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WI Society Magdalene L. Senese To Wed Californian Dr. and Mos. John Gerard Senese of 266 Clinton Ave. announce the engagement of their raine Senese, to Douglas James P.

James Bettlestone of 230 Moore Miss Senese attended phi Academy and the Katharine Gibbs School, Manhattan. Mr. Bettlestone received his ed- One Bachrach photo Magdalene Lorraine Senese ucation at Fresno State Col- lege. Fresno, and New York University Graduate School of Retailing. Eileen Louise Lohmann To Wed J.

H. McKenzie The engagement of Miss Ei. leen Louise Lohmann of 553 51st St. to Joseph Hugh MeKenzie is announced. Miss Lohmann is the daughter of Mrs.

Louis Charles Lohmann and the late Mr. Lohmann. Mr. McKenzie is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Harry Penny, also of Brooklyn. The bride-elect is a graduate of Manual Training High School and is a member of Phi Sigma Sorority. Mr. McKenzie is also a graduate of Manual Training High School and attended Pratt Institute. served three vears In the aimed forces with the 33d Sig.

nal Company, and is now asos. ciated with the Royal Indemnity Insurance Company. Jean Barclay White Engaged to Chemist Mrs. William B. White of Rockville Centre, formerly of Brooklyn, announces the engagement of her daughter, Jean Barclay White, to Paul Frederic Stryker, son of Mr.

and Mrs. William H. Stryker of North Plainfield, N. J. Miss White is a graduate Pratt Institute, where she was a member of Delta Omega Upsilon, and New York Univer.

sity. She is a member of the Art Department of the South Side School, Rockville Centre. Mr. Stryker is an alumnus of Rutgers University. He also attended Brooklyn Polytechnic Institute and Princeton University.

He is the chief chemist for the Chile Exploration Company, a subsidiary of the Anaconda Copper Mining Company of Chuquicamata, Chile. Dorothy Grace Nellis Is Wed at Fort Hamilton Miss Dorothy Grace Nellis, daughter, Miss Magdalene LorBettlestone, son of Mr. and Mrs. Santa Cruz, Cal. daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Harry L. Nellis of 517 66th became the bride of Walter V. Kain on Saturday in the Post Chapel at Fort Hamilton. The ceremony was performed by the Rev.

Father Zentgraph, who was chaplain of the 244th C. with which Mr. Kain served. A reception at the home of the bride's parents followed the ceremony. The bride's sister.

Miss Grace Nellis, was maid of honor bridesmaid was Miss Catherine Bava. Freddy Zetterholm of Manhattan was best man and Michael Tremallo of Brooklyn served as usher. Kathleen Donovan Fiancee of J. C. Melntyre Mr.

and Mrs. Patrick J. Donovan of 7310 Narrows formerly of Jersey City, announce the engagement of their daughter. Miss Kathleen Patricia Donovan, to James C. McIntyre, son of James McIntyre of 200 Wilkinson Jersey City, N.

J. Miss Donovan is a senior at Notre Dame College of Staten Island and Mr. McIntyre was recently discharged from the Army Transport Service after three years duty in the Philippine and Okinawa area. Phyllis Scher Fiancee of Eli Syetta Mr. and Mrs.

Irving Scher of 1716 71st St. announce the engagement of their daughter. Miss Phyllis Scher, to Eli Syetta, son of Mr. and Mrs. Jack Syetta of 2052 77th St.

Miss Scher is a graduate Brooklyn College and is taking her Masters degree at the New York University School Business. She is employed the National Industrial Conference Board Manhattan. Mr. Syetta is attendHeling evening classes at York University and is a buyer for Irving C. Krewson Corporation.

He was wounded three times during the war. Rene Perlmutter To Wed on Birthday Mr. and Mrs. Moe H. Perlmutter of 1573 E.

St. announce the forthcoming marriage of their sixth and youngest daughter, Miss Rene Perlmutter, to Irving Dudley Weiner of Syracuse, N. on Dec. 27, which is the prospective bride's birthday. Miss Perlmutter is a graduate of of of of of of of of of Lafayette High School.

The bridegroom is an ex-GI having served with the 9th Seabees in Iceland and the Pacific for four years. He is an engineering student at Sampson College. Altman -Davis Wedding Planned Mr. and Mrs. Morris Altman of 54002 Beverly Road announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Miss Barbara Altman, Bertram C.

