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THE ATLANTA CONSTITUTION, Saturday, October 7, 1967 15 Dear Abby Mother-in-Law's Trying To Win John Over in Vain DEAR ABBY: I went with John (fake name) for four years and my mother hated him. In fact she told me she would rather see me dead than married to John. Well, when became of age I married John against my mother's mother hated wishes and Abigall Van Baren you should have heard the terrible things she said about him. I couldn't even put them in this letter. She did her best to ruin his reputation.

Now that we are going to have a baby my mother is trying to make-up with John. John says he will never set foot in her house and if she wants to see me or the baby she will have to come here during the day time while he is not at home. My mother even wanted I to have a birthday party for me. and John said I could go if I wanted to, but he wasn't going. What can I do.

Abby? I can't blame John for feeling the way he does. but she is still my mother and this is making it awfully hard on me. JOHN'S WIFE. DEAR WIFE: If in time John finds it in his heart to make peace with your mother -and I hope he does, fine. But until he does, continue to see your mother while John's at work.

DEAR ABBY: I feel SO silly a grown woman with three children asking for help with this problem, but here goes. I have a sister who brings her friends to my home to give them what she laughingly calls "the 50-cent tour." I wouldn't mind so much if only she would give me a little notice, but she has brought people over here as early as 9 in the morning when my beds are unmade and I'm looking a wreck, sorting laundry. i do have a nice home. Abby, but it's not always in condition for inspection. Don't you think my sister should give me a chance to fix it up before showing it off? How Handbag Designer Carries Real Exclusive Trade Here If your best friend has a handbag that you admire, tell her so.

If it's particularly distinctive, she will probably tell you that Martin van Schaak of New York made it especially for her. And, if you're a very close friend, she will also tell you how you, too, can get Mr. van Schaak to make one especially for you. It seems that one of the best kept secrets among many of America's fashionable women 1s that Mr. van Schaak makes their handbags.

He does not advertise. His designs are not soldi in any shop. Women discover his talent by admiring their friend's handbag and asking her to disclose his name and telephone number and calling for an appointment. Once the appointment is made, the prospective customer may go to his Upper East Side apartment but Mr. van Schaak really prefers to bring his wares to his customer's home.

DIFFERENT HERE ROLL-UPS RATE SALUTE Cheese-Filled Bits Form Danish Flag FOR THE CLOCK-WATCHING HOSTESS Planked Hamburger Steak With Potatoes So They Diet--on an Epicurean Scale dough bread, specially flown in from California. For dessert another irresistable one Souffle Glace a L'Orange oranges scooped out and filled with custard. These were frozen until just before serving time when they were topped with meringue and run into the oven to brown. CLEAR TRAP Following luncheon, the Monsanto Chemical Company presented a briefing on their clear plastic trays for packaging meats and their plastic containers used so widely for soft-type margarines that go from refrigerator to table. Monsanto even skipped feeding us all together.

Then on to a press session with The Foods Division, Anderson, Clayton and Company which handed out another diet. This one, low in saturated fat and high in polyunsaturated fat. "Diets to Live -Hints from HeloiseHow to Clean, Press Corduroy Clothes By HELOISE CRUSE Dear Heloise: As a manufacturer of housewives some tips on how We always suggest that before washing or drying it. by machine or by hand. are buffing the naps against er corduroy.

Food Editors By JEAN THWAITE Constitution Food Editor CHICAGO With lagging appetites and sagging figures newspaper food editors waddled through their seventh straight day of eating at their annual conference here at 1 the Drake Hotel. Not that we hadn't been warned that we were eating too much. Thursday, the Roquefort Association presented us with a weight reduction program known as "Dieting on An Epicurean Scale." Then at lunch The Sunkist Growers, Inc. served a cup called Cioppino using a recipe from San Francisco's Fisherman's Wharf. It was a clear broth full of chunks of lobster tails (still in the shell), clams (still in the shell), and other unknown pieces of fish.

Fine and non-fattening if anyone could resist the loaves of sour- If it must be pressed, always press on the wrong side. We recommend using a steam Heloise Cruse cleaning is recommended either professional or by operated dry cleaning chines. iron. This must be done lightly and quickly. And the reason is that the nap should not collect too much steam.

If any corduroy garment has a Heloise Cruse lining, dry The reason for this is manufacturers of corduroy not know what kind of is used. Sometimes the in garments will shrink cially if it's inexpensive ton), so I urge you to pass these small hints to readers. Corduroy Manufacturer Dear Heloise: If you are on a low-fat diet, but like gravy on your potatoes, add ice cubes to the drippings left in the pan the meat was cooked in. When the fat solidifies, just lift it and the excess ice cubes out with a slotted spoon and continue to make gravy in the usual way. Sure bets waiting until the next day when the leftovers are served to have your gravy.

