The Daily Times-News from Burlington, North Carolina • Page 10

10-A Burlington (N.C.) Tlmeg-Newg, Saturday, May 23,1970 Ji '1 MRS. DAVID CARL VERNER (tfomn Tekpoone 226-4418 Miss Betty Sue Byerly Weds Mr. Davis Friday Evening In Baptist Ceremony Wedding Of Miss Donna Carolyn Ashley And Thomas McGee Solemnized Today Morning Ceremony Unites Caudlll And Verner Pair Miss Sallie Ann Caudill the bride of David Carl Verner today at 11 a.m. in First an Dr. Tom B.

Anderson and Robert E. King, and Scott Crawford guitarist and brother the bridegroom, rendered "A progam of music. The bride is the daughter Mr. and Mrs. Tyrell Robert rCaudill Sr.

of Greensboro. She I-received a B.A. degree in phil- from Elon College and M.A. degree in Christian from Presbyterian of Christian Education Richmond, Va. She will be by Tuckahoe Pres- Church in Richmond, as director of Christian in September.

'J The bridegroom is the son Dr. and Mrs. Hugh David -Verner of Charlotte. He re- degree in Eng- Oish from Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, is presently working on this Bachelor of Divinity degree at Union Theological Richmond, Va. He -will serve as assistant min- of Wynnewood Pres- Church in Dallas, Texas this summer.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a gown of ivory organza and Chantilly lace. The fitted empire waist and A-line skirt were accented by lace streamer appliques and featured a self-attached chapel train. Maid of honor was Miss Barbara Peckworth of Atlanta, Ga. She wore an empire gown of blue sculptured silk over blue shantung. Dr.

Verner was his son's best man and ushers were Scott Crawford Verner and Jonathan Kent Verner of Charlotte, both brothers of the bridegroom, Paul Lee Caudill -of Burlington and T. Robert Caudill Jr. of Greensboro, both brothers of the bride, and Malcolm BriUan Blankenship of Charlotte. Mrs. Irving Hogan directed the wedding.

Following the cennony, the bride's parents entertained with a reception in the John Knox room of the church. The couple will reside in Dallas, Texas, this summer and will return to Richmond, in the fall. The wedding of Miss Donna Carolyn Ashley and Thomas Michael McGee was solemnized today in a noon ceremony at Blessed Sacrament Church. Msgr. Francis K.

O'Brien officiated at the ceremony and Mrs. Kraycirik provided a ptp- gram of organ music. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick F.

Ashley of Blanche Drive and attended Elon College for two years, becoming a member of Delta Upsilon Kappa Sorority. Mr. McGee, who is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James F.

McGee Sr. of Deer Park, N.Y., is a senior at Elon College, majoring in i a education. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a gown of pearled nylon Chantilace, designed on empire lines with peau de sole skirt. Her headpiece was a matching mantilla and she carried a cascade of white butterfly roses, stephanotis and lemon leaves topped with a white orchid. Miss Janet Elizabeth Ashley served as maid of honor for her sister.

She wore an empire gown of aqua Chantilace with organza skirt and headpiece was a cluster of matching flowers accented with a bow. She carried a colonial cascade in shades of blue accented with pink sweetheart roses and daisies. Bridesmaids, dressed the same as the honor attendant, were Miss Mary Ellen McGee, sister of the bridegroom, and Mrs. Thomas Stephen Smith. Honorary bridesmaids were Miss Janice Marie Horner and Miss Barbara Ann Horner of Graham.

They wore formal gowns in two shades of pink and carried miniature nosegays. George Tracey of Deer Park served as best man. Ushers were James. F. McGee of Miss Betty Sue Byerly and Stephen Bruce Davis exchanged wedding vows last evening at 7 o'clock in Eastlawn Baptist Church with the Rev.

Jack Clark officiating. Miss Dawn Young rendered a program of music. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter L.

