The Ottawa Journal from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada • Page 22

Ottawa Journal Tuesday, July 3, 1979 WeddingsEngagements Anniversaries Page 22 LUNDGREN CUSTAFSON Mrs. Robert 0. Lundgren is pleased to announce the engagement of her daughter, Diane, to John A. Gustafson, son of Mr. Mrs.

Eric W. Gustafson. The wedding will take place on Saturday, August 25, 1979 in Ottawa. BOWEN DORAN Mr. and Mrs.

Anthony Burke Doran announce the marriage of their daughter, Margot Felicity to Mr. Colin Brice Bowen, son of Mrs. Helen Bowen of Montreal and Mr. O. Brice Bowen of Toronto.

The ceremony took place on June 23, 1979 at Saint Joseph's Church, Ottawa. Later a reception was held at the Royal Ottawa Golf Club. JOHNSTON NEELY: Shelley and Grant were married Saturday, June 2, 1979, at the Anglican Trinity Church Bearbrook, Ont. with Rev. Marples officiating.

Organist Miss Gwen Corey; The Bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Johnston of Vars while the Groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James Neely of Navan.

The Bride was beautifully dressed in a long white sheer over satin gown trimmed with pearl studded lace around neckline continuing to the waist line and around the long train. She wore a pearl studded crown with tiers of chiffon trimmed with She also carried a cascade bouquet of red roses. Attending the Bride was -Miss Carole Desjardin a friend as maid of honour wearing a deep pink long gown with short sleeved lace jacket. Miss Ruth Anne Neely sister of the Groom and Miss Cheryl Morris niece of the bride were the brides-maids wearing long blue gowns with short sleeved lace jackets. All wearing wide brimmed picturesque hats to match, carrying a colonial nosegay of flowers." Miss.

Tammy Weedmark niece of the Bride was the flower girl wearing a long floral gown of pink and blue, with pink and blue streamers in her hair, carrying a basket of flowers. Master Mark Neely a cousin of the groom wearing a blue suit, carrying a satin pillow was ring bearer. Attending the Groom were Mr. Barry Magladry cousin of the Groom as. best man, M.

Jamie Johnston brother of the Bride and Mr. Brent Magladry also cousin of the groom were ushers, all wearing Dove gray tuxedo's. Wedding dinner and reception was held at the Navan Community Centre. Many friends and relatives attended. The Bride and Groom will reside in Calgary GETZ GRANDY Mr.

and Mrs. James Grandy are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter, Kathleen Anne to Richard Getz; son of Mr. and Mrs. W. H.

Getz of Ot tawa. ine ceremony was performed by the Rev. Jan Huntjens at Wood-roofe United Church on the -19th of May, 1979. Abuse by unwed moms up, report TORONTO (CP) The Ontario secretary for social development says she is disturbed by the number of unwed mothers in the.province who are keeping their children rather than giving them up for adoption. Margaret Birch told a news conference that 88 per cent of unwed mothers in 1977 kept their children, compared with less than one-third of unwed mothers in the late 1960s.

Ministry figured show that 6,511 children were adopted in 1966, compared with 5,077 children in 1977. Birch said she does not think a young unwed girl is able to look after a child. Often, a young mother will keep her child for a short time but later finds the pressure too great and places the child with a children's aid society, she said. By then, the child may be abused or. may be suffering from emotional problems, Birch said.

Earlier, the ministry of community and sy cial services released a report which said that an increase in the number of abused and neglected babies are the result of unwed teen-age mothers not being prepared emotionally or financially to care for their children. The report on the 63 children and youth institutions in Ontario, including 11 maternity homes, showed a dramatic increase in the last 10 years in the number of unwed mothers 16 years and younger entering maternity homes. The number of 15-year-old girls who had children has risen by 76 per cent between 1976 and 1978, the report said. Try New Zealand's famous dessert You have probably seen it before and wondered what that furry, egg shaped thing was all about. Maybe you've heard about It and said what kind of fruit could a Kiwifrult be.