Marilyn Fallis Dear Heloise: I sew a lot for my girls and find that the easiest way to make appliques is to iron a piece of iron-on tape to the back of the fabric to be used. Then cut out the figure or design desired and sew it in By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN can I get this across to her without getting her at me? DROPPED ansoy, DEAR DROPPED: You sound like the type who would greet unwelcome guests at the door with a big smile and open arms, and then wonder why they continue to drop in on you. If you haven't told your sister to PLEASE call in advance so you can set a mutually convenient time for her I suggest that you put in your two cents. DEAR ABBY: My son is 11 years. He is a very shy and protected child.

He sleeps in the same room with his 10-year-old sister, and I tuck them both into bed every night. The boy knows nothing of the facts of life and I think it is time he was told. Shouldn't his father be the one to tell him? I will be glad to tell the girl when the time comes. but I think a father should tell his son. His father says the boy is much too young to have his head filled with things like that and to give him time yet.

How much time should I give him? WORRIED. DEAR WORRIED: First, about your sleeping arrangements. Your son should have his privacy and your daughter hers. Even if one of them has to sleep in the kitchen or the hall or on the floor. It doesn't natter who tells a boy (or girl) the facts of life as long as they are told as soon as they become curious.

Try to cultivate a relaxed family atmosphere so that if either of your children has a question he will not hesitate to ask. (P.S. And tell your husband to hurry with his "facts" or it will be like giving a fish a bath.) Weddings, Engagement Hunter-Peabody By" is designed as a supplement, not a substitute for medical advice. It is aimed to help with the prevention control artheriosclerosis, our most common type of heart disease. At the party, the company also introduced its latest salad dressing, Caesar Dressing, a replica of that one invented in desperation by Caesar Cardini in Tijuana, Mexico, when he had an unusual number of American tourists to feed one day.

PUMPKIN SOUP Braniff International, at its first visit at the conference, did skip the diet bit and took us on a flight to Peru for dinner. The first course was chilled pumpkin soup made with fresh pumpkin, cream and a dash of curry. Next came fillets of corvina, fish flown from Peru for the dinner. And then there was duckling, served with a date, rice and walnut dressing. And then there was salad, crisp greens and dressing.

And then there was dessert, guava shells filled with a mixture of cream cheese, cream, lemon and orange juice, grated rind and chopped nuts. And finally, coffee, flavored with chocolate and laced with brandy. All airlines are upgrading their food services and Braniff demonstrated just how much improved in-flight foods can be. At a lunchen with R. T.

French Company, diets were again forgotten when Maurine B. Nueberger, member of President Johnson's Consumer Advisory Committee and former senator from Oregon, spoke on packaging legislation. She feels that the government "has gone about as far as it can go. It is now up to the companies and the consumer to accept their own responsibilities. If a woman feels she has a legitimate complaint about a product she has purchased, she should take this up directly with the manufacturer or processor and with the government, for the government never intended to set itself up as a complaint department." Food served at the French luncheon was prepared with the firm's convenience foods and the recipes were formulated to cut minutes and even hours--away from preparation time.

And then it was time for the farewell session of the conference with the Denmark cheese Associates who presented a food fashion show celebrating Copenhagen's 800th birthday. DANISH ROLL-UPS FOR FLAG OR TRAY 70-thin slices (about) rare roast beef or ham or air beef or lox 20 thin slices (about) white meat of turkey or Tybo cheese Cut sliced meats and cheese into even strips by inches. Filling: pounds Danish blue cheese pounds Danish cream cheese 1 pound assorted Danish cheeses, cut in sticks (for ham) 1 can (10 ounces) asparagus tips, drained (for dried beef) 1 can ounces) baby shrimp, drained (for turkey) 1 jar (8 ounces) pickled herring pieces, drained (for Tybo) Cream Danish blue cheese with cream cheese until smooth. Use this cheese blend to spread all meat, fish and poultry slices, as they are made up. Add variety as follows: Ham: Place cheese stick at one end of spread slice, roll 01 up Dried Beef: Add asparagus tip, as above Turkey: Add baby shrimp, as above Tybo Cheese: Add herring pieces, cut in half.

Shape into firm rolls. Refrigerate, covered with foil or a moist towel. Yield: 147 roll-ups. Assemble rolls in pattern desired. Elegant to serve, easy to eat out of hand.

