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PAGE EIGHT: -THE WINDSOR DAILY STAR, WIDSOR, ONTARIO, SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 5, Both Wives and Husbands Are To Blame When They Disagree Married at St. Joachim Girl Who Argued Fresh From the Kitchen 3L Mary Moore Close to Disaster Marriage Almost on Rocks, But Failing to Antagonize No Sugar In These Tasty Confections for Six Weeks Worked Cure, Says Dorothy.Dix I ear MISS DIX Recently my ure. Denies herself all companionship except mine. I have done all in my daughter came home to me saying that she and her husband could not get along together and had decided to power to prove to Mother that I am grateful for her devotion, although I Saccharin Sweetener For Pichles QUESTION: I have been a reader of your page for quite some time now and have found many new and helpful idpas, especially now that sugar is rationed. I was wondering if you could help me in my problems, as we are not allowed sugar for pickles and pickiing time is here.

I was wondering what amount of saccharin one would use to equal one cup of sugar. As a girl I have eaten saccharin-made pickles and always enjoyed them, but have no way of getting the recipe. Nil I a if rt 'I 'tit I have never demanded or wanted her to sacrifice herself for me. get a divorce. I knew he was a good man and that they really loved each ether, so I told her to go back to him nd try the experiment for six weeks cf doing whatever he told her to do However, now I am in love with a very fine man who is all I could ask for in a husband and I want to marry him.

But Mother bitterly opposes my nd not antagonizing him in any way marriage and says that if I should marry him and leave her it would kill her. She says that as she has given up her life for me I should give up my life for her. Is it my duty to do I said: "If at the end of that time you still find that you can't get along together, come back home with the babies and I will provide for you." She took my advice and before the six weeks were out they were perfectly Aim 1 this? What should I do? FRANCES, happy and harmonious and have been so ever since. I think that if the wife ANSWER Go on and marry your changes her attitude toward her hus man. It won't kill your mother.

After she has had hysterics all over the band he will often change his toward A friend of mine with her brood of three, and with my brood of two, are sharing a cottage at the lake, and the experiments I am trying, using syrup in place of sugar, have the most welcome receptions anyone could hope for, from these five lusty youngsters. When I was working on the tapioca pudding suddenly I heard a whoop from behind, "Fish eys! Fish eyes! Betty, we're having fish eyes for dessert!" And from Betty, Mum, Emem's making fish eyes pudding!" I'm a pushover for that kind of encouragement. I'd work in the kitchen all day and even miss my cherished daily swim and sunbath if I thought I'd get results that echo to the next cottage. Many of you have noticed that dates, gelatine, figs, bananas, nuts (other than peanuts) and many other common but imported foods have been studiously avoided in my recipes in the past year or so. Tapioca is also imported, but grocery wholesalers tell me there is a plentiful supply still on hand and since the combination of tapioca and white corn syrup is a "natural" I am yielding to temptation and printing the peach tapioca recipe I've worked out.

You can use up what tapioca you have on hand and what you can buy while it lasts. It's a good des-s nutritious, economical arid "tasty" (to quote Pete). place and reproached you with ingrati her. Alwavs if thev love each other, I am enclosing my favorite recipe for sweet pickles, and would you be so kind as to answer this as soon as possible, as I will be doing my pickles within the next week or ten days. Also let me know the amount of saccharin that equals one cup so I could use it in other pickles.

I know saccharin is so much sweeter than sugar but have no way of telling just how much. Thanking you for your kind assistance, Mrs. W. H. Baker.

tude she will settle down to normalcy, and by the time the first grandbaby arrives she will think she made the and the great majority of married peo pie do love each other. A MOTHER. match. ANSWER You are a wise woman to have given such counsel to your Because your mother is neurotic is ill no reason for you to be. In fact, it daughter.

Would makes it all the more important that you should live in a cheerful atmos phere instead of the morbid one you have been brought up in, and that Sweet Pickles you should have a sane and well-bal anced husband who would help you to keep on an even keel. A woman makes a great mistake that there were more mothers like you, for, if there were, there would not be so many broken homes and half-orphaned little children. And there would be far fewer young divorcees who are not content to stay married and are still more discontented unmarried. when she centres her whole life around a child because she is bound to know that in the course of a few years the child will grow up and will want to go (Contributed Mrs. W.

