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Ann Landers. Answers Your Problems Dear Ann Landers: The day I married I became a beggar. Not the kind that walks the streets with a tin cup. This is worse. During my 10 years of marriage, whether I stayed at home or worked out, I had to account for every penny that passed my hands.

"Why did you make a long distance call? Why did you buy a new broom, the old one was all right. Where's the change from the dollar I gave you for cough medicine?" Once when I needed a winter coat my husband bought a used one from his sister. It was a lovely coat, and not badly worn, but that was nine years ago and I'm still wearing it. Our home is shabby. Almost everything needs re-doing.

The 'odd part of it is we aren't hard up for money. We have a good bank account, my husband is well employed and there's no reason for us to live like this. How does a woman get out of the beggar class after 10 years? How can she regain her dignity? Please tell me. ASHAMED You're so articulate when it comes to expressing yourself on paper, too bad you're incapable of uttering these words to your husband, who SHOULD be getting the earful. No woman (or man) should have to beg his mate for money.

Marriage is a partnership. Women who work and hand over their paychecks, then plead for a handout are fools. Men who give The Little Woman every dime, then beg for cigarette money are stupid. The method of handling the family finances should be discussed before marriage. This isn't mercenary, it's sensible.

And it prevents problems later. Money can be more than something with which to pay bills. It can be a club with which to beat a spouse over the head. Ten years is a long time, want to write to you was from the widow, age 34. She wantec to remarry but her children were against it.

She said her children "could never love another I'm an authority on the subject, because my mother wa: left a widow at 34, also. I was 13 when a man wanted to marry her. I felt uneasy but it helped when he told me he could never take the place my real daddy and would never try. He said he'd do everything in his power to be as near a "real daddy" as possible. He was a wonderful father and friend and I don't know how I could.have loved him more.

Now that I'm married and away from home I'm so happy knowing my mother has sornesne with whom to share her life and that she is not lonely. Print this letter, Ann, if you think it may help some child to have a better understand ing. A DAUGHTER xe Dear Ann Landers: I'm 13 years old and have a good paper route. I am saving for college but my dad thinks I should have an allowance of $2.50 a week to spend as I choose. I save part of this allowance in a box on my dresser.

I have over $16 right now. I am sort of the banker in our room. When the fellows run short of money they come to me for a loan. Most of the guys pay me back when they say they will. A certain kid I will call Rusty is a dead-beat.

He owes me 50 cents since September, and 75 cents since October. Now he wants me to let him have 50 cents again for a cook-out. What do you think? Dear is: I PaMy Mews Fairbanks Daily News-Miner, Saturday, Dec. 27, 1958 SMALL TALK by Sym "You mean you didn't walk "Fallen arches through the ruins when you were in Rome. How come Purely Personal Miss.

Pamela Young cele-! daughter. Melanye, 2, of Ladd brated her second This is Mrs. Pearson's December 16 with a party first trip to Alaska, given by her mother, Mrs. Rodger Young, at their quarters at Eielson AFB. Invited Dr.

Harvey Anderson of Clatskanie, formerly of SANTA VISITS Glaus pays a visit to the Dancing Dolls at the recent Hunter Kindergarten P-TA program. Enjoying his Christmas Eve visit is Gary Severence as Santa (left). Others in the picture are (left to right) Christine Cox, Vicki Harkovitch, Susan Evans and Carol Gillanders. Roxanne Olsen is the doll that is seated by her dog friend. Additional songs and dances by the children in the play, Karen Miles, Jeanne Wenholz and Nancy Sears completed the program.

guests were Georgia Com-! Fairbanks, was in town yes- I mings, Patty Belie, Mary terday en route to Nome, Matthias, Anna Katherine where he plans to fill in for York, Debra and Pammy! a physician for a couple of Drotor, Kim Johnson a weeks while the latter is out Joey Thornier. The Youngs'of town. Dr. Anderson served recently returned to Eielson I on the Fairbanks City Council from Anchorage where they'from July 1956 to Aug. 1957.

lad been living. Try Cheese for a Dessert Change varieties of cheese is ir Ace-rathe hole, that bert Although French think you should not lend in it has been made i By CECILY BROWNSTON6 Associated Press Food Editor Cheese for dessert and snacktime, is in fashion. Americans traveling abroad have discovered how good intriguing varieties of cheese taste when they are served at the end of a meal. Others of us, conscious of nutrition and calories, like to offer cheese at snacktime. One of the most delightful varieties of cheese is Camem- ori- gm, it has been maae in this AJiii UU.O jAitiuw iii UIULJ Rusty any more money until since the last century hS hS hm him he'll have to take better care of his credit if he expects to use it.

