The Windsor Star from Windsor, Ontario, Canada • 24

THE WINDSOR DAILY STAH, WINDSOR, ONTARIO, Tlirnsn IT, JUT 21, 1036 Girl Can Judge Man by His Thoughtfulness of Her PAGi: TWEXTT-roni mm iJpJJi His Gifts Are Indicative Of His Affection for Her Dougall Club Meeting Is Busy Mother and Daughter Session Featured By Several Talks Engagement Announced Women Grits Elect Heads As Good a Pre-Matrimonial Picture of His Character As Can Be Obtained; Prophetic of Her Treatment After 31arriage Straws Show How Wind Is B1 owing Sallys Beau Wont Take His Hat Off In House band who will begrudge his wife food and clothes. So I think you are quite right in recognizing that the falling off in your Christmas presents indicates that your friend is cooling off in his Interest in you and that your little, affair is about over. Which is lucky for you. For when a girl is hovenng around 30 she has no time to waste on a man whose intentions are not serious. Evidently your fnend regards you as merely a pleasant acquaintance, a nice little playmate, and thats all.

NOR WEAR HIS TIE 'JHE Dougall Avenue Home and School Association held a very successful Mother and Daughter meeting, the president, Mrs. Craig, giving aii interesting report of the Ontario Education convention held in Toronto, and Mr. J. Edgar Young, of the Essex County Swimming and Life Saving Association, giving a talk on Knowing How to Swim and How to Save." He said the slogan, "Every Child to Swim, is an excellent one, as swimming is a healthy sport, providing proper facilities are available. "For its size," he said, Windsor has the poorest accommodation for swimming of anywhere I know.

Mrs. Robert Savage and her daughter, Ruth, played a piano duet, and Ruth gave a piano solo, both being much enjoyed, and Alice Marsoen. a Dougall pupil, presented two humorous readings, Spreading the News and Miss Edith Helps Things Along. Miss Annie E. McIntyre, speaking on Mothers and Daughters, said she had a very warm spot for Dougall School and mothers with daughters attending this school need have no fears as they are in very capable and patient hands.

Motherhood is Immortalized music, art and literature, more than any other subject, she said, and speaking to the daughters she told the story of an old movie, Mother Knows Best." She closed her talk calling the youth of today the finest yet. After the singmg of God Save the King, the guests adjourned to the upper hall for refreshments. DEAR MISS DIX We have been gning together for several years. Kot engaged, but crazy about each ether. We are our very late 20s nd I want to marry and settle down.

He wants to continue having an affair with me Indefinitely. He goes gallivanting around with other girls, though I am still the best, etc, but not all. Came Christmas. He gave me a beautiful Christmas present, though not as handsome and well chosen as last year's, yet he boasts of the money he Is making and his future plans. Is the Christmas present episode significant? Does a girl have a chance by sticking to man and hoping that something will hit him on the head and make him realize that she is the girt that he wants to marry, or does he get tired and call it quits after a while BED HEAD.

West Essex Association Renames Most Of Executive J7 LECTION of the following officers for the coming year marked the annual meeting of the West Essex Womens Liberal Association, held last evening in the Prince Edward Hotel: Miss Helen Bartlet and Mrs, A. D. L. Robinson, honorary presidents; Mrs. W.

P. Walker, president; Mrs. Richard Gluns, first vice-president; Miss D. Henderson, second vice-president; Mrs. J.

A. Renaud, third vice-president; Mrs. Jennie Meacham, treasurer; Mrs. F. G.

arrow, secretary. All officers except the secretary were re-elected by acclamation. The following ward representatives were also named; Mrs Zelma Hamilton. Ward 2: Mrs. W.

Bruder and Mrs. Paul Mero, Ward Mrs. Alfred Janisse and Mrs. W. H.

Hall, Ward Mrs. A. Shafer and Mrs. Isabelle Wiseman, Ward 5: Mrs. L.

L. Crowley and Mrs. W. N. Oatfield.

the former Sandwich area; Mrs. L. M. Bradley and Mrs. W.

H. White. Sandwich West. Miss Bartlett, chairman of the nominating committee, was In the chair for elections, Mrs. Walker presiding for the rest of the business.

Mrs. Crowley presented an Inclusive report of the meeting of the Ontario Womens Liberal Association in Toronto recently, which she attended, as delegate. Plans for a study club next season were discussed, and it was decided that bliss Bartlet conduct the first session of it at the next regular meeting of the association, to be held in October. So dont delude yourself Into believing that some miracle is gomg to happen that will warm up a platonic friendship into a hot romance, or that the man ho has known you for years without falling in love with you is going to suddenly become enamored of you. It isn't going to happen.

