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21 THE KANSAS CITY STAR FRIDAY JULY 1 1955 CITES DIVORCE CAUSES gn Societ was served at the West Avery inn The reception was held at the home of the bride's parents The bride traveled in a powder blue dress with a corsage of white orchids The couple will be at home in Emmetsburg Ia Mate tie Tem EXPERT BELIEVES LAWS SHOULD BE MORE REALISTIC Lists Sick Society Adolescent Adults and Disharmonious Duo as Real Reasons for Dissolving Marriage MR and Mrs George William Miller will entertain with a small dinner tomorrow night On the terrace at their home Sts Answered by Dorothy Ricker Mrs Kelley has returned to her home in Austin Tex after visiting Mr and Mrs Fitzgerald and other friends in Kansas City Girl Asks Help On Party Plans but there is change also in many other once-accepted standards of behavior About the second set of causes Dr Christensen commented: "If I were to put my finger on one single chief cause for divorce it would be emotional immaturity in the individual Humans are biologically ready for marriage before they are socially and emotionally-mature enough The chronological age isn't so important in marriage it's emotional maturity that is needed An "emotionally mature" per- son is defined by Dr Christensen as one "who is able to meet normal adult situations and who controls and is responsible for his actions" In the realm of the third set of causes he proposed more research into what he called "pair-unity" Dr Christensen and his associates at Purdue have con- ducted some studies in this field but he thinks much is still unknown about personality traits which match or clash "but I believe divorce laws need to be more realistic We need to regard divorce as a symptom of trouble It won't solve the trouble to make the divorce process more difficult or easy The real cause of divorce is not the legal grounds hatched up to get by the law Neither is the real cause the things about which couples money children These disagreemertts are symptomatic of something deeper" The professor who has con- ducted several surveys on the relationships of the sexes listed three of what he calls "sets of real causes" for divorce: Sick society Adolescent adults Disharmonious duo On the first Dr Christensen noted that the world is in a period of transition in which values are in conflict Not only are ideas about marriage relationships changing from an autocratic form in which the man was czar to a more democratic one in which women are equals he said no Please give us some advice He is going away to Wyoming 'next week Do you think he is right or am Should we break "I am 14 years old and in the eighth grade I plan to give a dance party soon to which I will invite six girls and they will uarwe party soon to WOICII 1 win invite six girls and they will Mr and Mrs Fred McCandless St John Kas formerly of Kansas City announce the marriage of their daughter Katherine to Mr Ray Quackenbush son of Mr and Mrs Quackenbush DeWitt Neb The ceremony took place at 4 o'clock Sunday afternoon June 19 in the First Methodist churcit St John The couple Will be at home in DeWitt 4 cii i 1 -7 V-4 411Nts A''''''' 9 NI 4 -'s 1 -1- I -A t- :2 -1 33r HORTENSE MIMS West Lafayette Ind July 1 expert on family life today singled out "emotional immaturity" as the chief cause for divorce The reason given in divorce cases said Dr Harold Christensen seldom is the real one Dr Christensen chairman of the 'sociology department at Purdue university said that states "force" individuals into attempting "to prove their mates guilty of something -which the law recognizes as a cause for divorce" "I'm not a lawyer" he added Mr and Mrs Bundschu cf Independence have as guests their daughter Mrs Dedrick Childers and children Dedrick Childers jr daughter Leslie Childers and Charles Christian Childers of Anchorage Alaska Mr Childers accompanied them their home Tilson dinner to-right Gordon with a night at Country club in wedding anniversary was hostess today at the her guest Miss Marty Schroeder of Hinsdale ill who arrived today to spend the week end with her Sharing honor with Miss Schroeder was Miss Barbara Rice of Haverford Pa Miss Nancy Moore will have a luncheon Tuesday for Miss Rice ri CI nas returIWU to Mr and Mrs Joh will have a family right for the guests Mr and Mrs Eeaham entert buffet supper Tuesd the Kansas City Cou celebration of their rilversary Miss Olive Beahai ess at a luncheon University club for and has returned to Mr and Mrs John will have a family for the guests Mr and Mrs Beaham jr entertained buffet supper Tuesday the Kansas City celebration of their Miss Olive Beaham at a luncheon University club for TO LF CT OFFICERS TTHLNK your boy friend is very 1 wise to want you to date while invite their dates But I have Ihe is away But as I see it this two problems All the girls and doesn't necessarily mean you their dates will be eighth grad- will have to break up You can ers I would like to invite a ninth write to each other exchange grade boy but only one of the gifts on special occasions and girls