Davis of 55 Eastern Parkway on Sunday, Dec. 21. BUY U. S. SAVINGS STAMPS AND BONDS GETTING READY FOR CHRISTMAS Training a child in the idea that a "gift without the giver is bare" should start early.

A simple gift that will be of use of to the one for whom it is intended is being prepared here. The child's aunt, who plays a great deal of bridge, will receive a basket containing accessories for an afternoon of cards. of by MEN Are Doing BROOKLYN EAGLE, DEC. 10, 1947 19 X-Rays End Fears of Many Woman Doctor Is Slowly Building Educated View on Tuberculosis 1 By SHIELA Mckeon As head of the X-ray service of the Brooklyn and Health Association for the past 22 years, Dr. Gladys Muller has listened to every version of at you hurtyou but she is confident of its eventual disuse.

To the Association office at 293 Schermerhorn St. many people who learn for the first time that they are seriously ill, but the majority of the X-rayed are well people, a harvest of preventive medicine. "When started here in 1925." a gentle- -voiced Dr. Muller recalled, "the general public had the feeling that tubercuo losis was something dishonorable that you should hide and they took a what-you-don'tknow- won't-hurt-you attitude." Preventive Medicine The Association's X-ray service, set up by Dr. Muller, is not planned for sick people.

"In fact," she said, "we discourage ill people from coming. The ideal we are working toward is to have every one in the' com1 munity X-rayed every two years--preventive medicine." The X-ray service is one of several demonstrations that the Association arranged to test theories about off-setting tuberculosis before it takes hold. "It's not our business to give individual service." Dr. Muller explained, "rather we set up demonstrations in places wherel city officials can't spend money patient is admitted to the hoson research and hope that they pital he has his thoughts fowill continue it." cused on recovery by a trained Typical of the fear dispelling worker who helps map out projects geared to lessen the work plans for an independent impact of the disease in the fu- future. ture is the Association's demon- All of the demonstrations are stration which provides X-rays aimed at education as for school children.

"That way," well as the specific project acDr. Muller pointed out, "Someday," will be taken for granted later." Muller hopes, "tuberculosis will Another demonstration is not be such an awful shock to underway in Kings people that they will waste time County Hospital as part of the running around from doctor to Association's rehabilitation pro- doctor wishing somebody will gram. Almost as soon as the say it's bronchitis." 8 Idea and Wrapping Mean Much Boro Artist Personalize Your Gift By GERTRUDE a touch of pine cones and Woman's Editor A friend of ours always gives Christmas presents that she would like receive. Shel makes no qualms about it and since all of her friends know this, selecting something for her is quite simple. One can just remember back a couple of years to what she gave vou and duplicate it.

Can't miss! But gift giving is not always so easy. Sometimes nothingbut nothing--appeals. Why not create a gift? Consider the person and what she does for enItertainment. One such idea we happened on this week was being worked out for a woman who belongs to a weekly bridge club to which she is hostess every, two months. The gift for her included four packs of beautiful playing score pads, pencils.

and tallies, cigarette box and ash trays, napkins and coasters. It was being done up in a basket large enough to hold everything and then wrapped in clear cellophane with a big red ribbon or Valuable Shawls to Contemporary Comment Shown at Urban By RUTH G. DAVIS I telling the audience the interesting history and Society Editor The annual party of Urban Club held yesterday proved to be one of great value, that is if one could figure out the amount: in dollars and cents. The unusual fashion show, held in connection with the annual philanthropic bridge, consisted of a "Parade of Shawls" which were family heirlooms loaned by members and their friends for the occasion. Although it was bridge with writing paper for the winners, it seemed only a very good excuse to show off the lovely shawls.

The fashion show was under the direction of Mrs. Edwin L. Beck and Mrs. Rowland W. Salmon.

The former was wearing a black frock and an enchanting black halo hat with gold thread check, and black egrettes. Mrs. Salmon also wore black. Her crepe dress was harem styled and it was trimmed with fringe. She wore a tall Winter white hat.

Mrs. LeRoy E. Edwards, president of Urban, wore a becoming brown ensemble. Her frock was trimmed with gold and rhinestone buttons and her off-the-face hat adorned with feathers and veiling. Mrs.

