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2C-Sept 6,1959 Sunday Gazette-Mail Charleston. West HELEN HELP VS! Give Them 'Scat, Brat' Push Mrs. B. K. Gibbs former Corel Louise Crawford Carol Louise Crawford Weds Saturday Morning Miss Nancy Kay Martin of Chester, accompanied by Mrs.

A. E. Raspillaire, sang nuptial selections at the wedding Saturday morning of Miss Carol Louise Crawford and Ronald Kenneth Gibbs, son of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth H.

Gibbs of Chester. The wedding and reception were held at the First Presbyterian Church in South Charleston with Dr. Waiter W. White officiating. DAUGHTER Mrs.

Ellis Thayer Crawford Jr. of South Charleston, the bride was given in marriage by her uncle, Melvin Gross of Canton. Ohio. Her dress of white tulle was trimmed with narrow bands of lace and a band of crushed illusion edged with pearls held her fingertip veil. A white orchid marker showered with lilies of the valley was pinned to her prayer- book.

Her attendants the Misses a a a Quisenberry and Shirley Wilson of Parkers- burg, wore princess frocks of pihk embroidered taffeta and carried pink lace baskets filled with pink and orchid asters. Gary K. GfiAs was his brother's best man and ushers Brace D. Crawford, By Helen Bottel Dear Helen: We are a group of neighbors who have followed your good advice often. This is our problem: Two youngsters on our block are without doubt the boldest, most impolite and meanest kids we know.

Our children see it and try the same, so they get punished, but these two are never punished. They throw stones, fight, push, destroy property and are just plain hateful. We have tried being tolerant and kind, but it doesn't work--they just take advantage of us. We know it's the parents' fault but this doesn't make them any easier to bear. Recently, they went on vacation and we hadn't realized before how Quiet and peaceful a neighborhood could be.

I know how incapable it must sound for grownups to be stumped by a couple of kids, but we are. Any suggestions? --UNHAPPY NEIGHBORS Dear Un: Conies a time when tolerance must give away to "hollprance." Tell these kids (and their parents) they either play and obey or they'll get the "Scat, brat" treatment from the whole neighborhood. And make it stick until they learn cooperation. --H. Dear Helen: Our son is 16 and I think he should have a father-son talk about growing into manhood, sex, etc.

My husband, however, doesn't think this is necessary. He says he learned without "talks," and he got along fine, so why shouldn't the boy? But I want him to learn the right way. Do you know of any books he could get? --M. R. R.

Dear Mrs. A fdcts-of-life talk to a i 6-year-old boy might result in considerable knowledge--for the father. Seriously, sex education for boys has been sadly neglected at home and at school, possibly because the unspoken feeling is girls must be protected and morally above reproach, but boys need no such training. (Which is the double standard at its worst.) Father-son talks should begin at puberty or before. By the time he is 16, a boy ought to know that respect for girls and women is as important for him as is chastity in the opposite sex.

And this is the sort of thing he won't learn unless his parents teach him. Your librarian or doctor can suggest books which might be helpful. --H. it Dear Helen: I am 14 and just starting to date. My problem is that my mother has preached to me about boys.

All that morality and purity stuff has made me feel ill at ease. To tell the truth, she's scared me. I'm always afraid I'll do something wrong and the boys will "take advantage." And she's forever checking up on me. It's almost like the third degree. --RAENNE Dear Your mother has gone to the opposite extreme on YOUR facts-of-life education.

It's far better to give children credit for some sense, discuss rather than warn, and let them grow without visable apron strings. Sometimes parents preach and protect their children right into trouble --H. if if Dear Helen: My brother and his wife got married without a penny, so my parents took them in to live with us. Their baby is over a year old now, and they're still living with us. They've ruined the only good furniture my parents ever had, and have taken the master bedroom, making Mom and Dad' sleep on the porch.

They never buy groceries, even though my brother has a job. His wife sometimes sleeps until 11 a. and guess who takes care of the baby? I tell my mother to say something to them, but she just says, "It won't be much longer, so why start an argument?" The way things are going, it might be forever. --SISTER. Dear Your parents are too good for their own or their son's good.

Sometimes animals are smarter than people--they PUSH their young out of the nest. The best medicine for these sponging kids is an apartment of their own, preferably in another town. And the only way to apply it is with firm and resolute parental boot. --H. This column is dedicated to family living, so if you're having kid trouble or Just plain trouble, let Helen help YOU.