knows him I had a date (double) with him once and 1 still consider each other a spe- cial girl and boy friend see him at school I'm wonder- This arrangement will leave ing if he would have a good time you both free to date without though since he doesn't know the other boys and girls feeling like a cheat Iou say you "My second problem is don't have time for other boys I plan to have three games and Well you really do it's just that give prizes to the winners Do you don't want to take the time you have any suggestions for Sharon My advice is to do as your boy prizes especially for the boys? I plan to spend about 75 centsfriend suggests spend time for each prize and want to get with youngsters your own age something appropriate I have You don't have to fall in love no brother to advise me about with someone else you these things" CAROL and if you do how much better with youngsters your own age You don't have to fall in love with someone else you and if you do how much better a to have it happen now than a RECENT Edward Grant Hartronft is the former Miss Gayle Howerton daughter of Mr and Mrs Harold Howerton The ceremony was read Saturday morning June 11 in the Grace and Holy Trinity cathedral Mr Hartronft is a son of Mr and Mrs A Hartronft of Lyons Kas (Strauss-Peyton i-- 22 Mr and Mrs JameS Me-Gilley will be hosts at a family buffet supper in the patio at their home on Sunday for Mrs James Kelly and sons James and John of Corpus Christi Tex who are guests at the Riviera while visiting Mrs Kelly's relatives Col and Mrs William I Brady Judge and Mrs Joseph Brady of Independence Mr and Mrs James Smart and Mr and Mrs Mc Gilley Legal Sorority Will Have Final Business Session Tomorrow Officers for the coming two years will be elected by the Kappa Beta Pi international legal sorority tomorrow morning 'during the final business session of its 5-day convention at the Hotel Muehlebach I At a dinner tomorrow night at the hotel the new officers will be installed by Mrs Ellen Janousek of Chicago grand dean During sessions yesterday and today the sixty-five members present have discussed and voted on changes and amendments to the sorority constitution A restriction against membership of women of the Negro race has been removed from the constitution A panel discussion was conducted by Mrs Margaret Fassig 3441 Agnes avenue at a dinner last night at the Milburn Country club Mrs Barbara Schopper Steele 1231 West Sixty-first street ter-'race was hostess at a luncheon for the group today at the Kansas City Club At a luncheon to-'morrow at the Hotel Muehle bach a memorial service will be held Convention activities Nvill be concluded Sunday with a steak dinner at the home of Miss Fair lee Tegarden 1902 Lake drive Independence Miss Tegarden is chairrn of the church The Rev John Coleman read the ceremony Mrs Margaret Schleicher was the organist The bride given in marriage by her father wore a gown of Chantilly lace and tulle over bridal satin fashioned with a lace and tulle over bridal satin fashioned with a THINK it would be all right couple of-y-efrom now! -I- to invite the ninth-grade boy to your party providing you This column is conducted for makee sure he meets the other teen-agers and their parents boys and girls and doesn't feelLetters can be answered through left out of the fun Of coursejthe column soon as it will be up to you as hostess time and space permit Write to be sure of this your problems to Dorothy Ricker As for checking care of The Star several stores it seems there (Released by the Register and Tribune Syn- are many more suitable prizes dicate 1955) at a dollar than at 75 cents For girls nail polish or stationery 1t (note paper) can be bought for (' 4 less than a dollar Costume jewelry bubble bath or dusting 110 powder would be about a dollar 4 Boy' prizes can be a ball point t4'30 4- pen mechanical pencil string 1 114 LACit'' tie "Hi I game (for one) tply tt I or a carton of candy mints The i --14 mints would do for a girl's prize too I think it would add 4 to the fun to have candy bars 5 for consolation prizes i Both Advised To Date Others couple of years from now! A- 0 Te71 tir t4 A44e: il 4 IL'' 1 VELVET FREEZE Half Gallon I 1 It 5 Gallons Saturday only flegular 85c Value UT 116 14 Flavors to Choose From Store Hours 8 A M-12 Midnight 500 EAST 31ST ONLY CONIES' SATURDAY JULY 2 ITO6PM All children must be accompanied by an adult 500 East 31st Only THICK Full 500 East 3Ist Only LTS Pint 4444 xi-A-N4-4001g" tiktix It- -4 3tsr AN 44c 0 Nt104404 1 NI 140'111it 4--- 4 't si 4---v veistr we 0-N 04 44 it q4410: 4 '1: 'k4rkieztkAVIIPtxix :42:04444 FREE -4---xfvfA's As :4: --ttiott 01 hP Es txve 0 xzfot: a 's I 1 VA vim E---a 0 ImpleDip 'v' k4r" 14sts'it- a ctr SATURDAY JULY 2 :43 AO ow 4' tItt Ck 4: Ice cream II I Itkoto mu tt 411741 1 1 All children st 4444 accompanied by an adult 01 tt iteeitit A ti 41 500 East 3 1 4 'AI Only "sf -4- GEs feaffitir -P I 's Limit 5 a I I Xe04 Saturday only Iftt04-fr Viftt Of VELVET FREEZE sr' 1 THICK IfIg 4 Hall Gallon axe flegular 85c Value tA NI4 AA tk LT' -4: 14 Flavors