Byerly Sr. of Elon College. She is a senior at Western Alamance and is employed by Whitakers Hosiery Mill. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Ralph S. Davis of Tryon Street. He attended Williams High School and is now employed Ity Modern Linoleum and Tile Company. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a street length empire dress of white de-loutrel trimmed in lace. Her shoulder length veil fell from a lace covered crown and she carried a white orchid on a Bible.

Miss Debbie Sue Byerly, sister of the bride, was maid of honor and wore a mint green linen dress and carried a long-stemmed white mum. Mr. Davis was his son's best man and ushers were Robert Adams, brother-in-law of the bridegroom, and a Moore. Mrs. David Wood of Gibsonville directed the wedding and Miss Elaine Jones registered guests.

Following the rehearsal on Thursday evening, a cake cutting was held. Refreshments of cake, mints, punch and nuts were served by Mrs. Robert Adams and MRS. STEPHEN BRUCE WesHro Mrs. Peggy Mansfield.

The couple will be at home on 317 Camp Road following a trip to the coast. Case Book Of Dr. Chase (Photo by Parrish) MRS. THOMAS MICHAEL McGEE Deer Park, brother of the bridegroom and Noble G. Marshall Jr.

of Roanoke, Va. Mrs. L.E. Youngblood and Mrs. Christine Smith directed the wedding.

The bride's parents entertained with a reception at tne church following the wedding. The table was covered with a lace-trimmed tablecloth and the centerpiece was a silver candelabrum with epergnettes of pink roses, yellow daisies and blue carnations accented with lighted tapers. The blue and white wedding cake was served with fruit punch, bridal mints, cheese wafers and nuts. Mrs. Clyde H.

Gavin of Charlotte and Mrs. Bill Miller of Elon College assisted in serving. After a wedding trip to the coast Mr. and Mrs. McGee will at home at 30 Hillside Avenue, Rockville N.Y.

Marriage Needs Help Dear Abby iDon't Downgrade Yourself And Expect Others Not To By HENRIETrE KISH 1 Women's News Service NEW YORK A group of older women were listening "to a TV talk show. One panel rmember suggested that some were still what he -called squares--" and we Tcan't make pictures for little ladies." "I'm not a little old lady. -I'm a big old lady," a listener "So he can't mean But constant allusions to 'little old lady from or little old ladies general are beginning to under my ddn." The Mothers agreed, more or less Vociferously. Who has not, at some time, an older person wince -at a similar slighting remark? JBut also, who does not know some older persons who have done excellent denigrating on themselves? TnMyDaT A woman constantly boasts, my day, none of today's actions would nave been tolerated for one minute." By IJhe phrase "in my day" she Is removing herself from the Yet she complained llhat she heard herself referred as a "has-been" and how upset it made her. Anolher woman tells young and oW alike, "I'm a loser, but at my age what can I expect?" She gets very angry, however, if anyone downgrades her by word or deed.

Putting yourself because of the number of years you've been around is sometimes a temptation. Especially if you give it a little humorous twist. But you sort of hope you won't be taken seriously. AD too often yon may be. "I dart care wbdher hemlines fd up cr a fiiesad SVAPEIlfl IC i said.

"Who looks at an old lady, anyhow?" But when her granddaughter ventured, "Oh, Gram, why should you care about the new lengths?" Gramdma- bridles. shouldn't I have a right to look as up-to-date as the rest of you!" Honesty Having the honesty to face age squarely is one thing. To couch all you do and say in terms of age is i another--unless you want to be judged solely by the number of birthdays survived. A neighbor of mine died last week. When I was told her age, I was astounded.

So was everyone else. She never alluded to her 87 years, she never acted as if they were a burden. As far as the neighborhood was concerned, she was just another older housewife going about her daily dutaes. Her niece said: "She was one of those women who never apologized for her years. She always of herself as a person--not an BIG MAMA WATCHING A Switzerland (WNS) Andre Mayer.

