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PAGE EIGHTEEN Ann Landers THE PHAROS-TRIBUNE and LOGANSPORT PRESS, LOGANSPORT, INDIANA "Frozen" Wife Is Product of Inhibited, Miserable Mother Dear Ann: You and your magic formula. How can you sit there and tell people in one paragraph Don't you feel this is selfish and unfair? At night when the two of us sit down at the dinner table, how to straighten out their mari-• it's a chore to think of something t.31 nrnhlpmc wllon tliov'jm Vioan '•n *r**r ^n ..«« n »>i.l. n _ y»T ' —: tal problems when they've been fighting them out on the battlefield of mixed emotions for years? My wife is a chunk of unfeeling, responsive ice. She's been this way since the day we married. I've bought her books but she's never cracked the cover. We have two children but they are the result of "duty" and have nothing to do with an expression of love or devotion. I've warned her if she doesn't warm up I may be tempted to seek affection elsewhere. She said, "go ahead. Just please don't bother ME." My wife is only 31-years-old. She's a fine person in many ways —attractive, smart and a good mother. But life with an iceberg is difficult. Before you tell me what to do, may I tell YOU, Mrs. Landers, she is FROZEN — HUNGRY FOR LOVE to say to one another. Please give me a word of advice. Sometimes I doa't think I can go on.—(MRS. ALONE You've been left out in right field, Lady, and it's your own blooming' fault. Nobody says you have to be crazy about hunting or fishing, but you could have learned to tolerate }t, and gone along for his company. Bowling is a sport that many women enjoy. Even though you may be punk at it, it could still be fun, and you'd be with your husband instead of sitting home alone. Nobody can freeze at a football game in a racoon coat and galoshes. You just dont want to inconvenience yourself. Admit it. Do you read anything, attend club meetings, meet people? All this could make for interesting conversation at the dinner 'table. Don't blame your husband for a alive. Dear Hungry: Many are cold— marriage that has gone -Bf-t-t-tt but few are frozen. Your wife is I when you've done little to keep it probably the product of an inhibited, guilt-ridden mother who passed this miserable legacy down the line. But don't give up. You say she's an "iceberg." This is a good description in more ways than one. Four-fifths of an iceberg is under the surface. Your job is to get acquainted with the whole woman. I don't pretend to 'be a magician. The best I can do is view a situation with an objective eye. Your wife should have a frank talk with the family doctor. She's not living up to her obligation to you OR herself. Also she's inviting serious troubh when she tells you to "Go ahead.' time, buy a book In the mean- for yourself. Perhaps a change in approach will bring about a change in responses. * * i: Dear Ann: A certain woman who works at the cigar counter in our office building is the laughing stock of the place. She dyes her hair carrot orange and uses blobs of rouge which look ridiculous on her wrinkled skin. Her dresses are the type worn 30 years ago and I must say she presents a hilarious picture. Several of us girls used to enjoy going down to buy gum and peanuts three and four times a day just to look at the old crow. Our boss got very-burned up last week and gave us all a bawling out. Don't you agree that if this SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 17, IWt SOCIAL HIGHLIGHTS Worthwhile Club J Features Dessert Prior to Meeting A dessert was served at the Friday evening meeting of the . . _ _ _ Worthwhile home demonstration!held Friday evening at the school and attended by more than 500 persons, club at the home of Mrs. Dewey Heyde with Mrs. Mary Fissell as co-hostess. •woman gets herself up like a freak j Nell ' c oct k e . she deserves to be laughed at?