Your affair will just go dragging along and dragging along until you get worn out with watchful waiting, and then he will forsake you for some pretty young girl who is a novelty. Lincoln Clilircli DimierPopular Two Hundred and Twenty-Five Attend Mother-Daughter Affair MOST successful Mother and Daughter banquet was held at Lincoln Road United Church under the asupices of the Philatheas and the Who Do, Wo-He-Lo and Wenright Clubs of the senior department of the Sunday school Covers were laid for 225, and the dinner was prepared by the Womans Association of the church. Miss Doris Zoller. as chairman, proposed the toast to he King, which as responded to by the singing of the National Anthem; Miss Jean Pillman proposed the toast to the Mothers, telling of daughters appreciation of all the many things a mother does for them, and Mrs. E.

McCaffrey responded in words of deepest appreciation and pride on the part of mothers for their daughters, and closed with a verse about daughters. Mrs. Ted Jones then proposed the toast to the Daughters in terms of high ideals set as a goal in life, telling them that "mothers are only trying to prepare the way for daughters so that they in time may benefit by th things mother made possible for them, and Miss Mary Wolfe replied, reminding mothers that if we please and make them happy it is because we are so much like them In the program which followed. Miss Bernice Wilcox, accompanied by Mrs. Irene Whittaker Stephenson, entertained with several vocal solos, after which Miss Jean Allen gave two humorous readings.

Later in the evening. Mrs. S. Burke and her daughter sang a beautiful duet, Mrs. A.

Swanson accompanying. Alderman Olive Jane Whvte spoke on Dreams Come True, telling of all the opportunities one has of doing something dynamic and noteworthy in this great city. Miss Whyte then compared out comfortable homes to those of our unfortunate neighbor and how-much good we could do for them if only through kmd words! We must break down the great social barrier that is separating us into classes and live as Christ would want us to live." Miss Whyte said there will always be a few people who wanting to do as Christ did, will be ostracized, criticized and slandered, and that the long road is sometimes the shortest road to the goal, and she concluded with an invitation to the mothers and daughters to visit her misson on Lang-lois avenue the last four days of May to view the display cf needlecraft and art made by new Canadians. The evening closed with a ting-song, led bv Miss Bernice Wilcox, after which Miss Beatrice Farrow prooosed a vote of thanks to the women of the association for their kindness and consideration to those present and for the delightful supper. Miss Marjorie Cornwall replied.

Answer: 1 think mans gifts are not only highly indicative of his sentiments toward a woman but that they are Just about as good a re-matrimonial picture of his character and disposition as she Is ever likely to get. Also, they are prophetic of the way he is likely to treat her if she marries him. Of course, occasionally a girl does wear a man down into marrying her by hanging on to him. but it doesnt happen once in a blue moon. And when it does, he makes her such an unsatisfactory husband she wishes he hadnt.

DEAR MISS DEX I am a young man cf. 23, engaged to a girl who works in the same department of a large business office that I do. She is secretary-stenographer to a man who is my department head. She is constantly browbeaten and driven by her boss, and she comes to me with her troubles and complains about him I want to sympathize with her, but I do not want any personal feelings between the man and myself, for he Is also my boss, and it makes the situation very difficult for me. My fiancee also thinks that my stenographer is trying to put something over on me and constantly talks against her.

The two girls do not get along, and that causes me a great deal of embarrassment. I also asked my sweetheart not to wear her engagement ring at the office, and she is putting off our marriage because of this. I lo her more than all the Jobs on earth. 60 what shall I do? ANXIOUS. New Finishes And Weaves in Fabrics Fabrics will be found this season in Interesting new finishes and weaves.

There are the permanent finishes applied by processes which permit sheer fabrics such as fine muslins and organdies to keep their crisp loveliness during repeated washings, without any starching. There is a finish that gives cotton fabrics the appearance of linen. There is also a finish, increasingly used for some sheer fabrics and some linens, that makes them resistant to creasing. Any creases that form come out quickly when the garments are hung up. Think of the joy of unpacking tnese at the end of a trip! Other fabrics offer resistance to creasing because of special weaves and combinations of types of yarn.