32, got the blues when he learned that his wife Brigitte must leave home for a year to tour the world as a model. "I'll even forget what you look like," he complained. Mrs. Mayer promptly look care of she has had sculptor Bernard Reds make a life-sized piastic figure of ber (hat will kept an eye on her husband's bedroom while she is gone. Remarriage Up To Dad By Abigail Van Buren DEAR ABBY: After mother died, our father lost no time in finding another lady to keep him company.

She is 36. Dad is 57. Day also said he doubted if he'd ever marry again, but 8 months after mother's death he was a married man. He said we would be the first to know if he decided differently. We were the last to know.

Don't say it's none of our business. We are his children and we love him, and it's very much our business. We just can't see Dad marrying a woman who Is the same age as his oldest daughter. Are we wrong to be. DISGUSTED WITH DAD DEAR DISGUSTED: I flunk you are.

True, since you father said you'd be the first to know should he decide to remarry, he should have kept that promise. But if you really "love" him, concern yourself orily win his happiness. (P.S. If the age difference presents a problem between them, it be their problem.) now and I'm breaking up their friendship. Abby, I just don't want to see tius couple any more.

Am I wrong? PAT's WIFE DEAR WIFE: No. Tell Pat if he wants to continue to be a buddy to Mac, he can do it on his own time, but to include you out. And to forget the foursome for the time being, too. DEAR ABBY: To back up "OKLAHOMA I'll ask, how many i condemned to death could be trusted to go out and buy his burial clothes, be fitted for a coffin, say good-bye to bis friends and be back at the appointed place at the scheduled time of his exe- cution? There weren't many but that is how they were carred out in the Creek nation. Indians ARE honorable! DILUTED AURORA, ILLINOIS I I A TO WINDY CITY: Don't expect to find an honest partner for a crooked deal What's your problem? You'fl feel better if you get it off your chest Write to ABBY, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Cal.

90069. For a personal reply enclosed stamped, addressed envelope. Hate to write letters? Send $1 to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Cal. 90069, for Abby's booklet, 'How to i Letters for AH Occasions." The Last Word DEAR ABBY: My husband (1'fl call 'him Pat) has been acting kind of funny lately moody and depressed and like that I finally got him to tell me what was bothering him. it seems he was feeling "guilty" about an affair he had last summer with my best friend (I'll call her Marge).

I was so hurt and heartsick I lost 10 pounds in 10 days. Pat promised be'd never see Marge again, so I him. But here's my problem: Pat and I used to pal around witti Marge and Mack he's Marge's husband) and now I don't care to have anything to do with them. Marge told me she knew that Pat had confessed everything to me. and she didn't act ope bit asJiamed.

She's all for continuing the friendship just like nothing happened. Now Pat says if we don't keep seeing Marge and Mac, Mac will get suspicious and wonder why. Frankly. I don't care what be thJaks. Pat says I'm being unfair because he and Mac are real good baddies "My husband was a genius.

He spoke no French and I spoke no Russian, so for the first 18 months of our marriage we spoke through Romola Nijinsky, 76-year-old widow of the famous ballet dancer. "Mother should really have seen the mistakes I was Power (daughter of Tyrone) in an interview telling laat she will never strip again. "I admit I get loneJy. I didn't realize until afterwards just how much I'd miss the companionship of a r- i Samantha Eggar, divorced from American actor Tom Stern. "I like Hollywood pace, aJ- though it's deceptive.

People conie down from New York and say bow lazy Hollywood is. They don't realize that the ease is j'lst in the atmosphere but Ihe work still goes on underneath "--Pop i Dusty Springfield, who's been commuting between Hollywood and Europe. ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH Saddle Clnb Road Grant F. Johnson, Minister 11:00 A.M. "Who Has The Final Word?" 7:30 P.

M. Singspiration JESUS CHRIST Today's Assurance Tomorrow's Hope Dear Dr. Chase: I married my husband five years ago when I was quite young. Now, after much painful soul-searching, I realize I just don't love him the way I should and that I only married him because I was eager to leave an unhappy home life. Of course this was wrong, but at the tune I convinced myself it was right.

