The South Bend Tribune from South Bend, Indiana • B7

CYANMAGENTAYELLOWBLACK EDITION 50R Young woman cowed by disapproval Dear Annie, a young woman with a degree in educa- tion.After spending several years as a student teacher and decided that I really want to remain in teach- ing.I know I should have switched majors in I hoped this would work out.I also was worried about what my family would think. These same well-meaning family members are now actively pushing me to accept a teaching position in a nearby small town.I went to the interview to please the entire was wishing I were somewhere else.I have told only my immediate family that going to turn down the job if offered. So what do I tell these other relatives about my job decision? How do I keep them off my back? already suffering health issues due to I know how much more I can take.I’m tempted to move out of the I love living in my town.Any help would be much appreciated. Ready to Run Away Dear Ready, You have to develop a stronger spine.Your career choices belong to you, and although some folks may be disappointed, their problem.Their disapproval should not determine your future. Practice sorry you are unhappy with my have to talk about the do you need to create ex- cuses.But you have to be able to withstand the will be temporary in any case.This,too, shall pass.

Dear Annie, Last son married a girl we adore.He and his new wife live in the same town.But ever since the barely speaks to us.It’s as if he started his new life and forgot about his old one. respond when I call or he never initiates contact.He treats his siblings the same way, which makes me sad.The only way we see him is when I invite them over for dinner.We got along fine when he lived at I understand how he has seemingly forgotten us.I know how to address this with him without coming across as rude. Lonely Mom Dear Mom, You are making this an emotional it have to be.Your son still loves and cares about you.Let us explain: When your son lived at saw him every contact require any effort from him. Now that he lives occur to him to call or he never had to think about it before.He is conditioned to let someone else do the work. how you fix him know you miss him and would love it if remember to call or text once or twice per week.

But understand that still have to do most of the work.Then make friends with his wife.Call her.Text her.Ask her to go shopping with you or meet you for lunch.But also be sure to give them their space. While they are both part of your are first and foremost a unit unto themselves. Renegade doctor William Rush (Tom Ellis) tries desperately to save a life under the worst of conditions in gritty drama, airing on Thursdays. MCT Photo By Luaine Lee McClatchy-Tribune News Service (MCT) BEVERLY Ever since he was actor Tom Ellis has entertained an have a twin sister and when we were born in Cardiff at the University of Wales hospital a big training hospital we were the heaviest twins ever born on in a noisy coffee bar here. was 9 ounces and my sister was 7 dad you were born there was a crowd of about 20 people about to take on board this astonishing he you kind of came out to an Ellis is shining in the medical arena once again.Only this time playing a renegade doctor in edgy drama Thursdays.

His physician makes Dr. House look like Mother Theresa with his unholy alliances and affection for drugs. Ellis may have been seeking attention since he was an he know it.The son of a music teacher and a was music that dominated his just something that I relish really.It make me ner- vous.It makes me com- fortable.It excites black leather jacket squeaking as he rests his elbow on the table. At played the to the French horn at 9 and continued all through high school to a high standard, he says. But at course of his life changed when he dropped a class he was planning on going to university and doing sports and rehabilitation.

Sports was a good part of my life as well I needed to do another subject to fill my criteria. English teacher came up and run the theater studies group. I need some boys in the group because got 12 girls and no boys.I said, stop right there. Twelve girls and one I went to a couple of these classes and enjoyed As it turned was more than the abundance of girls that attracted him.When his teacher presented an after-school won the lead and found he loved the process. The mother of his friend was a former ac- tress.She phoned Ellis the next day and told him he should pursue acting and offered to help him with auditions.She tutored him on how to prepare for the stringent drama school tryouts.To his was accepted at the Royal Scottish Academy of Music and Drama in Glasgow.

remember the day I got a letter in the post saying I got a place at drama school and my mum and dad bringing it into my bedroom.And it was very unlike them.They came in together and they were quite excited and they had this letter.It was a fat a rejection letter.And it had RSAMD on the front of it. They got something! got I opened we all cried togeth- er.It was He landed an agent and a job in the second term of his final year of school.At went swimmingly.But after two career began to been doing really well.I had my first dry period where I work for about six By then his mother had changed jobs and was managing a surgery in Bristol.Once medical world was beckoning and Ellis, to work for her as a receptionist. was answering phones and meeting and greeting people.It was quite funny because everyone used to assume when I answered the phone that I was a doctor. not used to a man answering the phone as the receptionist.People even let me get a word in edgeways.I’d is happening to give me a whole list of I just? not a I look back on those moments in my life and think those are the things that make you as an actor.Anything rooted in reality makes you a better accumulated acclaim in for the sitcom, his longed to work in America and made countless trips to the U.S.during pilot seasons. None of them came to fruition until pages want to do asked him to send an audition tape.

