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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 1919 THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 1919 Marriage Will When Husbands felmquish Control the Pockefbobk Theories or gilbert cMnax. Novelist S8 Mtrrtage Is the Most Lop-of AW Contracts; Insfead'of Wtfiage Art Besf nomicully Possible. 4 By Marguerite Mobcw Marshall V- OiitAL lilt. to thm Tnm rablflaT rtW janr'TrW Xnulti 'ARRIAOE, 11 conducted a nnu tit ttn "Marriage ohould be a trurt for the other, and Dame, true wedded "The husband who nity is ufuaiiy standing upon ma vanity. bb a charming! thing, but It la an execedjngly dan porous basis for matrimonial happiness.

The greatest tyranny Is tba husband's tyranny of ths pockotbook. "When marriage from a thins; of joy feetjeesesa thins; of habit. It Is usually tMworaaa who Is to blame. rBorly marriages aro beat and they OsNMAJ 'nfeouid be mode economically. posstM so with the oWa P' their Instincts may follow them." Gilbert Cannaa, author of "Pink Hoses," Mummery" and "The Anat-esar ofcMtety," i dlscussln mar He has a whole chapter on that ts Uio lost book.

Inst 'there Tira snap 'shots' of or' pot cfeeta at marriage all through the pcelkht absorbing rcallstlo aov $Ut which in" the lost few years have. lvulal.ra',dlsUnotlvo place Hagland'a younrer rroUD of writers'. Me tata recently arrived In NswJ itua miu monaer, diuq eyea ywang: man ox letters, wao iooks cx- oatly like mv ldsa. of an' Rmrllah sWfOa thinks most UNLIKKae. Am was marriage as It Is and ssarnue as it xnlrhl bo that we talked, la a loor.

rather dusky New xr arawing room oa mat 17 Brireeu TJmi with manisjre." af- wpsed lift Cannan, "the feature of It Mi'RlflBg ua the most trouble se4day Is the persistence of the old tMHet, that It makes two people one." 1 had to Interrupt with the old Asiierlcaa" story -now to him of the Husband, who said. "My wifo and are ane-and I'm the onol" "That always has been the dim cuKy," he commented. "Marriage has 'Bees, tne most lopsided or all con' tracts, because woman has been re sarded as property instead of as feueaaa being. The central Ideal of mfcrrlage, the natural mercer of two Uvea to create a holy etate creator maa eitner. is a mignty numan prtn dple.

To talk of getting alone with out marriage Is pure bunk. It li th traditions and conditions which must i Bcnangca. "As It is now the Institution fro quently works out Into a game of bluff for every one concerned. Thn wXe' bluffs her husband, pretending agreement with every Idea and preju-dlo of Ms, offering a pole reflection or nis own mina." ttko -yes, near method," I op n'eraonally, I believe that when the last Trump sounds for the averaga married woman sho will respond ftiHoroaucaiiy, -xes. aearr" rTho husband bluffs his wife," con tlaued Mr.

Cannan. "bis manlfesta tloas affection resulting from hitblt rather than genuine feeling, Uotb oomome to bluff the children, th servants and the world at largo an to their mutual happiness and content. "The economic dependence of a wife off Her busband tends to inako her hypocrite and him a tyrant. In fact, the husbaud's control of the socket bAoU In tlio worst example of tyranny wf bavo left in modern life. On tbo owier hand, to place on him all the cewnoir.io nurdens oi a modern fara llf Is unfair to him.

lie Is exhausted tbe struggle and he docs not do Dost worK. The state which Is tya talklns- about its need for iiaren snouia endow motherhood. sat is the use of glvinir children i -schooling from tlx to slstcen, If attention Is paid to them during yuan oi Ills vlJ-JMate paymenu to mothers-uch wgwna, t-rsnce coun urwg tne wort-would In ---X-EV-C sj Aipjnr ad 1 uCsAsKw uajyi rWt9 TSKSaaaaa-a-i-aaaaaaa-, ABfJ-aaaaata-f Be Successful 'A Wjt, i it fl? at ptewmt. Is 'often nothing but rtho husbajid And wife each trustee both custodians of that moat glorious I lore. thinks ho Is standing upon jhla dig "A woman's maternal affection for her husband mar children and give marriage a for bet ter chance than It baa at present of success.

