The Ottawa Journal from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada • Page 21

1 4 TUESDAY, JUNE 20, 1961 THE OTTAWA JOURNAL 21 DORS CLARK A Canadian Social Worker Helps With Human Problems Could you please give me an idea of what is a reasonable personal allowance for IE ve-r have no debts and no dren. and are saving to own our own 1iomeTTanv eagi to co-operate but find that this means 1 have to ask my husbandryerj'-iim: TnsaTrof'otfcriigr Neither us wants this km am nnnt'lg in dn.iria nn a reasonable allowance, enher. One Year Married. There is no rule-of-thumb way of deciding on a specific amount which would be right for you and everybody else. Too many factors are such as monthly payments on house, cost of food in your part of Canada, clothing husband needs on job, car maintenance (if any), vacation needs and wants, and S3 en.

Ycu of birring stockings out of it. Would you buy other clothes too? I have had i' number of; enquiries about budgeting and will deal with this in a later column. Meanwhile, about personal allowances, the principle is this: both you and your husband YESl'; HAVE THE NEW BROWNIE Starmite Camera end all th other equipment Shawn in the BIG KODAK Photographic Stores Limited ir a. rrvTinv or OtALITV AMI IIJVIIE 1 Storei to Sent You 1 Sparks St. "On the Mall Ml MOVTtUl.

ll WE W3 1. 2. So tiny, you'll take It everywhere. So simple to use, you'll capture wonderful moments Indoor or out in sunlight, starlight, in glorious color or crisp black-and-white. Yes, and you can take giant color slides too! The.

Brownie Starmite Camera has its own built-in :fla.sh trmt holds tiny tm i a a hi mill a) to spend for such items as cigarettes, car stamps and other personal Neither should have iHlV i mi aiiiuuiii i ni. can spare from your fixed expenses and savings, and try it out for a month. Then adjust it accordingly. For many years my mother "lm "liven witii injii wmi is' not my father, but who also took me and my sister in. Now he tells me he is in love with me.

I am engaged to marry but this man objects to the marriage and says he will break up the home if I leave. This would be terrible, as it means my mother, who is 47, would have no means of support. My sister is still at school. My 3 jhcai She will not agree to come 1 and live with us. I don't know what to do for the best.

The man has an awful temper. Janet. Elope and set' up housekeeping as far-from that malevolent, selfish individual as possible. To judge from your long lcucr (only a fraction of which is reproduced here) VISIT KODAK Camera. and Jtuwitl Csmra 12.95 Cinilltt Outfit 14.75 ar out itoh DAVIS CAMERALAND 300 ELGIN ST.

CE2-0008 take reat pictu with a Brownie Starmite Camera Only economical flashbulbs. You got full measure of lipht yet two dozen bulbs fit into your purse orhirt pocket! r- Be sure to see the versatile Brownie Starmite Camera at your Kodak dealer's tomorrow. Camera, only $12.05. Complete outfits-camera, bulbs, batteries, film trim mrr Wttr4 Hit mm Mtkttcl It tkMfr without aoftrw Sm Karfat "TKa SW aa'ciC-rV Nafwart Birthday Club JUNE 20 CANADIAN KODAK LIMITED. Toronto 15, Ontario iiii'i'' iaff s' Charles Arthur Albert Chitouras, age 10.

Steven Aime Cox, age 6. Debra Rose Dear, age 10. Ricky Edwards, age 6: Ralph EdwaVd Gilchrist, age 10.. Bruce Joseph Stafford, age 3 Ross Taylor, age 6. Shirley Anne Toderan, age 1 I.

foirrn TnaT" Birthday tdttot, Ottawa. Ont. Please enroU me in The an, Clkb mil lie ye -a4 Addtit Ce holm: ThM UBM will awl aa auUiauucally c-id forward taaf ay yrar lhay will aa eamad oaly whn roupoa it scat ia wU ia advaoraj PLEASE PK1N1 NAME you have some spirit and. can stand up to him. You can help your mother better when you are independent of that whole set-up.

If necessary she can get work again. It's my opinion that he will turn back to her if you are gone as he' is only using this treatment to keep a hold on you. You and that fine youn, man have your own lives' to live. Don't waste anymore timje getting started. Confidential to OB: His sister's hold on him may be for life.

Your best hope is that in the distant city, and in view pf her husband's objections, she may gradually make fewer demands upon If, after years of friendship, you are seeing no signs of a more mature self-reliance on his part, a showdown is indicated. He is wasting vour time. i Doris Clark, Master of Soctal Work, is a graduate of McGlll. Toronto and Mc-Master Universities, and has had broad experience in social uorkl. If you itould tike help uith your problems, urite to her in care of this newspaper, enclosing a stamped, set addressed envelope.) AtA COOKING COLUMN Potato Salad Picnic By NORAH Potatoes form as the' salad that can marinate eral hours and improve No longer do cold boiled been found that the flavor improves if hov cubed or sliced potatoes are marinat- frt in the dressing of your Cool then chill.

1 Potato salad is a favonle will be temperature picnic fare. It must be well eggs, salt and pepper. Mix chilled before it is carried to together mayonnaise," musi-the picnic grounds. Tuck it tard and Worcestershire. Pour into the ice chest if you -several tn This will it chilled and poisoning.

