Victoria Advocate from Victoria, Texas • 28

Friday, November 17,19 i 2C The Victoria Achocate II Set Free Raffles Wrong Cage Dear DEAR ABSY: Tjls is fc Trish SC." and ethers amorg yjur readers ho have cfeueee to irve fceision, Dai yw kaow that is as or-Mumiktt far people who do ouc nave a working lriss. set is tbrr hoe asad are icsemied in t- i' to' extetasive cousehrg, aad I kor ho to find a cousekr boa I caa tnat to help me. There are a lot more Lke me out there Esor thaa any of you kaow. Maybe th-s eccoiiragei, others to get help. Kjo.

NEEDS HELP LN ORANGE COUNTY'. CALIF DEAR NEEDS: la rder to er-tossf this eatiag disorder. ul eed feeip. Yon ad aot feel vhsit-d tell yvur family. It i aixi UBportaat thai laey tuiderslaod tke aaturr gf mut firMrH taat they caa vu-jiwrii e.

For a referral write AND Aaoreia Neros.a aad Associated Dividers'. P.O. 7. Highland Park, I Si. St35.

Pkae et ke a stamped 4 45 testis), self -addressed eaekp for tbe ififuraia-ttua. Good luc Probk-ms? Write to Abfc-y. For a fersoKaJ, unpublished reply, send a seif -addressed, stamped envelope to Abby. O. Box 6m Los An- gties, proverb 1 read ciany years ago that nuht faelp soht cs tKraal cxaa-tetmaa nnsua-btrrsiajacLrsg, m-jst ke to get sex.

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DEAR ABBY I need help and do out km bere to get it I haw been bo'Jt arsd arKfXic 00 and oI for about four years. I have coped aad. dealt witi fee probkm ig the past, but bahsna, which I have ot, is an ongoing illoess. sooteUung I turn to wheoe er I am do a. I aia too ashamed to tell my farai: aad the career I am in 1 model-.

teg' does not help. I know of many otter models bo are Lb the same or siiuiar Situations. Abby I caa't deal ris this any-mor i ds: have the mooev for 1 1 41 4 OUT sursetv Of oe- Th Society for the Era-icatios of Teieissx bET- beueves that TV "retards icaer Lie, destroys hu- and craws viewers mio abject fi-cUrtion. Psease spread the word SET FREE IN SAN FRANCISCO HEAR SET FREE: Ym rattle tfce wrwog eage. li der.

cbwe SiV KlMMtt Urirv tsML, ii att tstt wr.a we, bi tn-sade is as effurt "rid JefV A what tMi VJ drpea-dece" fey dying away wkk U-J- hWB vet strikes Kf as im- Tae I-let feme mH tua rvvd lvik wilfc jih 6U1E1B 1 i Canned goods will be collected for those in need at the third annual Pre-Holiday Dance sponsored by local Catholic Daughters. Shown from left are court members Linda Garza, Valerie Alvarez and Hen rietta Palacios. Night Terrors and Small Children Pre-Holiday Dance Planned perishable item, to be distributed to Cclhol.c Daughters Court Our the needy during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. Last year approximately 35 baskeu of food were distributed by Court Our Lady of Sorrow s. The group is hoping to triple that to.

100 baskets this year. The dance is being co-sponsored bye the Parks and Recreation Dept. and radio station KEPG, the "Super The Court urges the entire Victoria community to support this effort. Lady of Sorrow No 2273 will host third annual PreHoiiiay Dance Friday at the Victoria Com-, unity Center from 9 p.m. until 1 a.m.

with music provided by the Bush Band Pre-sale tickets are still available for S3 by calling Ticket will be $4 at the door. It is requested that each person attending contribute one canned good or other non- Baby Shower Honors Mrs. Novosad occurrence that continue through the first two years of Lie, said William bonis, director of the mood, sleep and seasonality program at the Philadelphia Child Guidance Clinic at the Philadelphia Child Guidance Center. By age 2 to 3, about 11 to 14 percent of children still wake up regularly, and by age 4, about 8 percent of par-eras report that their youngsters still sleep regularly all night. Youngsters ho don't sleep through tight either experience one of the parasouinuis or they have nightmares Although can sometimes be difficult for parents to tell the difference between the two, the general rule of thumb is that night terrors, occur in the early part of the night, ithin the first two to three hours of sleep.