PLANKED HAMBURGER STEAK WITH MASHED POTATOES 2 pounds ground beef 2 envelopes ounces But he is doing things a bit differently on his trip to Atlanta. He is coming to the city all right but he isn't going to the homes of his clients. Instead, some of his clients are inviting their friends to come to the Swan Coach House on Monday and Tuesday to meet him. The Swan Coach House makes a pleasant place for his showing according to Mr. van Schaak because of his previous trips to Atlanta he has been so impressed with the beauty of her residential areas.

Of course, the Swan Coach House is freshly opened at 3130 Slaton Dr. NW in the heart of one of the prettiest areas. On the phone from New York, he said he thought the setting as described to him would be an elegant one for his elegant bags. He said he also considered Atlanta women very elegant who deserve elegant things. He usually arrives with four suitcases that contain 120 samples of his genius.

because, when ladies say they want a black bag, they end up buying a red or a green one," he explained. UP Among the publicized wom- each) brown gravy mix cup fine dry bread crumbs 2 eggs 3 strips bacon 1 package frozen string beans, cooked Canned whole onions 8 servings prepared country style mashed potatoes Melted butter Paprika Mix together ground beef, gravy mix (directly from the envelope) bread crumbs, and eggs. Place on shallow baking pan and shape into form of T-bone steak. Press bacon strips around edge of steak. Bake in degree oven 40 minutes.

steak on a plank or oven proof platter. Arrange beans and onions around meat and pipe or spoon potatoes around edge. Drizzle melted butter on potatoes and vegetables; sprinkle with paprika. Broil 5 minutes or until potatoes are lightly browned. 8 servings.

By RAYMONDE ALEXANDER Constitution Fashion Editor en who carry his handbags, according to Mr. van Schaak, are Mrs. John F. Kennedy and the actresses Dina Merrill and Merle Oberon. His designs, which can be bought out of stock or made-to-order, start at $125, including tax.

The handbag frames are made for him in Paris. His designs run to classic shapes, such as envelopes, or satchels with double handles, and they are executed in luxur- All Right, Kid, You Can Stay ZOUTENAAIE, Belgium (WNS) This village did not know whether to cheer or mourn the birth of baby Greta Louwagie, its newest citizen. After 24 hours of official investigation, cheers were called for. Zoutenaaie still remains the smallest village in Belgium even though Greta has raised its population to 28. Roberta Banks Hunter of Atlanta, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John Alexander Hunter Jr. of Birmingham, is engaged to marry William Jaudon Peabody Jr. of Atlanta, son of Mrs. William J.

Peabody of Milledgeville, and the late Mr. Peabody. The ceremony will take place Oct. 28 at East Lake Methodist Church in Birmingham. The bride graduated cum laude from Vanderbilt University.

She was a Kappa Delta, a member of Mortar Board, a cheerleader and a member of the Student Senate. She is employed by Davison's in Atlanta. MISS HUNTER Mr. Peabody holds a B.A. degree from the University of Georgia.

He is employed by Sears, Roebuck and Company in Atlanta. Bridges-Callison Martha Elizabeth Callison and Edwin Clifford Bridges were married in the First Baptist Church of Buford. A reception was given by her parents in the Fellowship Hall. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

James Roy Callison. Her maids of honor were twins, Lois and Louise Benson, of Buford. Bridesmaids were Beth Bridges of Bainbridge, sister of the bridegroom and Judy Burnette of Spartanburg, S.C. Dr. Henry A.

Bridges of Bainbridge, was his son's best man. Groomsmen were Bruce Bridges and Jimmy Callison, the respective brothers the bride and bridegroom. Ushers were Terry Teed of Bessemer, Murray Brockman of Greer, Marx Gaines and Tommy Bridges of Bainbridge. Hilda Greer of Buford kept the bride's book. I would like to give your wash this material.

turn the garment inside out way it can be washed either in the washing process you other which 1 makes for clean- place using an applique stitch. The result will be a very neat job no frayed or stretched edges. Nadine Bush Dear Heloise: I save my breakfast coffee grounds daily and use them to wash out baby bottles. I pour about an ounce of water and a teaspoon of grounds into each bottle, give it several vigorous shakes then wash as usual with detergent. It's amazing how they do sparkle.

A bottle brush just doesn't catch every corner of those bottles but the grounds leave them clean as can be. Norma Dear Heloise: Looking for a birthday present for a son or daughter away from home? I gave my 19-year-old son one I think is hard to a collect phone call home every month. Not necessarily for a special reason, but when he's lonesome, homesick, etc. This would be wonderful for servicemen and women, as those barracks get very confining when you're broke and can't go any place. S.J.W.

