The Daily Courier from Connellsville, Pennsylvania • Page 5

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 1965 THE DAILY COURIER, CONNEUSVIllE, PA. PAGE FIVE. Culture Club Tea Monday The Woman's Culture Club will begin its fall meetings with a president's tea on Monday afternoon, the affair to be held at 2 o'clock in the First Melh' odist Church, South Pittsburg St. All past presidents will be hostesses with Mrs. Charles R.

Kunkle as social chairman. The program leader will be Mrs. Bryan Nabors. Special music is being arranged by Mrs. Harold Gore.

Yearbooks will be distributed by Mrs. Norrnan Browell. Ryan-Seaton Nuptials Are Announced Mr. and Mrs. John Ear Ryan, newlyweds of Septembe 13, are presently residing a Dunbar.

The bride is the former Loi Jean Seaton, daughter of Mrs Edna Seaton of Connellsvill Dunbar. The bridegroom the son of Mrs. Beatrice Rya of Dunbar, R.D. 2, and the lat James A. Ryan.

The double ring ceremon; took place at 3:30 p.m. Monday September 13, at the Braddoc Street Methodist Church, Win Chester, Va. The Rev. Henry Amidon, a officiated There were no attendants. The newlyweds spent their honeymoon at Washington, C.

and Alexandria, Va. Mrs. Ryan was graduatei from Dunbar Township Higl School with Class of 1954 and i now employed as a secretary by Anchor Hocking Glass Corp Her husband was graduated from the same high school with Class of 1946 and is presently employed as a a i operator by Anchor Hocking Glass Corp. Railroad Veterans Plan Trip Honored on Birthday Announcement is made tha those planning to go on the bus trip to Somerset, sponsored the B. 0.

Railroad Veteran? Association No. 6 and its auxiliary No. 36, are to make reservations by October 5. Receiving the reservations for the trip, to be October 9 to Urt Sportsman's Club, Somerset are C. R.

Clemmer, J. S. Evans, Mrs. B. L.

Showman and Mrs. L. J. Roby. The bus will leave Collins Hotel, West Crawford at 12 o'clock noon.

Historical Food. NEW YORK (UPI) originated in China. It was used to supplement rice in the diet of the coolies completing the Great Wall of China. Kraut eventually became popular around the world, and the Germans did bestow the name. Today, as then, it provides a rich "source of vitamin and minerals in the diet.

Three Toppers MRS. DAVID R. DILLINGER Mrs. David R. Dillinger (above) of Cumoerland.

marked her eightieth birthday on Sunday and in honor of the occasion was a special guest for an open house reception on that date, given at the home of her sister, Miss Ida Bailey of Mill Run, R.D. 1. Sharing honors with Mrs. Dillinger was her husband. Among the seventy five relatives and friends attending the function were two sons of Mr.

and Mrs. Dillinger and their families, Robert B. of Buffalo, N. and David R. of Baltimore, Md.

There were also three brothers of the honoree and their i Frank Bailey of Ohiopyle, Mr. and Mrs. Ross Bailey of Ellsworth Falls, and Winter Haven, and Mr. and Mrs. Clarence a i of Charleston, W.

Va. Mrs. Dillinger, the former Myrtle Bailey, taught in Fayette County schools prior to her marriage. She and her husband have four grandchildren. Many of the honored guest's friends of her "teen-age" days were on hand to congratulate her.

Nieces of Mrs. Dillinger from various parts of Pennsylvania and West Virginia served refreshments for the occasion. The Dillingers with their sons and families and other relatives spent the weekend with Miss Ida Bailey. Catholic Unit Studies New Liturgy The quarterly meeting of the Confraternity of Christian Mothers of Immaculate Conception R. C.

Church was held Sunday evening in the social hall of th'e church. Mrs. Louis Lancaster, president, presided for the meeting opened a prayer and singing of the hymn, "Come. HJy Ghost," led by Mrs. Charles Cline.

A special i was planned for November 28, details to be announced later, It was announced that the Rev. Bertin Roll, national director of the confraternity, will be a guest speaker for a reception of new members, to be held Thursday evening, October in the church social hall. For the program Mrs. Cline discussed the topic, "The Liturgy of the Church." She explained that recent changes in the liturgy are designed to help the members to be better Christians and increase their faith. Mrs.

William Flynn stressed importance of daily Bible and meditation. There was also a dismission of major changes in the mass, given by Mrs. Paul Egan. She answered questions on the new iturgy. After the program lunch was served by Mrs.

Frank Venersky her committee. An autumn marked the decorations. Curl Games were then played with prizes going to Mrs. Egan, Mrs. John Bartholomai, Mrs.