The young might marry. At an aire when, instincts aro atronircst and surest men and women, would bo xroe io ioiiow mem ana rnaxe meal unions. Mow, economically -Dcaklnir. we put a premium on splnsterhood and bachelorhood, and some of our most promising members of socloty iWaeto fifteen or 'twenty years and havo to undo a lot of mistakes before thoy find their mates." out mt. cannan poiicvee indolence Is aa bad for the married as too mudh drudgery.

"A man and woman' who hara noth ing to do but love each other oan be happy together for not more than a year or a year and a hair," he declared. "Tncn, to perfect their union, work must tako the place of nature's flagging energy. Against It ebb thoy must dAend themselves and their love by the stimulus of that great human Interest, work. The reason why the marriages of tho rich so often and unhappily la because neither man nor woman has a constructive task perform," I reminded Mr. Cannan of a nartlo.

ularly true and beautiful remark ho bos put in of one of his heroes "The whole duty of man Is to keep the flame alight In woman." "And that holds true the other way around," he commented quickly. "When marriage a matter of habit stnd money, Instead of a thing ray. i consider tno woman la largely reapeaelbte. 6he Is the source specially her 6tPrrtP her! BusDona nna in ner WOMAN! instead7 6f a tikln iv shadow of. himself." "Dd you' tninx jealousy should or can be eliminated, from marriage I asked.

'It has 'so 'place there." he reolled: "It Is a relic of the conception of wotnartjos piece of 'ppjity. WJion a man uiinu no is aianuing upon his as a husband, what ha stands upon Is -usually hts vanity. If two pjrnons aro In, loyo pnofnlLs outjior love; that One Is not to blamo Itko Urt resDomdhla the flame alight. -ThhrUppilos to euntr mus-or wqbhui, in tba case pf a. womah It Is.

frequently, that iniHK, 1110 mniornai reeling she ha-for "her husbuhd. Which endangers her happlnoss. The flame In htr dies downr7nd, hd seeks It an- th vpmant i "In true tharrlaifflL" corfpiiiJrwf' if Cannon earnestly, "a man 'ahd woman find the. most Tavt" ui uiajii mm icnu a. growing ming greater trnin eiu tnem ot Feathers kki.

ii The riew-itfoots fsmlnlns mlllJn-J 'ry; .1 nne lonn fsather orlalnsUd1 by London wom'erft such oi one sees' the esp of His 8stano Majstty IX I I I i I 'dtassssssssssssssssssas-EZXT -assSSki. Ths; Union for Con-Wr' t'ntsd Husbands Wfy Has Protested Wk3 Against THIs Feml-nine Be-B csjs Th Tba Long WiL for Thslr Poikst jTAe 1525 Forward Pass Revolutionizes Football; a'k All Important Victories This Season Gained by Use ofi Pass; the Style Ti? Decigice Play iVoira ribjx. DoeaiNoL Call Jot Brawn and Beef; Quickness Plus Skill in Burl-ing the Pigskin Turns Seeming Defeat Into a Whirlwind Victory. By Will B. Johnstone.

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paw crou fe'W (t Mt Vk ittnin. xsvri4). I tlnct fclnta to throw tbo opposing IN the eld days of football, when team out of position. First tbe "athletes" were all built llko back (Abbott) dashes madly at tho 'truck' horses, only men built like line with all tho earmarks of a crosa-lumborjocka or Jena Wlllards could buck. As tbe defense rushes to the make the teams.