Good Housekeeping Institute. Col. Wigle Unit Aids Charities You can almost chart the course of a mans affections by his presents. When he first fails in love his impulse Is to lavish gifts upon the woman on whom he has set his heart. Smother her in sLks.

Feed her on nightingales tongues. He is alert to gratify her every desire. His offerings are chosen with an almost occult knowledge of her tastes and wishes. And then as hi- romance wears thin and he begins to lose interest in the woman. there is a gradually descending curve in the number and quality of his gifts until it gets to the place where a man throws a cheque in his wifes lap at Christmas and on her birthday If she has prodded him Into remembering it and tells her to get herself someth.

ng she needs, that he doesn't know what she wants. Or he buys her a new cook stove as a present. TRINITY CLASS GATHERS WALLACEBURG. May 21. A meeting of Trinity Bible Class was held last night at the home of Mrs.

N. McPherson, who presided. The devotional period was taken by Thomas Brunt. The next meeting is being held on June 10. Says He Loves Her But Refuses to Do Little Things She Asks By Virginia Lee gTRAWS SHOW which way the wind is blowing, they say.

So a very little tbuig may prove to a young couple that they are not suited to each other and could not live happily together. Such a little thing, for Instance, as the following letter reveals: My Dear Miss Lee: is It proper for a young man to remove his tie while at my home? I have told him that I did, not approve of It. He has even come to see me without a tie. Perhaps I am a bit fanatical about this, but it is one of the things that I simply cant and wont endure. VISITED RELATIVES "Recently we went to my uncle and aunts to play cards.

As soon as he arrived at my house I noticed his shirt was open and his tie loosely knotted. I insisted thrt he close his shirt and tie his tie decently before I would go with him. He did so. After we had been there about an hour he opened his shirt, and when I asked him to close it he refused. I left the room and remained a long while.

He finally came after me and asked me to return but said he would not put his tie on if it was the last thing he ever did. After a while he did. and we all laughed as if it had been a huge joke, and I would have said nothing more about the matter, but after we had gone home he said that I had been acting very silly, and tl at he had no doubt that I had told my uncle and aunt that I could make him do anything I wanted him to and that I was just trying to prove it. That, however, is not true. He also told men that he intends doing only the things that he thinks are right and not everything that I want him to.

He tells me that he loves me more than anything the world, but I dont see how this can be true if he doesnt care to please me. If acts like this now, how uld he i after we were married? What do you think about this? "SALLY. BETTER NOT MARRY I fiink you had better not marry if you both are so determined to have your own way about such a small thing. Of course, it is incorrect, if you consult a book of etiquette, to go anywhere without a properly buttoned collar and neatly tied tie. You are not pposed to go native except in your own home, and not even then when you have guests.

I think the young man would show better manners if he kept his shirt closed and his tie tied unless the weather is very hot and his hostess suggest loosening them. The fact that he is so insistent on having his own way, whether or no, and that you allow yourself to become so emotional over a email matter, are the important things, my dear. After all, a man can be a man for a tL it tie untied or not. If it annoys you too much, and makes you feel you cannot a man wrho has such unconventional habits, you should not wed him. And if he feels you are the type that insists upon bossing, he should not consider wedding you.

Marriage is a 50-50 proposition, a business of give and tase, of bearing and forbearing. If you cant stand his little ways, stop going with him; if he isnt willing to do small things for you, he should quit you. Plans to Assist in Rose Day Tag Sale On June 6 TYONATIONS to various charitable projects, which the I ODE. supports. and plans for assisting in the annual Rose Day Tag Sale on Saturday, June 6, marked the regular meeting of the Col.

E. S. Wigle Chapter, held this week at the home of Mrs. Salter C. J.

Askm, on Partington avenue. with the regent, Mrs. James L. Braid, in the chair. The sum of $10 was voted to provide necessities for the chapters Northern Ontario school, and $5 to the Grenfell Mission, as well as $20 to the bursary fund.

Mrs. Gerald Drake and Mrs. R. Warren Pingle were named to visit the chapters room at the Essex County Sanatorium during the coming month. At the close of the meeting, refreshments were served.

Answer: Marry her and take her out of the office. She is evidently one of the women who are temperamentally unfit for business and whose proper sphere is a home where they can be monarch of all they survey and quarrel with the butcher and the baker without endangering their husbands futures. rIE engagement of Miss Mildred Beatrice Bradd, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas N.