Theodore Shal, Mrs. Madelyn Adkins and Mrs. Cline. Local Woman Listed In "Who's Who" JANE TORRANCE The little charmer above is Jane Marie Torrance, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Willhm C. Torrance of 1731 Second South Connellsville. She was one year old on Tuesday and has one brother, five- year-old Randall, and a sister, seven-year-old a Ann. Grandparents of the children are Mr. and Mrs.

Thomas 0'- Nell of North Sixth and Mrs. Minnie 0. Torrance of Owensdale. Mrs. Emma M.

O'Nell of 1731 Second Sc Connellsville, is great-grandmother of the children. A Connellsville a is isted in the newly-published 'Who's Who of American Woram." Miss Mary Shannon Webster, dministrator of Connellsville Hate General Hospital, was se- ected for her "meritorious vo- ations and civic activities." Bullskin Fire Unit to Meet. Another name added to the The Ladies Auxiliary to the latest "Who's Who" is Abigail Bullskin Township Volunteer Fiu Corrrnny will meet at 7:30 p.m. Friday at the No. 1 fire tation.

Van Buren of Beverly Hills, who is the popular "Dear Abby," published in The Daily Courier. GET MARRIAGE LICENSES IN FAYETTE COUNTY Marriage license applications have been filed at the Fayette County Courthouse, Uniontown by the following: William Bargiband of Wic Haven and Barbara Jean Kin of Masontown. Geno L. Billiani of East Mills boro and Rosella M. Krelko Allison.

Charles R. McClain of India Head and Thelma L. Gallentin of Normalville. Theodore B. Siwula and Fran ces L.

Grabek of Everson. Jeffrey W. Clark of Suitland and Kathryn Mary Holo nich of Masontown. Steve Molchan and Margare M. Dzara of Star Junction.

Harry J. King of Merrittstown and Dorothy L. Canavan Grindstone. John Garella of Allison and Anna Miner of Connellsville. Bride-Elect Given Surprise Shower Partv Miss SbHcy Fitch, bride- elect, was the honor gnst for a recent surprise miscclbwous shower at the home of Mrs.

David Fait of 118 College Pleasant. Co-hostesses were Miss Diane Coppula of Mount Pleasant and Mrs. Richard Truxel of Greensburg. The honoree, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Floyd Fitch of 305 Smithfield Mount Pleasant, was the recipient of many gifts which were arranged under a jastel pink and white umbrella. Games were the principal di- crsion of the affair, prizes being won by Mrs. Larry Lauf- "er and Mrs. Chester Welc of Mount Pleasant, and Mrs. Rudolph Marcinko of Greensburg.

The hostesses served lunch. Centering- the buffet table was large tiered cake topped with miniature bride and frosted vith pink and white icing. Miss Fitch will become the )ride of Henry Kline, son of Mrs. Helen Kline of Southwest, on Friday, October 8, at the Tirst United Church of Christ, Mount Pleasant. Practical Nurses Hear 3 Speakers Florida Celebrant Three out of every four chil dren are now attending schools w' ch participate in the Na tional School Lunch Program the U.

S. Department of Agri culture reports. DEAR ABBY Guilty Conscience! Abigail Van Buren 3319 1 2 2 0 Here are toppers for your skirts and pants;" let them add zest to your fall outfits. All three are easy to make. No.

3319 comes in sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. In size 14 and 35-inch fabric pullover with collar DEAR ABBY: I'm a sailor aboard the USS MIDWAY. I left my fiance back in the States and we plan to get married as soon as I hit home port in San Francisco. Since our ship left the States I did my best to be true to my girl. However, after 40 days at sea we got liberty in Japan.

I went on the town, had a couple of beers and "sinned" a little. (A whole lot, 1 think, would be more truthful.) I didn't think much of it until the guys I work with told me that I talk in my sleep, and very plainly! (Like I just come right out in plain language and tell everything.) Now I didn't intend telling my fiance, either before or after we marry, about this little episode in Japan, but what do I do if I admit something in my sleep and my wife hears me? CVA 41 DEAR CVA: Don't build a snow fence until he snow hits. And if it does, don't give out with a snow job. DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for two years. This is his first mar- and my second.

I have a 12-year-old son who lives with his father out of the state. My present husband knew I had been married before, and he even met my son before we were engaged. He seemed to like the boy very much in the beginning, but now I can't even keep his picture in the house. I am expecting a baby next month and my husband keeps telling me that all my interests should revolve around OUR baby, and no other children. (Meaning my son.) Naturally, I'll love our new baby but, Abby, do you think it's fair to be expected to forget a child you have had and loved for a dozen years? My husband acts embarrassed if I even mention my son to anyone.

