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27 THfYlL DO IT EVERY TIME DOUEU1-TAKE STtirniXI TrieXkncomTrfrtTvineo THI VANCOUVER PROVINCE. SoHwjgy, Myth 31, 1936 Bar HMO DOES 8WS GO TO wn HEB Nt4Sn.lL PROBLEM? R4L RXrnCX4. OF CUSS It INTERIOR DeCORKV CJ OW KCV IWtfT M5J far SHE'S BXPVZTi WW NOT DO shh. the oa-vkv-l UKE 605 TO frr ft ao CD MS I Health for Today I -MKfiUCssar'MAfcUd --n 1 1 I HtM 7 I 1 WST4K1 HE EVER Tantrums are 6UVXA BELIEVES (50IN3 RIGHT TO THIS Atm. of sPsaAuzjmoH of coursit not tightly enough to hurt him.

First he begins to squirm, cry or fuss. If this does not bring relief, he is quite likely to turn blue or dark red and scream to high beavea for relief. Can you blame him? THE TIGHT HOLDING of the baby is merely symbolic. He may be restrained and confined emotionally by circumstances over which he has no control. Many parents control their young children ton strictly.

The criterion is the child's normal growth and development and his safety. Beyond tlwse the child should not be controlled merely for parental convenience. Preventing the child from exercising his normal growth and development patterns will bring about a state of emotional frustration and may ery well be expressed by tantrums. PARENTAL DEMANDS upon children should be limited to those which are necessary or Marmaduke wm nw wu Mirror of By JOSEPH bad for which the child may be willing to carry out There are times when a child loves to bring father his slippers There are other times when be would rather not be bothered. Bringing father's slippers is not an essential in the child's growth and development because he is too young as yet to understand the abstract ideal of unselfish service.

Besides, unless papa is crippled there is no good reason why his children should wait on him except as spontaneous expressions of love and affection. Forcing the child to bring father his slippers, whether he wants to or not, is unfair and if the child reacts with a tantrum, then it is not the child who is to blame. Children can be led much more easily than they can be driven, but leadership requires more originality, more patience, more forethought, and more love than does compulsion. At the same time, the results are infinitely better. 4 GIKSlLiyJSOyG TT PftWJSG SMIBSD303G2 ilillftlSii 1st neurotic to eomplain of loneliness? "1 know you're there! anyone The child in the midst of tantrum should not be given further punishment because that will only confirm him in his resistance.

The best thing to do is either get his mind off his tantrum or ignore it. In either case, it does not get him what he wants and so a smart child soon learns that it does not pay. Then, tantrums cease if the situations which provoke tantrums are not constantly repeated. 4 Tantrums in children are usually the results of excessively stern discipline, inconsistency tm the part of parents, or an evidence that the child feels a lack of affection and a lack of acceptance. IN ANY INSTANCE, the cause of tantrums must be studied and the cause removed.

Sometimes this requires professional help, by which 1 mean first the family physician and if he so advises, a psychiatrist. The treatment will probably be applied not to the child but to the family. PRESTO AUTOMATIC-ELECTRIC SKILLET 4 i Annwert No, but it is often Beurotie to submit to loneliness, line tew people need, to be Vmeiy, Many egocentric people iitffw loneliness rather than mak any effort to be with friends. They want their friends to oall them, for it feeds their ego to be in the position of refusing or accepting hospitality. They rarely complain of loneliness; that would indicate they were unpopular.

Actually, com' plaining of loneliness is an emotionally healthy admission of dissatisfaction. Doe divorce always have traumatic effects? 1 Answer: Yes, although many people recover almost completely. Separation through di- UBC display An exhibition of student projects nd American Institute of Archi tects honor awards is on display r- t--P 1 'L. it HiwiwHiir Bt W. W.

BAUER, M.D. Definitions are funny things. A child that has a tantrum is commonly regarded as a problem child. A famous or important adult subject to tantrums is defined as "eccentric." When ordinary folks like you and me hav tantrums, we are simply regarded as "grouches." TANTRUMS ARE BAD for anybody. Excessive repression of the emotions may have a detrimental effect, but there is a happy medium between clamping th, lid on too tight and letting it blow off too easily and upon the slightest provocation.

Tantrums are excusable in young children because they may be the only way the child knows how to express its anger and frustration at unfair situations. Just try holding a baby in your arms so tightly hat he cannot mov his arms or his legs, but Debris in harbor brings charge WEST VANCOUVER CPR has been charged i Police Court with unlawfully dumping debris into Vancouver Harbor. Th eharge was laid by assistant Vancouver harbor waster against Capt. James Anderson of Princess of Nanaimo. Debris "which might caus a nuisance" is alleged to hava been dumped in the harbor off Dundar- ave March 21.