H. Baker) Take small pickies and put in brine overnight. In the morning drain off brine, and pour boiling water over the pickles, drain and pack in jars tight. Put 1 teaspoon pickling spice to each jar, then make a syrup of 1 quart white vinegar and 3 cups white sugar and pour very hot in jars and seal at once. ANSWER: about the business of life for itself.

That will leave the mother stranded if she has cut herself off from all other interests and companionship. Dorothy Dix Peach Tapioca R. AND MRS. EDGAR SIMARD, whose wedding took place Many women do this and then they M1 When their daughters come running home to tell them that they can't get think that the child owes it to them to recently in the Roman Catholic Church at St. Joachim.

Saccharin Pickles along with their husbands, most moth The bride was formerly Miss Lucille Walker, daughter of Mrs. Thomas Walker and the late Mr. Walker, and the bridegroom-is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Edas Simard, of Tecumsch.

ers dear" their Sadies and their Mamies and weep over them as though One-half cup pearl tapioca, 2 cups cold water, '4 teaspoon salt, 3 4 cup white (or golden) corn syrup, 2 to 1 cup sliced peaches, 2 cup whole milk (or '4 cup evaporated milk and 4 cup water), 1 egg (yolk and white beaten separately), '4 tea thev were persecuted martyrs, and sacrifice his or her whole life to them. Most of us know lonely old maids and old bachelors who have given up all thdught of marrying and having homes and children of their own to gratify their mothers' selfish demands upon them. Don't be foolish enough to be one of these domestic martyrs. blame the whole trouble on the girls spoon vanilla. Soak the tapioca over husbands.

But, in reality, when husbands and wives disagree, the wives ere generally just as much to blame as night in the cold water. In the Sailors Sho For Silk Hose morning add enough water to bring the husbands, sometimes more so. DEAR MISS DIX I am the "Other Anyway, it takes two to make a Woman." When my divorce was quarrel and in the great majority of Zcstful Dressing Peps Up Salad Cole Slaw Cream So Good Recipe Is Requested by Pleased Guests the total up to 2 cups and add the salt and cook over double boiler until tapioca is clear throughout about l'i hours. Add all ingredients ex granted the children were given to their father. I was free and I had a cases the wife could have saved the situation if she had tried.

Nearly al-way Mother, in her heart, knows what is the matter and she could patch up cept egg white, and cook for 5 min utes, then remove from heat and let grand and glorious fling. During one happy evening I met Tom, and we fell in love with each other. He told me he had a fine wife and three children, but he was tired of quiet eve cool a little while you are beating the white. Fold in the white, and pour into bowl for serving, and chill. nings at home, as his wife could not Take Them As Presents to Friends in Old Country HALIFAX, Sept.

5. Sailors and ill stockings don't mix, or so you mig" think, but folks, every matelot (saik or seaman) in the Royal Canadia' Nnw rrmlri nrnhnhlv crivA Vii.c cist This pudding may be served hot By ALICE DENHOFF It's the seasoning that counts in a salad. So today I am giving recipes go out much on account of a frail with hard sauce in the winter. CREAMY HARD SAUCE One-half cup each butter, icing baby whom she was afraid to entrust to a nurse. So she stuck to her post and now the baby is a fine, healthy five-year-old.

She knew Tom was stepping out with a woman, but she did not desert the baby. for some zestful dressings that were worked out and tested by salad experts. We hope you'll approve of them, too. First comes a tangy French dressing. Add a teaspoon of salt to 2 clove of garlic or an onion, sliced, and allow to stand about 5 minutes.

