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What I MEN Society Constance Everett Will Be Presented Mr. and Mrs. Charles K. Everett of Rockville Center will present their daughter, Miss ceding the Debutante Assembly Ballroom, Manhattan, tomorrow. Miss Everett is a daughter of Mrs.

Mary Shields of 280 sterling, Place and the late Shields. The debutante, a member of this year's "White Elephant" Committee and also serving on the Debutante Committee for the Ellin Prince Speyer Hospital benefit, graduate of Sacred Heart Seminary, Hempstead, and Academy of St. Joseph, Brent vood. She is attending Manhattanville College of the Sacred Heart in New York City. Rosemary V.

Clark Becomes Bride of Mr. Nolan The R. C. Church of Our Lady of Refuge was the scene of the wedding of Miss Rosemary V. Clark, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. George Leo Clark of 1081 E. 19th and Walter Francis Nolan, son of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Herbert Nolan of 2228 Bay on morning.

Officiating was Monsignor Bonaventure J. Filitti, who imparted the Papal Blessing to the couple. The tion and dinner took place the Towers Hotel. The bride's sister, Miss Elizabeth A. Clark, attended as the maid of honor.I The bridesmaids included the Misses Barbara Anne Adamson and Dolores Jeanne Russell.

Serving as best man was Richard Herbert Nolan, brother of the bridegroom. Roger Nolan, also a brother of the bridegroom; Daniel Hunter, Charles Christensen, and Arthur Foley ushered. When Mr. and Mrs. Nolan return from Canada they will make their home in Chicago.

Mrs. Nolan 'attended St. Agnes. Seminary Institute and the Collegiate and a member of Alpha Gamma Phi sorority. The bridegroom received his education at St.

Agnes High School, Manhattan, and Manhattan College School of Engineering. He also studied at Fort Schuyler, the Bronx. An ensign in the Naval Reserve, Mr. Nolan is an engineer associated with Stone and Webster in Chicago. Anne Donahue Studio Constance Everett Constance Everett, at a dinner pre: at the Waldorf-Astoria Grand Mrs.

Thomas F. Casey Honors Miss Flannery Mr. Thomas F. Casey entertained at luncheon yesterday at Sherry's Manhattan in honor of Miss Emilie Joan Flannery and her bridesmaids. Among those present were Mrs.

John Octavino, mother of the prospective bride, Mrs. Robert Caldwell, Mrs. John J. Flannery Misses Margareut Coan, Luisa Leone. Paulette Tobin, Irene Carroll and Lois Herrmann.

Miss Flannery will be married to Francis Caldwell on Saturday, Jan. 8. Donald A. Davies To Wed Garden Cityite Mr. and Mrs.

Albert G. Nesselof 112 Hampton Road, Garden City, announce en gagement of their daughter, Miss Doris Louise Nesselhauf, to Donald A. Davies, son of Mrs. Ralph Davies of Brooklyn and the late Mr. Davies.

Miss Nesselhauf was gradufrom Packard School, Manhattan. Mr. Davies was graduated from Polytechnic Institute of Brooklyn and is associated with the engineering division of the Sperry Gyroscope Company at Lake Success. Joan T. Finnegan To Have May Wedding Miss Joan T.

Finnegan, daughter of Mrs. Thomas Finnegan of 205 Park Place and the late Mr. Finnegan, is betrothed to Frank R. Moran of 220 Seeley son of the late Mr. and Mrs.

James F. Moran. A wedding is planned for May. The prospective bride was graduated from St. Saviour Academy and attended Mercy Junior College.

Mr. Moran, who is a graduate of Fordham University, also attended Fordham University School of Law. Margaret D. Webster A. J.

Sparkes Engaged Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Richard Webster of 578 11th St. of the ment of their daughter, Miss Margaret D. Webster, to Arthur J.

Sparkes, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. Sparkes of 1113 8th Avenue. Miss Webster is a member of Phi Sigma sorority.

Both the bride and the prospective bridegroom are gradulates of Manual Training High Bobette A. Whitlock Engaged to Jersey Resident Mr. and Mrs. Alred of Lawrence Lane, Bay Shore, announce the engagement of Mrs. Schuck's daughter, Bobette Ann Whitlock, to Dutcher Mason, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Daniel E. Mason of Maplewood, N. J. Miss Whitlock, a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma and Beta Beta Beta, will be graduated from St.

Lawrence University in June. Mr. 1 Mason, a member of Beta Theta Pi, was graduated from St. Lawrence University and served with the Coastal Artillery Corps in the South Women of '76 Chapter Attend Holiday Party BEST DRESSED WOMEN OF THE YEAR- the 10 best dressed women were the Parisian, Mme. Louis Arpels, left, and Mrs.