Bradd, of Curry avenue, to Mr. Louis Jerome Maisonville, son of Mr. Joseph Maisonville and the late Mrs. Maisonville, of Tecumseh road, is announced by her parents, the wedding to take place on Saturday, June 6, at 9 a.m., at Our Lady of Prompt Succour Church. ORGANIZES WOMEN The Mexican government has commissioned Margarita Robles de Mendoza to try to organize the women of Mexico.

They soon wall be the equals of men In civil, social, economic and political standing, according to Senora de Mendoza. SCOTCHED TVTDDING LONDON, May 21. Im getting married tomorrow, or should be, said Cyril Scott, convicted of theft, but he was sentenced to 28 days. Remember wbat the astute young lady said in the poem about the imitation diamond or the phoney fur coat or whatever it was with which her sweetheart had presented her: If in his gifts he can faithless be, there will be no gold in his hive for me. So it is a wise virgin who easts a practical, as well as a sentimental, eye upon her boy friends presents and deduces therefrom the following conclusions: Beauties Selected For Television Bring LIFE, LUSTRE and COLOR to YOUR HAIR- this harmless, odorless vegetable rinse will do it As the matter stands it is just a question of time until she ill lose you your job because your mutual boss will find out that she is running to you with her complaints about him and that you are taking her part, and he will discharge you.

Even now she is hindering your chances of advancement, which must come to you through your immediate superior, by distracting your attention from your work and causing you to dislike him. Kissing, you know, goes by favor and you are not likely to get many from a boss with hom you are on bad terms. were broad-minded enough to see the picture as a whole, she would know that your success depends on yonr getting along with your boss, and she would not try to stir up enmity between you. That as long as a man Is in love he gees a kick out of giving things to a girL That when a man denies himself somethin? that he wants In order to give something she wants, that is a proof of affection strong enough to draw money on at the bank. That the man who always makes misfit presents, who brings candv to a girl who is on a diet, who sends her pink roses when she has impressed on him she is going to wear a red dress, who gives her a wrist watch when she is dying for a new pair of earrings, may have a good heart and be actuated by a deep and abiding affection, but he lacks perception and wall make a dumb and aggravating husband.

Furthermore. that the man who is a stingy lover will make a miserly hus Duchess of Kent Sets Hair Style LONDON, Eng, May 21. The Duchess of Kent, by appearing at her first public function of King Edwards reira with her curls arranged in a different way, has set a new style in coiffure. When the duchess opened the exhibition or British-made silk stockings she had her hair arranged at the sides in two rows of curls, which curved upwards from the cheek, exposing the ears, and meeting four rows of curls at the back. She wore pearl stud earrings.

The style, planned especially to go with her new hat, a diminutive ovalshaped pUl-box perched over the right eye, is finding wide favor. Luther Descendants Will Meet at Leits LEIPZIG, May 21. The Association of Luther Descendants, in announcing that the annual meeting of their organization will be held at Leitz this year, instead of at Jena, as was originally intended, disclose the fact that 876 descendants of Martin Luther are alive today. I trust your sweetheart will make yon a good wife in the war of being affectionate and kind and a good cook. Bat she isnt going to be the kind of wife who will help yon get on in the world because she is selfish and narrowminded and Jealous and determined to do her own way.

If she If she were unselfish, she would not burden you with all her little flare-ups with her employer. If she were not determined to have her own way, she would not be insistent on wearing her ring in the office when you do not ish her to do so. And if she were not green-eyed, she would know that your relations with your stenographer are just as impersonal as hers Wlth her boss. Attractive hair can be made doubly beautiful by giving it lustrous, highlights. And dull, faded, streaked hair can now be made radiant ancf colorful without risk of harm to the scalp or hair, without a lot of trouble and fuss, HOW? By using Lovalon after each shampoo.

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Williams will be the most looked at women in this country next autumn. They have been selected as woman announcer and hostess In the new Alexandra Palace television service for the British Broadcasting Corporation. The girls were equally suited for either post and each will act as announcer-hostess. When not announcing they will receive artists in the studios. Miss Bligh is the 23-year-old daughter of the Hon.

Mrs. Noel Bligh and a sister of Miss Susan Bligh, who until recently was known to millions of telephone users as "the girl on the cover of the London Telephone Directory. The Earl of Damley is her uncle. To qualify for the appointments the girls had to be beautiful, young, with personality plus charm, golden voiced and photogenic featured. AMAZING OPPORTUNITY Take my advice and get the girl out of the office as soon as you can unless you want to lose your Job.

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