He doesn't even want people to know I have been married before. Please answer soon. I need your support. CANT FORGET MY SON DEAR CAN'T: No normal mother could be expected to "forget" her child. You are mar- ried to an immature and insecure man.

He needs to be straightened out, or your children will grow up before he does. DEAR ABBY: A few nights ago I had dinner at a restaurant adjacent to a bowling alley. It was close to midnight. At next table I 'noticed a young couple with a little boy who couldn't have been more than three years old. The child was wandering around aimlessly in a sleepy stupor.

I remarked to one of the employees about this child being up so late and, to my horror, he told me that this couple bring the child in several nights a week and they stay until all hours. What selfish, unfit parents they are! To whom can I report such parents? I hope you will print this because the woman is obviously pregnant and pretty soon there are likely to be two little ones.growing up in a bowling alley. SAN MATEO DEAR SAN MATEO: You can report this couple to the San Mateo Family Service Association. This is right up their alley. DEAR ABBY: Hooray for "TALL AND HAPPY." I happen to be a young man who is 4 ft.

10, and some of my best dates have been with a girl who is 5 11. Being too tall or too short for the average person is a handicap only if you let it be. I never let it be. If height doesn't bother us runts, it shouldn't bother you giants. HAPPY RUNT Problems? Write to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Calif.

For a personal reply, enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope. Hate to write letters? Send one dollar to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, for Abby's booklet, "HOW TO WRITE LETTERS FOR ALL OCCASIONS." Communicating. UNIVERSITY PARK, Pa. (UPI)-Dr. George S.

Haspiel, Penn State audiologist, says lip reading is still the most widely used metnod of communicating with the deaf. yards; double-breasted yle, yards. Send 35c plus 5c postage for this pattern to: IRIS LANE Tru Daily Couritr Bex 1490 Ntw York 1, N. Y. Add ioc for first Class msii and special handling.

TO WAIT or (NOT TO WAIT OCTOBER 7 it's the "Johnny" Palmer Chevie Show For All Occasions SPRAYS and BASKETS Friends DeMUTH'S FLORIST CONNELLSVILLE 628-7600 SCOTTOALE Dill SS74600 Ten members of the Connells ville Division, Licensed Practi cal Nurses Association of Penn sylvania, and three members its advisory board, were prescn for a recent meeting in the loca Y. M. C. A. Opening devotions, led by Mrs.

Maude Rollings, chaplain included Scripture from Luke and a prayer in unison After the business meeting the advisory board members each gave brief talks. Mrs. Ellwood Ranker, R. N. emphasized in her talk that "al nurses have one thing in common a chance for a higher education." Attorney Murray Horowitz spoke on the legal aspects of nursing problems.

The third speaker, the Rev. R. A. Nelson, stressed the personal touch in nursing. He also stated that religion can and should play a part in the nursing profession, including the nurse, the patient and the family.

Aler the program lunch was erved by the social committee. KEYSTONERS TO COMPILE SCRAPBOOK Plans were discussed for compiling a scrapbook at a recent meeting of the Keystone Club at the home of Mrs. Harry K. Pirl of Normalville. The club the social affiliate of the Woman's Benefit Association, Review No.

231. Mrs. James Geary and Mrs. Carl Pirl, dis- rict manager, were guests. s.

Harrison McCracken, president, presided the neeting, opened with a prayer by Mrs. John Hawk. Mrs. James Anderson and Irs. Clarence McCracken will have charge of making the scrapbook, to be sent to the VBA headquarters.

A donation was contributed to he crippled children of Mon- Yough Valley, a project of the tate WBA. Mrs. Carl Pirl announced the national convention will be held 1966 at San Francisco, Calif. Birthday greetings were ex- ended to Mrs. Harry K.

Pirl. ihe received a gift from her lecret pal. Prizes supplementary games were awarded Mrs. Ilar- ison McCracken. Mrs.

Hawk md Mrs. Geary. The door prize WOMEN INSURE YOUR FUTURE Itirn world famous METHOD OF HAIRSTYLING COSMETOLOGY AS TAUGHT I to CLAMOROUS HOLLYWOOD studott nee'tvt the most wtamadl thorough training awrilaUt fradtmn are assured top otoritd portion! in MiUOH FREDERIC SYSTEM IEAUTY SCHOOL 117 Merf antown Strttt Phora 431-7111 UNIONTOWN, PA. DEBRA JEAN HOUGH Two years old today is pretty little Debra a Ho-sh, only child of Mr. and Mrs.

James W. Hough of Miami, Fla. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. C.

