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WI BROOKLYN EAGLE, JAN. 21, 1954 15 MEN Women's re Editor MARGARET Doing. Eas Furniture Extensive Display Now at By ELSA STEINBERGER flexible bookcase Home Economist laminated birch "Live Without Labor" is the theme of the wicker cone prophetic round-up of easy-to-care for furnish- wrought iron ings for modern living opening today at multi-colored Abraham and Straus. Sixteen vignettes and six dining group room settings in the store's modern furniture panelyte tops department show a collection of unusual furni- with unusual ture and accessories that can be kept clean on a wrought with the whisk of a damp cloth. Robert Otter; Many new materials as well as those of the cases framed past make easy care possible.

Marble, glass, tops and tile, slate, metal and leather are used in addi- beautifully tion to laminated woods, plastics, steel, brass, smooth plastics wrought iron, micarta. Saran, koroseal, foam sen Grossman. rubber, washable cottons and vinyl, cord, Handcrafts avisco, nylon and wicker are also widely used Accessories in upholstery, draperies and construction to ceramics, newly make for easy cleaning. Woods are finished Museum Art so that they, too, may be cleaned with a damp glass, lamps cloth or sponge. Many of the fabrics are flame mobiles by resistant and immune to moths.

Harry Gitlin. Colors featured are crocus blue, rhododen- Black and dron green, persimmon, geranium, iris purple wrought iron and daffodil yellow. and brass are The Designers also represented Recognized designers are represented in Eames, Jens furnishings to fit all budgets. Many are shown Knoll, Norman first in this collection. Among these are new Tempestini.

Child Care "Jealousy in Small Child Is Not Any One's Fault By BEULAH FRANCE, R.N. (Q.) Our second child will arrive when our first-born is 18 months old. He is very jealous when we show any affection to each other or to any other child. We want to help him adjust happily to the baby. Could you tell us how? Mr.

and Mrs. C. 0. (A.) Indeed I could, but to do so would take many, many Child Care columns. For when I speak on this popular subject, a one-hour talk is invariably followed by at least another hour of answering questions by an eager audience.

gether, discuss it thoughtA great deal been writ- fully; digest the wholesome ten about jealousy. I have a list principles and apply the of books, pamphlets and leaflets given. Bear in mind particularwhich discuss various phases ly the admonition that parents of it and of other adjustments should not be ashamed to adwhich have to be made between mit that their children are older and younger children. jealous. For every normal boy One which I wish every ex- and girl may such feelpectant parent who already has ings without blamed and suffer, a child would study is Edith without the parents being Neisser's book, "Brothers and blamed either.

Sisters." Read this aloud to- Also read and study the Nurse's Notebook Visiting Nurse Functions as Teacher By ELEANOR W. MOLE, R.N.| Visiting Nurse Association of Brooklyn Confronted by a young mother who is for the first time taking care of a child who is sertously ill, the physician may find himself in a dilemma. He is a busy man with many patients, some of them in greater need of his care than the youngster he is seeing. He knows that the mother should have detailed, explicit instructions but proper teaching would take more time than he can possibly give. Under such circumstances, he realizes that the person to call on is the Visiting Nurse.

With his written instructions, she will give whatever care and teaching he thinks are necessary. Teaching is a recognized Society By Society RUTH Editor G. DAVIS Nancy J. Ellison Engaged to Be Wed Mr. and Mrs.

David R. Ellison of 704 E. 22d St. announce and cabinets in steel and by Allen Gould; Robert Mango's "sunflower" chair supported on legs; Leon Rosen's tables using embossed tiles; Morton Gershon's with black ebony and white and white porcelain knobs; tables stained glass tops, leaded together iron base, by Henry Block and George Nelson's cabinets and in metal with plastic or glass multi-colored sides and drawers; grained woods combined in furniture by Greta Magnus- include handcrafted American designed by the Brooklyn School staff; Finnish and Swedish by Design Technios and fluid Stephen Burr. Other lamps are by white accented with color, used with wood, marble, glass widely used in designs.

Designers are George Nelson, Charles Risom, Harry Bertoia, Florence Fox MacGregor and Maurizio COBBLER'S bench by Design Technics has a walnut base, a top of blue-veined ceramic tiles that cleans easily with a damp cloth. The table is priced at $37.50. Shown with it is Harry Bertoia's formfitting wire shell-and-steel rod-cradle chair, the removable pad cover in a washable Knoll Prestini fabric, priced at $48. book, "Jealousy in Children." This guide for parents was written by Edmund Ziman, M.D., a psychiatrist. It explains why the jealousy is common, even in "only" children.