Then add 2 teaspoon honey, tablespoon prepared sugar and golden corn syrup, '4 cup whole milk or cream, 1 teaspoon vanilla. Cream the butter and sugar well together, add the corn syrup and cream well, then add the cream Now the trouble is I have never pointers on texture, size and color. In fact, sailors headed for the Old Country have bought so many pairs o' silken hose, or their wartime substitutes, they have practically kept the industry going. And not onlv aiik been able to get Tom to divorce his wife and marry me, though he says or milk, very slowly to prevent curd the breach between them if she tried to do so. It is such a pity that all mothers are not as wise as you are, for no better way of salvaging a matrimonial bark that is about to go on the rocks was ever given than that which you gave to your daughter.

No husband could stay peeved with a wife who is breaking her neck to try to please him. No man could quarrel with a wife who fell in with his humor at every turn. No man could argue with a wife who obeyed him. Also, your advice touches a weak pot in the masculine armor, for really all that men want their wives to do is to make the gesture of obedience. They want their wives to ask their permission to do things.

If the wives will do this their husbands never notice whether they really take their advice or not. Any woman who makes her husband believe he is the cock of the walk can rule the roost. he loves me. Can I lawfully force him The Bride Learns to Cook Liver So You'll Like It EVERYONE knows what a valuable food liver is, it not everyone knows how to make it as appealing as it is nutritious. The secret is threefold: prepare it so as to eliminate those tough bits of skin and tubes, cook it so as to keep it from drying up, and season it so as to add glamor.

One pound of beef or pork liver (they are equally good to eat, but pork liver is even richer in iron) will serve four people. Each slice and be sure the butcher cuts them to a uniform thickness has a tough, thin strip of membrane all around the edge. This can be easily stripped off with a sharp knife. Then cut out the tubes in the centre of the slice, using sharp-pointed kitchen shears, and dip the slices into cup of flour mixed with 1 teaspoon of salt. Melt 2 tablespoons of bacon drippings or butter in a hot skillet, and add to 1 cup of chopped onion and 13 clove of garlic, finely shaved.

Cook until the onion is soft and yellow; then push the onion and garlic to one side of the skillet and put the floured liver in. Brown it on both sides, reduce the heat, and continue cooking slowly until it is just done through; that is, until there is no pinkness in the centre. This should take not more than 7 minutes for a '2-inch slice. Transfer the liver to a hot platter, pour the onion and garlic over it, and serve immediately. ling.

Add vanilla, and chill until hard before serving. mustard, 1-3 cup vinegar, or juice of a lemon, and 1- cup salad oil. Shake to do it? Are there grounds for any or stir together. Remove garlic or suit on my part? I love him just as much as his wife does, but she seems One gallon vinegar, 1 cup salt, 1 cup sugar, 1 cup ground mustard, 2 teaspoons saccharin. If all ingredients are in perfect condition these pickles will keep without sealing or heating, but they are not toughened if only heated till the color changes and then covered with the boiling liquid and sealed.

If the heating is preferred it is best to stir in the saccharin just before pouring the liquid over the pickles. I have not tried the above recipe. I had tried to find out the amount of pickles needed, but presume enough small cucumbers would be used to be submerged in the above ingredients. As for the saccharin referred to in the recipe it is pure saccharin and must not be touched to the tongue or it will burn. Pure saccharin (1 grain) is so strong it will burn the tongue, so commercially it is usually adulterated so that one small tablet ('4 grain) is the equivalent of about 1 teaspoon sugar.

Pure saccharin is equal in sweetness to sugar as follows: 1 part saccharin is equal to 450 parts sugar. It is cheaper and does not furnish the basis for mould growth that sugar does, and for that reason is recommended even if sugar were not rationed. There are 48 teaspoons in a cup, so you would use 12 -grain saccharin tablets when I cup of sugar is called for. QUESTION: I know the women in our club would be thankful if you would print some recipes for pickles that do not call for much sugar or none at all. We were talking it over and think corn syrup could surely be used in chili sauce and other pickles.

Please write an article about this if you possibly can. I have depended on the cookery page for so many years, but have never written before. Thanking you, Miriam, Mother of Six. ANSWER: Such a pretty pen name. It is our intention to print an article on making pickles without sugar within the next two or three weeks, certainly during the pickling season.