To learn how to keep your boy friend in line without losing him, send for Ann Landers' new booklet, "Necking and How Far To Because it's a whole milk cheese, it supplies vitamin like other cheese it also offers protein of the best quality, calcium and riboflavin (one of the vitamins). A small (1 one-third ounces) wedge of Camembert plus an apple will give you valuable nutrients and together they Go," enclosing with your CO ta oniy ha i calories but I suggest you sit down with the miser and insist on an allowance as of now. If he refuses, see a lawyer about a separation. Perhaps ULJlllcUil U111V llali when he learns he may have 1 quest 20 cents in coin and 01 sav a ece ple to support two households, (large, self-addressed, stamped you a to this de- he'll change his tune. jlectable cheese at'its best, I Ann Landers will be glad to i a ii ow i to stan at room tern- Dear Ann: I have never i help you with your problems, perature before serving.

And read a letter in your column Send them to her in care sur to eat its slightly from a contented step-child, this newspaper enclosing a crus tv rind it's edible and Step-fathers usually are pic- stamped, self -addressed en-1 delicious. The inner creamy tured as vilhans who take velope. portion of the cheese al- Copynght 1958, Field Enter- most id when fully ripe Hunter Kindergarten Has Program for. P-TA Meet Ollie A. Munier met daughter Friday night at temational Airport.

Mrs. Char-1 lotte King and her two Bruce and Jeff, arrived byj Pan American and plan 1 7 stay for a week or ten days! 1 OlLOW at the Munier residence atj Members of the Hunter could be made to addjlOU Lathrop St. Charlotte at-1 Variety will be '-n trip wprrirnbp of pach doll 'tended the University of JL. 1C UC ul la dergarten P-TA enjoyed a the wardrobe ooJJ see Rainbow Girls Monday at tha Christmas program presented! sion Sf nresented a number of her schoolmates Masonic Temple. The show by members of the kindergar- i under while she is here.

The Kings starts at with general ten class. Committee chair i rection of Mrs. Pete Harko-icall Rolling Hills, California, admission oO cents. men gave reports and thejvitch. Students from the Edna home, group Consisting of talent show and Mrs.

Henry Carter Night will be two hours packed full of entertainment, a representative of the organization Immaculate I said. ing in the multi-purpose room, play "Santa Visits the kielson Art, will Children of the kindergarten! ing Doll" were Christine Fox, ed Sunday at the Fairbanks classes who earn the privilege! i i Harkovitch, Susar. i Church of the Immaculate will be allowed to take a dolliSvans, Carol Gillanders at 1:30 p.m God- Tickets for the event may home for the it was Olsen. Gary Sever-! parents will be Alfredo be obtained from any Rainbow ported ience was the Santa. jMendez and his wue, Este-jGirl or at the door the evs- Members were asked Others appearing on the pro-' vaaia.

Attending the christen- ning of the show. bring material and were Karen party at The Ra inb ow Girls an- to the January meet-i Jeanne Wenholz and Nancy Barter residence, rsicg. that refreshments hat additional I A PK 3 will be served to those attend- machines ing so that Perfume Primer: Use Is Essence of Simplicity Frank Carrastuello and fam-i- ily and M.Sgt. Clarence Bend-j 5 er and family. Mrs.

Ray E. Pearson Miles City. Mont, is spending Feed mammas away from kids. The letter that made me Graceful Look prises, Inc. as a me quality on the 775! tongue.