Yes, it gives them a good feeling to know they have a that can be used or saved. Just like money in their pocket. As a parent, I enjoy those calls as much as our son does. Heloise Dear Heloise: To protect the spouts of my china teapots even when stored on the shelf, I slip a rubber furniture tip over the spout. The tips come in different sizes and will certainly prevent those unsightly chips.

Mrs. G. ious materials. Cut velvet, brocades and beaded silks are used for evening bags. Lizard is a daytime favorite because it doesn't show scratches or rain spots.

For cocktails. the colored ba such as ruby or emerald, look younger with the black dress rather than black from head to toe. And you can match your jewelry to your bag. If Mr. van Schaak had his way, he would persuade women not to match their bags to their shoes.

"There should be some kind of harmony though," he said. "I think that gloves should match the bag." Mr. van Schaak described himself as "half-French, halfDutch" and said that he came to the United States from France some 22 years ago. He had shops at various New York addresses for several years but gave them up, he said, because he lacked the temperament to be a shopkeeper. On Monday and Tuesday he will try to do something about his temperament, however, as he keeps shop at the Swan Coach House for anyone interested in fine handbags.

Joy Wallace, Marie Merritt and Marcia Faglier distributed the traditional rice bags. The bride attended Furman University. The bridegroom graduated cum laude from Furman University, where he was president of the Blue Key Honor Society and a member of the social order of R.E.L. He received both Dantorth and Woodrow Wilson Fellowships for graduate study at the University of Chicago, where he and his bride will live. The newlyweds left for an extended honeymoon.

Sechrest-Glazier INDEPENDENCE, Va. son Cox announce the marriage Miss Dora Cynthia Glazier, rest, son of Mr. and Mrs. Lexington, N.C. The Rev.

marriage at St. Mathews Arizona. She was graduated from ston-Salem. N.C. and has masters' degree in biology University in Raleigh, N.C.

A graduate of North Raleigh, Lt. Sechrest is Monthan Air Force Base, Tucson, Mr. and Mrs. Gayle Jackof Mrs. Cox's daughter, to Lt.

Walter Steven SechEverett Allison Sechrest Sr. of Stewart Barr solemnized the Episcopal Church in Tucson, Wake Forest College. Wincompleted requirements for a from North Carolina State coinma- that do lining lining (especot- on your Carolina State University in currently in training at DavisAriz. The couple left for a wedding trip to the Painted Desert and the Grand Canyon. They now reside at Craycroft Garden Apartments, J-1, Tucson, where they will be until Oct.

10 when Lt. Sechrest will continue his training at Homestead Air Force Base, Fla. J.D.C. to Open Convention Sunday The Georgia Division, United Daughters of the Confederacy will hold its 72nd annual convention at the Biltmore Hotel in Atlanta Sunday through Tuesday. A memorial hour will be held at St.

Mark's Methodist Church at 3 p.m. Sunday and Sunday night the President's Council, 25-Year Club and Winnie Davis Club will conduct their club meetings. Monday morning Mrs. William D. Acker of Jonesboro, president of the Georgia Division, United Daughters of the Confederacy, will preside over the executive board meeting.

The Real Daughters luncheon will follow. Monday afternoon delegates will attend a regimental flag ceremony at the State Capitol. Mrs. Leon Oettenger Sr. of San Marino, Calif.

will present a Confed- Enjoy our convenient Football erate regimental flag to Gov. Lester Maddox. This flag was captured in July 1864 by General John White Geary of the Union forces during the Battle of Peachtree Creek. Following the flag presentation delegates will tour Stone Mountain. Monday evening.

members will attend a session presided over by Mrs. Levy C. Renfroe of Fitzgerald, convention chairman. Following the meeting, the Frankie Lyle Chapter will host an informal open house. A Tuesday business session will be followed by a luncheon when trophies for service in the area of education will be presented to U.D.C.

chapters. Mrs. Robert V. Burgess of Savannah, vice president. will preside at the Presidents' Banquet Tuesday evening when chapter presidents and district directors will be honored.

The Tuesday program also includes the bestowal of crosses of military service and a talk by Dr. Kenneth Coleman, Department History at the University of Georgia. Dr. Coleman's address will be "Mary Ann Cobb, Confederate and Bus Service before every Falcon and Tech Game with ROUND TRIP $150 tunch $2.00 without lunch Cohannans Lenox Square MOODY NURSING HOME PAVILION Blue Cross Extended Care Facility Motors Contract Member -Georgia Hospital Association Certified -Medicare 4115 Glenwood Decatur 284-6414 late de ate ate ate ate ate site she ate ate ate ate ate ate ate ate ate ate ate ate.