For good measure I am giving you (1 onion and the dressing is ready to Cantaloupe Parfait to have the upper hand. What should serve. Here's a particularly smooth mayon I do? ELSIE. naise, one that will be perfect for ANSWER There is nothing you can do but accept the situation. You knew the man was married and you took your chances on his divorcing his wife, and lost out.

And can you wonder at his sticking to a woman who refused to desert her sick baby even to keep the man she loved? That showed strength and character and nobility DEAR DOROTHY DIX I am 21. For the past 14 yea's, ever since my father died, my mother has devoted her life completely to me. She never goes anywhere. Never takes any pleas which the poor weakling to whom she is married doesn't deserve. You are a fitter mate for him than she is.

SJS sj (If you have friends who have been places and done things. I think this will be a new one to them it is quite unusual, and might almost be called exotic.) Two-thirds cup white corn syrup, 1 tablespoon butter, 2 cups mashed and drained ripe cantaloupe pulp, 3 egg yolks well beaten, 2 pint whipping cream, few grains salt, 2 tablespoons lemon juice, a few shavings of lemon rind if desired. Heat together the corn syrup and the butter, and when well blended pour slowly over the well-beaten yolks, and cok over not water until well mixed and thick. Add the mashed and drained cantaloupe pulp, cook for 2 more minutes, and cool. Beat cream until stiff, and fold into the egg mixture with the salt and vanilla.

Freeze in tray of mechanical refrigerator without stirring, or pour into mould, cover tightly and pack in ice and salt and let stand for 4 hours. If egg mixture thickens too much when cooking add 2 tablespoons boiling water and stir well. chicken, sea food and meat salads. Beat 2 egg yolks or one whole egg with rotary egg beater until thick and lemon colored. Add 2 teaspoon salt and 2 tablespoons lemon juice or vinegar and beat until well mixed.

Add a cup of salad oil, beginning with a few drops at a time, continuing to beat as you add. As the mixture thickens, oil may be- added more rapidly until mayonnaise is smooth and rich. Work in a tablespoon prepared rich brown mustard. If you use ready-made mayonnaise, and you want it to have a more highly-seasoned flavor, try the trick of adding prepared mustard, working it in carefully and smoothiy. The next is a cole slaw cream dressing, the sort of thing that induces folks to ask for the recipe.

Mix well a teaspoon salt, 2 teaspoon sugar, 2 teaspoons prepared rich brown mustard, '4 teaspoon paprika, 2 tablespoons lemon juice and 2 tablespoons horseradish. Add these to one well-beaten egg yolk. Fold in '2 Vint heavy cream, whipped. Pour over 4 cups shredded cabbage, chill and serve. teins supply energy too, as well as materials for repairing and rebuilding the body tissues.

stockings make the crossing, all manners of ladies' dainty silk underwear, face powders and other make-up necessities can also be found among their belongings. It is a well-known fact acco dinv to the girls who should know thu sailors are great present givers. And ti see the boys denuding a shop in sean of fluffy feminine trifles is proof this. Lingerie stores are often visltt in ports of call. Stockings, silk or nylon or their first cousins, head the list.

The sailor doesn't take any old thing that la handed him either. He has sizes, colorp and all the details down pat, if not from letters from his beloved, at least from personal observation. HE KNOWS THE TERMS When it comes to intimate lingerie items, no clerk can give him the run around. Those words uplift, contr-" and what-not, usually enticing teries to the average male, are so much duck soup to him. Sometimes they are a trifle nite about size of undies th have the lingo down pat I i never stops a resourceful tar.

I comes to worst he hauls the prt .4 salesgirl from behind the co gives her a critical once over and "Yeah, she's about your size little bigger around the hips." They are especially careful In choice of face powders and lipstic They want certain shades, textu and scents, and won't take any sec 1 best. After all, they say, "we're le guys that gotta wear the Junk In the end." No matter how many calories you need for energy, remember to eat your health-protective foods first. Be sure This Week's Best Wartime Recipe rEAR MARY MOORE: I have been making this honey cake for years not to save sugar but because we like it. and I think the children should be given cake after they have had a fruit dessert, if they are not satisfied. "I have used many of the other wartime recipes you print and think they are a lne feature." Mary McAdams.