Camembert, like other soft cheese, should be refrigerated 'gltohkV) until you are ready to serve it. If you buy it in a half- circular box, containing three foil-wrapped wedges, keep it I in this covered container dur- CHEESE Camembert set out on celery stalks and ready as a delightful snack. In its most customary serving, the cheese is a fine windup to a meal, spread on crackers and consumed with an apple or any fresh fruit. lilies oity, iuuiii. bpeaunig; the holidays visiting her son Qjo NEW YORK One of is for use after the bath -'and his family, Lt.

and Mrs jOld.l\,U. the most important parts of; about the neck and shoulders. Kenneth E. Pearson and, For Eag Eag es Auxi jj. members and guests, a crab feed is scheduled for to- night starting at 7 p.m.

A real i change of pace from Christ; mas fare is planned, a spokes- jman said. I Following the eating of aU crab in Eagles Hall, those a woman's grooming is then there is the concen-' fume," says Edouard Cour-'trate this is the powereful. nand. "You cannot be well! stuff to be sprayed on the hair groomed without dabbed on ears and wrists: Mr. Cournand may be pre- and elbows.

"One of the reasons that Americans use so little perfume is that manufacturers judiced. By virtue of his position as top salesman for a big Calendar of Coming Events SATURDAY Paris perfume company, how- i ever, he's a qualified expert i have been trying to hint Syrian church. Amen-! but never to say that per- mixture it made a big hit with celery, paprika, halved-" lvln aav ce le fom woman about the oest is an our family and friends. AndjMacadamia nuts. the combination can do triple Have duty.

You may serve it as a first course with tomato juice and Camembert at room tern-; have given 1 of the product, cream cheese i attending may stay and danca Movie, 2:30 and 7 p.m., for the remainder of the ning. Christ Rally, Salvation Army auditorium, 412 5th Ave. I uu u. VL 11 ing the refrigeration. You'll you may THE BRIDE COOKS SUPPER Minute Steaks Green Peas Potato Sticks Salad Bowl Cheese Biscuits Fruit Beverage CHEESE BISCUITS notice that the box is stamped with a month and a day, with the direction that the cheese be used before this date.

That's because Camembert is a continuously ripening" cheese! Its surface mold keeps marMlfarrurprs 1S 3 Le sa are Masonic Lodse and Eastern Star In- rume manuiaccurers 5 a p.m. Masonic Temple, iven out so many com-; De a we ena ctnriAc ahrmr npr-1 Would you want to Oring your da Ce 8 P.m.. NCO Club, Latfd AFB. bottle of aphrocisH 1 Crab Feed, 7 to 9 p.m.. Eagles SUNDAY ciiuii ui casing aa vuui aaiau -o- course.

Or you can serve it dry thoroughly. Trim, but chemistry. And they keep em-j champagne it is something leave some of the leafy tops I phasizing that perfume is that emphasizes your mood, the small branches near rare, costly, a treasure. All excites the nervous senses. heart Partly fill celery I this has discouraged But an ugly woman can wear i American women from us-Sail the perfume in the world perfume is like I USO Coffee Hour, 9:30 a.m., USO.

Bartenders' Union, Ingredients: 1 cup biscuit mix ripening it, changing its chalky (lightly packed), cup grated color to a golden one, soften-Ingredients: along with crackers, fruit and nuts at snacktime. CAMEMBERT STUFFED CELERY branches with cheese mixture. Sprinkle with paprika. Gar- Eagles hall local 877, noon, Fairbanks Civic League, i p.m., 22nd Ave. Buffet supper for servicemen their families, 5:30 p.m., USO.

Variety Show, 7 p.m., USO. BABY, IT'S COLD NEW YORK, experts pass the word: clothing protects best when it ia relatively non-porous and worn loosely. The secret you ara jyour own best radiator. Tha purpose of winter clothing ia not to keep cold out but keep heat in. Soft and graceful from every angle this step-in casual is beautifully designed to minimize your measurements.

Novel collar is notched for fashion interest; skirt is gently flared. Printed Pattern 9373: Women's Sizes 36, 38, 40, 42, 44, 46, 48, 50. Size 36 takes yards 35-inch material. Printed directions on each pattern part. Easier.