J. Hough of Miami, former residents of Scottdale, and Mrs. and Mrs. G. H.

Yoder of 39 Second Scottdale. The mother of Debra is the former Jean Yoder. Meatless Meal. NEW YORK (UPI) Swee mixed pLkles add crisp texture and attractive color to this quick meatless meal made wit. 1 frozen fish sticks.

Arrange one package (8 ounces) frozen fish sticks in shallow baking Combine cup chopped almonds, 1 cup grated cheddar cheese, 2 tablespoons chopper onion, cup milk and 2 cup chopped sweet mixed pickles Spread over fish. Sprinkle with 2 tablespoons fine crumbs. Bake in oven 15 to 20 minutes. dry bread 425-degree Bedroom Ensemble A saucer, pencil, scissors and some pretty material is all that is needed to make cafe curtains, bedspread, pillow covers and vanity set. Pattern No.

931 gives the instructions. Send 25c plus 5c postage in coins for this pattern to: MARTHA MADISON The Daily Courier Box 1490 New York 1, N. Y. Add 15c for first class mail. vent to Mrs.

James Anderson md was donated by Mrs. Harry C. Pirl. Lunch was served by the host- The next meeting will be ktober 19 at the home of Miss lary Edmundson of 113 Lincoln We. Marriage Of Area Couple In Winchester J.

Jaworski and his bride, the former Madeline E. Schwalke of Poplar South Everson, are residing at 14(5 Low Mount Pleasant, aftei their marriage on September 13 at Winchester, Va. The double ring ceremony was solemnized in the Sacred Heart R. C. Church, Winches- er.

by the Rev. Robert Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Niezgoda, brother-in-law and sister of the bride, were the only at- cndants, the former serving as the best man and Mrs. Niezgoda as the matron of honor.

The bride is presently employed as an anesthetist at the Vcslmoreland Hospital, Grtxns- burg. Mr. Jaworski is employed as laboratory technician by Wostirtghouse Electric semi-conductor division, -ng- wood. Happy Smile Wife Preservers An old wooden card (able makes on for hooking rugs. Just top.

DANA A. RICHTER Smiling happily for her first birthday, which was Tuesday, is Dana A. Richter, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Richter of 409 Reidmore Road, Connellsville.

Grandparents of the celebrant are Lloyd Richter of Race South Connellsville, and Mrs. Howard Cooper, also of 409 Reidmore Road. Dana's mother is the former Carolyn Wisi- losky. Onions and asparagus are members of the lily family. Marriage Today Discussed By Family Service Director By PATRICIA McCORMACK United Press International NEW YORK (UPI) Contemporary Romeos propose under conditions of moonlight and roses.

Their Juliets accept amid visions of floating like a fairy princess into a dreamy world of peaches and cream. Soon after the honeymoon they find everything coming up like thunder, garlic, thorns--all well splashed with tears. What happened: Their expec- ations of marriage were unrea- istic. They had a poor understanding of marriage. The mar- is totally he expectations wrecked when hit realities in a head-on collision.

Are they marrying too young --or what's the trouble? Clark W. Blackburn, general Jirector of the Family Service Association of America, says listorically, young marriage in America is nothing new. Early Marriage Over -a century ago, American marriage usually followed close on the heels tf puberty but in a vastly different environment than it does today. Back then, the boy had a job, jsually determined by the occupation of his father or by the imits of a few vocations in his lometown. For most everyone then, adequate educational preparation or life required little more ban an education.

And--the men and women had clearly defined roles to fulfill in marriage and family living. "Today we are no longer as certain about the role each man and woman plays in and iut of the home," Blackburn aid. "The yourg person of to- ay is not faced with the basic problem of how to be a man or woman but literally what role to choose in the broad spectrum of acceptable patterns of husband and wife behavior. "Is the man aggressive and the woman passive? Case history after case history from our files points up confusions and contradictions. Why should such confusions be? Blackburn figures it is because when we cast the marriage expectations of our young people against the reality of marital living, three basic conflicts emerge.

Marriage Conflicts --Marriage today is usually based on emotional appeal to the virtual exclusion of economic consideration. Marriage is for love--but only too often with little or no understanding of the meaning of love. Youth grow up in a culture which places a premium on romantic love. But what happens when bills and babies appear? --Marriage today frequently is viewed as a togetherness institution i automatically insures enduring satisfactions. Yet is it not true that no one relationship is enough for any individual? It is not enough to be "just a husband" or "just a wife" to the exclusion of parents, friends, children, or professional colleagues.

When the impossible is expected, disillusion--if not divorce--is certain to follow. --Young people today have an almost unlimited freedom of choice in the marriage market. "Faced with these three basic problems alone, it does not a family life expert to see many young couples are in 'or a rude shock when they pit expectations a a i facts," Blackburn said. Shop-Save Durin This Big, Big Saving Event FREE.