Plain Honey Cake (Contributed by Mary McAdams) "One and one-quarter cups honey, cup sugar, cup melted shortening, 2 slightly beaten eggs, 2 cups flour, 1 teaspoon baking powder 1 teaspoon caraway seeds or half cup nuts may be added if needed). Cream the honey, sugar, shortening and eggs together very well. Mix and sift flour, baking powder and seeds or nuts if used. Combine mixtures and mix until smooth. Pour into buttered and floured baking pan and bake in moderately hot oven of 375 deg.

Fahr. for about 35 minutes." Thanks, again, Mrs. McAdams for this second contribution to this space. Although the honey yield this year is only about half of our average annual crop, there will be plenty for us all to try this delicious cake. I thought it was very good with hot applesauce.

of your milk, fruit and vegetables, cereals, meat or fish, and eggs. Then (if you need more calories) fill up on pastry, cake, rich desserts and candies until your calorie intake balances your output of energy. Piccalilli Apricot Cobbler Number of Calories Needed Varies Calories are used to measure energy value just as a yardstick is used to measure cloth. Everybody knows that it takes a lot of cloth to make a suit for that tall growing boy, but do they realize that it takes a lot of calories to keep him full of energy? When he eats enough to fill a "hollow log" remember that teen-age boys and girls often expend more energy than adults. It's a different story with the daughter who works in an office.

She requires fewer calories because she doesn't burn up as much energy. The number of calories required every day depends on size, age, and the kind of work the individual is doing. Adults should eat enough calories to balance the energy they expend. If you are steadily losing or gaining weight, start counting your calories. It may be necessary, under proper direction, to decrease or increase your consumption of energy-rich foods.

What are the foods rich in calories? Mostly starches, sugars and fats. Pro Paint Your Legs And Keep Warmer Cheer up, girls, things aren't as Two and one-half cups sliced apricots (or peaches), 2 tablespoons minute tapioca, i cup corn syrup, 4 teaspoon salt, 1,4 teaspoon cinnamon, dash of nutmeg, 1 tablespoon butter. sliced very thin). This is good served with thin cream or unsweetened soft custard sauce. SWEET AND SOL'R CARROTS 18 whole carrots 2 tablespoons butter 2 tablespoons flour Salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon sugar 3 to 5 tablespoons lemon juice 1 cup hot water.

Pare whole carrots and cook in rapidly boiling salted water until tender. Make a sauce by melting the butter and adding the flour and seasonings; blend well, ftdd sugar; stir till dissolved. Add lemon juice and gradually add water, stirring constantly until smooth. Cook until slightly thickened, about 10 minutes, stirring frequently. tough as they seem.

They tell us now that stockings that come in stick form BAKING POWDER BISCUIT DOUGH One peck green tomatoes, 5 pounds cabbage, 6 sweet red or green peppers. 4 medium-sized onions, 1 cup salt, 3 pints vinegar, 11-3 cups corn syrup, '2 pound mustard, 2 tablespoons celery seed. 1 tablespoon ground horseradish. Chop and mix tomatoes, cabbage, sweet peppers and onion with salt and let stand 12 hours. Mix vinegar, corn syrup, mustard seed, celery seed and horseradish.

Bring to boiling point. Add vegetables and heat through. Pack into hot sterlile jars and seal immediately. We are glad to receive suggestions for article topics and shall be hoping to hear from you again. will keep your legs warm right through the fall and winter.

It's the MOCK HOLLAND AISE SAUCE 1 cup salad dressing 2 tablespoons lemon Juice Heat salad dressing in a double boiler over hot water for 10 minutes. Then, blend in lemon juice and mix well. This sauce is especially good over tender young shoots of asparagus, artichoke, or most any cooked green vegetable. special creamy base of the stuff that does the trick guarding your legs from cold winds, and from chapping and drying. Maybe you won't miss the nylons and silks after all.