Millicent Rogers, right. They shared honors with the Duchess of Windsor, the Duchess of Kent, Mrs. Alfred Gwynne Vanderbilt, Mrs. William Randolph Hearst Jr. and Mrs.

Andre Embiricos. Mrs. William Paley, wife of the president of the Columbia Broadcasting Company, headed the list. Mme. Arpels' wardrobe is distinguished for the beauty of the fabrics used, while Mrs.

Rogers' gowns usually express the dressmaker art of line and draping. Woman of the Year Book Tells Story of Dr. Lillian Gilbreth By GERTRUDE McALLISTER Woman's Editor Recently when Dr. Lillian of 12 children of whom 11 are the Year," I remember thinking been finer. For Dr.

Gilbreth, women of our times and of century. From her work and her home she has derived pleasure and knows achievement. She has given something to all of us, speaking of women. Though it may seem like a simple thing now because home plan- Dr. Gilbreth ideas and incorporating them in the newer homes, Dr Gilbreth gave us the revolutionidea that a homemaker is ary, entitled to an efficiently planned home, one that saves and steps.

Because of her, homes either are being built or being modernized to accommodate a laundry room on the first floor of a house. Dr. Gilbreth brought washing machine out of the basement to eliminate stairclimbing with heavy loads of wash. Dr. Gilbreth moved the sewing machine into the laundry calls woman's it-rather workshop than hav- as ling it marooned on the second floor, necessitating more stairclimbing in order to do repair jobs.

Not all of us have these conveniences as yet but most new homes have this kind of coordination. A Woman to Admire To me, the most astonishing thing about Dr. Gilbreth is her family, It has been said of her that she considered a year absolutely lost in which she didn't write a book and have a baby. Her children must have the same idea for presently there are 18 grandchildren. Two of her children, a daughter and a' BROOKLYN EAGLE, DEC.

31, 1948 Are Are I Sparkling Toast Is Favored Bubbling Wine Has Spirit of The New Year By ELSA STEINBERGER Food Editor A toast to the New Year! Though what to serve and how to serve it is' no problem to many, we must' consider others who perhaps are having the first party in their own It has been said that "trifles make for perfection--and perfection is We cannot always achieve such excellence but we do like to aim for the best we can accomplish. Eggnog is traditional for New Year's Day, but you will undoubtedly want something different for your New Year's Eve toast. Since this is usually a very, special, very gay time, you should serve something that gives a feeling of something special, something gay and sparkling, according to Harry Steck of the A. S. liquor store.

So he believes a sparkling beverage. "such as sparkling Burgundy or Champagne the most appropriate choice. Cocktails and highballs or anything else you choose are fine for any other time of the year, but for New Year's Eve it should be extra. Excellent Wines Most popular at reasonable price are the Lalanne Cie. Sparkling Burgundy and their Champagne, brut, 1943, both of which are but $3.79 for the 26- ounce bottle.

The Burgundy is excellent, and the Champagne of the great year 1943. Gallatin State is a good New York State Champagne for those who want one even less expensive than those mentioned above. This is dry and but $2.69 the 26-ounce bottle. Among the more famous of the imported brands are Dry Monopole (Heidsick imported by Park and Tilford, for $5.89 a bottle, Moet Chandon white seal, at Piper sieck, Piper Brut, 1941, at $8.67 a bottle. Right Glass Important Champagne is usually served in a 5 to 6 ounce champagne glass.

Those with a hollow stem show the sparkling bubbles to advantage, but the saucer type may also be used for serving sherbet and also (this is news to us) as a double cocktail glass. Brandy will be served in a small brandy or cordial glass (the large brandy inhalers are for leisure hours). We are told that the tall highball glass is no longer as popular as before. More people are getting the shorter glasses for this and using the tall ones for beer, unless they use the V. shaped Pilsner glass.

Although a colorless, clear glass is preferred by many, others like those made of tinted glass. When different colors are used, it is easier to remember to whom to return refilled glasses. Cocktail glasses and wine Continued on Following Page' -Living in BrooklynSharing the Fun At Blind Party By MARGARET MARA When you give--you actually because the return to you happiness. Sitting on the sidelines given for blind and partially Tuesday at the Columbus Club, evidence of this great truth on was one of the gayest parties I Santa Claus was blind William Biesel, a blind pianist, groups of singing children and Miles and Lucy Corrigan, also the singers. There was an but I wish you could have heard Negro of There rhythm in every beat of the The Happy Hostess Miss Elizabeth A.

Goodman to the 250 children, all of whom wards of the Brooklyn proving the Condition of the Miss Goodman has been blind for more than 20 years be found. Her interest in the hood when a blind musician, visited at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Goodman. Miss Goodman has given these parties for blind children for 15 years.

