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OttawM Journal Saturday, January 13, 1979 The features page Page 20 a c3 Ann tv Landers Teen-age JJJear Ann Landers: Often adults express their in your column. I you will give a a chance, to do the ime. Right now I am in ftjt dumps because of a and I need to share my thoughts. Yes. a teenager can he in love.

I'm sure of it. It's having all those special CWclings for one person 'and sort of building your '-whole world around him. You have your little q'uar-, rels but it's wonderful when you make up. You're sure nothing can really separate you. Then.

when you get to the point where all you ant to do is he with him and nobody else it happens. He decides il would be best to end the relationship. His Well, you don't understand. Hut they're his reasons and Dial's thai. worse he doesn't have the.

guts In tell you and jtisl slops calling. All you can do is sil around and cry. You wait thinking ma) be he'll change his mind. Suddenly you realize he won't and that's hen you give up hope. You think Dr.

Joyce Jp Brothers Quiz on male myths We've heard a great deal about women's liberation but how much do you know about male liberation? Here's a chance to find oli l. 1. As a rule, little boys should receive less kissing and hugging than little girls because they need lo grow up learning how to bo tougher and more independent than the opposite True; False 2. Being able to take pain without complain: and suffer in silence is a sign of masculinity. True LJ False 3.

Violence plus Ihe ability to tough it out and slug it out are a natural part of being a male. True False I. A man should get mjist of his sense of identity from his work. True False 5. The added pri ilege and power that men have because of their sex generally works in their favor.

True V. False 6. Disgust for homosexuality indicates a man's sfrong heterosexualily a0d is. normal. TruelJ False 7.

A truly liberated man fuels that if women would play their old, conventional roles and stop carping about women's rights, bqb sexes would be freer and happier. True 11 False A liberated man wants to have children to affirm his manhood and prove his love and commitment to his wife. True False Answers: 1. FALSK. Little boys need to be reassured of love through touching and kissing just as little girls dt.

They need to learn tenderness in order to become warm adults. Psychiatrist Herb Goldberg says that, as a boy, the American male learns it's not manly to be kissed and hugged-bulwheh Jielhe wrong reasou to havfe, delegate to the Charlottetown conference that made grows up he's cri For being an abru Iclzed In sensitive lover; 12. FALSE. Al considered a sign ol cullnlty, 8urrcrig Icjice has nothQg though mas- in si-o do heart break you II die of a broken heart, but somehow you go on living. Most girls go through this a'gony many times before they find the right one.

So if any of you out there are sitting around feeling miserable because you're suffering from a split, please know you are no! alone. I am with you. I.efs put our heads on straight right now this very minute and start all over. Goodbye Depression, Hello Sunshine Dear Goodbye, Hello: Thank you for sharing your innermost feelings. Dear Ann lenders: How much validity do you attach lo (he newspaper and magazine polls? I am especially interested in the polls which list- "the most admired." Too Much Mystery Dear Mystery: The newspaper polls of "Ihe mosl admired" should be called "Ihe list of who's whose names are most recognizable." I agree, some of Ihe results don't make much sense.

For example: In a recent poll, Kichard Nixon and the Pope tied for seventh place. with this. A concept that is very injurious to males, it prevents them from asking for help when they need it. Statistics show that males make 25 percent fewer visits to doctors and dentists than females. As a result, when men do become ill it's more serious and their hospital stays average 15 percent longer.

Once again, this is part of the myth that traps men and makes them victims. Violent action is just what we don't need today. I. This is one of the reasons so many males become seriously ill when they retire. A sense of worth and of self shouldn't come solely through work.

Men have to learn lo become self-aviare and more conscious of their feelings and emotional needs. They have to learn to know themselves separate and apart from work. 5. Richard lladdad. executive director of Free Men, asks hat kind of privilege is il that bestows on males a shorter lifespan and a higher incidence of disease, crime, alcoholism and drug What kind of privilege blesses males with a compulsive and often self-destructive need to achieve? B.

A strong distaste for homosexuals may indicate fear of homosexual inclinations. When it's obsessive, fear of homosexuality acts as a barrier in establishing close male friendships. 7. FALSE. Most liberated males support the Women's movement and the Equal Rights Amendment.

They feel both sexes have been trapped by rigid sex roles and both need to be liberated. 8. FALSE. Many men do want to father children for this reason, but it Is a family. This kind of thinking inevitably leads to problems and disappointments.

If a man has children primarily to prove his masculinity, his children will ffer. Testin The rlnh Is often iisprt hs the testing ground for new conventions. A club has the right to permit players to test new Ides that are not officially approved by the ACBL for tournament play, subject only to the condition that a bid must serve a constructive purpose I.e. a bid whose only purpose is to disrupt the opponent's biding system cannot be permitted. Anyone wishing to try out a new Idea should ask the club director in advance some clubs in Ottawa permit experimentation with new ideas, others limit conventions lo ACBL approved ones only.