Charles Costa played the musical accompaniment for the models who were all Urban Club members. MRS. SALMON WAS THE commentator, a CHECKING FOR SPOTS -Dr. Gladys Muller studies a chest x-ray at Tuberculosis Association headquarters, 293 Schermerhorn St. years.

Dates, figs, apricots, prunes, as well as the, others, may be stuffed with nuts, fondant, peanut butter, then rolled tinted sugar, cocoanut or chopped nuts. All these ingredients may be found in abundance, so make the most them. The natural sweet of Nip-Size Champagne Here for Holidays By ELSA STEINBERGER, jingle bell-. Truly, it was most attractive gift. Stocking Fillers Do vou hang stockings in your house come Christinas Eve? Not only the children.

but everyone? Then you need surprises. For that teen age daughter, be sure to stuff three or four cards of hobbypins, some hair clasps. a couple of bottles of nail polish and remover (make that a large bottle). a new lipstick and warm mittens preferably with sequins Or bells ol something shining and extra 011 the back. For the man in the familydoes he play golf? A half dozen golf balls will please him, a set of "booties" for his golf clubs.

a searchlight with batteries. a key chain and something to smoke. There are loads of things to stuff in the stocking for a woman-an jar of cleansing cream. a set of lipsticks. one a blue red, the other a clear red, fancy soap, a new pancake makeup, a bottle of toilet water bath oil.

a new compact. Surprises do not always have be "different" -they can bel very useful. As a matter of fact, should be in these days when necessities come high. Cuts Cost on Panel Paper By BEATRICE JONES Bringing formerly high cost scenic panel wallpapers down to prices within the limit of the average homemaker's budget, the Reverne Corporation of 515 Madison Manhattan, yesinterday presented the new designs of Albert Van Luit and James Seeman, borough wallpaper artist. Heretofore, handpainted designs, once imported from China and France, ranged anywhere from $100 to $1,000.

Hand printed domestic patterns were priced as low as $25 but patterns. colors and designs were very limited. The papers shown yesterday were of fine texture, design and coloring, far superior to any shown to date. Among the beautiful patterns in the new low -priced range was "Jardin Chinois," a handprinted scenic by Mr. Seeman, which combined a traditional Chinese floral pattern with a typical pagoda setting to create fan effect of looking through a bower.

Six printed panels, priced at $48, make up the complete scene which measures 13 feet, 6 inches by 10 feet high. These wallpapers may be ordered through the wallpaper department or interior decorat- ling division of A. S. NEW Chinois" poses a Chinese floral pattern against a delicate scenic background. Designed by James Seeman for Renverne and shown to the press yesterday.

Food Editor There comes a time in most special occasion seems to call proverbial champagne taste and resulted in a less elaborate millionaires, but just average; Americans" the 'San Benito Company, has a new idea -a small bottle, refrigerator size and as easy to open as other beverage bottles, that holds just two glasses. In either the Tiara Brand or the San Benito, these small bottles are designed to sell for about 75 cents. You will find them a good value in their price range. Another item you will want to know about for the holiday season preparations is a packaged frosting. Choose vanilla, chocolate or strawberry flavor, add to 2 tablespoons of hot water and stir.

The result is a rich. creamy frosting, quickly made to use for a single eightinch layer of cake, or to decorate colorful cookies for Christmas. Most of the chain stores carry QT frosting for about 13 cents a package. these fruits will satisfy the of our when some very sweet tooth lives in a wholesome for champagne. However, the way.

beer pocketbook has frequently A day or two ago we received celebration. For "those who are not a box of confections to tryalong with recipes. We recomFor additional ideas for col- mend them to you highly and orful cookies you will like the pass along the recipe for Spiced Sugared Nuts. Cook use of vegetable food colors. together cups sugar, cup Use them to tint frosting or unsulphured molasses, cup for a delicate sparkle, mix a water, and 1 tablespoon butter drop or two with granulated or or margarine to the firm ball super-fine sugar and sprinkle stage (when a few drops of on the cookies before baking.

syrup in cold water forms a This adds a bright touch as a firm ball) or until a candy thertopping for frosting, or may be mometer registers 244 degrees used as a dusting for stuffed F. Remove from heat and add dates similar confections. 1 teaspoon cinnamon, teaMerely roll them in the colored spoon ginger, teaspoon allsugar for extra glamour. spice, teaspoon cloves. Stir Cocoanut may be tinted in the until syrup begins to grain.

same way to be used for top- Add pound shelled pecans, ping for cakes, cookies and stirring until nuts are welldesserts. coated. Before mixture hard. Plentiful dried fruits offer a ens, separate each coated nut variety of delightful flavors for and place on a cookie pan to easy-to-make holiday confec- cool. Keep in a tightly covered tions.