Large of build, with beautiful white hair dressed with gold combs, Miss Goodman wore a royal blue dress and a rose felt hat. Her eyes are dark and glowing and her complexion is fresh as a teen-ager's. If only those sightless children who clustered around her might see her, I thought. Most touching incident at the party was a tableau of the Nativity in which six sightless little boys and girls took part. Their expressions were beatified.

Lion Rampant For the third time in four years a stone lion, one of a pair, has been swiped from doorway of the Cordon Rouge Restaurant on Montague near Hicks St. On the other two occasions the lion was returned, the last burglary took place are being good to yourself inevitably, is a great measure of at the annual Christmas sighted children I witnessed every side. It ever attended. George Conroy. played for Mrs.

Mamie blind, coached orchestra of sorts, the drummer, was wonderful sticks! Margaret Mara was hostess are educational Association for ImPoor. Margaret Mara active among the and a happier person could not sightless dates back to her child- Christmas Eve and Leo has not come back to his pedestal. He weighs about 150 pounds, which indicates that the jokester who walked off with the king of the jungle is no weakling. More Restaurant Revolt Mrs. Thomas G.

Evans read my complaint about those footcrowding tables that have pedestals instead of four legs and wants to throw in a complaint of her own: "Why do restaurant hostesses glance at the tired-looking woman who comes in at the end lof a heavy day, meaning me, and lead her to the corner -behind the pillar or the one where the door slams upon her as the waitresses move in and out of the kitchen? Or the one in the main traffic aisle where every passing person knocks her hat forward or bumps against her, including the waitresses, SO that her purse and all the accumulated impedimenta on her lap fall to the floor?" I wonder, too. Ye TO TOAST NEW YEAR- Shown here, left to right, is a selection of glasses for serving holiday beverages. All from they include a saucer champagne, 89 cents; old-fashioned, 50 cents; Pilsener, $4.98 a dozen; highball of tinted glass, $2.98 for cocktail, $4.98 a dozen; wine, 79 cents, and cordial, $1. Mary Haworth's Mail Up Can She Emotionally? Grow DEAR MARY HAWORTH -Is it too late, at 30, for a woman to grow up emotionally? I am married to a wonderful man who takes life as it comes, and so far as I know he has never let hatred of any kind enter his life, whereas mine seems to be based on it. I grew up an unwanted child, dominated by a neurotic possessive mother, and a few months after her death I met and married Tom.

We have been married for almost three years and in most respects it has been a very happy marriage; that is, happy so long as we are alone together and I don't have to share him with any one else, and this aspect of my behavior bothers me greatly. Mary Haworth I am extremely jealous of Tom and let my imagination run riot, any one he shows interest in becomes a target of my hate. He tries to reason with me, but this only adds fuel to the fire, and I resent his goodness when I am so full of hate and distrust. Life Is Joyless, Plagued by Fears It's come to a point where I am afraid to meet his friends for fear I will do or say something that will hurt Tom and brand me the jealous fiend that I am. I feel inferior to all his women friends, when in reality I am not.

I know I am their equal and yet I insist upon tearing myself apart to prove to myself that I'm not. Each time that I behave badly I promise myself it will be the last, but it never is. G. E. DEAR G.

only person who can't grow, emotionally, in adult years, is one who obstinately refuses to admit the possibility that Imany of his difficulties in human relationships party The Christmas party and dessert bridge of the Women of '76 Chapter, D. A. was held on Wednesday at the Neighborhood Club. Those present included Mrs. Robert M.

Byers, Mrs. Loring Black, Mrs. Donald S. K. Mackenzie, Miss Mildred A.

Wells, Miss Katharine M. Pool, Miss Marian E. Andrews, Mrs. Charles L. Rand, Mrs.

H. W. MacLenathan, Mrs. Harry W. Gaither, Mrs.

Pierre J. Sherry, Mrs. W. L. Schweikert, Mrs.

Harry E. Geib, Mrs. E. A. Link, Mrs.

Alice Berry, Mrs. Thomas Seckel, Mrs. Herbert W. Ketchaw, Mrs. John W.

James, and Mrs. F. H. Scheuter. "GOING PLACES?" PHONE MA.

4-6200 FOR IDEAS 9 A.M.-5 P.M. Comment Express Dancing Pupils Themselves Contemporary By RUTH G. DAVIS Society Editor The Studio for Creative Dance at 252 Fulton St. was the scene on Wednesday of a Christmas party that many parents wished they could have attended. The studio, as its title indicates, is a school of dancing under the direction and supervision of Trudl Dubsky Zipper and the participants in the party were the students from three and a half years of age to 13.

