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tunday, Nevfnbtr IS, It 1 fHSctfa Cna Jfttttntf Marriage Counselor Suggests How The Gangs All Here! To 'Live Happily Ever After 2. Do you settle your argumenta by mutual adjustment? 9 would vou choose each other social Club News I' -xh At I I. By Dorothy Roe Associated Press Women's Editor "And so the brave prince slew the dragon, rescued the beautiful princess, and carried her away to his castle and they were married and lived happily ever after." American young people have been reading too many fairy tales, says David Mace, founder of marriage counseling services in Brit- tain, now a visiting professor of family study at the university of Pennsylvania. The concentration of movies, television and current romantic fiction is that the altar is the goal of every girl and boy, and is the gateway to lifelong bliss. Sometimes the bride and groom do not live happily ever after, says Dr.

Mace, writing in a new pamphlet, "What Makes a Marriage Happy?" published by the Public Affairs Committee. And the main reason is that neither partner tries hard enough. "Many people are unhappy in marriage because they expected to get too much for too little effort," he writes. Often the honeymoon is over when Mary first sees John tousel-ed, unshaven and grouchy, before his first cup of coffee in the morning. Or when John sees Mary at bedtime with greasy cream on her face and her hair up in curlers.

Or when John forgets to kiss Mary good-bye in the morning. Or when Mary telephones John in the middle of a business conference to ask if he loves her. Life isn't a fairy story, points out the professor. And two young people starting out to make a new life together represent only the raw materials out of which a happy marriage can be achieved. So what does it take to make a happy marriage? Well, says the professor, if you can answer yes to the following questions you can consider yourself happily married; 1.

Are you good companions? Doctor's Quick Action Saves Man Beverly Hills, Calif. Iff). A quiet meal in a local restaurant almost turned into tragedy for retired businessman Arthur D. Rose. A peace of meat lodged in his windpipe.

Choking, he lost consciousness. Dr. Robert Rand, dining at a nearby booth, grabbed a steak knife from a waiter. He sliced Rose's windpipe as another diner held a flashlight in the dim restaurant Wednesday night. 7 4 Reminded Of Federation the members to the exhibit of u-nrk hv sludents in the art de partment of Santa Cruz high school, and announced mai nexi month's exhibit would be the work of Miss Margaret Santa Cruz marine artist.

Special guests of the day, in addition to Mrs. Wing, were officers and chairmen of Loma Prieta district, including the president, Mrs. Frank Ambrogio of Seaside, and the corresponding secretary, Mrs. Marion 0. Pyzer of Corralitos.

Also introduced were Mrs. Robert Darrow, president, and Mrs. Raymond Kranich, past president of the Marri-Eds Junior Woman's club. The clubhouse was decorated with fall flowers and leaves by Mrs. T.

L. William. 0 0 0 Rehearsal Slated By SC Symphony Tomorrow Night In preparation for its December 1 concert, the Santa Cruz Symphony ill rehearse at 7 p.m. to morrow at civic auditorium. Manager Matilda Dedrick also has scheduled practices for the two subsequent Mondays, Novem ber 23 and 30, at the auditorium.

For the first concert of the season the more than 60 local musicians will present Bach's Brandenburg Concerto No. 3 and Dvorak's Symphony No. 5. Highlights from Verdi's opera, "La Traviata," will complete the program. Detlev Anders is the conductor.

The concert, set for 8:15 p.m. December 1 at the civic auditorium, is open to the public without charge. 0 0 0 Musical Comedy Plans Break-In At Las Vegas Hollywood Jackie Bar-nett. who has written Jimmy Dur-anle's night-club material for years, this week tries a unique Broadway break-in for an original musical comedy. Instead of trying out the show in New Haven, Philadcplhia or other customary tryout cities, Bar-nelt is taking his to Las Vegas.

The show, called "Playgirls," i stars Patrice Wymore, Marilyn i Maxwell, Julie Wilson and Dag- mar. It has a cast of 40. "When 1 take it to Broadway," says Barnett, "The show will be expanded by 45 minutes and the cast upped to 60. Las Vegas will solve most of the financial problems for me and give the show the best kind of a tryout performance. 0 0 0 SHOP IN THE GREATER SANTA CRUZ TRADING AREA i Hall, assessor's office; Roberta Matis, Leask's; Ken Johnson, surveyor's office; Dee Viviani, county planning department; Jim Elliott, surveyor's office, and Gerry Wolff, county planning department.

Coffee to go with their sandwiches was supplied by the the only charge being a contribution to the "coffee kitty." The also will make available for noon-hour recreation, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. a wide choice of games, including shuffle-board and badminton, scrabble and several decks of cards. When the weather is warm enough, lunch tables will be moved outdoors in the Y's garden adjoining the building at 303 Walnut avenue. Should sufficient interest be shown this coming week, the plans to continue Meet Eeat on a year-round basis.