NO TICKET SCALriXa By presidential decree, Mexico has banned all ticket scalping. Today's Victory Garden-Graph By DEAV HALLIDAY HPURNIPS will continue to grow long after com and tomatoes are killed by frost. However, the roots will not stand a hard freeze and they should be pulled and stored before the ground freezes. They can be stored just like carrots or Two cups flour, 4 teaspoons baking powder, i teaspoon salt, 4 tablespoons shortening, 3i cup milk. Slice the apricots into buttered shallow baking dish and add the tapioca to them and let stand 15 minutes.

Pour over the corn syrup, salt and spices. Mix well. Dot top with butter. To make the dough sift the flour, baking powder and salt together. Run the shortening in with the fingertips, and add enough milk slowly to make a soft dough.

Roll out to 4-inch thickness, prick To Marry in St. Andrew's To Speak Vows Sept. 12 To Marry 125 Graduate Several Ontario Girls in i Air Foree Class at Uplands Depot OTTAWA, Sept. 5. More than 125 and arrange over top of apricot mixture.

Bake at 400 to 425 degrees F. for about 30 minutes or until well browned. Other fruits that are "best" with this treatment are blackberries, cherries and rhubarb. If you can beg, borrow or steal any, Devonshire cream makes this one of those desserts that only superior beings deserve. 1 I i 1 members of the Royal Canadian Air Force (Women's Division) were grad uated Friday from No.

7 manning depot at nearby Uplands Airport fol lowing completion of their courses. Honeycomb Pudding I They will be posted at various stations across the Dominion. The graduates include: Ontario C. M. Cousineau, J.

R. Glendennin GGalt; P. R. Cubitt, C. Esser, Sarnia; A.

GaGrnett, Wallace-burg: A. A. A. Geist, Woodstock: E. M.

Heavens, Maidstone; G. L. E. Karn, South Kitchener; N. A.

Last, CflUStD OV byweeVils 9J London; W. V. McLeod, Port Elgin; Storing turnips from Victory One cup each molasses, corn syrup and flour, 2 cup each evaporated milk and shortening, 2 teaspoon soda, 4 eggs, well beaten, 2 cups sliced tart apples (1 cup raisins or dates may be used when and if available in place of apples). Mix the molasses and syrup, and sift in the flour which has been sifted with the soda. Warm the milk just enough, to make the shortening soft and stir them together, then stir them into the mixture, and beat three minutes.

Add the beaten eggs, and pour into greased pudding dish. Arrange the apples on top, and sprinkle with 1 tablespoon brown sugar (if you can spare it) and 1 teaspoon cinnamon. Bake at 375 degrees Fahrenheit for 45 minutes (or pudding may be steamed for E. F. McMann, Sarnia; E.

A. Pletch, Brussels; P. L. Potruff, Cainsville; M. U.

Richardson, Brantford; W. M. Salisbury, Petrol ia; M. I. Scott, Porquis; V.

B. Ward, Sombra. Was Limerick Kin rTHE marriage of Miss Catherine Marie Power, daughter ol THE marriage of Miss Jean Iola Gray, granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Gray, of Kiverdale avenue, Riverside, to Mr.

Henry Edmund Thibodeau, of Riverside, will take place at the home of the bride-elect's grandparents on Saturday, September 12. gardens This garden-graph shows a turnip deformed by the galls caused by the gall weevil. Turnips found bearing galls, or with club roots, should be destroyed when harvested. The soil where the deformed turnips grew should be treated with quick lime, using one bushel of lime to one rod of soil area. CAPE TOWN, Sept.

5. H. V. H. Pery, 62, grandson of the second Lord rE engagement is announced of Frances Rosa, daughter of Mr.

and Harold Chesney, Janette avenue, to Mr. Lloyd Sidney Hoare, son of Mr. and Mrs. Sidney T. Hoare, of Bow-nianville.

The wedding will take place September 19, at 2 p.m. at St. Andrew's Church. Limerick, died here. He was a refugee ivii.

anu iviia. ni tnui ruwci, ui rvivci riimi i uau, uiiicioii" burg, to Mr. Vincent John Lundy, son of the late Mr. and Mrs. John Lundy, of Windsor, will take place on Saturday, September 12, at 9:30 a.m..

in St. John the Baptist Church. from Johore where he had managed a rubber plantation. hours. when apples must be 1.