This was the first party to be held at the studio and the children had been told that they were to perform at their own will; in other words, they could do anything they likeddance, act out a fairy story, pantomime or recite. Although they really put on their own "show," they also were entertained by Judy Liebowitz of the Dramatic Workshop of the New School. Miss Liebowitz, who also is a student of Mrs. Zipper's, presented an original puppet show. It was a back-stage scene with acrobats, magicians and others participating in their rehearsals.

AMONG THE STUDENTS invited to participate in the party were Lois Alderman, Susan and Phyllis Altchek, Lida and Connie Cruik-1 Gilbreth, engineer and mother living, was named "Woman of that the choice couldn't have at least to me, is one of THE son, have done a book together, "Cheaper by the Dozen," which portrays with much good humor how Dr. Gilbreth and her late husband, Dr. Frank Gilbreth, raised their children. Father Gilbreth was the famed "time and motion" Among other episodes, book relates how the Gilbreth children had their tonsils out en masse as a contribution to their father's investigation of the technique of surgery. I have great admiration for women who are successful in business and who have remained completely womanly.

By that I mean, those who have not pushed aside marriage and children -when blessed with opportunity--in preference to career. When one looks at a woman like Dr. Gilbreth, now 70, the richness of her full life may well influence any woman who thinks she has to make a choice between the two rather than blending both. Cited for Work With Urban League Hortense Williams, educator and program assistant in group work at the Brooklyn Urban League, was among the 10 women named by Mademoiselle Magazine as 1943 merit award, winners for achievement in their fields. Miss Williams was cited for "bringing a new approach to social work." Also among the 10 was Grandma Moses, who at 88 has won the acclaim of the buying I and of art critics alike for her now famous American primitive paintings.

She was 76 when she switched from embroidery to painting "because moths don't get at oils." Awards were made yesterday during a ceremony at Hampshire House. are self generated, and who rigidly insists, instead, that the other fellow or society in general is the "enemy" of his happiness. As a matter of fact, your letter gives evidence that you are growing, painfully, right now. We find this evidence (1) in your expanding acute awareness that your jealousy of Tom, resentment of his amiable goodness, and your free-floating hatred of others are rooted in a complex of self-despising impulses, also (2) in your urgent desire' to control these negative feelings. There is potential health of mind and character implicit in that honest, open, constructive approach to the problem, and your stricken confession that you can't cope with yourself unaided recalls a proverb to the effect that it's a wise man who knows his limitations.

shank, Nancy Clapp, Sheila Condon, Lydia Cohen, Ronnie Ellins, Susan First, Janet Free, Judith Fuchs, Ella Friedman, Elisabeth Gemmill, Betty and Eleanor Galston, Dianne Goodrich, Francine Gluckman, Elisabeth Hepburn, Elisabeth Ittner, Nancy Kendig, Nancy and Barbara Kephart, Mary Ann Kephart, Jane Kesten, Karin Kartell, Diane Meeker, Eleen and Stephany Magee, Linda Monroe, Susan Pratt, Nancy Rabkin, Jill Richardson, Bonnie Ross, Ritz Reznick, Evelyn Ries, Judy Silverman, Sally Szold, Dianne Stoler, Lydia Schucker, Phyllis Strassberg, Lita Schwartz, Barbara Tate, Eleanor Weeks and Beth Winberry. Mrs. Zipper, who was born in Vienna, is a resident of 35 Clark St. She is the wife of Dr. Herbert Zipper, director of the Brooklyn Orchestral Association.

She was the organizer and director of the Manila Ballet Modern, which included 60 young people of 17 nations, while her husband, Dr. Zipper, was conductor of the Manila Symphony Orchestra: At present Mrs. Zipper also is a member of the faculty of the Dramatic Workshop of the New School, Manhattan. She is also an artist and did a series water colors of scenes in Manila entitled "The Conquering Heroes," for Fortune Magazine in 1947 and has recently completed a book jacket. Get Understanding of Undercurrents What you need is expert deep therapeutic help in ventilating by free discussion the destructive emotions felt, so that you may examine them objectively, in co-operation with understanding counsel, in order to see (1) what percentage is composed of "blind" rage or fear, seeping from a hidden reservoir of childhood hurts, and (2) what splinters of literal justification for rational indignation exist, in youf current dealings with grown-ups.

Emotional poise isn't a matter, as you may mistakenly think, of being invariably "sweet" tempered or blessedly free at all times from anxious, defensive, hostile, stresses. Rather it in a by-product of learning to use one's head. By your own admission, you carry such a chain of explosives into all your personal relations, and any aimless word, glance or move may start fireworks in your bosom that don't make sense in the actual present circumstance. However, "repression" isn't the solution; further, it's impossible. M.

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