0 0 0 The downtown office crowd will find a new place to spend noon hours iMonday through Friday this week when the YWCA gives a test run to Operation Meet 'n' Eat. Designed especially for those who bring their own lunch, this new program will offer business people, free of charge, an opportunity to relax and be sociable during their midday break. Among those who have expressed their enthusiasm for such an idea are the munching "musicians" above, shown during a trial lunch hour together Friday at the Y. Providing duet accompaniment for a little close harmony are I.arri Kocsis, left, and Betty Santos, both from the Pacific Telephone office. Standing, left to right, arc Jack Rossiter of the county surveyor's office; Nick Vom-volakis and Joyce Kiter, both from Pacific Telephone; Lloyd Woman's Club Its Vital Role In "Be a participant, not a spectator only," some 200 Santa Cruz Woman's club members were advised by their area vice president-at-large on the club's Federation Dav.

The speaker, Mrs. Ada Schick Wing of Santa Barbara, reminded the clubhouse audience Thursday that the rapid advancement of the world means greater responsibility for all of its citizens. "Her talk, entitled, "This Mad, Exciting World of Ours," also pointed up the power represented bv the 11,000.000 members of the international Federation of Women's clubs. Much of the world's "madness such as its serious problems of juvenile delinquency, growing rate of mental illness, traffic and safetv all could be helped great-Iv, according to Mrs. Wing, if the women's club members realized their federation goal of "self-education and selfless service." She began her remarks by paying tribute to the many activities of the local club as revealed by reports from the various committee chairmen during the business meeting.

Mrs. Ada Jane Leamy, second vice president of the Loma Prieta district of the federation, was general rhairman for the dav. She was assisted by Miss Frances Roberts and Mrs. H. C.

Hilton who had charge of the noon luncheon. Musical entertainment was provided by Rev. and Mrs. J. Bernard Corneliussen who sang selections from light operas.

Their piano accompanist was Mrs. Vera Mc-Kenna Clayton. During the business meeting, at which Mrs. Charles Bninjes, president, presided, the club voted to donate $25 to the Santa Cruz Symphony and to act as sponsor for Girl Scout Troop 51. Among the reports from chairmen of standing committees was that of Mrs.

Charles McLean, whose committee on legislation and government is new to the local club this year. She explained that the purpose of her committee is to encourage and assist women in taking an interest and in participating in government at all levels. Also reporting was Mrs. J. H.

of the county hospital committee, who suggested that the club's Christmas gift to the hospital this year be a collection of records for use in the musical therapy program provided by the County Hospital auxiliary. Mrs. R. I. Loveft of the fine arts committee called the attention of CUUIGAN SERVICE to select a carpet she did it by phone! again? 4 Do you approve of marriage generally as a satisfactory way of life? 5.

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There'll Be A Clown In Town County Seeking Social Workers The county is accepting appli BAILE' Salon of Beauty STAFF'S INTRODUCTORY ii if i Next Sunday A. NEW RADIANCE SIT Engoaamffnt Ring $173.00 Irlda'i Circlal 170 00 I 'TV VI sJwi cations for social worker trainees, the personnel department reported yesterday afternoon. Minimum requirements include graduation from college or four years in the last 15 years of full-time paid employment in welfare case work, professional nursing, school teaching, or the equivalent. The starting salary is $322 per month, with an opportunity for advancement to $338 per month after six months of employment. As trainee social workers, employes perform the routine aspects of investigating the eligibility and extent of need of applicants for public assistance, while being given on-the-job training for more responsible assignments.

Applications are being accepted at the county personnel office, 105 Soquel avenue, until November 25. 0 0 0 Hoi lister Gets Vegetable Seed Research Center (Special to the Sentinel) Hollister. One of the nation's largest vegetable seed research center organizations will located at the Rohnert Seed company here, Fred Rohnert told the Rotary club this week. The Rohnert company is associated with five other vegetable seed producers in a nation-wide marketing and reserach organization. Firms associated include Lawrence Robinson and Sons of Modesto; Claren Brown Seed company of San Juan Capistrano; the Wisconsin Cabbage Seed company, Racine, Sweet Corn Research company, Ontario, Idaho and Corenli Seed company, St.

Louis, Mo. The new center will be known as the Seed Research Specialists, Inc. with Rohnert serving as president. 0 SnOP IN THE GREATER SANTA CRUZ TRADING AREA OUARANTIID FOR PIRMANINT VALUI Ai im, to llrl, SEVENTEEN A busy schedule was keeping her in but she knew a way out, even while in At your convenience, our carpet counselor will come with an array of the latest fashions in Bigelow carpet for you to blend with your own scheme. The whole family can choose.

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