She will also welcome your own amusing experiences. Address Helen Bottel in care of The Sunday Gazette-Mail. Mrs. W. R.

Cartmill former Barbara Ferrer Cartmill-Ferrer Nuptial Held Saturday Evening brother of the bride, Clifford -TV -r -nmn-fc Comm of Huntington, Roger DAY-BY-DAY CALENDAR Babb of East Liverpool, Ohio, and Fred Kelley. MR. AND Mrs. Gibbs, seniors at West Virginia University, will reside at 516 Beech- urst Morgantown after a honeymoon at Mountain Lake, Va. She travekd in a beige linen frock and jacket, brown accessories and orchid corsage.

The former Miss Crawford, an alumna of South Charleston High School, belong to Alpha Phi Sorority. Her husband is a graduate of Chester i School and is a member of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity and Society of Advanced Management. He is employed at Montgomery Ward and Co, in Morgantown. Fall Activity Inaugurated Mrs. J.

W. F. Haner former Charlotte Lee Eurna Haner-Burns Marriage Solemnized in Lebanon LEBANON, Va. A reception at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Clarence Clifton Burns Jr. in Lebanon followed thf wedding Saturday night of their daughter, Charlotte Lee, and John William Frank Haner, son of Mrs. Eleanor Harless Haner of Madison, W. Va. Rev.

James Shugart read the double-ring service. Jeweled Alencon lace outlined the portrait neckline of ivory taffeta and roses of the same material trimmed the full Watteau skirt, which ended in a train. She wore a mantilla of rosepoint lace and carried a prayerbook marked with a white orchid showered with stephanotis. THE GREEN chiffon dress worn by her maid of honor, Miss Anne Huddleston of Harrodsburg, had a shirred bodice and satin cummerbund and she wore a feather headdress. Bridesmaids were the bride's cousins, Miss Nancy Muse of St.

Paul, Miss Barbara Hurt of Falls Church. Va. and Miss Phoebe Larmore of Kennett Square, Pa. Ann was junior bridesmaid for her sister. Their dresses of peony chiffon were made like the honor attendant's.

All carried cascades chrysanthemums and pompons. Lenora Shuler Burns of Huntington and Michael Brillhart, cousins of the bride, were flowergirl and ringbearer. DR. WILLIAM Frank Harless of Madison was best man for his grandson, whose groomsmen were his brother, Philip H. Haner, James E.

Burns, brother of the bride, Robert G. Cline of Morgantown, and the bridegroom's cousins, John Kay Sterrett of Pt. Pleasant and Robert H. Kay of Charleston. Mr.

and Mrs. Haner will attend the University of Virginia and will make their home in Charlottesvilie after a Southern honeymoon. A former student at Randolph-Macon Woman's College and a member of Chi Omega Sorority, she traveled in a lime green wool sheath and jacket, small feather hat, brown accessories and orchid corsage. Mr. Haner, a member of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity, was graduated from Kentucky Military Institute.

All items for the Sunday Gazette Mail club calendar be submitted to the Gazette Women's Department before 2 m. Thursday. Today Edgewood Country Club, annual swimming meet and family picnic. Tuesday Meadowbrook Woman's 9 to 10 a. m.

tee-off, "mystery pairings," hostesses, Mrs. Ralph Bayrer and Mrs. Paul Metz. Kanawha County Council of Girl Scouts, 9:30 a. membership nominating committee, Girl Scout office.

Silver Cross Circle Of The King's Daughters and Sons, 1:30 p. ladies' parlor of a Memorial Presbyterian executive board meeting at 1 p.m., Mrs. C. A. Keller will give devotions, Mrs.

E. T. Aim, chairman of hostesses. Welcome a Newcomers Club. 1:30 p.

Starlight Room, Elks CM), luncheon, bridge and canasta, reservations contact Mrs. Ralph Weekly, 305 Jefferson St. Charleston Business and Professional Woman's Club, 6 p. m. dinner, St.

John's Episcopal Church, program, "Career Advancement," panel discussion with Ethel Fryer, director of vocational guidance for Employment Security, Mrs. Hazel Waggy and Janet Lowrie, personnel director of The Diamond, Mrs. Jean Guthrie, moderator. Knollwood Garden Club, 6 p. annual picnic with husbands as guests, Community Playground.

Practical Nurses Assn. of West Virginia, District 1,7:30 p.m., YWCA, election of officers. YMCA Duplicate Bridge Club, 7:30 p. public invited, meets at YMCA. Elkview Homemakers Club, 7:30 p.

home of Mrs. Glenville Phillips at Elkview, lesson on "Accessories Today's Home." by Mrs. L. V. Huffman Jr.