— ' THE GIRLS You girls are operating at a 7- year-old level. This woman is to be pitied, not ridiculed. The poor thing is living in the past because she finds life as it is too difficult to face. Her youthful days were no doubt happier and less lonely. Looking upon her as a freak is cruel and shows a shocking lack of insight. How old are you girls anyway? * * • * Dear Ann: After 22-years of marriage I find that my husband and I have very little in common. Our children are on their own, and I feel alone. My husband loves to hunt and fish. I can't stand either. He bowls two nights a week snd likes to go to football games end baseball games. I get cold easily and can't sit out in all kinds of weather. He's 'built his life around things that HE enjoys and I've been left out completely. Contests were eni'oyed with prizes going to Betty -Ellars and Lillian McCIintocfc. The business meeting was then opened with .the" creed. Devotions were offered by Mrs. Ellars and were in the form of a memorial to Mrs. Ruth Overmyer who died this week. Roll call was answered with something "for which I am mof,t thank'ful." Secretary-t r e a s urer reports were read, and Mrs. Blanch Huffman gave the history of the song of the month. Plans were made for Christmas gifts to be sent to the "forgotten" patient at the State hospital and also a family of four childen. Mrs. Fissell, chairman of the Achievement Day project, discussed the event. The following lea'd- ers were named for next year: Song, Mrs. Huffman; health and safety, Mrs. Hilda Cobb; garden, Mrs. Mary Pumel; citizenship, Mrs. Ellars; membership, Mrs. towers and cards, Mrs. Elsie Bushing. Devotions were offered by Mrs. Pearl Miller. Mrs. Fissel presented the lesson on landscaping, and the meeting closed with prayer. Miss Olia Bopp To Be $0 Tuesday Miss Olia Bopp, formerly of Logansport, and now of the Lutheran Home at Mulberry, Indiana, will observe her 80th birthday anniversary Tuesday, November 19th. "Aunt Olia", as she is known in this city, lived at 601 W. Miami avenue and was bookkeeper at the Mrs. Forest Kniesley, dressed as Captain Kangaroo, was highlighted at the Longfellow P.T.A. supper (Staff Pohto) Psi Iota Xito Sponsor Speaker MISS IRENE MEYERS, lecturer on industrial womeE, will speak at 7:45 o'clock Tuesday evening at the local high school auditorium in a community service program sponsored by Alpha Xi chapter of Psi Iota Xi sorority. The public is cordially invited to attend. Miss Meyers' subject is "Wake Up and Live." The purpose of this Announcements The MONDAY Best Ever class of the Broadway Methodist church will meet at the home* of Mrs. Adah Hedrick, 1504 High street, Monday evening at 7:30 p.m. . Assistant hostesses will be'Mrs. Mae Everham and Mrs. Vevay Langbak. Members are to take food for Thanksgiving baskets. A program has been arranged. Unit 18th Meeting Held Friday P. M. Unit No. 18, Mothers of World War No. 2 met Friday evening in Memorial Home .with Elsie Bushing, president, presiding." • Mabel Shanks served as Color Guard, pro-tern. The colors were presented and all joined in the pledge of allegiance followed by the singing of the "National Anthem." Invocation was given by the Chaplain, Hazel Campbell. Helen Barnett, Secretray pro- tern, read the minutes of the Home and Hobby HD club will j previous meeting and the Treasur- meet Monday evening at 7:30 o'-ier's report was made by Elizabeth clock at the home of Donna Lou i Harnasch. Smith, 604 Tanguy street. Roll call! Committee reports were . made will be'answered with "my persoD- al idea of being rich." * * * The Infant Jesus of Prague study club of St. Joseph church will meet Monday evening at & p.m. at the home of Mrs. Vernon Whaley. St. Cecelia club of St. Joseph Parish will meet with Mrs. Olive Murphy, Monday evening at 8 p.m. * * * The Cass County Chorus will Golden Rule for almost thirty program is to salute the Industrial years. In 1926 she retired due to Workers of the community as a ill health and became a resident of the Lutheran home in 1942. Mrs. Frank V. Jones, a sister lives