had a funny feeling about it.I going to make this tape and I think going to hear from lo and 24 get a call from Jonathan Levine (executive producer) saying he loved my tape and he wanted me to do the The most difficult part of all the fracture of his marriage to actress Tamzin Outhwaite last was really sighs.The father of three and says, a bittersweet experience being over here.It’s happening because I love it and this is what always wanted to do.But I seen my kids for months and hard.They’re back in London.As soon as I finish take a little vacation and have some The primetime soapy heartbreakers of our youth will congregate at Investigation Discovery for a retelling of real-life crimes as though they were directed by Aaron stars such dreamy actors as Kevin Knight and Nicole Eggert. Eggert in plays a who is entangled with a fraudulent husband on the show, which premieres Wednes- day.Eggert says in real life never been married, though she has two chil- dren.Biographies on the Internet insist that she was wed to Justin Herwick. Not married.And we look at each still friends to this where did they come up with the date (of the wedding)? It after my daughter was born. I know.I know where they come up with this says tried to inform them that the information is they constantly tell her incorrect. Ali Larter and Sean Bean assume the personae of two undercover agents who slip unnoticed into alien worlds on new Wednesday.Larter,whose most recent series was the too-quickly canceled this one offered her a unique opportunity.

of the really fun things about taking her on was this chance that I wanted to play a really strong also to be able to embrace her vulnerable says. I think a lot of times with female characters especially strong female characters asked to cut that side of them off.And one of the great things that I think David (Wilcox) did in writing this and developing this taking these really showing the pieces and the places that break the moments and really the toll it takes on them with the pressures of their job.And interesting to me to watch and interesting to really seeing where people Late-night talk shows Jimmy Kimmel: Andi Dorfman, Clayton Kershaw, Train Jimmy Fallon: Jessica Alba, Rob Riggle, Kings of Leon Seth Meyers: Meredith Vieira, Dane DeHaan, Magic Man Carson Daly: Randy Jason Sklar, Buffalo Killers Craig Ferguson: Jeff Foxworthy, The Colourist David Letterman: Eric Stonestreet, Brody Dalle Conan Damon Wayans Ali Larter, Lake Street Dive Welsh actor Ellis gets U.S.shot with TUESDAY EVENING, AUGUST 12 8 NBC WNDU WMAQ Food Fighters An IT manager challenges Duff Goldman. (N) (CC) Got Talent Finals Twelve acts perform for the judges. (N) (Live) (CC) CBS WSBT WBBM NCIS Gibbs must attend to family matters. (CC) (DVS) NCIS: Los Angeles the A gang executes an undercover agent.

(CC) (DVS) (:01) Person of Interest A lawyer may have orchestrated a murder. (CC) SBT2 StrokeSteve HarveyDr. Phil (CC) NewsComics ABC WBND Extreme Weight Loss Chris helps Sara lose weight. (N) (CC) (CC) FOX WSJV WFLD Family Guy Peter discovers he has a vestigial twin. Brooklyn Nine- Nine A mandatory training course.

New Girl Nick and Jess confront some truths. The Mindy Project Like a (CC) (DVS) (28) News (N) (32) Fox Chicago News at Nine Jeff Herndon and Dawn Hasbrouck. (N) WTTW Chicago TonightTina Fey: The Mark Twain Prize (CC) Check, Please (16.2) WNDU2 Bewitched (CC) Bewitched (CC) All in the Family (CC) All in the Family (CC) Sanford SonSanford Son (28.2) WSJV2 Family RecipeFood RushSteven and Chris (CC) Paid ProgramPaid Program WNIT Daniel Stand Beside Me (CC) Bee Gees: One Night Only Las Vegas concert. (34.2) WNIT2 Daniel Stand Beside Me (CC) Bee Gees: One Night Only Las Vegas concert. WCWW Arrow Slade makes a move.

Supernatural NewsSeinfeld (CC) (25.2) WCWW2 The Target (2002) Christopher Lambert, Dennis Hopper. (CC) The Woods (2005) (CC) (46.2) WHME2 Lester SumrallDisaster ReliefThe Harvest ShowPlace for MiraJ. Robison WGN-A (C) cable local (C) (7:30) What Lies Beneath (2000) Harrison Ford. Arrow Slade makes a move. (CC) Supernatural Crowley falls off the wagon.