For people who know little or nothing about them, this summer offers a great opportunity to try one of the newest and most delicious fruits on the market, a fruit which is grown in California and in New Zealand. Kiwlfruit, which is loaded with Vitamin and Is low in calories just 55.5 to an average sized Kiwifruit is available in Canada from May through November. Underneath its fuzzy brown skin Is a brilliant emerald green fruit dotted with tiny black seeds. Kiwifrult, except for the skin, is completely edible, will stay firm up to six months with proper storage and adds glorious color to salads, desserts and LALANDE BALESTRA Mrs. Rose Lalande is pleased to announce the engagement of her daughter, Sandra to John Balestra, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Romolo Balestra. The wedding will take place on August 11, 1979 at St. Monica's Church. JOHNSON LIBERTY Mr.

and Mrs. Leonard Johnson are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter. Dale Anne to Mario Joseph, son of Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Liberty.

The wedding will take place on July 28, 1979 at three o'clock at West- minster Presbyterian Church, Ottawa, Ont. ft your favorite meat. If the fruit is very firm, place it in a plastic bag with an apple or pear and store at room temperature. This will ripen the Kiwifrult in a day or so. It can be served as a breakfast fruit, with Pavlova, topped with Kiwifrult yogurt, custard or cheese, or if you are adventurous, wjth a dash of brandy, a sprinkling of kirsch or In a gin and tonic.

For starters, try New Zealand's most famous dessert, Pavlova topped off with New Zealand Kiwifrult. sVt tail'-- 50th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Cole will be celebrating thein 50th Wedding Anniversary on July 8, 1979. The family cordiallyvites friends to attend an At Home" at the residence of Dianne and Marcel, 21 Glenwood Drive, Aylmer, P.Q.

from 2 to 5 p.m. Best wishes only. 50TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Laliberte celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary on June 17, 1979.

Accompanied by friends relatives, they were driven by Cecil and Sheila Shutrow, from the church to the reception in a 1929 Ford, representing the year they were married. Complaints aid workers, bosses TORONTO (CP) Ontario's labor ministry has a program which helps industrial relations by getting workers and managers to complain about each other. The labor relations improvement program was designed by Victor Pathe, assistant deputy minister, and Ray 111-ing, associate director of technical two men who recently spent countless hours helping end an 8-month strike by more than 11,000 workers at Inco Metals Co. in Sudbury, Ont. The program in 3 egg whites 1 cup sugar 1 4sp.

vinegar' 12 tsp. vanilla 14 tsp. cream of tartar 1 cup whipping cream 3 New Zealand Kiwifrult Preheat oven to 250 F120 C. Have egg cludes a three-day seminar which brings together top managers, first-line supervisors, union representatives and shop stewards. The session, supervised by a team of four mediators, is held away from the work place.

Each side is encouraged to be frank about what the other is doing wrong. The theory is that open discussion helps to uproot mutual distrust and suspicion. To help improve their relationship each side offers suggestions and establishes specific goals. whites at room temperature for best results. Beat egg whites to a stiff foam, then gradually beat in the sugar.

Continue it tor about 5 minutes until sugar has dissolved. Beat in vanilla and cream of tartar. Spoon the meringue onto a foil SILVER WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Irene and John Med-veduke celebrated their Silver Anniversary on March 17, 1979. They were married at Our Lady of Visitation Church In South Gloucester by Father Tompkins on the morning of March 17, 1954. A surprise anniversary-party was given in their honour by their daughter and son-in law, Brenda and Ted Ward on March 3, 1979.

Irene and John would like to thank all those who made this a memorable evening. 40TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Mr. and-Mrs." David. Dempster will celebrate their 40th Wedding Anniversary on July 8th 1979. Family and friends are cordially invited to an Open House held in their honour at the home of their son-in-law and daughter John and Betty Labelle at 2301 Ryan Drive, Ottawa July 8th 1979 from 3 to 6 p.m.

Best Wishes Only. Sunbathing helps relieve kidney ills BOSTON (UPI) Sunbathing provides more relief from the severe itching often associated with chronic kidney disease than the ointments usually prescribed for skin irritation, a team of Boston researchers found. Of the patients suffering from uremic pruritus who were exposed to varying doses of ultraviolet rays, the study found 84 per cent recorded a decrease in skin irritation after six to eight treatments. "Scientists have suspected for a long time that sunlight gives some relief for but this is the first study to prove it," said Dr. Barbara Gilchrest, chief investigator for the study published Monday in the Annals of Internal Medicine.