The game was no point of attack Abbott turns and place- for a beautifully proportioned Greek Ideal of an athlete, In other words. In those days If the giants could plough for Ave yards In throo downs, the survival -of tho fattest won out Th6 Spectators Incidentally didn't seo I l'l undor the new rules of. an iVipcn fexCme," 4cn yards roust be galled In fopx, downs and unless one team completely outclasses unothcr, it Is dltilmlt to do. Therefore, tho football solons Introduced the for ward pass, which slowly but surely is revolutionizing the stupid old gamo of by-gone days and bringing Into tho gamo a perfect typo' of athlcto; com bining not only strength but grace, agility: speed, and above all brains of the smartest kind. The gamo 1 one of skill rather than bruto farce and Its popularity Is Increased thereby.

Tho forward passing game has de veloped a brand new strategy In at tack and tne football fans havo watch ed It progress this season with lively Intcrcrt. Every attempt at the forward pass Is bound to electrify the stands and, when successfully executed brings down tho house as no other play. Almost every Important game this season has been won by the forward pass or it lias been the docldlng factor. Hyruct'so upset thn unboatcn I'ltt team with It. Colgate triumphed over Princeton by this moans and Dnrtiuouth worked It against Cornell, and so on.

Considerable Ingenuity has been usod by tho coaches In devising for ward pusses. Many are, so cunning, and deceptive as to defy analysis by opponents, and then tho game Is won or dofeat turned into victory in flash, all nf which adds suspenses and dramatic Interest up to the last play. To Coach O'Neill of Byracuso must go the palm for dovtslng the most spoctacular ana successful for ward pass 'of the Cleverly conceived, though it is, it requires hUCh stars as Ackley, Erwlg und vBohwarUer to execute It properly. Willi too uccuruuy ul ui catcher 'throwing to second. Game, Which yu i v-itiMj.

Mart" tH" rZ PAVTMO i-nt auu-Tsw A P00UIAR.0 VAti li THApwAi arid Is not a alow lob that can easily bo intercepted. Ao aeon by tbe diagram, O'Neill's uopcuua upui. iwu uw- Your Sweethearts' Revealed by Their Characteristics CopHUht, llll, br Th. rrwt rabUihluj Below la nlven the analvala of and women who desire to learn ELLA M. H.

Insufficient specimen Indicates success. Also great spender. M. M. Wi Brooklyn Indications all favorable.

As nature Is domestic, will probably change occupation. Q. Y. Brooklyn Wby do you wish to win any oho so careless and unstable? Indications aro he is papable of deception, and absolutely unapprcclatlve of your devotion. Draco up, and bo more Independent If you really want this shirtless person.

A. E. Kind enough, but self-cen tred. Indications aro success If health Is good. Iocs not appear overly robust Saving.

Trlflo narrow-minded. Deliberate about, True husband, but no tender-ntss. Not terribly sociable. VALERIE M. Suspicious.

Some what affectionate, but narrow In sorno things. Obstinate. Without being a really frank nature, not Insin cere. Selfish, Saving. Tendency to slightly procrastinate.

Jpulous, Wlthul lovable. F. J. A. Worth friendship.

Curi ous. Diplomatically communicative, Fluency of thought. Not exactly in sincere, but type none too serious In affections. Natural organizer, but hampered at times by itondenoy to procrastinate. Somewhat careless, yet observant C.

W. MASS florno exaggeration Tactful. Some literary taste. Kindly but not demonstrative. At times se Tendency to be imposed upon.

Imaginative. Qood-naturcd Ability to mako good. Should bo iiipiu punctual. E. Irving husband.

De pendable. Simple tastes. Fair alio cess. K. T.

Frank. Detailed. Analy Haul illl Woll Pass Makes for Open- Pleases Spectators VTUS pegs the ball to Ackley, who has laid back waiting for a short throw from Abbott when be has reached tho opposing tacklcrs. Then comca tho second feint. Ackley receives the ball from Abbott and continues around tho end In tho aame direction as tho first feint.