Beta Mu Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi i 7:45 p. YWCA. Xi Alpha Omicron Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, 8 p. Army-Navy Club, instal- lation of officers. Charleston Fellowship Club, 8 p.

Charleston Recreation Center. Lambda Chi Omega Sorority, 8 p. Coca-Cola Clubroom. Beta Psi Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, 8 p. Beattie- Firth 1118 Kanawha E.

Mrs. Fred Griffith to speak on corsage making. Chelyan Chapter No. 101, Order of Eastern Star, 8 p. class of instruction i Mrs.

Gussie Casdorph instructor, Chelyan Masonic Hall, social hour to follow with Mrs. Thelma Thomas in charge. Four Seasons Garden Club, 8 p. home of Mrs. Jack Lloyd, 839 Spring co-hostess, Mrs.

C. E. Rippetoe speaker, Mrs. E. R.

Yates. Tiskelwah Chapter No. 45, Order of Eastern Star, 8 p. Shrine Mosque, Masonic members will give a serio-comic conception of the organization of the first Eastern a chapter, social hour will be conducted by Mrs. Bernice Thompson and her committee.

Alpha Nu Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, 8 p. home of Mrs. Robert T. Gurtic, 507 East South Charleston. Charleston a Hospital Nurses Alumnae, 8 p.

nurses' home, Elmwood Ave. Wednesday DESK Credit Woman's Breakfast Club, 8 a. Quarrier Diner, election of officers. Edgewood Country Club, 9:45 a. home of Mrs.

Charles Bowers, 837 Lower Chester Miss a Calhoun, speaker. Burbank Garden Club, 10 a. home of Mrs. George W. Kelly, 2040 Oak Ridge Mrs.

Charles W. Neale, assistant, program, members will tell how they spent the summer. Glenwood Heights Garden Club, 10 a. special business meeting at 9:30 a. home of Mrs.

H. C. Riley, 705 Beech program will be "Design Makes the Garden," speaker, Mrs. N. B.

Oakes, followed by garden tour. Kanawha County Council of Girl Scouts, 10 a.m., i committee, Scout office. Kanawha Country Club, Ladies Day bridge, 10:30 a.m., reservations with Mrs. George H. Reid, 911 Somerset Dr.

Rivermeade Garden Club, 1 p. home of Mrs. Charles J. Kuhn, 4211 Virginia SE, program by Mrs. James T.

Spencer on "Gardens and Flowers in Japan." Central Woman's Christian Temperance Union, 1:30 p. St. Mark's Methodist Church, department plans for new year, scientific temperance instruction in schools, exhibits and visual education to be considered, plans for annual silver dues tea to be considered. Charleston West Side Woman's Club, Education Dept, 1:30 p.m., clubhouse, Mrs. G.

Anderson, speaer, demonstration by Mrs. Eunice Benson. Kanawha Valley Dental Auxiliary, 5 p.m., annual picnic, Timberland, Mrs. C. J.

Moore, chairman, Mrs. William Jarrett and Mrs. W. C. Moorman, auxiliary and society members invited.

Heritage St. Albans Woman's Club, 6:30 p.m., covered dish dinner at house, hostesses, Mrs. W. D. Pauley, chairman, Mrs.

J. E. Gallagher and Mrs. J. L.

Worstell, speaker, Ms. U. S. Jarrett on "Parliamentary Procedure." Junior League of Charleston, 8 p.m., St. John's a i House.

Bona vista Garden Club, 8 p.m., home of Mrs. Edgington, 1946 Bona Vista Mrs. Fred Griffith, speaker. Cliffview Garden Club, 8 p.m., home of Mrs. Paul Rhudy, Benview program, Denver King from Bohnert's to speak on "Flower Arranging." Xi Epsllon Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, 8 p.m., home of Mrs.

Dick Divilbiss, 4302 Virginia SE, program by Mrs. Jack SouUwtrd on "Windows of the Omega Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, 8 p.m., at 1518 Dixie Apt. Mrs. Mar- ian Williams and Mrs. Marie Staton, hostesses, Thursday Charleston Chapter i Hadassah, 1 p.m., membership tea, 'home of Mrs.

David Borstein, 4303 Virginia Ave. SE, for new and prospective members. Quota Club of Charleston, 6 p. board of directors, Army- Navy Club, dinner meeting. Charleston Soroptomist 6:30 p.m., Ruffner Hotel, call Rose Shore for reservations.