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It's pleasantly effective, yet gentle enough for young systems, A Hotwiat Hooua Take Soothing fepfo- Besmal 2nd feel good again! is Specifically Besmal irvffrsMM ym mora f34 Your Mind WITNEY vorce is always accompanied by some sense of personal humiliation and failure; often by secret rage and a desire for retaliation. Divorced persons who make successful remarriages (an unusually large percentage do) are usually those who are able to profit by their mistakes. They learn to be more tolerant of others' mistakes, and thereby make a healthy recovery from their emotional trauma. Are hobbies on the increase? Answer: I doubt it, although there is no decline of interest in hobbies are as emotionally and intellectually rewarding as ever, but seem to be losing ground in today's technological society where so much is done for us. Creative hobbies that bring about an interchange of thoughts and feelings do much 3314 Pronoun Required Stick Negative people Merchandise 34 Mrs.

F.D.R. et al. 35 Intensifies 37 Witchcraft 39 jfnife.used hv Ihp J.Inrn They redden 40 Blackboard litmus accessory Hollywood's 41 Plant yield- Henry Edgar Poe City in N.D. Cavalry ing fruit 42 Kitchen utensil 44 River ravine 45 Articulated joint 48 Native of rnnnha0p sword Care Slanting angle Violent anger Disorder: dial. V) Froron waer 50 frozen wer 1 sequnur S4 You and I Solution to Yesterday's Puzzle at UBC school of architecture un- to enrich life, and to encourage til April 6.

The honor awards are a wider perspective. However, shown in a photographic display the advent of passive, escapist and cover the outstanding build- diversions to fill up our leisure ins completed in 1954-55. Show hours has made hobbies harder it open to the public. to find. Crossword Puzzle By VIRGINIA MAYNARD PRESTO AUTOMATIC-ELECTRIC SKILLET It's New! It's Versatile! It's Automatic! It's What Every Woman Wants for Her Home! The new Presto Automatic-Electric Skillet is the perfect answer to every home-maker's dream.

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MM MM. 4g 55" '0 5 1 7T" IX" 7T 1 II 11 1 1 "Fp News Minor TMvfNlon Match played March 18, at Van couver Vancouver C.C. Went Van. C.C. A.Carlaon 0 H.Ostrom 1 A.

Russell V.L.Noske 1 A.P.Paget T) R. Mlchelsnn 1 J. A. Dalton 0 Schlck-Ferb 1 A. Peacock 0 G.

Powit A. J. Addy tt Final Standinr BO .401 City 3 11 Vancouver 2 3 1 Kerrlsdale 13 2 Went Van. 1 1,3 New West. 10 4 4-1 3-3 1-4 HIC.H SCHOOL CKESg In a learn mmtch played March 30.

'North Surrey HlRh School defeated Queen Elizabeth High School by 4-2. The following game wa played In (the International tournament at VitcrnalflulB IIS chplonrthurBlsguier flnl.hed Fngliah Opening White: Bteeuier Black: Ducksteirr While Black White 1 P-QB4 P-K4 17 BxB 2N-QB3 N-KB3 18 B-N4 3 N-B3 N-R1 19 NxPch 4P-QR3 P-Q4 20BxR Black R-Q2 P-KR4 K-Ql KxBI P-QB4, R-Kl! R-K3I K-Bl K-Q2! P-B5! R-K2 K-B3 R-Q2I P-Bfi; N-B5i P-Q4 SKNxP 7QxN 8PxP 9P-K4 NxN 22P-KR4 B-K3 23 N-QB NxP 24 NxP N-N3 25N-Qfich QxQ 26K-P3 O-O-O 27 R-N3 P-KB3 2S B-Q2 B-Nfi 29P-B3 B-Q3 30N-B5 SI PxP RxR 32 Q4ch 10 B-K3 11 BxQ 12 0-0-0 14R.Q3 1SN-NS lfi B-K3 Res. CORRIGENDA Last week's item re the Russian chamiXonahlp should have read: In tiounle-rouno pi- msnov won tnfi playoff, Mark Tal- usslan champion- shin, scnrlnir 8-1. Auerbach MOre)1 2W-l. and B.