What cagey opponent are not deceived by the llrst feint are trlckod by tbe second ono. As they Handwriting, Co. Th Now Tock Xrcalss Wodd.) tha liandwrltinci sent In by men more about their sweethearts balanced Type that enjoys life in moderation. Saving. Deliberate about marriage.

Not impulsive, cleanliness. Not susceptible. M. E. 8.

Not thoughtless, but easy going. Kindly but not overgonorous. Very neat I'hlcgmatlo type, not susceptible. LUtle force. Hard to really know.

Not self-sacrificing, nor Intellectual. Will grow physically heavy. Q. d- Kindly, but cold. Typo that head rules.

Capable houao l.ee do r. Not In' kny sense tempera mental. Not especially ambitious, but conscious as to duty. Would be faith fuL T. J.

You are somewhat lasy, which you havo plenty of will power to overcome. To bocomo a successful aceountunt you wilt have to be more careful and systematic. You lack both theso qualities badly. You aro unseflsh. ANNA 8uffrn, N.

Y. 9omo what reserved, und undemonstrative. Self conscious. Provocatively unrc sponslve. Not sufficient affection to count upon as friend in need.

Beneath mild mannors. a will of iron, Somewhat clannish and unsociable. gambler. Q. R.

L. She Is honest and sincere Also very Independent and though Kindly will not brooic interference. would mane a gooa wire, though somewhat extravairant well bal anced head, which controls her heart noi uiriauouB. JULIA A.i Brooklyn. The maklne of a thorough man of the world.

Well noised, intelligently ambitious, re quiring more than money making In his Kindly, but reserved. Never commits himself, so you can consider what ne says sincere Kcquirea utmost tnet In handllnir. lie cheer- fulr entertJinTng, aUbtlo. NeVcr demonstrative, nor openly Indifferent. Above all never dlsousa attcaUaua of a later sosa.

wiia ua, HAS.VAS.JV tWASo-pff-niAT-40E- WAV TO PW-M MyMV When Players of Teams Are Numbered the Spectators in Grand Stands Are Better Able to Grasp the Intricacies, of the Lightning Forward Pass. speed to Intercept Ackley they are completely drawn out of position. Meanwhile the speedy Erwlg, the moat dannrr jus man on tho Syracuse i team. own the field unnoticed and in to rccolve tho for ward pass from Ackley when he Is headed off Anally out on tho end to which ho hns drawn all tho opposing team. Then Is when Ackley pitches the ball diagonally across tho Held to Erwlg, who has a clear field to score.

New Yorkers saw this play done llko clockwork against Rutgers this Bcason. Last week nt tho Horvard-Prlnce- ton gamo both teams made their touchdowns with tho passing came. Princeton scored ly by brilliant use of the forward pass, which worked without hjtoh, and finally put tho ball over Harvard's goal line with a double pass. Strobing, tho Princeton mainstay at quarter, start, od a falco end run, and when beaded oft tossed tho ball back to tho elusive Trimble, who continued on around tho dazed Harvard tacklers to a touchdown. In the old days' tbo booty giants used to try this play with Ill-success, but tho lighter backs of to-day mako It simple as child's play.

Harvard's forward pass that saved their bacon In the last minute of this gamo was well masked. They foolod Princeton into expeotlng a centra buck, and they piled up with artistic effoct Then, when tho Princeton team wero bunched to stop this feint, Murray, tbo Harvard Captain, sneaked straight back out of the bunch pegged a forward pass to Casey, tbo speediest man In the East to-day, who had Joined In the feint at centre and then slipped through to rccelvo the peg from Murray. Casey carried the ball on this play to a po sition where Harvard could try an other clever forward pass that saved them from tho sting of an Ignomlnl ous defeat 1-m. 1 1, 1ll.il i from a running attack, which may bo a tackle drive in effect and end In a forward peg. This ruined Cornoll at the Polo rounds this season.