One other important point concerning new conventions should be mentioned here even if permission is granted to play a new convention in a club, only ACBL authorized conventions are permitted, at Sectional and Karpov PROBLEM: White to play and win. See solution at end of column. Anatoly Karpov was named by the Soviet Federation of Sports Journalists as "Sportsman of the Year" for I97X. Karpov also won that distinction in 1977. Karpov's claim to fame was defeating Viktor Korchnoi in the World-Championship match this fall.

Karpov probably gained extra points in the competition because Korchnoi defected from the Soviet I'nion; his defeat, in Soviet way of looking at things, is therefore a greater victory for Communism. Among the top ten sportsmen of the year was 17-year-old Maia Chiburdanidze, who won the Women's World Championship this summer. Her opponent, Nona Oaprindashvili, is a good Soviet citizen; otherwise Maia might have placed higher. Karpov was later welcomed to the order of Ihe Working Red Banner for his sporting achievement. In Canada, journalists wouldn't even consider chess a sport, much less nominate a chess player as sportsman of Ihe year! My nomination for chess player of the year for Canada is Jean llebert of Quebec.

Although ranked near the bottom of the tournament. Jean won the Canadian Closed Championship (his summer. Another major Canadian tournament has just recently been won by a French Canadian. Sylvain Rarbeau of Montreal won the Nth Canadian Junior Championship in Calgary. Photo reprints Reprints of JournalCP pictures appearing in The Journal can be obtained bv contacting The Canadian Press photo department at 238-4142 or bv writing to: The Canadian Press, Picture Service, P.O.

Box 595, Stn.B, Ottawa, KIP 5P7. The office is located at 140 Wellington St. Flashback on Canada By Bob Bow man Looking back on Canadian pollticul history, the worthiness of Joseph Howe to be regarded us a "great statesman" is difficult lo assess. Of course it might depend on the definition of "statesman." Bob Edwards, publisher of the Calgary Eye-Opener, defined a statesman as "a dead politician and there should be more of them." When Howe was Premier of Nova Scotia In 1861, he moved a resolution in the legislature that efforts should be made to Unite the British North American colonics, which were Canada, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia, Prince Edward Island and Newfoundland. The resolution was passed by the legislature, but Howe did nothing more to Implement It, Two years later Howe got out of politics and became fisheries commissioner for the British government.

In 1864, Premier Tupper of Nova Scotia Invited Howe to be the original plans for Confederation, but Howe.decllned the Invitation. He could also have attended the Quebec conference later In the year, but did not make any effort to be there. It was on January 13, 1865, that Howe revealed his true colors. He begi i lion in articles begaM serle series new Jean Flint Regional tournaments. Always ask a tournament director In advance if uncertain about the legality of a treatment or convention.

Bridge Calendar: Carlingwood. Jan. 16, Charily Swiss; Bytown, Jan. 17. Sectional Membership Game; K.A..

Jan. 1H, Novice; R.A., Jan. Grand National Teams, Sectional Rated, Red Points; Gloucester, Jan. 22. Sectional Membership Game.

Club Results: Carllngwooa Jan. 1 Section NS I. Patricia Hughes. Martin Newlond; 2. Bruce or nock.

K. Brule. E'W t. Lorne Russell. Joyce Lemotne; 7.

Stan and named Ik. Jonathan Berry on chess ahead of 11 other finalists. Second place was taken by Kevin Pacey of Brampton, while Ottawa's hope, David Ross, placed a respectable 5th. For many years. French Canadians did not make their presence felt atthe top of Canadian choss; Prior to Hebert, the only French Canadian to win the Canadian Championship was F.

Lambert of Ottawa in 1881. Chess has always been popular in Quebec. Why did it take the French Canadians so long? I think the main problem was that chess tournaments in Quebec were long the domain of the F.nglish-speaking people. It was only about 10 years ago that French-speakers started organizing their own tournaments, bigger and bettor than those anywhere else in Canada. Today the effort is paying off.

French Canadians hold three of the our national titles Barbeau also holds the Canadian High School Championship. In world news, Mikhail Tal and Yitaly Tsesh-kovsky won the Soviet Championship this year in a strong field. The biggest surprise was Ihe good performance of veteran Tama tieorgade, placing Ith in the mostly of attacks on Confedera- the Morning Chronicle of Barbara Tench. Section NS 1. Sonata and Ted Terrade; i.

