The Kokomo Tribune from Kokomo, Indiana • Page 11

Four Couples Exchange Vows During Sunday Weddi Golper-Coy Conwell-McAninch Monday, Aug. 18, 1969 KOKOMO (Ind.) TRIBUNE 11 ing Ceremonies Webb-Campbell Miss Lee Ann Coy and Thomas Alan Golper were married Sunday afternoon at Kokomo Country Club during a dou- (Photo by Simmons) MRS. THOMAS GOLFER (Miss Lee Ann Coy) ble-ring ceremony performed by Rabbi Mark Shipiro, Glenview, 111. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Georgia Vaught Clifford, 1901 S.

Park Rd. Parents of the bridegroom are Dr. and Mrs. Marvin N. Golper, 411 Morningside Dr.

A Victorian design gown of ribbed organza accented with Venise lace was chosen by the bride. Her elbow-length illusion veil was secured to a lace headpiece, and she carried a cluster of Phal- linopsis orchids and stephanotis. Mrs. Pamela McGuire, aunt of the bride, attended as matron of honor. Bridesmaids were Miss Ann Becker, Milwaukee, Mrs.

Gary Phillips, Wheeling, 111., and Miss Rhonda Clifford. They wore gowns of yellow satin and organza with matching satin bow headpieces, Each carried a bouquet of pompom daisies. Betsy Wiley, Philadelphia, served as flower firl; with Steven Phillips, Wheeling, as ring bearer. Serving his brother as best man was James Golper. Groomsmen included Stephen Becker and Richard Maness, both of Milwaukee, and John Golper.

A reception in the Country Club followed the ceremony. The rehearsal dinner, also at the Country Club, was given Saturday night by the bridegroom's parents. The bride, a 1966 graduate of Hamilton Heights High School, is a speech and hearing major at Indiana University. She is affiliated with Sigma Alpha Eta honorary. Her husband was graduated in 1965 from Kokomo High School and in June from Northwestern University.

He is a member of Tau Delta Phi fraternity and a student at I.U. Medical School. They will live in Indianapolis. Miss Nita Jane McAninch became the bride of James L. Conwell Sunday afternoon in New London Friends Their double-ring vows were heard by the Rev.

0. B. Ransopher. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Dear Abby: DEAR ABBY: My husband tells me not to call his office as it annoys his secretary, whom he calls his "office wife." How about that? My husband never turns a hand to do a thing for himself.

His shoes are shined, his clothes are cared for, and he rides in a golf cart to save his feet. He exercises on an electric "exercycle," which cost 500 bucks. Contrast this with my lot: I may go anywhere I can take my four small children, because my husband doesn't want me to have a babysitter. If I entertain, I can't have my own sister and her husband, because my husband doesn't care for her husband. I mow the lawn in the summer and shovel the driveway in the winter.

I wash the walls and paint them myself, clean the garage, haul the trash and do all the work most men do around the house. Then he tells me, "Think cheerful thoughts! Be happy when I get home!" Wliat do you think of this set up, Abby? 1 haven't told you even half the story. The "problems" most people write to you about make me envious. I am so dominated I hardly know my own name. What do you suggest! Sign me, "DOORMAT" DEAR 1 suggest you address your complaints to your husband.

No woman can be a doormat unless she lies down first. DEAR ABBY: I am 17, and have a few words for OFF MY CHEST who accused the younger generation of calling his the "do nothing" generation. Sir, I grant that all you say is true. Your generation has accomplished much. You made it possible for the common person to obtain a college education.

Now college is for anyone who can make the grade. So don't tell us to get started early to "beat the record" you set in accomplishments. You gave us the earliest start possible. You made our education possible. Now that you have put us on the right path, who is to say what we will accomplish in the next 30 years, before our time is up and the next generation Mrs.

Sterling Davis Returns From Annual Keyboard Seminar Mrs. E. W. McAninch, Russiaville K. R.

2, and Mr. and Mrs. Onas Conwell Kokomo R. R. 2.

Given in marriage by tier father, the bride wore an Empire gown of organza accented with Chantilace and sequins. A Camelot headpiece secured her floor- length veil, and she carried a cascade of white daisies. Miss Parn Milligan was maid of honor, with Miss Penny Orbaugh as bridesmaid. They wore floor-length gowns of lavender and yellow dotted swiss. Organza petals centered with cabbage roses held their veils, and they carried bouquets of yellow and white daisies.

Dana Reser, Russiaville, attended as flower girl. Bart Alexander was ring bearer. Serving as best man was Ed Miller, with Onas Conwell Jr. as groomsman. Ushers Were John and Joe McAninch, both of Russiaville.

A church reception followed the ceremony. The rehearsal dinner was Friday night in the church. The bride is a 1969 graduate of Western High School. A 1968 Northwestern High School graduate, the bridegroom is employed by Delco Radio Division. The couple will live in Kokomo.