Tho college tacticians aro all dolv1 lug into tho possibilities of tho pass Ing game, and new and startling schemes are coming to light at every game. This Is a treat to the spectators, and whon the authorities Yale, Prince ton Harvard finally, wldo.to number their" players' tho game will perfect from the viewpoint of tbo thmtsands that fiuiuptt 1 .1 Types of Married Folk? We All Know NO. 10. THE WORKERS. Whether the Wife Helps to Swell the Money Bag, or Aids in Saving What He Provides, She Is the True Worker.

By Fay Stevenson CorrrUHt. 1111, bj Th. Pitw robUifclar Co. IDu Rfr Tor imnlnf WorliL) OP all tho types of married folk, we all know the most modern, twentieth century couplo are THE WORKERS. If It wcto possible to toko a census of.

Uio different types of couples all' over tho world most likely tho workers would outnumber any other types. And most. likely, if such a census were possible, they would also' hold a record as being tho happiest married coup lea. This Is an ago whcVo husband and who must both work to getho most out of their lives, an ago when the wife Is either fol- lowing out her own girlhood ambitions or elso taking an active ptaco In her household. It makes no difference whether a woman Is a doctor, a lawyer, a Judgo (with apologies, to our one and only Judgo at present, Jean Norrls), an artist, an actress, a writer or manager of her own household, as long as Ishe works and has a goal to reach.

Dut certain It Is that tho happiest married women are women who aro tho workers In 'life, whether professionally or domestically Inclined. To-day tho wife frequently earns as much as her husband. And In nlno cases out of ten It she doesn't actually earn a salary she saves his by actually running the household or superintending conditions. Business opportunities, professions and political ambitions havo claimed ono-thlrd of our women's tlmo, while tho H. of and lack of servants havo claimed tho other two-thirds.

Mora and moro.aro wives beginning to see that marriage should not bo allowed to cut thorn off from their life work, that a woman does not marry a man lust' to be "supported," that a husband has -Just as muoh right to expect that sho Is going to superintend the running of his household as sho has to expect him to bring homo a substantial income This is an ago when woman must bo professional or domjOslCj. The mero. fact that she. bos won'iT'wcddfnE' ring does not entitle her to nn-easy -chair, a novel and a box of bonbons. Such marriages never bring happiness to husband or wife.

Thoi workers, the husband and wife who each luivo a llfo work, are never bored, never at a loss io emeriain each other, never dissatisfied with life. Each has a goal, a certuln aim. an Interest In llfo which Increases from day to day. When they do get nn mfAnl rf wnflr Anil tmrfkthGP "JC" ZuZ I11U1I IIUWD Mill, uitbtva and their work that every, moment is niivn-iura a pleasure. The workers get so much moro out of their lives than tho pleasure seekers.

Pleasure must bo constantly sought, but the husband and wife who nr nnnh followlnc out a career have found a call and ono which grows moro interesting every uay. two ar me ii iiiuichi muriivu cLmiuva I know may bo classed among tho workers. Tho first couplo I refer to have been wedded uver twenty years and had ample opportunity to test their domestic rollclty. Tho hns- i oanu is a. uwuiich a doctor and autnor or many wouny books.

Every day finds her at hcr offlco from 9 In tho morning until 5 In the evening. Many evenings sho is culled away from tho comfortable fireside and companionship of hcr husband, but still she is happy in her llfo svork, and tho evenings that aro their own moan doubly as much to this couplo. Two beautiful children hnvo been born to them and although they not count upon seven eve nings a week of family circle gather ings, tho evenings they do remember will always bo pleasant ones. "Dick and I have never had time Always Room 'for One More. rT Is very easy to mako an extra scat In the seven-passenger car for the eighth person, as shown In tho sketch from Illustrated World, it consists of a board to lit In between two folding Beats.