Mary E. Reed District No. 8, West Virginia Nurses 8 p.m., St. Francis Hospital School of Nursing, program presented by American Academy of Modeling. Friday Kanawha County Council of Girl Scouts, 9:45 a.m., executive board meeting, Girl office.

i Springs Chapter, Daughters of the American Colonists, noon luncheon, Daniel Boone Hotel, Mrs. James F. Conley to speak on "Chronicles of Border Warfare." John Young Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution, 8 p.m., home of Mrs. Charles P. Walker, 1544 Quarrier reception honoring Miss Virginia Johnson, national program chairman, board meeting at 7:30 p.m.

Saturday Anne Bailey Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution, 1 p.m. luncheon, Club, speakers, Mrs. Grant P. Hall "Faith of Our Fathers," Mrs. E.

Samuel Moore, "Preview of Year's Activities," and Mrs. C. Leonard Johnson, Constitution, host-. esses, Mrs. Charles Chambers and Mrs.

Willard White. Miss Barbara Ann Ferrer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Philippi Ferrer, was married Saturday evening to William Russell Cartmill, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Leo Russell Cartmill, all of South Charleston. The wedding and reception were held at the First Presbyterian Church with Dr. Walter W. White performing the double-ring ceremony. Hickman, soloist, was accompanied by Miss Barbara Snyder.

A QUEEN Anne collar accented the bride's gown of Chantilly lace, made with a full skirt ending in a chapel train. A lace cap edged with pearls and sequins held her illusion veil and her cascade bouquet was of white chrysanthemums. A waltz-length frock of frosted aqua organza with a pleated tulip neckline was worn by her sister and honor attendant, Mrs. Wayne Geisler of Richmond, Va. Miss Barbara Hatcher and Mrs.

Randall Norman Frum bridesmaids, were dressed in white lace over aqua satin, detailed by front panels of the satin. Their circular veils extended from satin bows and all carried bouquets of white chrysanthemums. The best man was A. S. J.

Southworth, III, and ushers William Conklin Jr. of Morgantown and Guy Childress of South Charleston. FOR A wedding trip to Day- tona Beach, Mrs. Cartmill chose a turquoise faiDe sheath and duster, white accessories and corsage of flowers. She and her husband, graduates of South Charleston, wiH reside at 426 Grant Morgantown, where she is a junior majoring in education at West Virginia University and be is a senior.

The former Miss Ferrer, whose father is an assistant superintendent at Carbide, is a member of the Monticola staff and Student Union Committee. Mr. Cartmill is a member of the American Society of Mechanical Engineers and Scabbard and Blade, military honorary. mm OCCASION look your FORMAL Complete 1 rental service All sizes in stock ADAMS TAILORS 114 McFarland St. Dl 3-2851 00 yet have the very your satisfaction is our first BEAUTY SALON Phone Dl 2-7137 LANOLIN JELLI COLD WAVE SHAMPOO SET 6 25 Personalized from 1.50 Use Your Charge Account Air Conditioned Miss Doris Jean Crouch Bride of J.

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Xing Jr. former Doria.Jcan Crouch Attired in a gown of silk peau de soie, made with yoke and long sleeves of Alencon lace and a cotillion train, Miss Doris Jean Crouch was married Friday evening to John William King son of Mr. and Mrs. J. W.

King of Dunbar. Daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James C. Crouch of Dunbar, the bride wore an illusion veil attached to a crown of lace and peau de soie studded with pearls and sequins and carried a Bible covered with tulle and marked with a white orchid.

Rev. Clarence D. Edman officiated at the wedding, held at the EUB Church in Dunbar. Mrs. Sue Harpold sang several selections, with Miss Joyce Hutchinson as accompanist, and a reception followed at the church.

MISS PHYLLIS Jean Withrow of Albany, Ohio, was maid of honor for her 1 cousin. She wore a cotillion blue taffeta frock, appliqued with velvet with a short velvet jacket and sequin crown holding a short veil. Her powder puff bouquet was of pink roses and white chrysanthemums. Lewis a Frank Good, Donald O'Neil, Larry Trent and James C. Crouch Jr.

attended the bridegroom. Mr. and Mrs. King, graduates of Dunbar High School, are honeymooning in Pennsylvania and will reside on their return at 529-B Nancy St. A member of the Order of Rainbow for Girls and an employe of the Chesapeake and Potomac Telephone she wore for traveling a brown and black sheath, black accessories and orchid corsage.

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