The couple will be at home in Indianapolis after Aug. 24. Miss Janet Sue Campbell breame the P'oyed by Zale Corporation. The bride- bride of Gary L. Webb Sunday after- toom a 1968 graduate, is em- noon in Church of the Brethren, Lincoln as credit manager of In- Rd.

The Rev. Jesse Cooke heard the dianapolis. couple's double ring vows. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs.

Henry A. Campbell, 1708 Gordon and Mr. and Mrs. James M. Webb, 5510 Arrowhead Blvd.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore an Empire-styled gown of nylon organza styled with a Sabrina neckline and A-line skirt. Organza petals and jeweled rosebuds secured her illusion veil and she carried a cascade of white roses and ivy. Mrs. Mitchell Pierce, matron of honor, and Miss Shari Kiddie, bridesmaid, wore floor-length, Empire-styled gowns of blue jarkarta trimmed Venice lace. Matching bows secured their veils, and each carried a long-stemmed white rose.

Mr. Pierce performed the duties of best man. James P. Campbell was groomsmen. Guests were ushered by Jeffrey S.

Muster, Michael Bean and Clinton Wray. Following a church reception, the couple left for a wedding trip south. The bride was graduated from Kokomo High School in 1969, and is em- Barker-Beam Fashions FOR WOMEN THE KOKOMO TRIBUNE (Photo by Simmons) MRS. JAMES CONWELL (Miss Nita McAninch) First Congregational Christian Church was the scene of the Sunday night wedding of Miss Marcia Diane Beam and Michael Earl Barker. The Rev, Hilton Whjtaker performed the double-ring service.

Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. William Beam 300 Northwestern and Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Barker Kokomo R.

R. 2. A nylon organza gown trimmed with pearl-encrusted Chantilace was worn by the bride as she was given in marriage by her father. Her veil was secured to a cluster of illusion petals, and she carried a white Bible topped with a white orchid and stephanotis. Attending her sister as maid of honor was Miss Carol Beam in'a turquoise Aline crepe gown.

Bridesmaids were Miss Susan Jones, Anderson; Miss Pat Ridgeway, Park Forest, 111., and Miss Sue Beam. Their gowns were of mint green crepe. Each attendant wore a matching bow headpiece and carried a single white rose. Susan Fenn was flower girl, with Mark Fenn as ring bearer. Serving his brother as best man was Steven Barker, Columbia City.

Thomas Maher was groomsman, with Mark Francis and Randall Beam as ushers. fe A reception followed the ceremony in Pilgrim Hall of the church. The rehearsal dinner was Saturday night in Jefferson House. The bride and bridegroom are 1968 graduates of Northwestern High School. She attends Indiana University-Kokomo.

He attended Indiana Central College and is serving with the United States Army as a military policeman. Following a 30-day leave, he will be sent to Viet Nam. (Photo by Simmons) MRS. GARY WEBB (Miss Janet Campbell) Minimum Age: 50 Activities Keep Things Jumping for Retirees takes over? As you have done much. We will do much.

In fact, we will do more, just as you did more than your parents. And do you know why? Because whatever we do, we will have done standing upon your shoulders, as you have stood on the shoulders of those who came before you. We have your accumulated wisdom to draw upon, and your accumulated experience to guide our future actions. The accomplishments of men are not competitive among the generations. They are cumulative.

To say that your generation did nothing is the worst possible error. Your generation gave life to our generation, and that accomplishment alone merits my thanks and respect. My congratulations. I think you have done a great job of it. Sincerely, JEFF DUNTEMANN, CHICAGO DEAR ABBY I am a girl, 14, who sits for a lady who has twin boys, 2, and a girl, 6.

She also has a son, 15. When I sit there, I have more trouble with the 15-year-old boy than I do with the other kids, you you know what I mean. He is all the time talking dirty and like that. I don't want to get this boy in trouble, but I really don't care to sit there again if I know that boy will be home. The lady is very nice and the baby sitting money sure comes in handy, so how do I solve my problem without getting the boy in trouble? "CRESTVIEW 3" DEAR Maybe the boy needs to get Into "a little trouble" now in order to stay out of a lot of trouble later.

The next time you are asked to sit there, tell the lady of the house to tell her son to behave himself, and I doubt if you'll have to stand for any more of his nonsense. CONFIDENTIAL TO "NEEDS Unfortunately, what you would have to say about your wife in order to gain custody of your children, few men would be willing to say about the mother of their children. Sorry, but that's the way the cookie crumbles, Dad. By VIVIAN BROWN AP Newsfeatures Writer SOUTHBURY, Conn. (AP) Some retirement condominium communities are so swinging that couples move in years before they actually retire from their jobs.