It tells how to handle jealousy when it first appears, and discusses in detail jealousy easy different ages. Ask for these two books at your local library. If they are not there request the librarian to get them, since by doing so she will be rendering a valuable community service. Any reader wanting of literature on jealousy is welcome to request them, inclosing a stamped, addressed envelope. the betrothal of their daughter, Daniel Greenberg, son of Dr.

of 1053 E. 10th St. Miss Ellison, who attended Froebel Academy, is a graduate of Midwood High School. She is attending Brooklyn College. Mr.

Greenberg, also a Midwood alumnus, is a student at Columbia University. The future bridegroom is editor of the Kingsway Courier in Flatbush. Daniel L. Hayes To Wed Miss Whalen Mr. and Mrs.

Eugene Clement Whalen of 69 E. 87th Manhattan, formerly of Orange, N. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Ann Claire Whalen, to Daniel Lawrence Hayes, son of Mr. and Mrs. Bartholomew Joseph Hayes of 54 74th St.

Miss Whalen was graduated from St. Lawrence Academy, Manhattan, and attended the College of New Rochelle for two years. She received her B.S. degree from Fordham University School of Education. The bride-elect is a granddaughter of Mrs.

James F. Whalen of Orange, N. and the late Mr. Whalen, and of Mrs. Pierre Conlin of Riverdale, the Bronx, N.

and the late Mr. Conlin. Mr. Hayes, an alumnus of Regis High School, Manhattan, and Holy Cross College, where he took his pre-medical studies, will complete his medical train(ing in June at Georgetown University School of Medicine. He is a member of the New York Athletic Club.

His grandparents were Mr. and Mrs. Michael J. Hayes, of Manhattan and Mr. Mrs.

Daniel J. Lynch of Brooklyn. Sandra G. Stang's Betrothal Announced Mr. and Mrs.

Samuel Stang of East Rockaway Road, Hewlett, announce the betrothal of their daughter, Miss Sandra Gloria Stang, to Robert Hill Schwartz, son of Mr. and Mrs. George Schwartz of 95 Sherman Woodmere. Miss Stang was graduated from Woodmere High School and attended Adelphi College, Garden City, where she was a member of Alpha Epsilon Phil sorority. Mr.

Schwartz, a graduate of Woodmere High School, is a senior at Colgate University, Hamilton, N. where he is a member of Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity. Virginia Dailey, Mr. Koll Betrothed Mr. and Mrs.

Daniel T. Dailey of 9 Spruce Place, Huntington Station, formerly of Brooklyn, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Virginia Dailey, to John Koll, son of Mrs. John Koll of 38 Monaton Drive, Huntington Station, and the late Mr. Koll. Miss Dailey was graduated from the Bishop McDonnell Memorial High School and is in her senior year at the State University Teachers College at New Paltz, N.

Y. Mr. Koll was graduated from Huntington High School and is associated with Republic Aviation Corporation at Farmlingdale. Miss Nancy Jane Ellison, to and Mrs. Abraham Greenberg Nancy Jane Ellison WITH WHITE was first in New York to show "SilhouBLACK LACQUER ette," dramatic new black and white bedroom furnishings by Merton L.

Gershun, last Fall. Now is first to present Mr. Gershun's "Silhouette" dining room black lacquer topped wit snow-white plastic tops. Six pieces, $329. designs in silky Teen Topics Replying to Questions By SALLY quartet quickies, B.

It isn't necessary he opens a door for you, either You simply smile and enter. quaintance who is not date opens a door for you, is necessary to acknowledge the courtesy. MISS PUZZLED: You can't turn back the clock, Honey. You had an argument with your beau, he accepted your apology but he's not interested in going back to the old terms of intimacy. Well, that's that! You can't un-say or un-do what's been done and said.

Keep on being friendly and cordial and perhaps in time you can earn his affection again, But you can't force it. MARY Lack of height embarrasses many a boy. Of course it's really unimportant. If a gal likes a boy, doesn't care about a few 'inches! But you can't argue the lad into accepting this sensible point of view. All you can do is to ask your brother to pass on to him your views: that you don't care about his height but like for what he is.