Participants in the study; conducted at Boston's Beth Israel Hospital, reported relief lasting 10 months on the average. The finding could be significant for 85 per cent of the 36,000 Americans requiring hemodialysis who suffer from uncomfortable itching. lind baking sheet, making a seven inch diameter circle or spoon the meringue into a springform pan. If it is baked in a springform pan, the top will be crisp and the sides and center soft if baked on a baking sheet. (If you spray the foil with a non-stick it will release the merin-.

gue more easily). Bake at 250 F120 for one hour. Turn off heat and cool in oven for 2 hours. If your oven heats well, you can turn It off after the initial 15 minute baking period and let the Pavlova Just sit there for at least an hour or overnight If you want a really dry Pavlova. Remove from oven and carefully invert the meringue onto a serving plate, peeling off the foil.

Don't be dismayed if your Pavlova falls slightly and cracks this is normal. Spread meringue with whipped cream and top with slices of New Zealand Kiwifrult. Serves 6. mm" by Sarji Ion Choosing jewelry for office wear: Try not to clank Dear Sam: I've never seen anything in your column about jewelry for the office. Are there any rules about what is in or not in for office wear? I have a lovely gold charm bracelet I wear every day.

One of my co-workers informed me that it shouldn't be worn in the office. What do you think? Jewelry Nut Dear Jewelry Nut: Your co-worker is probably trying to tell you that the clanking of your charms is driving her nuts. Save the charm bracelet and all other bracelets that bang for after work. Jewelry for office wear should be tailored and simple. Elegant gold or silver chains are always in good taste.

A plain watch goes well with the tailored clothes recommended by fashion experts for office wear. Turned down promotion Dear Sam: I just offered a very capable woman a promotion and she turned it down flat. Why? She wondered out loud if she could handle the job and then after she though about it, she turned it down. I then offered the job to the next in line for it (a male) and he grabbed it after first insisting on $2,000 more than I offered him. How do you figure it? The woman was much better qualified.

A Reader Dear Reader: The woman was lacking self-confidence, she knew she was good at what she was doing but couldn't see herself in the new role. Part of the problem is that until very recently there were few role models for women to look up to, so many women had no concept of taking the risk required to move upwards and perhaps fall. Encourage her to develop more self-con-, fidence so that she'll accept the next promo tion. Advice to the Wnrkinn Wnmnn Warn applicant of errands Dear Sam: I have an opening for a secretary and am in process of putting anad in the paper. Should I avoid the question of getting coffee in the interview? My last secretary always got coffee for me three times day.

Sometimes if she was busy, I got my The whole set-up worked very nicely but my last secretary was an older woman who wasn't woman's lib. Male Who Needs Help Dear Male: Don't pull any nasty surprises on your future secretary. Make out a complete job description clearly outlining the duties expected of your secretary and, yes, include the coffee and fetching your laundry if you require her to do that. Any secretary who doesn't want to perform those duties will then be able to refuse the job in the interview. She works too fast Dear Sam: Why do my supervisors become upset when I complete work quickly and accurately? I am a 33-year-old executive secretary who has been working steadily for the past 12 years.

I did finish high school or secretarial college although I attended both. I do not in any way qualify to become a supervisor. I am always punctual. I am reliable and get along with everyone, even my supervisors who are not aware of my sensitivity to their reactions. Whenever I work, it seems as though I complete it so fast that I am left with nothing to do.

I look around for other work, but my supervisors pull some dirty tricks on me and are sometimes outwardly antagonistic. They put a whole lot of unnecessary and challenging work on my desk without any instructions. I finish It off and then they become upset again. Their attitude makes me rather te'nse. Confused Dear Confused: You have left me confused too.

The mark of any good employee is to complete work quickly and accurately. Although you have confidence In your work, you seem hesitant about approaching your supervisors to find out why they are upset with you. I suggest a meeting with your supervisor to discuss your work. Ask for a Job assessment. If you think you'll have trouble doing this perhaps a little assertiveness training at your local community college would help..