Accurate. Send 50c in coin (no stamps, please) for Pattern, with Name, Address, Style Number and Size. Address Pattern Bureau, Fairbanks Daily News- Romano cheese, Vt cup hea.vy cream, 2 tablespoons milk, paprika. Method: Stir biscuit mix and grated cheese together. Add cream and milk; stir with a fork until dry ingredients are moistened.

Spoon into small- size cupcake pans. SprinRle lightly with paprika. Bake in very hot (450 degrees) oven until tops are browned about 10 minutes. Remove from pans at once and serve very hot with butter. If cupcake pans whose wells each 1 package (3 ish with halved Macadamia ing as much perfume as they'i and she will still be ugly." What kind of a ing its texture and developing ounces) cream cheese, nuts, pressing them down.

Actually, says Cournand, the i should a woman choose? its flavor. wedges (1 and one-third Celery may be cut into 3-inch best way to use perfume is as! "What she likes," When recently we stuffed ounces each) Camembert i wedges before or after stuffing a spray, and the best place i Cournand firmly. celery with a Camembergl cheese, 2 to 3 small stalks of 1 if desired. Raising a Genius? It's Not Easy i to spray it is on the hair. "Perfume is largely alco- NEW YORK should wear it as long as she! likes.

However, if she goes i ienan Churcn. have trouble coping with your teen-ager? How would you like it if he were a genius? "It's not easy," says Mrs. Regina Fischer of Brooklyn. Her 15-year-old son, Bobby, hold 2 tablespoons are used, is a genius at chess He won i TTntfoH Rf'afpc rnamninn- this amount will small biscuits. make 12 the United States champion shin at 14 and became the Ever how he could manage.

He doesn't speak the languages. I could just see him sleeping in a train station somewhere and people stealing everything he had." Found Space But Bobby jsed.his tourna- Births at St. Joseph's youngest international Grand Master in history this summer. His one dream is to snatch the world chess crown from the present champion, Russia's Mikhail Botvinnik. One of Mrs.

Fischer's defi- U3C not eas nt Born to Mr. and Mrs. Sherman Flndley came this Summer When BOD- are spraying on a wide sur- who play for blood as they say! face That allows the alcohol in chess. He's serious. He evaporate rapidly and leave to study all the time The i tne concentrate.

It is the same countries publish fur And don't let any- and books at a great rate new openings always being worked out. "He's not interested in girls yet they don't play chess. hol," he explains. "And when in for horseback or tennis you spray it on the hair you think she should have two kinds one for the sport outdoors, and then her regular variety." space home. bone, but I'm afraid to and the American champion to tournaments.

Bobby won tyro tickets to Yugoslavia on a television program. His 21-year- old sister, Joan, took the see- i he ond. "Bobby.doesn't like the idea appeared to be stranded his mother going around up. "Some of these chess players twitch all over. Honest.

They start with an eye twitch down to their feet and start again. I'd rather he chewed his nails." bod ever tel! vou a 7 perfurne delioerately developed for furs." Cournand adds, however, that there are other good spots for the administration of the extract: behind the ears, MONDAY Harding Lake Camp, 10 a.m., USO Club, 516 1st Ave. Junior Chamber of Commerce, board of directors, noon. Redwood. Kiwanis Club, noon.

Travelers Inn, i Chamber of Commerce, board of direc- 'And She! tors, noon. Count's Dinner House. College Community Library, 5:30 to 9 p.m., Dy University Community presby- Alcoholics Anonymous, 7:30 p.m., St. Matthew's parish hall, 1026 2nd Ave. (Visitors Welcome.) TUESDAY Chamber of Commerce luncheon, noon.

Travelers Inn. Dinner Party Set Members and guests of the College Woman's Club will attend a dinner and Christmas on the wrists. The proper administration of perfume is completely ar ty Monday at 6:30 p.m. It i 1 -11 T- Catholic information classes, 7:30 p.m., Catholic parish hall. Photoaraphy class, 7:30 p.m., USO.

Touri ament night, 7:30 p.m., USO. Moose Lodge, 8 p.m.. Moose Hall, 507 Gaffney Rd. Civil Air Patrol, 8 p.m., CAP GHIam Way. North Star Steppers, 8:30 p.m., USO.

