The Times from San Mateo, California • Page 39

The Times P26 Z2, 3 P39 Z1; Dec. 13, 1961 jDoes Child's Self image OFFICER STUDY The only way to make such a his picture is wrong, he'll make change is to change your behavior the change himself. toward him. See, and react, to bim as he Is not as he acts. It A two quart melon mold that isn't fey and it isn't very' fast Is filled with ice cream will need but when he begins to; see that three to four hours freezing time.

FORT BENNLNG, Ga. Array second Lt. James C. Flood Stand in Way of Progress? son of Mr. and Mrs.

James Flood, 331 road, Woodsidc, has completed the officer orientation may think of himself as slow be By LESLIE J. NASON, Ed.D. course at Fort Benning. The course is designed to fami cause someone has convinced lum that' he is. in some way, "slow ness" has become apart, his iarize newly eoaimissioned officers with theJEluties and responsibilities of sr.

"inEantry unit cotwnander. LL Flood entered the army last Professor of Education, University of Southern California You can read a child's image of himself in his actions. Jf he thinks he's it shovs. It he thinks he's afraid, it shows. Jf he thinks he's picture.

The student is' convinced September. Helss 29B1 graduate that he can't iearn easily rhay be! ot icaniora university. hiding a perfectly good rtiind be hind a false image. Someone or good it shows. If he thinks painted.

New viewpoints are added as we become convinced they should be. The slow worker can be led to discover that be can work faster: After he has demonstrated his new ability, to himself often enough to believe it, his picture begins to change. The student who is certain he can't learn is less certain when some teacher takes the trouble to demonstrate to him that he 'can. As the demonstrations continue, he begins to sec? himsctf, and his abilities, in a new light. It's far easier to help a child get the "right" picture in the first place than to change a "wrong" one.

bad oh how it does snow! is what he thinks he is and something has convinced iwn that he can't learn, and telling him that he's wrong won't help. It must be demonstrated. That pie every action is designed to prove it cure is of HIM, and he is most How did he got this way didn't do. it all alone; he had plenty of help. He developed his reluctant to chance it.

These patterns can He changed. Our personal image is constantly being renewed, retouched and re of himself in the same, way we all did, by seeing how others reacted to him. If those around him thought of him as a down FREE Parking that the way he That the way he. was' in their so that's, the way he. became in his TheBest JS TMi Ilk VML Rear ol Store own.

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