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ti A. Howard faces Stern lawsuit ft o-Good-Deed-Goes-Unpunishcd Lesson No. 419. 1 Howard Stern, Infinity Broadcasting and Steppin' Out maga- I i i i i I zinc I'uuur inhume uayurii nave uct-u aei vcu wiui it iawuii, by the brother and sister of Debbie Tay, a frequent on-air 1 1 guest of Stern before she died of a heroin overdose in April 1003. Tay, dubbed the Space Lesbian by Stern, was one of the deejay's i A lid "rQKV in IJA 1 1 favorite guests and bubbliest I'ay -Pcr-View actresses.

Several months prior to her death. Tay dated llayden, who told Hi ho paid her medical bills and at times carried her to hospitals in efforts to re-hubilitate her. llayden also carried out Tav's wishes to be cremated. Hut an on-air memorial for Tay is what has her brother and sister Medusa and Jrff Ruach real angry. They feel "embarrassed and traumatized," want to be "at peace" and want her ashes buck.

The suit says $8 million would make It all bettor. Their lawyer didn't return our call, but llayden did. "Neither were around when Debbie was sick," he said. "In fact, Jeff slummed the door on her face one day. When she was alive, they wanted nothing to do with her.

They're picking her bones." Private parting A i A --l J- Ki i FAME IS SUITE: The funky Delmonico Hotel will start naming suites after famous New Yorkers. The Bo Dtotl suite named after trie private eve and security specialist gets unveiled tonight, with a bash to follow. UVINQ THE PART: The elegant Martha Stewart (above) was In coveralls Sunday at the Blue Parrot In East Hampton. Guess that homemaking thing is no act. DOM'S CASEBOOK: Dominie Barbara, Austin Offen's lawyer In the Shane Daniels clubbing case, is supposedly speaking with Judith Regan about writing a book.

This guy handled Jessica Hahn, John Wayne Bobbttt and Joey Buttafuoco. We smell a page-turner. THE FINAL IRONY: Mary Albert told the owner of Nino's restaurant, Nino SellmaJ, that Sunday's NBA final marked the first time two fatherless players from the same team (Steve Kerr and Michael Jordan) won on Father's Day. A morbid fact, but fascinating nonetheless, from Marv, who continues to amaze us. IS '-Sfe IV HITTirJG ALL THE RIGHT NOTES It's not everyone who can strike an electrifying chord in our hearts, but Les Shaking of Stern, it looks like the producers of his upcoming film, "Private Parts," want nothing short of perfection hen It comes to casting certain roles for the flick.

t.at week's hot canting call, we told you. was for the role of "Mandy" a lu it that requires full frontal nudity. Sources suy producers have seen some 23 women some of whom make their living as topless dancers and not a single one hus nuhhed the role to date. And Judging from some of the applicants we know, we're a bit shocked. "They're saying some breasts looked too fake, some women had bodies that were too cut and toned," a source said.

"And some hud ywni bodies, but couldn't read well. They really want perfection." Crammer lesson The mystery blond seen around town with KrUey Grammer ain't no mystery to the Italian half of this column. She's Playboy lingerie model and actress rani II Donalacc whom we go way back with to the days when she danced on Club MTV and gave us the nervous tic we still have to this very day. Before Kclvey, t'amile was making time with the breathing statue Marcus Schrnken-brrg Talk about a change. "I met Kelsey a week ago," Camile told us "I was impressed with him.

He's extremely Interesting, very funny and he's good to my friends. It's a friendship riKht now, nothing crazy, nothing wild." Is she worried about his supposed dark streak? "He told me, 'You're gonna see things written about me because I'm a target If something upsets you, Just call me and we II talk about it' Well, uw'rc upset she's dating him. Summer sleeper If there's one excuse that really gets Paul (top), the legendary guitarist, is certainly one of them. Here he is celebrating his 81st birthday at the Iridium Restaurant and Jazz Club, where he was awarded a commendation for lifetime achievement from the National; number of "regional journalists" and TV cats from New York got shafted. Academy of Recording Arts and Sciences.

Paul fan Rocky Aoki (above 1.) of Benihana was there to listen to the man and some of his acolytes including Ron Wood, Al Cooper and Mick Jones kick out the jams. Over at the New York State Theater at Lincoln Center, Lillias White (above of "How Aloha girls to Succeed in Business and others honor the spirit of choreographer Ulysses S. Dove, who died last week, with a dance benefit for the Actors' Fund of America. And that's Cap CitiesABC president Robert Iger and his wife, Willow Bay, at the SkyRink at Chelsea Piers, where Iger was feted for his work with NYC Outward Bound. The button-cute Olsen Twins, Mary Kate and Ashley, continue with their quest to amass a bigger fortune than Bill Gates'.

The girls just hightailed it to Hawaii to film four new children's mystery videos, one of which required permission from the Pentagon. See, for their "Case of the U.S. Navy Adventure," the girls had to receive special dispensation from top military brass to shoot at the U.S. Naval Base at Pearl Harbor and aboard the active destroyer John S. McCain.

Next up. the girls will star in the film "Youngsters" for Rhysher Entertainment, after shooting is through with their video mysteries. Hey, we have a special mystery for them to solve: Which one of their recently divorced parents will try to bilk cash from their accounts first? Tide's in It's all over in Malibu. The suits at "Baywatch" have chosen their new female African-American addition for next season. The winner is reportedly Tracey Bingham, who must be one helluva stunner since she went down to the wire for the part with Playboy's Miss June, Karln Taylor whom we know to be yery easy on the eyes.

i i It 00 2 "P- ill -i A 1 1 1 under our skin. It's when people tell us they were too tired to do something. CoiiHiderlng we average a whopping four hours of sleep a night, we find that pretty lame, hut that's exactly the excuse Woody llarrrlson gave for cutting short his press interviews in Washington, for "Kingpin." Some people wondered whether llarrrlson sliced two hours off the junket because Journalists weren't holding back with any of their questions, including those about his recent hemp arrest and him having a second child with his ifliticnd.i4f ikeswoman" front.