I have tried very hard to be a good wife and mother to our four children. Recently, we moved to our present home in a new area. Since living here we have pretended to be the ideal couple, but I still have this terrible feeling of just not caring and I want to stop pretending. My husband is faithful, a good father and provider, but he's very dull. He has gained 68 pounds in four years and when I look at him all I see are rolls of fat.

I have tried to talk to him about this but he doesn't seem to, care if he's fat and looks bad. I have asked him to get some counseling but he says he can't be bothered. I kown I'm not perfect and admit I need help. Since there is no one in this town to talk to I thought maybe if I wrote you you might give me some suggestions on how to help our marriage. We can't separate because of our kids so I am willing to try if he will.

What can we do? DOCTOR: It is difficult in a letter ot give you the kind of help you need to solve this provlem of yours. But I will offer some suggestions which may help if you try. If you and your husband and children are churchgoers, I suggest you first explain to your minister how you feel. Perhaps he can then come and visit your family some evening. This would give him the opportunity of talking to you husband at a later date about some of the things which are bothering you.

I also suggest selecting a family physician and making an appointment for each member of the family to have a complete examination. You could rely upon the physician to speak to your husband about how overweight affects one's health as well as mental outlook. The problems caused by overweight are complex and can cause unnatural physical stresses. Next, you should evaluate your own behavior patterns and see if you are being the kind of wife who would stimulate a husband to want to make her happy and look his best for her. I mention this because of the emotional con- ditons under which married him.

Your motive was wrong, as you now know, but since you have children and he is a good father, you must do more than, pretend to care for this man. Try your best to understand his needs and to create a real interest in him. By developing yourself as an indivudual you may find new areas in him of which you were unaware. Your attention to the marriage could encourage him to make a greater effort. Many times people can sense our inner misgivings and react to this without being aware that this is the source of their own lack of vitality in a relationship.

At least you owe it to all concerned to make a wholehearted effort to revitalize "the atmosphere toward n- structive living. You may find a willing partner. And I hope you do. (If you are having trouble sleeping, stopping smoking or controlling your weight, write for a free brochure to Dr. Chawe, Medical Square 2021 Santa Monica Santa Monica, Calif.

90404.) Maxi Will Be France's Maxiest Flop By TREOE BELMONT Women's News Service PARIS The top boys in the French haute couture business are ruefully con- templating one of the biggest, maziest flops in the Paris rag trade--the Maxi. For with the first spring weather the maxi is already off the streets of Paris. No Lasting Protection Keep in mind, next time utes swimming in fresh water. you go swimming, that a single application of sunscreen cream does not afford lasting protection, according to a Florida dermatologist In tests with four sunscreen preparations, applied to nine male subjects, Dr. Stephen Kate of Miami reports that all preparations had washed off completely after 10 min- LADIES' DAY PARIS (WNS) Christine Chanel and Chantal Lar- dennois, 26-year-old coeds in the school of law, both wore miniskirts to classes and to examinations.

MBe. Chanel is the first woman ever to take top honors in the exams given by the C.N.E.J., or National Center of Judicial Studies. Mite. Lardennois placed second. Dior, St.

Laurent, Balmain and many others decided quite deliberately to rather to 'return to--the maxi after heavy pressure from the French textile mills which often control dress houses. The textile firms naturally saw more profit in more skirt Not so. The mini is back, and enormous amounts gambled on the Max! have been lost. Over thirty off-the-peg firms which overstocked with maxis are offering them at a third of their original value--but finding no bidders. CONVERSE Canvas Footwear For Men Boys BCH'C East DELL 3 Take 3 Empress Cold Wave Plus $19.95 Human Hair Wiglet Both For Only "16.88 APPOINTMENT NECESSARY I Alamance Beauty College 7m 6M Rrrw Ctrfltr DIM Note New Hosts: Thursday Friday Nights Tffl BEAUTY CLASSES NOW FORMING.