Nightmares, on the other hand, happen most often during the early -morning hours during the part of sleep known as rapid eye movement i HEM 1 sleep. Children are more vulnerable to all sorts of sleep disturbances because they fall more quickly into deep, non-rapid eye movement non-REM 1 sleep than do adults. During non-REM sleep, the brain rests and restores itself. sented to the honoree as a hostess gift. -Special guests were Edith Bestesny and Virginia Calder, grandmothers-to-be: and Ida Kobza and Annie Novosad, great grandmothers-to-be.

Approximately 34 guests Abby twice tey k-ir tr 44. provides utd eatertaiaaiefil fur kiMm.s of MrvfH a a But of tfeuse Ui leave tie comfort, priv acy ad safety tW bymri GraMed, Usere's aa eces.s garbage feu liiere are aix jus aiui worthwhile program. Sm. please work hard to "free" sue. Enslaved.

1 03 Bui. DEAR ABBY: La a mtc! coi-usm, you said that both nieo aad oifi! need to bear that they are Deeowi, acied a od Wved, i itie 10 the fowicg common event of childhood. -For many youngsters, they are a kind of nte of passage as a child moves from one developmental brain stage to another. "Thirty to 40 percent of all children have a parasomnja attack once or ice said Thomas Anders, a physician who directs t'ie divor. of child and adolescent pycl-atry at Bron University MedA-al Sthool in Iro kteoce.

I. Le than percent of children have as a nenous recurrent prob-ler'i that requires major attention But for parents who encounter their children in this altered state of con-ciouness. tie experience can be very scary. "It's as though your child is seeing a dinosaur, as though lie is being devoured by animals," said David Dirges, a biological psy-ehoivg'st ho does sleep research at the University of Pennsylvania's unit for experimental psychiatry "They jump ojt of bed, pulling and screaming and slamming things dow Women's nilay PAR AVENUE ALANON 12 p.m., First EnsiiSfl tThero Cnrcti, 10S W. S'df 'Of NuCAO A wpport 9'ovp for motfvers of retiiort crtiioren.

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Hosting" the event were Lydia Ybarra, Carolyn Besetsny, susan Volkmer, Joy Simmang, Cynthia Hambleton and Peggy Cutler, An infant carriercar seat was pre ake a il w-QI BUNIONS? KANT 10 60 BUNIONS? BUNIONS? BACK INTO I PAH Of COMFORTABLE steP 'n the nSht direction call Specialist) for an appointment 576-2111 ASK ABOUT OUR NOVEMBER DISCOUNT Soddenh and r.t a. peact.ui;y sieeptr4 out i of bed with a screaru. No aratHiEt of conifortJig to queli the terror. Ani trnrn yj as quickly the child is s.lect agjia and quiruy g'jes back to sleep, or.en Dev-er ees recall-ig epxie the mrW day A psychotic No A bad Not exactly It a night terror. ce of the many sleep drur-bax-- Lno r.

to afflict most children at tt.e 'Jjeir i.es Children ho experserice n. ght terrors are suj-pefded aa altered state of between deep sleep dream sleep I' die may be recalled tn detail, yourtere rx uf- rht terrors of tea have do recol- jectioe of the ght terrors are or.e of a group of sileep knon as These Ltjrtances rare from the ben.gn sleep talking teeth grir.ir: sleep talking and the m.est extreme rg.y terrors- Yet desp.te ir somet.rr.es bizarre problems are a MAILING LABELS City of Victoria Victoria County Surrounding Towns Ccp-tf Generated Varta ned Postal Ca-'e Piute Fo Ecootitca! P.O. Rate ted Ia'irg CapaJ Call Karen Budwlne The Victoria Advocate 575-1451 (Ext. 257) J3 1 A 1 4 inn 1 LULjUvAU LjULlLiy "it is very frighten een to me." he said I remember lien my son. Justin, was 4 or 5aod had a night terror I remember vividly try ing to arouse him, and 1 couldn't get him to wake up.

I remember feeling panic." Sleep disturbances can begin as early as the first year of life. Nightlong vtdeocamera studies of babies" show infants sleep for about three to ftur hours, then v. ake up. Some babies are particularly good at putting themselves back to sleep early on sn life a trait that leak.es their parents mistakenly thinking that they have slept through the night. Other infants wake and cry for comfort or for food and don't go back to sleep until they have attention from their parents.

It isn't until the end of the first year of hie that most habies are able to sleep six to seven hours before waking. But for about 20 percent of oung-sters. night wakenings a a regular Calendar NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS 8 Live Oak Hospital, open meeting, 110 Medical Dr. PORT LAVACA NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS 213 Austin Street, Grace Epis copdi Church. Por1 Lairaca.

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