Then be cordial when you meet. And, of course, wear low-heeled shoes! ANN: Boys may be entertained in the afternoon with TV, in a game of cards, other games such as the popular Scrabble, dancing to records or radio and by a spot of KPmaking candy or cookies or sandwiches in the kitchen. Or even by letting him help you with your home chores! Hospital League Plans for Benefit Breakfast-Fashion Show The Port Washington-Manhasset League for the Mercy Hospital will have a breakfast and fashion show, featuring fashions of B. Altman, on Thursday, Jan. 28, at 8:45 a.m.

at B. Altman's, Manhasset. The chairman is Mrs. Charles M. Wieland of Port Washington.

Models for the fashion show will be Mrs. Raymond Ryer, Mrs. John Rossworn, Mrs. Thomas Maher, Mrs. Sidney Smith, Mrs.

Louis Albini and Mrs. John Glennon. chums! to thank your date every the car door or a house door. When a stranger or an ac- BOY, CAN GAL LIKES A You BOY SHE DOESN'T DANCE! CARE ABOUT A FEW INCHES COwAN1 1-7' B. P.

W. Club Plans For Annual Bridge To Take Place Feb. 27 Committee chairmen of the Annual Bridge of the Business and Professional Women's Club of Brooklyn to be held at the Hotel Towers on Feb. 27, met yesterday at a luncheon at the home of the general chairman, Mrs. Ann Barkley Hargert, 35 Garden Place, to discuss plans for the bridge.

Committee chairmen include: Honorary chairman, Miss Catherine A. D. Henderson, president of the club; general chairman, Mrs. Ann Barkley Har-, gert; door, Miss Marie Morris; floor, Mrs. Mary Lee; printing, Miss Mary Jane Crew; publicity, Mrs.

Mary Bergbom; reception, Mrs. Mabel Corey Watt; special awards, Miss Henriette Muehlhaus; special prizes, Miss Florence Earl; table prizes, Miss Anna Hagstrom, tickets, Mrs. Anna Raddatz and Miss Elsie Mehrtens. New Medicine Cabinet A distinctive new medicine cabinet for bathrooms has double doors that slide back to open a large. divided cabinet.

One full-size mirror is always available for use. ART BOOK COLLABORATORS- Mrs. Ruth Eisendrath (left) and Mrs. Caroline K. Keck (both of Brooklyn Heights), illustrator and author of the book "How to Take Care of Your Pictures," being published by The Brooklyn Museum in connection with the current "Take Care" exhibition now at the museum.

Joan D. McDonough Bride of Mr. Fowler After Forty Too Young To Marry Widow, 45 By EDYTH T. McLEOD I have a letter before me which I feel projects a question that is often in the minds of my readers. It is the problem of marriage between a woman of 45 and a man of 30.

The woman writes that she is healthy, very active, widowed for three years, with two grown children and financially able to take care of herself. The man wants marriage now and he is able to provide for her. She says she thinks that they should wait for one year, corresponding regularly, while he lives in another city. She asks, "Would the difference in our ages interfere with our happiIness?" The man acts older than 30 because he has had a very hard life. He has never been married and he is of the same religious faith as hers.

She asks, "Do tell me what to do?" I think that she knows what she should do. The very fact that she sends him away for a year proves that she knows the difference In their ages will be a bar to happiness, peace and contentment. Age hesitates because of past experiences. Forty -five is young as age goes but when compared with 30, it is not. If the man has a mother complex he is not a strong man and when he a young woman who attracts him, his mother complex won't hold him at the side of his mature wife! I have known of marriages between young men and ture women which have withstood the test of age differences but I must admit that they were unusual people.

Often the mature wife had a well-upholstered bank account. So my advice is to think a long time before you marry a man younger than you areand then, don't, unless the circumstances are very unusual. Good Counsel College Alumnae Set Date The Brooklyn-Long chapter of the Alumnae of Good Counsel College, White Plains, N. will hold their annual scholarship fund bridge on Saturday, Feb. 27, at 2 p.m.

in the Long Island room of Gertz- Flushing Department Store. Final plans for the bridge ter at home of Mrs. were formulatede by the chapEdna M. Fenwick of Flushing, New York. The wedding of Miss Joan D.

McDonough, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas McDonough of 2067 Gerritsen to Hoyt L. Fowler, son of Mrs. Audrey Fowler of Meeker, and the late G.