Actvant, Ethel Olcksan. EW I. Mark and Barbara Sleorlst; Mike and Eric Nldd. Section NS I. T.

Beanoe. O. Vachon; 2. Georgia Lav. Heather Pedum EW I.

Leo Closer. Jim Rlegte; I. Janet Co. Stu Woe dermoid KMean Jan. 1 NS I.

Frank Trloo. Plriadd. 7. Bill Cunningham. Ron Morlbv.

EW I Andre Ruest, J. Shaw; 1. Ida Mortbv. K. Chowla.

Convent Glen Jan. 1. Harold and Jessie Pettller. 1. Bill and Sharon Sharp; 3.

Tom Barrett. Mark Allen. West End Jan. NS I. Katie Gottlieb.

Merck Co-plan. 2. G. S. Lew.

Sue Allard. EW I. Phyllis Slapteton. Mar lor le Sara-2ln; 2. Pout Rouleau.

Jean Richer. Bvtown Jan. I 1. Janet Cox. Sandra Terrode; i.

John Bowman, Adott Fetnaold; 3. Sheila Taylor, Dave stothart. A Jon 4 Membership: I. Jim Rleate. Leo Glaser; 2.

Dave Stothart, Bub Lo-gowskl; 3. John and Pat McAdum; 4. Cliff and Anita Hargrove. top sportsman Grandmaster field. Three Yugoslavs qualified for the Interzonals-by taking the top- places the Mediterranean Zonal inoAlbufetri.

Portugal. D. Velimirovic. L. Ljuboje-vic, and B.

Ivkov edge-dout Italians Mariotti and Tatai for the coveted places. Twenty-three finalists took part. Charles Goren on bridge Q.l Both vulnerable, as South you hold: KJ1062 VKQ83 OQ94 4K The bidding has proceeded: North Eaat South West Pim Paso 1 Pass 2 NT Pass What action do you take? Q.2 As South, vulnerable1, you hold: 7 7A92 010987542 484 The bidding has proceeded: East South West North 3 Pass 4 Dble. Pass What action do you take? Q.3 East-West vulnerable, as South you hold: 6 7852 OJ72 AQ 10943 The bidding has proceeded: South West North East Pass Pass 1 2 'C 1 What action to you take? Q. 4 Both vulnerable, as South you hold: KQJ92 873 0 852 94 The bidding has proceeded: West North East South 1 0 Dble.

4 What action, do you take? Q. 5 Neither vulnerable, as Howe changed spots Halifax. He called Confederation "botheration." Instead, he proposed that British North American colonics should have seats in the British parliament and that colonials should also be allowed to serve in the British civil service. There Is a story that he was asked by a friend why he had turned his back on Confederation and he Is said to have replied in effect "If you had got together a circus, how would you like it if that fellow Tupper came and stood by the door and collected the shillings?" In 1869, Howe did another turnabout: he Joined Prime Minister Macdonald's government as Secretary of State. His old Liberal friends would not be seen on the same side of the street, with him.

Other events Jan. 13 1825: Upper Canada legislature set price of bread. 1837: Large part of Saint John, N. B. was destroyed by fire, ideas US38W.IJtotJienzte abandoned his basOILN.ayyJs 1854: First sod turned at Halifax for Nova Scotia railway.

1047: Privy Council in Britain agreed that Supreme Court of Canada should be final court of appeal. Ocean Falls, B. C. even were Miieu. WlUWtM JOILI NS I.

Evelyn and Jack Knapp; 2. Vlvkv and Mene Kvrloco. EW 1. Doris and Lloyd Holmes; 2. Peter Smith.

Sue Waiiaot. Capnal Jan. I NS 1. Ken Daw. Sandro Terrade; 2.

Jane Hura. Pot McAdam. EW I. Jim Hovey. Salty MacRae; 21 Mike Lamothe.

Al McDonald; 21 Bin and Barbara von Hausen. West End Jan 4 NS I. Vic Gioccone, BobLooowskl; 2. Ame Thoin. Roger Phi 1 1 Ion eW 1.

Lea Glaser, John McAdo; 1. Katie and Ben Gottlieb. Capital Jan. 7 NS I. Dove stothart.

Cliff Hargrove; 2. Bill and Barbara von Hausen. EW I. WIN Bell. Willi Pariah.

2. Katw and Ben Gottlieb. Bytown Jan. I I. John Bowman, Paul 1 Marty Cotey.

Mike Lamotht; 1 Janet Cox. Htather Pecfcett. OloocMtar Jan. I NS 1. V.c mx cone, Roaer Phil-lion; 7.

Peter Clark, Ed Mouire 1. Jim Riegle, Dave Stothort, 7. 0. Kent, A Bosnvok. St.