(CC) (C) MLB Baseball Chicago White Sox at San Francisco Giants. MLB Baseball Chicago White Sox at San Francisco Giants. WHME Lester SumrallPartnersThe Harvest Show (CC) Paid ProgramJoyce Meyer (57.2) WBND2 IsleHappy DaysHogan HeroesWelcome BackHoneymoonersHoneymooners WMYS Bones (CC) Bones Girl in the Law Order: SVU Storage WarsStorage WarsStorage WarsStorage WarsBrandi-JarrodCement Heads AMC Fast and Furious-Drift4th and Loud (N) (CC) 4th and Loud (CC) ANPL Kentucky (CC) BET (7:00) Why Did I Get Married? (2007) Tyler Perry. (CC) Apollo Live (N) (CC) BRAVO DeckThe Singles Project CMDY (7:57) Tosh.0: Eat It! A two hour block of episodes. (N) Drunk HistoryNathan for You CMTV Steve Broken Skull (:10) Steve Broken Skull ChallengeSteve CNBC Shark Tank (CC) Shark Tank (CC) Restaurant Startup (N) CNN Anderson Cooper 360 (N) (CC) CNN Special Report (N) CNN Tonight (N) (Live) DISC Monster HammerAlien Sharks: Lair of the Mega Shark DISN Jessie (CC) Dog With Blog 16 Wishes (2010) Debby Ryan.

(CC) Dog With Blog Botched A Botched Botched Gone FAM Pretty Little Liars Dark Chasing Life Pretty Little Liars Dark FOOD Chopped on ChoppedChopped (N) FXNEWS The Factor (N) (CC) The Kelly File (N) Hannity (N) FX (6:30) Transformers: Dark of the Moon (2011) Tyrant the New HALL The Waltons Career The MiddleThe MiddleThe MiddleThe Middle HGTV Flip or FlopFlip or FlopFlip or FlopFlip or FlopHouse HuntersHunters HIST Counting CarsCounting CarsCounting CarsCounting CarsDark HorseDark Horse LIFE Dance Moms (N) (CC) Dance Moms (N) (CC) Raising AsiaRaising Asia MSNBC All In With Chris Hayes (N) The Rachel Maddow Show (N) The Last Word NICK Full HouseFull HouseFull HouseFull HouseFull HouseFull House OXY Bad Girls Club: Chicago (N) Sisterhood of Hip HopSisterhood of Hip Hop SPIKE Cops (CC) Cops (CC) Cops (CC) Cops (CC) Cops (CC) Cops (CC) SYFY Face Off (CC) Face Off (N) Wil WheatonWil Wheaton TBS Big BangBig BangBig BangBig BangSullivan SonBig Bang TCM Gentleman Jim (1942) Errol Flynn, Alexis Smith. (CC) Any Number Can Play TLC Next Great Baker (CC) Next Great Baker (N) (CC) To Be Announced TNT Rizzoli Isles Rizzoli Isles (N) (CC) (:01) Perception (N) TOON King of the HillKing of the HillClevelandClevelandAmerican DadAmerican Dad TRAVEL Bizarre Foods America (CC) Mega RV Countdown (CC) Food Paradise (N) (CC) TRUTV truTV Top FunniestImp. JokersImp. JokersMotor City Masters (N) TVL Candid Camera (N) (CC) Hot, ClevelandKingKingKing USA Law Order: SVURoyal Pains (N) (CC) (DVS) (:01) Covert Affairs BIGTEN (7:00) B1G Football ReplayBTN LiveB1G Football CSC MLB Baseball Milwaukee Brewers at Chicago Cubs. (N) (Live) Cubs Post.

ESPN 2014 World Series of Poker2014 World Series of PokerSportsCenter Special (N) ESPN2 SoftballSportsCenterLittle League Softball GOLF Greatest Rounds (N) Mailbox KATHY MITCHELL AND MARCY SUGAR ((NN)) denotes new show. DDaaiillyy For a full guide to the daytime listings, see TV Tribune. OOnnlliinnee To create your custom TV guide, go online to TVTONIGHT ALL TIMES EASTERN DAYLIGHT ENTERTAINMENTSouth Bend TRIBUNE I Tuesday, August 12, 2014 I B7 Get breaking news and sports scores sent to your cell phone. Sign up at www.southbendtribune. service is free from The Tribune, but standard carrier fees apply.

TEXT ALERTS.