in this city. Cards may be sent to Miss Olia Bopp, Lutheran Home, Mulberry, Indiana. Believe me Folks..,, HIATT'S has only the very finest personal greetings! tiie cards that express YOU. HIATT'S Next to Logan Theatre vital part of Logansport and our country. Miss Meyers served for 20 years as supervisor of women's activities at the General Electric Company at Fort Wayne. She is best known for her work as advisor to the Elex Club, the largest organized club for industrial women in the United States. Miss Meyers has directed 33 trips for industrial women, the best known of which was the "Magic Flight to Europe" in 1953. Miss Meyers was selected "Woman of the Year" by the Pilot Club in 1953 and was twice named Fort Wayne's "Citizen of the Week." She was also chosen by the students of Purdue University as one of their "Old Masters" in 1954. Fortune Magazine described her s "an irresistibly commanding personality." An audience comment on Irene Meyers which- came from Cleveland, Ohio, was "can't recall when the entire membership has been so stirred, inspired, and amused with a speaker." Members of the committee arranging the local program are Mrs. Richard McDonald,. chairman, Mrs. Norman Kiesling, Mrs. Ed Yeazel, Mrs. Thomas Medland and Mrs. W. Clay Morris. DR. 0.1. BRAUN FOOT AILMENTS Reg. Podiatrist * Foot Specialist Office: 314 North St. IOGANSPORT, PHONE 3330 W.dn.idcyi & Fridays 9 to 4 PERU OFFICE 175 W.it 5th St. Won., Tuei., Thuri., Sat. 9 to 8 P.ru Phone: GR1DUY 33674 NOW OPEN "For all your hair care, Visit ARUM'S BEAUTY CHA5R" Arlen« J. Little, Operator 314'/4PearlSt. Jones. Bldg. Room 12 CALL 4390 FOR YOUR APPOINTMENT Opwi Monday thru Saturday 9 to J church, 7th and Market streets. * # * TUESDAY Eel township Home Demonstration club No. 2 will meet Tuesday afternoon at 2 p.m. in the club rooms of the Y.W.C.A. "Plans for Thanksgiving" wJU be roll call answer. Mrs. Minnie Austin will give devotions and the lesson 'Will be by Mrs. Grace Kiesling and Mrs. Pearl Tikfer. Mrs. Bertha Cotterman, hostess, will be assisted by Mrs. Austin, Mrs. Yeakley and Miss Knauss. * * * Fidelity Chapter No. 58, O.E.S. •wlil -hold a called meeting for initiation to honor all past Ruths, Marmas and Electas Tuesday evening at 8 pjm. in -the Masonic Temple. * * * WEDNESDAY The Washington township-Carroll County Home Demonstration club will meet at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Earl Downham Wednesday, November 20, at 7:30 p.m. Devotions will be offered by Mrs. Glenn Fouts. , Members are reminded of .the bake sale and to take a Christmas gift for the state hospital patients. * * * The Music Boosters of Grass Creek school will meet at 2 o'clock Wednesday afternoon at the lunch room of the school. A good attendance is desired to "make plans for the supper before the basketball game Dec. 13. * * * The WSCS of the Salem church will meet Wednesday, November 20th with Mrs. Clint Henry. Mrs. Edith Bailey will ' be assistant hostess. * * * The St. Veronica Study olufb of St. Joseph parish will meet Wednesday afternoon at 2 p.m. -with Mrs. Marie Kumler, 136 W. Miam Av«. * * *. Clinton township Home Demonstration club meeting will be held Wednesday afternoon'-at the home of Mrs. Clara .Slusser'at 1:30 p.m. * * * Harrison township Home Demonstration club will hold the annual bazaar and guest day Wednesday at 1:30 p.m. in the Lucerne Community room. Officers will be installed. . THURSDAY Washington township-Cass county Home Demonstration dub will meet Thursday, November 21st, at 1:30 p.m. at the home of Mrs. Icel Jones, route three. A miscellaneous auction wil be heW. * * * The November meeting of St. Joseph Hospital Auxiliary will be held Thursday evening at the hospital. Members are reminded that the nursery shower will be held at this meeting instead of at the December meeting. and Pearl Jones, rehabilitation chairman, asked for members donations of pies and cookies for the Longcliff party on Dec. 4. The