirting and collecting girls' phone numbers. Perillo Last. week I wasn't feeling very were well so I came home early. I let myself in.

and when I went into our of bedroom I found him in bed with a young girl. (Both our pictures had been turned facedown on the dresser!) The girl said she was sorry bodice she didn't know he was "married" ending and she had just met him an hour ago! I told him to pack his clothes pink and get out. He's been gone a week and wants. while to come back. This is not the first pink time something like this has hapand pened.

He lies and can't be trusted. Do you think the difference in our and, ages has anything to do with this? I miss him. Should I take him back? and He's good in bed. DEAR CONFUSED: He should be full- good in bed. He's probably had a lot of of practice.

I think the difference in pale your ages has a lot to do with it. He's sl- still a little boy who needs motherbelt, ing. You need a man. not another taffeta son. Don't let him come back.

He's orchid using you. DEAR ABBY: I'm a 33-year-old gown single women who has chosen to resilk main childless even if I decide to trim- marry. Needless to say. many people the (including my mom) make me feel guilty about my decision. They say church that one day when I'm old and alone, I will regret not having children and Mr.

grandchildren. Elkton, Sorry. I just can't buy that line of Photo by Nick Galante Women in Chambers of Commerce for the Lompoc Valley Festival Association. Ball chairman is Judi Hudson. Only 30 tickets remain for the affair.

They may be purchased at the festival office. 113 North St. accepted Ed Mrs. Mr. and of Cabrillo Luis as a San their.

thinking. How can I shut people up when they start harping on this subject? It's beginning to get on my nerves. NO KIDS. THANK YOU DEAR NO KIDS: First. nobody can make you feel guilty.

If you feel guilty, it's because you choose You can't shut people up. but you can abruptly change the subject. tune the bores out or absent yourself from their company. DEAR ABBY: "Mrs. Libertyville.

wrote: enjoyed your column for many vears. It was so witty with just the right answers to some very real problems. Will you please return to those days and skip all the lectures and sermons you've been running of late? Also. please let the Food and Drug Administration buy space in the newspapers and medical journals to warn people about combining drugs with certain, Abby. I think Mrs.

D. is out of line. Be that as it may, when Fiorello La Guardia was mayor of New York City. he hung above his desk at City Hall this pronouncement by Lincoln: "If I were to try to read. much less answer.

all the attacks made on me. this shop might as well be closed for any other business. I do the very best I know how the very Lean. and I mean to keep doingso until the end. If the end brings me out all right.

what is said against me won't amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong. 10 angels swearing I was right. would make no difference. ARTHUR H.

PRINCE mt and a pearl ring borrowed from bridesmaid. She carried a -bouquet of white roses. white tions. baby's breath. lavender white freesias and iris, framed sword fern and ivy.

Maid of honor was Loretta of Alameda. and bridesmaids Mary Mullins Vick of Mountain View. and Candy Poquette. sister the groom. Their gowns in lavender.

dusty pink. and blue. respectively. were of floor-length Qiana polyester styled with -necked chiffon and sleeves tied at the top. just above the elbow.

The maid of honor carried and white carnations. lavender freesias and baby's breath. bridesmaids' bouquets were of and white carnations. iris baby's breath. Best man was Perry Wilhite ushers were Mike Poquette.

brother-in-law of the groom. Richard Carpenter. The bride's wore a length dress designed by Judy rose sheer chalk organza with orchid pattern styled with long eeves and matching organza and worn over a matching underslip. She had a white corsage. The groom's mother chose a of mint green jacquard Chinese with matching chiffon jacket med in Chinese silk and accented with seed pearl trim around neckline and wrist-length cuffs.

A reception followed in the hall. Out-of-town guests included and Mrs. Robert Bingham of Mr. and Mrs. John Sacramento: Mr.

and Mrs. Marco. Turlock: Mr. and Sterline Faubian. Eugene, and Mrs.

Don Davison, and Mr. Mrs. Earl Hendriz. of Portland. Ore.

The bride has her bachelor science degree from California State University at Hayward. The groom. who attended High School and Cal Poly. San Obispo. is.

currently employed field engineer with Systems Development Corp. Following a honeymoon in Diego. the couple are making home in Lompoc. DEAR ABBY: You ask where laddies put their When kissing pretty lasses, I'll tell you my sad tale of woe, Right on my nice clean glasses. NEIL H.

BARRUS (Problems? What's bugging you? Unload on Abby, P.O. Box 38923, Hollywood, Calif. 90038. For a personal reply, please enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope.) Talks on ceramics set SANTA BARBARA "Chinese Ceramics from Han to Ming Dynasties" is the subject of Art a la Carte Tuesday at 12:30 p.m. at the Santa Barbara Museum of Art.

Susan Tai. assistant curator for Oriental art will be the speaker whose subject leads off a five-week series of talks on ceramics, coinciding with the museum's current exhibition "Containers of Ceramics of Four Continents." Free docent-guided tours of Santa Barbara Museum of Art are conducted Tuesdays through Sundays at 2 p.m. To schedule special group tours, including tours for the dis- abled, the deaf or the hearing imparied, call 963-4364, ext. 334 (voice) or 963-2240 (TDD). Richard H.

Ross, photographer and guest curator for the current Steinman collection exhibition at the museum of art will present the second lecture in the Photo Sensitivity series Thursday at 7:30 p.m. titled "'Perspectives on the Steinman Collection: The Tip of the Iceberg." Admission is $6 (general) jand $4 for members. Students of Brooks Institute or of University of California Santa Barbara's Art Studio department may purchase tickets at the member's rate. by Cathy Guisewite IVE BEEN FIXED UP WITH THE I'VE DRAGGED 'MYSELF TO I'VE BEGGED FOR DATES, WHY IT WOULD Scum OF THE EARTH, ANDREA, IDIOTIC PARTIES AND MIXERS. GROVELED FOR DATES, PLOT- NOT, SOUND LIKE I'VE JOINED CLUBS I HATED TED AND SCHEMED FOR CATHY IM DESPERATE.

AND TAKEN CLASSES I HAD BUT I AM NOT NO INTEREST IN. GOING TO RUN A PERSONAL AD TO GET A DATE Dare A Mr. and Mrs. Ross Holmes Perry.