Spassky, 14.31, 2 Child Care Night bladder training takes some time By JEAN H. SELIGMANN and MILTON I. LEVINE, M.D. Question: "My problem con- tenia 111 aomuuhuiuiu kiouu- daughter. She is stlU bed-wetting, although dry in the daytime, for tne past; tnree or four months, ner parents nao uec.i u.n p.m.

Then she would waken two or three times during the night. If they let her go she is wet in the morning. "I suceested they give her nothing to drink after late after noon, but they thought this was severe treatment and have not tried it. "They still complain of her bed-wetting, but I'm inclined to think i i i long mat is, an nignt ana kww out of it in time. What is your opinion?" iwrs.

a. i. Answer: The parents of this i it.ni- "ulc lc" since their child can control her HaHHor Hi.rino the Hav she X.T.iJ j. should also be able to do so at night. But this is not the case in most instances.

It almor' always takes longer for a youngster to remain dry at night, She is too young, as you have suggested, to be expected to have this amount of control. Actuwiy, trying to forca a child to be trained before she is ready for it, can cause mora harm than good. A problem can be created where none really exists. A child like thin, who is already dry in the daytime, will probably train herself, without much difficulty, for the nighttime, too. Chess CHESS NEWS Br FRANK rapT Vancouver Province Chess Editor MARCH SX Problem No.

47 Bv F. H. SINOKR London Oberver Black: pieces White: 7 pieces Pltm4 and male In three, Problem N. --J: yUerv. Kev move: 1.R-K1 (threap.

2.Q-K4 mate). (Its. ch mate, (b) 1. BxN- 2 R-K5 mate. (c 1.

o.Nxk mate, (d) 1. N-B3; XN-BA mate, (e) 1. Q-K2; 1 Q-K2: JN-m rnam. Q-KB4; 2.NxR mate. (g 2.NxQ mate, (h) 1.

(fi 1. 1 Q-RSch B-K', Battery mate with delayed f- 4Mtrfprpncp' fcl and Id): and hut- wtth unBuaX(f). White ecoo- omy, sana pawns. SOU'TIONS Problem LV, Ji VI Lott, H. S.

S.i. Nl'cnl. Lieut. A. iir i iLior" .1 T).

Snittle and W. C. Stevens. Problem No. 475 W.

C. liennen, D. Isaac, Rev. Canon J. Lelen, W.

J. Maier, James W. May, J. An- clerson, A. Arrow, v.

W. H. Gray. E. J.

J. Hall Mrs. Marv Hawkes, W. k. A.

Jenkins, S. K. Johnson. 3. Keith, K.

Morton, N. K. Pengelly, J. E. Tubb and R.

Tuyttens. Knd Game No. (IS) Six points: U. Henke, E. Murphy and J.

D. Spittle. H. H. BCBRELT.

PASSES With regret we record the deatn nf former Northwest champion H. H. Burrell, who passed away March 23 at his home, 344 West Keith road. North Vancouver. He wa in his eighty-sixth year.

In 1916 Herbert H. Burrell won the Northwest and Manitoba chess championships, and he held the Born in awnpore, innia, uiy rtlT ebin music'at the and subsequently was a tutor for two years at hts alma mater. He had resided In North Vancouver since AeTi'M his devotion to music and his prowess as a composer. A nymn which he composed was played at his funeral. Our sincere cnndnlenre extended to Mrs.

Burrell and other surviving relatives in their ad t'tTY CHESS Leading scores after ten Incom-nioie rounds In the minor section of the Training tournament of the c- 833 Hornby, are: GarPtti Ri.m; b. Isaac, -2; Brown and A. Mtishey, each 6ii-3H: and w. r. Money, nr.tS,U,,J.

'TaTior Ing with 5-1, followed by Leo M. Duval, 4V4-lVi TRAM MATCHES Majnr Division Matches played March 3 and March 21, respectively mome teams" 'bc r.c. West Van C.C. r. Rntknv N.

Savchenko KrankMav 1 B. Arrien 0 W.J. Mater R. A. Douglas R.

E. Burgess 1 (Default) 0 To be adjudicated. rilyC.C. Bishops W. Jursevskls R.

Pllklngton J. M. Taylor 1 f. Flllery 0 Pratt 1 S. Blinder ..0 L.

M.Duval, G. Bryant -i tt final Slandlnr 1 3 10 Pis 8tt-tt lV2tt KnlEhln ..112 Bishops 1 1 3 West Van. 0 0 4 west Va ntr C.C. retains Cup better gamt-scort (19-4). jjt Ww-rf.

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