HAM SANDWICH SPREAD NEW YORK, (UPI) Keep ham sandwich spread on hand for children's school lunch boxes. Combine 1 can deviled ham with 3 chop- poseful, he insists. "The use of perfume on the wrist or at the elbow came about quite naturally in many parts of the world, it was customary for a gentle: man to kiss the hand of a will be held at the Student Union Bldg. cafeteria on the, University of Alaska campus. DAISY ANN LAMBERT Born to Mr.

and Mrs. George Lambert of Kotzebye, a daughter, Dec. 22 at 10:10 "The only thing I do is nagj; a dy. And of course, it is logi- to get some fresh air. I ca to put it at the ear.

When 1 year he's joined the you a re interested in a worn- He had a round trip ticket, i better for me to be here in and says he going to get in yo want to come close but nobody made any reser-icase anything was-needed better physical shape. to her and the more in ter, Dec 22 at 9-47 weighing nine i appcaicu LU ue auauucu jn ui uu i.iuuici CHULIII" pounds and eleven ounce's. Findiey is a i Yugoslavia after his first in-1 with him to tournaments. Be- nim to et some fresh air. conlrai: or ternational tournament.

sides, I- figured it would be This year he's joined the chili sauce, V-t, cup mayon- I entertainment for the evening. Those attending are to bring him and hemoney primarily. DONNA CAROL SWOPE Born to Sp.dC. and Mrs. Dale Swopo of 1409 Noble a daughter, Dec.

25 at 5:25 p.m., weighing seven pounds, eleven and one-half ounces. Swope Is with the Yukon Command Finance Office. LINDA MARIE BURKE Born to Mr. and Mrs. Emery A.

Burke of Delta Junction, a daughter, at ort Greely Hospital and transferred to St. Joseph's! Dec. 22 at 5:40 p.m., weighing five pounds and twelve ounces. Burke is a supervisor for Alcan Pacific. couldn't get a plane.

I knew he'd spent most of his money at the World Fair in Belgium and I was afraid the Yugoslav Chess Federation wouldn't go on paying for him after the tournament had ended. "I went to the Yugoslav Embassy but it was the weekend and I couldn't find any- "He used to be wonderful i terested you are, the closer Fix canned red kidney beans She laughed ruefully a'at sports in fact, he him-; you come. You want to look slender, dark-haired woman. self used to say he wanted to in her eyes. You want to hold with a smiling mouth in a I be a baseball player.

gamine face. The Fischers separated when Bobby was 2 "I don't know a thing about chess. In fact, I tried to make and Mrs. Fischer raised her him stop for four years. But two children on her given up now." her close to dance with her.

So, then it is good for kissing and dancing to have perfume where it is of some as a nurse. bread. Makes IVa cups. In making cream of tomato a Christmas gift for exchange, i SOUP) thickening the tomato according to Mrs. Hubert Neal, president of the club.

juice or the milk before combining them lessens the tendency to curdle. Miner, Box 42, Old Chelsea)the Mexican way. Mash them Station, New York 11, N.Y. For first-class mailing, include an extra lOc per pattern. "I don't discipline Cabbage and turnips us es for the three main He's too big.

Anyway, flavor, on the family! types of perfumes cologne, body. I tried to call Bobby, not much to say. He comes table, than they used to pos- toilet water and extract. The but they said he had left byj home and sticks his nose in alsess because many cooks have first is merely for a pleasant train, chess book, stops to eat, and learned to boil them a short! brief odor: cologne is princi- in fat in a skillet until very "I was really worried. I he's back again until it's time time.

Long cooking decompos- hot, then serve them with on-i knew he was loaded down to go to bed. jes the sulphur compounds in ion rings and grated cheese. I with books and I didn't see' "Bobby's one of the ones i vegetables. GUARANTEED TO IMPRESS! NEW YORK, (UPI) A made-at-home dessert with -a' professional look is ice cream cake. Cut a square sponge cake into three even layers.

practical use." i Sprinkle bottom layer with Cournand says there are rum, top with slice from square pint of ice cream. Top with second slice cake and repeat process, ending with cake layer. Freeze until serving time. Before serving, cover top and sides with whipped cream and sprinkle with crushed nut brittle. pally alcohol with a mere suggestion of fragrance.

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