Modern methods of jar or can. Yield: pounds. preparation make for a more Instead of spices, you may use tender product than in bygonel2 teaspoons grated orange peel. Woman Miserable Mary Haworth's Mail At Mate's Revelation Dear Mary Haworth -Six months ago my husband informed me that he had fallen in love with another woman and no longer loved me. He said, however.

that he wanted us. to stay together for the sake of our two wonderful children. I made up my mind at the time that I hadn't been all he pected of a wife and that I could regain his love by displaying affection always, by giving more thought to my appearance and taking my househoid chores more seriously. He has been sorry about the situation and wonderful to me, all of which makes me love him so dearly that I can't Mary Haworth stand it when he says the last six months haven't altered his feelings for the girl or me. He is 43, she is 28 and I am 36.

Wife Turns Faint at Sight of Rival He realizes that marriage to her is impos: sible, but he is really only happy when talking to her. I know that, and when I meet her on the street (which I try to avoid) my whole body turns faint. Sometimes I think I should leave him for his own happiness, but he doesn't want the family broken up. He says we can live a normal life in these circumstances and I am trying to, but about once a week I am in a depressed mood when he gets home, which angers him. I realize these horrible sieges of melancholy aren't helping my case.

If I keep on trying, do you think I can yet achieve a normal life with him, knowing he loves another woman? suppose there are many other wives in the same boat, and I would like your opinion as to whether such a mess can turn out all right. Please answer soon. T. R. details of the shawls.

Mrs. Albert Firman loaned her paisley shawl which had been a Christmas present in 1880. It was modeled by Mrs. John Russell who wore a complete outfit of that era. Even her little straw bonnet dated to 1887.

A paisley shawl loaned by Mrs. George N. Broadhurst was judged by a shawl expert to be the best preserved shawl of this type the expert had ever seen. It was 10 by 12 feet. Another shawl owned by Mrs.

Broadhurst was a pure silk paisley scarf which originally be. longed to Catherine Devillier, a famous Russian ballerina, who had presented it to her patroness, the Princess Carol de Rohn. It was modeled by Miss Lillian Lorentz. A RARE CAMEL'S HAIR shawl was loaned by Mrs. Henry C.

Bainbridge and modeled by her daughter, Miss Mildred Bainbridge. Woven in Arabia, it was purchased in 1875 and was presented to Mrs. Bainbridge's grandmother. Another shawl that had a special meaning to it was loaned by Mrs. George Veasey.

It was a white wool christening shawl. Mrs. John L. Bauer, as "the grandmother of whom Urban Club is most proud," displayed this number as she carried the "baby" which was wearing the christening dress used by Mrs. Veasey's niece, land carefully, wrapped in the shawl.

Wife's Actions Belie Feelings Dear T. husband is a spoiled dar. ling who wants carte blanche to have his cake and eat it, too. About your moods: You are developing a situational neurosis as a result of wrestling unsuccessfully to repress outraged resentment of his bald effrontery, while also trying to best his inamorata on the score of honeyed sex appeal: i.e., bait for the infarule male. The truth is, he doesn't merit your anguished idolatry, and furthermore, it isn't nec.

essary to court his allegiance. You aren't reinforcing marriage ties one whit. Wife's Position Isn't Threatened He doesn't love the other woman. His emotions, being infantile, are geared to "wanting" -the reverse of cherishing, which is bona fide love-in-action. He is infatuated with her, yes, as he once was with you, but psychologically he isn't "free" to discard you and make her his wife because, for a complexity of self- gratifying reasons, he wants you, too.

He hasn't the strength to give you up. Thus, in my opinion it doesn't make sense to wring your hands or break your heart over his defection. Snub the bootless dalliance by refusing to discuss it. Keep him at arm's length with impeccable courtesy and poised aloofness for as long as he professes "no love" of you. Cultivate social attractiveness and vital personality by being a cordial friend, good neighbor and hostess, fine housekeeper and mother, actively interested in community life as time and the crisis will fade, leaving you winner.

M. H..