President, in the absence of the Americanism chairman, read an article on "Know Your America Week" which will be observed Nov. 24-30. Community Service Chairman, Jessie Lebo reported having served dinner to eighteen blood bank workers. She v was assisted by Mabel Guy and Mrs. Bushing. Jennie Renkenberger, chairman, announced plans- for the annual sale o£ the Poinsettias on Saturday, Dec. 7, with headquarters to be located at Hardin's Locker and Grocery, 409 E. Market. Hi-Tri girls will assist with the street sales. Proceeds from this sale are used only for Veteran Aid and contributions to Veteran's hospitals. Mrs. Renkenberger also announced that as chairman of the Unit's local By-Pass committee she had signed the resolution favoring a By-Pass for our city. The Unit voted to buy a $5.00 Health Bond for the Cass County Tuberculosis Association. Mrs. Bushing thanked the mothers who attended the services at the Honor Board as a part o£ the observance of Veterans' Day. She also told of being a guest of the American Legion Pqst at their annual dinner and program held Nov. 11. Four members plan "to attend the 2nd District meeting to be Girl, Scout News Mrs. Walter Collins is chairman of the nut sale to be conducted by the Lcgansport Girl Scout troops. Notices have been- sent to all leaders with information concerning the sale. Leaders are' urged to get their orders into the Girl Scout Office as quickly as possible. The sal^e is to start Saturciay the 23 and through the Thanksgiving holiday., All proceeds from the. sale go into the individual troop treasuries to be used for Scouting purposes. There will be an .all-day training session in the Girl Scout head- quarteis, Thursday 21. The morning session will be from 9 to 12, the afternoon session, from 1 to 3. Those attending may go home for lunch <ir bring a nosebag luncfc with them. Tea and coffee will be served. Mrs. Maribel Taylor will have a nursery for small children. Training will be by Mrs. George Thomas and Mrs. William Killion. Mrs. Velma Hines, program chairman, will have a meeting Wednesday at 1 o'clock to plan for the children's Christmas party. Mrs. Terry Wilson and Mrs. George Webb are co-chairmen of the party. Assisting them will be Mrs. Maribel Taylor and Mrs. William Killion. Eight Scouts of troop 3, St. Vincent School, received their Curve Bar award'last Friday evening at a ceremony held in the school. Mrs. Velma Hines, Curve Bar chairman, presented each girl with her pin. Miss Betty Minneman, troop leader, gave the Minstrel badge, Reader badge, Prints badge, and Player badge to the girls. Tlie Scouts are: Marilyn Medland, Louise Oilman, Jane Ann Cook, Roberta Kleifgen, Joan Rozzi, Mary Ellen Jones, Carol Pasquale, and Sarah Malady. Mrs. William Killion, council president, spoke on the meaning of the Curve Bar. The National Girl Scout convention was held last week in Philadelphia, Pa. Representatives from the local council returning Josephine Lowmon Observe These Rules and Reduce Kids' Winter Colds Long ago, people believed that decayed leaves caused colds. Sometimes Mother may wonder why her children have all the colds during the winter. As soon as one recovers, another is down and requires care and attention. However, studies which have )een made 'of children and the common cold indicate that this experience is normal. A study made by the nation's largest maker of cold tablets shows that the average school child has six colds and common respiratory illnesses a year. His little sister and brother at home add a couple more annually. Children get their first shortly after school begins. A second wave hits most communities in November, a third the later part of January and February and a fourth in April and May. iVeird Ideas Colds always had been a mystery x> the medical profession until recently. Now newer information s giving insight into this troublesome malady. It is no surprise will observe several rules. Today let me suggest them to you. Of