A minimum age of 50 and no children under 18 is the basic requirement here at the 1,000 acre Heritage Village. "Leisure" doesn't mean retirement --more than half the 800 residents in a variety of condominium homes commute to their jobs, but they can relax when they get home. As one executive explained: "Where else can you have a maintenance-free existence that includes a golf course, horseback riding, fishing, swimming pool, yardmen, ground keepers and maids if you want them." Then, too, the condominium offers a stabilized financial prospect to retirees since the fixed monthly sum covers practically all costs of running the home. This feature has made the condo- ninium village popular in many areas of the United States. The choreless existence appeals both to people who could not obtain services to run large residences, and to older retired couples who require a stabilized financial picture and maintenance-free housing.

In the evening, they'll have enough energy to swing their partner at a square dance. "It is like living in a country club," explained one SOish woman as she packed her exercise suit and took off for the activities building. She. would lie on a slant board, activate one or another pieces of exercise machinery, enjoy a sauna, loll in the whirlpool bath for a while. Depending on the day of the week, she could join a class in sculpting, painting, dressmaking, needlework, knitting, ceramics, rug hooking, investments or Spanish.

This particular day there was a luncheon and fashion show with residents modeling clothes from England, Italy, Spain, British Columbia as well Clubs And Circles Mrs. Robert Nicholson was hostess for JOY CIRCLE, Calvary Baptist Church, Thursday night. Mrs. Leon Richardson opened with prayer. It was announced that White Cross overseas and overland quotas, due in January and November, respectively, include 20 roller bandages, 25 gauze lap pads and one hammer.

It was announced that cookies will be served at a rummage sale for migrants on Aug. 30; that volunteers may go to mission to do serving for migrants, and that "Adopt a an orientation meeting at Logansport State Hospital, will be 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Tuesday. Mrs. Renie Mitchell presented prayer calls and the Bible book of the month.

Mrs. Jerry Goodwin read the poem "My Opportunity" and Mrs. Richard Cottrell read "A Time To Canned food and paper articles for the needy were collected for Mrs. James Caylor. "Christian Attitudes in Modern Times" was.

the devotional topic presented by Mrs. Edgar Lovelace for JEWEL COMMUNITY CLUB in the home of MRS. Pearl Smith Thursday afternoon. Mrs. Smith presented the program on the Mayor brothers of the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota.

She said they began helping people because of a tornado, and that they first practiced in a dance hall. LADY EAGLES read two applications for membership and heard letters from state and grand auxiliaries Thursday night, in Eagles Home. Mrs. Ethel Blankenship reported on the international convention in Minneapolis. Prizewinners were Mrs.

George McKee, Mrs. Lewis Watson and Mrs. Mary De- Laughter. It was announced nominations for chaplain and conductress will be held Aug. 28.

as American designs. The sophisticated audience of residents included wives of bank presidents, lawyers, engineers, college professors. (One distinguished Heritage Village resident is sculptor Harriet Frishmuth, who was a pupil of Rodin's for six years. Four of her pieces are in the Metropolitan Museum of Art.) The fashions ranged the gamut--from bathing suits to evening dresses. Hazel Mason, former bridal consultant, who wore a pink and blue gown with a fringed shawl, statuesque Barbara Campbell in a white sharkskin pants suit and Wynn Wittnebel in a white dress aitli a bare midriff looked like professional models.

Some of the women owed their new svelle appearance, youthful make-up and hairstyles lo a course conducted at the activities building by Beth Brown of Total Image. For 40 years, Mrs. Brown has been engaged in the cosmetics and modeling business, and has conducted traveling fashion shows in Indiana and West Virginia. Her experience led to the present endeavor, conducting "image" courses designed for particular groups--teenagers, career women, housing area residents. "I teach posture, diet, skin care, make-up, and I explain to the ladies that the more they put into life, the more they will get out of it," says Mrs.

Brown. Mrs. Sterling M. Davis Jr. has returned from the 32nd annual Keyboard Seminar of Sherwood Music School in Chicago.

The seminar, which was conducted from Aug. 5-14, is essentially a "refresher" course by which teachers of the school are kept in touch with the latest developments in music education. It includes private lessons from artist teachers, advanced theory studies and lectures on methods and materials. Highlights of this year's seminar included daily luncheons, a luncheon at Kungsholm Restaurant and a miniature opera performance. Mrs.

Davis has announced that her studio will begin activites of the new teaching season Sept. I. Some Have It Some have it and some don't in the duck pen of Mrs. William Wright, near Pottstown, Pa. That is, powder puffs or plumes on the sides of the heads of the ducks.

Some of the ducks hatched out on the Wright's farm with plumes while others did not. Mrs. Wright could not offer an explanation. (AP Wirepholo).