to Choose From It CI A $40 el Store Hours eittltete4 8 A M-12 Midnight ge INrx Vit-of3 1Az 500 EAST 31ST 4 Full std :) 111 Pint 1 Adrieittkxv 413 avqr 0 11 LY as A4 -vxkv-A4 imeip4e 500 East 31st Only -cettWiA' 4 4- I 4 44 4 9 I 1: t-11 4-4 I Comdr George Stanley Shar-ICnantlity rat of the navy and Mrs Sharrati ef Washington and rlington fitting basque bodice and long A Va are guests of Mr and Mrs lace sleeves that tapered to Lloyd Craig and Mr and Mrs points over the hands The lace bodice was styled with a yoke Donald Patterson Mrs Pat- terson entertained with a lunch- of tulle topped with a throat- hugging winged collar sprinkled eon at Milburn Country club for Mrs Sharrat Mr and Mrs Pat- with pearls and iridescent terson had guests at their home sequins The bouffant skirt last Friday for them Command- worn over hoop and crinoline er and Mrs Sharrat will leave featured wide inserts of the tomorrow to return to their scalloped Chantilly extending from the waist to hemline home Her veil of French illusion was Miss Bickley Smith who has held in place by a matching lace been spending several weeks bonnet edged with seed pearls vith her grandparents Mr and and she carried a bouquet of Mrs John a Pew returned yes-I carnations white orchids and terday to her home in SantaH stephanotis Barbara Calif I 'Airs Marilyn Brady matron Lieut John Pierson has ar- tof honor sister of the bride rived from San Juan a gown of yellow organdy where he was stationed I and taffeta She carried a colonialbouquet of green carna- xvith the navy to spend ten daysi REST FOR LORETTA 1 OLTNC "I have been going steady with a boy for eight months who is now in the air force Before he left he wanted to break up but changed his mind the next day He has been in basic training for eleven weeks and right now is home on a 10-day leave He thinks I should go out with other boys but I am about to graduate from high school and I have a lot to keep me homework and writing to him In fact I have no time for other boys I don't want to break up with him and I am happy the way thing are now I asked him If there was anyone else and it THE NEW PRESIDENT of the Harry Truman chapter of the National Secretaries association is Miss Margaret Thomas 710 West Maple street Independence Other officers are Miss Evalena Faunce vice-president Mrs Helen Welborn recording secretary Miss Marie Armour corresponding secretary and Miss Lavinia Knighton '1 Convalescence In Hospital Must Continue Three Weeks Oxnard Calif July Loretta Young actress probably will be confined to St John's hospital for three weeks more while recuperating from an operation to correct abdominal adhesions Her physician said Miss Young was extremely tired and underweight when she entered the hospital and that a disciplined convalescence had been designed for her The operation was performed Wednesday with his parents Mr and Mrs John Pierson before reporting for duty in Washington Mr and Mrs James Whit-ere announce the birth June 18 cf a son James Thomas Mrs Whitacre was Miss Georgia Jordan of Oklahoma City NOW BLUE BONNET MARGARINE IS i tions Miss Sheila Brady and Miss Nlargaret Helen Brady sisters of the bride wore gowns in orchid and yellow taffeta and carried bouquets of contrasting flowers The flower girl was Deborah Flaherty cousin of the bride and the rings were carried by Donald Glenn Elliott cousin of the bride Mr Milton Milligan acted as best man Groomsmen were Mr Robert Brady brother of the bride a Mr Byron Chambers Mr Leo Flaherty1 uncle of the bride and Mr Law' rence Hogan cousin of the bridegroom ushered The mother of the bride wore a gown of pink linen with white accessories and a corsage of 1blue asters The bridegroom's mother wore a gown of blue crepe with white accessories and corsage of pink asters After the ceremony a breakfast Mr and Mrs Sondergard tave returned friorn Dallas Tex Nvhere they attended the ma4- riage of their granddaughter 7iiss Brenda Lou Green daughter of Mr and Mrs Clarence Creen and Mr Sam Ed Rowland son of Mr and Mrs Ray Row lani Nthic1 took place June 3 at the Cox Memorial chapel of Highland Park Methodist church PLI 0 1 CD () 'p -ut-P-71 If You Like Colo TRY Vess Cherry Cola TODAY f1j2I Variety VESS AFwg: 414 il 4 4 otsigovir ::11 57 :0 ff 4 1--7-im ii it :17 dT4041 4 ti-: --'''''-'4 1Tr and Mrs John Gall of Whittier Calif announce the birth June 15 of a daughter Nancy Louis Mrs Gall is the former Miss Marian Stevenson daughter of Mr Charles Stevenson of Kansas City I MRS HARTMAN WcshingtonDCsays: "St Joseph Aspirin For Children is so easy to give My child likes the orange flavor I'm sure of accurate doitige" MRS HARTMAN WestungtonDCsays: "St Joseph Aspirin For elm 4 Children is so easy to kii oe' give My child likes the rlit orange flavor I'm sure of accurate doitige" Mrs Robert Shaw has returned from a visit in Los Angeles Altadena Long Beach and Palmdale Calif where she visited her son Mr Robert Shaw and family and other friends and relatives in June ST JOSEPH ASPIRIN FOR CHILDREN I 'SO 11 1 I 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