course you know that enough sleep and good nutrition are great aids. Be sure that your offspring have three good meals a day. Do not allow them to dull their ap- petities with sweets before meals. These should come at the end of the meal. Don't let them get overtired. Let them play outdoors to their heart's content, being sure they are warmly dressed, but don't allow them to continue until ex- jhausted. Fatigue, rather than colds cold weather, is the factor in yesterday are: Mrs. George| the 5 ^^. people long ago had Thomas, vice president; Mrs. Wil liam Kepes, secretary; Mrs. Job Mcllwain and Mrs. Mary Emmerd Paul Duddleston, camp chair man, announces a camp commit ten meeting Wednesday evening the 19, at 7:30 p. m. in the Scou Office. held at the }TFW hall in Knox, Ind on November 21. Election of Unit officers will b« held at the December 6 meeting and named to serve on the Audi! ing committee are Jennie Renken berger, Pearl Jones and Florenc Gangloff. A social hour was enjoyed wit] refreshments being served TJJ Louise Hardin, Hazel Campbell am Bertha Jasorka. Several prize, were awarded In games. RUPTURE-EASER T.M. lit!. U.S. P,t-0ff. A strong, form-t;uir,« wuhal port lor reduclbl. Inguinal hern lacing adj.mtsble. SMOJ up 1; AdJniUU)!.' leg strap. 'pad. No steel or lei men, wo»en, children wuhabl* sup' hemi*. But _- up in front , - Soft, flat rroin leather bftndfl F.r ildren. H»U ordm tin tlro ««»4 lowMt )»rt tf •Mi- rt.U rlfht, left i""^^ BUSJAHN'S DRUG STORI 308 4th Phon* 3774 Just received a large shipment of New Hummel Figures direct from Germany. $4.00 to $17.50 "Sorry, tine's busy.. M. rue.. our line is busy ..., whenever we're lucky enough to receive a new assortment of genuine "Hummer figurines. ,1 captivating ceramic children.... caught-in-action at work, play and prayer... dreaming the dreams that belong to childhood alone. Old favorites.. .hard-to-find collector** item we have a variety of "Hummel" figuring to bold you spellbound! Made exclusively by W. Goebel, Bavaria, West Germany, each piece is guaranteed authentic by the artist's signature "M. I. Hummer indented on the bate. A treasured jift... to yourself of othei*v.s •Hummer figurinci are fun. to eoliwt... tod inexpensive to ownf Also « targe assortment of Religious figuring alto made by Hummel TIMBERLAKE'S *7f>« Store of a Thousand Otfl»" some weird ideas about what caused the sniffles. For instance, people once thought that decaying leaves caused colds. No wonder—since fall colds and falling leaves occurred at about the same time! At one tune people believed that comets were responsible. Had Sputnik, the satellite, appeared then, someone might have thought that it was the reason for the common cold. Cats and face powder also have been blamed. This was before the day of allergies! Actually, you may be able to cut down the number of colds your children have this winter if you weakening resistance. ' If he or she has a cold put the child to bed. Plenty of rest will ward off complications, and the isolation will protect others to some extent. Take his temperature. If Jt is 100 degrees or more, consult your doctor. . See that the child wears a robe and slippers when.he goes to the bathroom. Protect others in fie family by giving the child his own silver, dishes and glasses. Wash thiese separately. Be careful about how he Wows his nose. Do not hold one «ide.. This may cause ear trouble. There is no known cure for a cold. Medication, cough syrup and cold tablets will bring some relief from the symptoms, but these should be prescribed by your physician. Try to avoid this unpleasant experience by keeping the entire family's health at a high level. (•Released by The Register »nd Tribune Syndicate, 1957) DIAMONDS & It costs no more to give the finest. 2505 GARMENT CLEANED * FINISHED FRE E! When brought in with 2 other garment* to bo cleaned at out regular prices. |l»w«t (trie* |ori»M* Ir**) [GARMENT FREE WHEN YOU BRING IN ' 705 North Third St.