When the fruit juices are thawed, use them as a beverage. Mayonnaise and boiled dressings are the most common for this Do not hesitate to try a French dressing, or you may wish to use sour cream pepped up with mustard and herbs: Be a bit venturesome you won't regret it. FAVORITE POTATO SALAD 6 VU ilii! C4ruk! potatoes! cup sliced green onions I cup sliced celery cup minced green pepper By MYRTLE MEYER ELDRED "Dear Mrs. Eldred: "I find, your articles very informative Vyill you kindly write about tics? Are these-caused by tension? Is this sign that a child is being suppressed? Or, is it a passing phase, in a child's I would be grateful for information on this subject." A tic is an involuntary spasm of a muscle, usually in the face, or it may be in any body muscle. It may also be a constant sniffing or coughing (which has no cause for being), or it may be blinking or shoulder-shrugging or some movement of the hand over the face which takes I place habitually.

"EXPLANATION My first introduction to a a a Aavav M-l- i CHERRY appearing oftencr in salad soars. This is the one in its dressing for sev flavor. Cup uuni cucumiKr 1 teaspoon salt. teaspoon pepper cup mayonnaise teaspoon dry mustard Mijt uoialm's aim ugi' tables' 7BSnef. Add HIMtJ on potato mixture loss fiir 6 servings.

BLEU C'HtfjSEPeTAf SALAD 8 potatoes I cup sliced celery cup minced parsley cup toasted almonds 1 green onions lti teaspoons salt teaspoon black pepper l'i cups dairy sour cream i cup crumbled bleu cheese 3 tablespoons whit wine vinegar ST hard cooked eggs 1 fftdfoh rme Scrub potatoes; cook in' a small amount of boiling sailed water until just barely tedder. Drain and cool About Tics tie was when 1 about eight years 'Old and a small friend visited- me from another town. She miffed and puckered her nose continual- ly. She said that ever since worn) had gotten up her nose she had had to do this. Needless to say, this was one of -those explanations' which explain nothing but made a lasting impression on me.

Tics usually are due -to tensions. The child may feel overwhelmed, by the demands made upon him. Too many too much criticism, maybe toomuch punishment. Parents. in their desire to keep a child to', some high standard, can become very dictatorial and punitive.

The sensitive child may seem to be co-oprative, but he his tensions by these uncon- trollable. muscle spasms. This is a way of expressing the emotions which otherwise would be stifled. Always tell the doctor about these tics in order to rule out any. physical cause (or them (such as visual de--fects which lead to persistent blinking), or any other conditions which might h.ave these same FUTILE METHODS Because the child does hot do this willfully it cannot be controlled' by criticsm or talking to.

h.m about It or shaming, Tidiculmg otpunislv ing him. These methods are futile, and only increase the1 child's tensions. Ignore the behavior to as-not to impress upon the But do take measures to put less -strain on the child. Do "riot subject him to emotional frictions or conflicts. These practices will do the most to make-it possible for the.

child to be relieved oT. tensions and so end the tic. Pembroke; Couple Mark Anniversary Mr. Mrs. John Zadow, of RR No.

7, Pembroke, cele-- braved their golden wedding anniversary at dinner party recently at the Northwood held "open. noui" for their friends and relatives. The, couple have a daughter. I Brose (Neldaf, of Eganville, 'and a son. Earl, of Pembroke.

The also have four grandchildren. and'Mrs. Zadow re--ceived telegrams of con-" "gratulations from, the Prrme "Minister, the Premier of Ontario and the Mayor of. Pembroke. CELERY SUBSTITCTE Celerian is a root vegetable and may be stored in the same manner as beets and turnips.

Everybody loves Good Bread! a-fcavavi Favorite slightly. Pare and cut in ondl onlons Mlt cube. Add celery, parsley. iliceotjreen- onions, salt and pepper, mix together sour cream, bleu Cheese and vinegar. Pour over potato mixture.

Toss 'Wi-fiwMi egg wedges and. radish-- rr, oa arvinp POTATO NUT SALAD cups cubed potatoes alad.nil 1 teaspoon salt 1 tablespoons vinegar 2 green onions dash cayenne pepper' leaf If! I ure nayonn Mix potatoes Print nn salad oil, toss lijthtlv Add talk vinegar, niirx.ed onion and cayenne. Cover bowl and refrigerate for 3 to 4 hours. Wash and chill lettuce. Place potato salad on chop plate, surround with lettuce leaves.

Arrange small bowl of mayonnaise near salad. Yield: 5 servings. SAVORY POTATO SALAD potatoes 3 green onions 1 cup Sliced celery 12 stuffed olive pitted rip olives 1 1 cup salad oil 2 tablespoons vinegar Vt teaspoon dry mustard I teaspoon salt Vt teaspoon pepper salad greens Scrub pptatoes. Cook in small amount of boiling salted water until tender. Drain.

Slice. Add sliced green onions, celery and sliced olives. Mix together oil, vinegar and seasonings. Shake until blended. Pour owr potato mixture.

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