R. Fowler, took place on Jan. 9, in Good Shepherd R. C. Church.

The Rev. Edward A. Wallace officiated at the ceremony. The reception followed at the Officers' Club, Fort Tilden, Rockaway Point. The bride wore a gown of white satin with lace Queen Anne collar.

Her veil fell from a crown of pearls. She carried a white pearl prayer book covered with white camellias. Mrs. Patricia Doran, sister of the bride, was matron of honor. She wore a gown of iridescent blue taffeta edged in dark blue velvet.

The bridesmaids were the Misses Concetta Paladino of Brooklyn, Anne Kelly St. Albans, Anne Carlton of Forest Hills, Winifred Brennan of the Bronx. Their gowns were of deep rose taffeta, edged in burgundy velvet. They all wore matching head pieces and carried velvet muffs. Paul Ralph of California was best man.

The ushers were John Doran of Brooklyn, Leonard Koperski of Detroit, Charles Carlton Multree, William Bailey of North Carolina. After a motor trip through the South, Mr. and Mrs. Fowler will reside in Brooklyn where Mr. Fowler is stationed aboard the U.

S. S. Sheldrake. Mrs. Hoyt L.

Fowler Should She Wed Mary Haworth's Mail Army Inductee? am turning against them, losing all respect for them. My parents think almost as much of Tom as of their own sons, but refuse to influence us in any way. They leave the marriage decision entirely to us. Should we go against his parents' wishes and get married? In any case, there will be those two years' separation which, I realize, will be far from easy; but, with a love like ours, I am sure we can reach our goal. I personally have no desire to postpone for years the happiness that could be ours before Tom leaves.

Please give us your views. S. DEAR MARY HAWORTH -In two weeks DEAR F. $64 question to ask yourmy fiance leaves for his term of military self is whether you would be so eager to marry service. We have dated steady for over a year Tom now, if it meant leaving your parentsand became four months He is your mother especially--and taking on, perengaged ago.

manently, the full time responsibilities of 20, I am 19; both of us are wifehood and homemaking. high school graduates. He is The rather diffuse quality of your long an only son, has a younger letter, here condensed, suggests to me that sister. I am the youngest of your approach to your "problem" is far from four children the others mature. You talk of having or giving happiness are grown and married.

before Tom goes, an extremely shallow shortOur problem is that we range view of marriage, if he will be leaving want to marry before he in two weeks--and beyond that your mind goes and have this bit of draws a blank, apparently. happiness, but his parents Road Ahead refuse their consent and Pondering the significance of your ramwon't discuss it, though bling uncertain appeal for guidance, it occurs they steadfastly say it's to me that the idea of immediate marriage to nothing against me person- Tom has gripped your fancy, because, unconally. They are kind to me, sciously, you are reassured by the prospect of but in the circumstances I staying on with your parents for years afterMary Haworth part of the visiting (public, health) nurse's job. Her edu-ily cation and experience enable her to make her instructions clear and easy to follow. Important as teaching is, it is only one part of a nurse's work.

It is she who gives most kinds of injections, does surgical dressings and is responsible for other sorts of care and treatment which require the skills of a graduate nurse. In her teaching she does more than demonstrate, and explain what should be done. She waits until the member of the family whom she is instructing has demonstrated the ability and the assurance to give the necessary care. Even though a thing is done correctly, the nurse will conItinue to visit until she is sure that there is no serious apprehension on the part of the fammember or the patient. Because the staff is small, visiting nurses cannot stay any longer than is necessary to give and teaching.

Forty minutes is usually the maximum time they can stay, although they will not leave until they are sure that everything possible has been done for the patient's comfort and welfare. When you call a visiting nurse, you will find that she is indeed "just what the doctor ordered." If you have any questions about care of the sick at home, write to Eleanor W. Mole, Brooklyn Eagle, Brooklyn 1, N. and she will answer you, either by letter or in her column. Haworth wards.

During the last war, family service agencies, working with many mishap marriages, made this discovery: Young couples who were planning to be married anyway, and who proceeded according to plan, despite the hazards of military service, mostly made out successfully. Other youngsters, who rushed into marriages not considered, until Army duty seemed imminent, were found regretting their haste, as a rule. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview.

Write her, Brooklyn Eagle, Brooklyn 1, N. Y..