Lawrence Colieae Jan. 2 NS I. Morgoret Compoetl, How or Cunntngham; 7. Aretha Chorrcbots, Richard Balrd. EW 1.

Barbara Taylor, Charles von Bergen, 2. Dorothy Donfhee. Mildred Morln Alexandria A District Jan. 1 NS Claire and Jeon Claude; 1. Heather Gront, Howard Cunningham.

EW 1. Leo ond Roger Lemieux; 2. Mary Jane MacDonald. James Dor sev. Cornwall A Dutrkt Jan.

4 NS 1. Richard Balrd, Kirkwood Malette; 2. Normon Licht, Michael Rev. II Ew I. Wilfred Fournier.

Chorle von Bergen; 2. Key Guy, Brian McCartney. -a in to A SOLUTION: l.Rd8 BIX 2.Bf A most surprising move. White gives his king breathing room and-in turn threatens a back-rank mate himself. All for only a Queen! 2.

2.Bh6 and mate is un avoidable. If 2. Qa5 3.RxfK Kxf8 white wins easilv. I.Qxc3 South you hold: 105 106 0 AK 1082 954 The bidding has proceeded: North East South West 1 Pass 2 0 3 3 Pass What action do you take? Q. 6 Both vulnerable, as South you hold: A10962 0 84 952 The bidding has proceeded: South West North East Pass 1 Dble.

Pass What do you bid now? Q.7-Neither vulnerable, as South you hold: AK83 7Q7 OAK93 4762 The bidding has proceeded: West North East South 1 Pass What do you bid now? Q. 8-East-West vulnerable, as South you hold: A76 OA92 4AK954 The bidding has proceeded: South West North East 1 Pass IV 1 hat do you bid now? Look for answers on Monday. was hit byn avalanche and 0 Eunice Gnrrlinor yBe Heard We have a parent who is celebrating his lOOlh birthday in late February and we are anxious that the occasion be marked with a congratulatory message from the Queen. Where must we write? Changes may be made with the arrival of the newly-appointed governor general later this month. However, any such requests ordinarily are made through Government House.

You may wish to discuss Ihe matter by telephoning there because of time a Can you tell me what to do with rusty stovepipes which we want lo clean up and protect from further rusting? We intend to use them in a sugar shack so they will only be used for a short time of the year. This is a difficult question you have posed because it may be much safer and less costly to replace the stovepipe rather than to try to clean It up. A brush might be used to cleun away some of the outer rust (it would be impossible to do the interior of the pipes) before using an anli-rust inhibitor (phosphoric-acid type for steel) and a stove black available at many hardware stores. Sunar shacks with their wide variances in temperature and high condensation are troublesome spots in which to protect metals. On television the other morning we saw some pictures by a Canadian artist from a collection opening within a few days at the National Gallery.

We did not hear the name of the artist. Can you identify him? A collection of Ihe work of George Heriot's water-colours and prints will be on display from Jan. 19 until March I. The artist was one of the most respected military artists in born lo an old and illustrious Scottish family. The collection of some 140 items was brought together by the Agnes Elheruigton Art Centre in Kingston.

From Ottawa, the collection will move on to McCord Museum, Montreal, the Art Gallery of Windsor, and the Royal Ontario Museum in the spring and early summer. Amongst my souvenirs I have found a silver spoon on which the words G'rebbc, Rhenonhave been inscribed. I believe that is in the Netherlands but I have been unable to find reference to it. On this spoon there also appears the symbol of a soldier's tin hat and gun. Can you tell me if there may have been a battle at that location in one of the wars? Many soldiers lost Iheir lives in a bitter battle at Grebbe Berg early in the Second World War in the Netherlands.

The Grebbe Line was a most important defence line against Germany's invading troops in Holland in May, The area is located near Ihe border of the provinces of Gelderland and Utrecht. Your spoon, without doubt, marked that period in the early days and could be quite valuable to collectors of such wartime memorabilia. We would like to travel to the Canadian Kast Coast in the summer months and would like our travels to coincide with one of the Scottish celebrations there. Can you suggest a time for us to go? BK HEARD is advised that the International Gathering of the Clans will be held from June 29th to Aug. 12.

Dates of the festivals across Nova Scotia are as follows: Pugwash- June 29 to July Antigonish- July 7-15; Sydney- July 28-29; New Glasgow- Aug. 6-11; lona-home of the Highland Village, Aug. 4 celebrations; St. Ann's- Aug. 7-10.

Further information may be obtained by writing Information Office, 1979 International Gathering of the Clans, P.O. Box 1.10, Halifax, N.S. B3J 2M7. BE HEARD welcomes your questions on almost any subject. The BE HEARD team knows how to get the answers.

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