If this board Is neatly made and caro taken In applying the upholstering it will appear to be a pari oi inu car. 1 AN UPHOLSTERED SEAT TO FIT IN BETWEEN TWO FOLDING 8EAT8 FOR AN EXTRA PA8-8ENQER. The extra sout can bu curricd'ln the Innlhnrfnr ttinnt nnvwhero on il seven. nassenirer cur whero It will be ready I Uw tha extra pass eager at aay Urns. flu "1 for tho ordinary bickerings of married life," this doctor-wlfo once told me.

"Our tlmo together has always been llko a Joyous vacation, a regular merrymaking or a holiday festivity. Llfo to Ma has never grown stalo, wo have never bored each other or felt that the sparkle and romance of llfo hns. worn, off. When we meet after a hard day's work, or sometimes even a fortnight of work for me, we aro llko two Joyous children released from school. Each boa had so many Interesting experiences that thoro Is no end to our conversation and tho best of It all Is wo have each done exactly the things we Intended to do In llfo.

Marriage to us has not been a stumbling block but rather an inspiration. 'If I hadn't married you I might havo done so and so," Is an unheard-of taunt in our home. In fact there aro po taunts at all; for common bickerings and 'I told you so's do not enter Into the lives of couples who each havo a life work." Tho second courjle I referred to may bo classed among the workers, although the wife Is thoroughly domestic and has nq "career" outside of her own homo. When sho married her husband some ten years ago he was a hard, working Ilttlo bank clerk and they had to live in a very modest Uttle apartment. Cut Mrs.

Worker bcllovod in making tho most of her conditions. Things wero cheap in thoso days and servants aplenty, but oho ponsiUercd her husband'o salary, and decided to holp him all sho Thoro was no Mr. Hoover to instruct her not to wosto food, no roo-Ipes about one-egged cak6s and thrift, but this Ilttlo lady camo from good old New England stock and she thoroughly believed that "a penny saved is a penny earned," therefore sho added and multiplied to her husband'a weekly allowanco to run tho home, worked and planned and schemed with all tho abyity of a financier. That muu who was just as much nf worki worker and Just as much of a busl- who XPlP UIIU WUIiUI ITU IU 0 IU ZtU) morning until 6 at night No doubt i 8 18 J'a? iust as tlrod at night but 8h0 had hcr rowardt A tlmo "came when her husband needed money, one of thoso "chances In a lifetime;" a 'P1 XlrTXlyVn and save, he hail tho rcniilrnd iim ability to appreciate tho value, of a 4L ib iiLiti inn iip-ti rnr mv nri rswm dollar and her eagerness to run' our iiuuiu norm Hamn nrinrmin nm business Iioubo. accounting for every SAV No doubt tho rft il nitmhfu.

rf hsbanilH who foel tho aamo way ku. av.i.', nuu rcany uo aim for a certain goal and uuvu uuiinuo aniouion. ao ret urcnt deal out of their married lives. No ono can bo happy without a certain amount of work or a motive In his life, and I doubt If couples get the full amount of their marled llfo unless tho husband and wife are both, workers. GOING DOWN! Oayjrlrht.

1010, brTTi rrtxt PuMuMns Oo. (Tho Nw York Etmlni World.) DEAR ESVERYRODY: Did you over alt down and wonder what Is the matter with YOU? Did you over ask yourself the difference between you (who ride homo in tho subway every day) and tho other fellow (who is driven home In his own car)? The difference Is a long, ugly word IiAZINBSS. Laziness is of two klndsr Mental lfrzlnoss and physical laziness. Mental laziness consists in thinking thoughts that will not, cannot PRODUCE. Analyze your thoughts.

"I can seo mysolf getting a ralne." Excellent thought, but put.lt Into action. Tho man in the automobile Is not surprised at riding home. Ho always KNEW ho would have a car and ho rot it, Don't bo afraid to ask yourself: "Am I lazyr If tho an-swer Is "No!" do nol rmtd this again. If "Yes!" read It until you "wuUo up!" Sincerely, ALVA UFA SMITH. I.

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